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ucheagu:
My mum is a single mother lost her husband at an early age, raised four little children on her own without any help from a man or her relative, so you too can do the same.. If you are a single mum at least God have bless you with what some married women lack, hustle, be creative and make legit money, raise your kid and maybe God will also bless you with a man.... Stop searching bcus all you will see are damaged men cuz no responsible man will marry a single mum...

Softmirror:
Don't mistake a widow with a 'single mum'. Infact she had not one but four kids for late husband.

ucheagu:
My mum is a single mother lost her husband at an early age, raised four little children on her own without any help from a man or her relative, so you too can do the same.. If you are a single mum at least God have bless you with what some married women lack, hustle, be creative and make legit money, raise your kid and maybe God will also bless you with a man.... Stop searching bcus all you will see are damaged men cuz no responsible man will marry a single mum...

AllBlack:
you rushed to join the band wagon to blast single moms but here you are citing examples with a WIDOW as your subject.
This shows the type of mentality many people carry. They see quarrel and they want to CHOOK MOUTH without knowing what it is about.

Nnamdipapa:
Your mom belonged to another generation with a different mentality compared to the present single mom plus, your mom can be classified as an "outlier" in the single mothers population presently.

Abort the child if no father in the picture, this should have been a basic common sense. Single moms of today are different baskets of fish unfortunately, I would date them, shag them, and eat their food but, will never marry any of them. I don't mary people who make poor decisions.

Softmirror:
Don't mistake a widow with a 'single mum'. Infact she had not one but four kids for late husband.

ucheagu:
A single mum be it a widow or a girlfriend doesn't change anything, I have seen widow's misbehaving... all am saying as a single mum your chance of getting a good man is slim
So forget all fantasy of second chances and be realistic with yourself, know the position you are In and work hard to make it better and God will make it easier for you

ucheagu:
Am not bashing them... So many feel like they need men in their life to stay valid... So the reason they kill themselves to fine a man

galantjoe:
In Igbo proverb we used to say no child knows his mother when she was virgiin

So you mom raised all 4 kids without assistant of any man or relative.
The reason you said so may be your father left fortunes before he died.
Secondly your mom is like those dogs that eat shit abd clean mouth well. Because there is no way I can see believe that young woman will stay up to a year without sex. No big lie
Except she was using vibrator

ucheagu:
My mum is a single mother lost her husband at an early age, raised four little children on her own without any help from a man or her relative, so you too can do the same.. If you are a single mum at least God have bless you with what some married women lack, hustle, be creative and make legit money, raise your kid and maybe God will also bless you with a man.... Stop searching bcus all you will see are damaged men cuz no responsible man will marry a single mum...