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We’ve all been there those tough moments when things just don’t work out. Whether it was mutual, messy, or a quiet drift apart, every story is unique.

Was it lack of communication? Trust issues? Growing in different directions? Or something else entirely?

Share your story (if you’re comfortable) in the comments. You never know who might resonate with your experience or find comfort knowing they’re not alone. 🌟

Let’s keep it kind, supportive, and judgment-free. 💬❤️

Happy new year folks, mine was also trust issues, unfaithfulness, lies...I confronted her, she later come back and kneel down to Apologize... and we bid each other bye to the relationship..but she is now married..very funny ladies nowadays.....I have dated a lots of ladies just infatuation...... nothing else.... communications too is a barrier...many ladies are frustrated...story long oooooooooo if I start talk about it..

Temitunz:
We’ve all been there those tough moments when things just don’t work out. Whether it was mutual, messy, or a quiet drift apart, every story is unique.

Was it lack of communication? Trust issues? Growing in different directions? Or something else entirely?

Share your story (if you’re comfortable) in the comments. You never know who might resonate with your experience or find comfort knowing they’re not alone. 🌟

Let’s keep it kind, supportive, and judgment-free. 💬❤️

She sent to me on WhatsApp: You're not emotional, you're on survival mode that's why you said you have to be like this at this moment of your life which is understandable and why I don't want to try to change you.
You don't know how to be vulnerable around someone. You have to be taught how to be intimate (other than sex, and sometimes even during the sex you're somewhere else). You're hardly present in the moment, your mind is thinking of a million things and this means that you can spend an entire day with someone and they would feel lonely. You have to be taught how to love someone. You look down on me cause you feel like my world is butterflies and roses. You don't fight for love in anyway, it's like "whatever, just get over it already so we can go back to how we were", "I'm waiting for you to stop being angry so we can chill". I don't know what else to say.

I mean it, I don't think I want you anymore. I love you but.. I've crossed a line, some kind of line of endurance and I'm not going back. Maybe people are right, a man should love you more than you love him for it to work..not the other way around.

NoChill:
She sent to me on WhatsApp: You're not emotional, you're on survival mode that's why you said you have to be like this at this moment of your life which is understandable and why I don't want to try to change you.
You don't know how to be vulnerable around someone. You have to be taught how to be intimate (other than sex, and sometimes even during the sex you're somewhere else). You're hardly present in the moment, your mind is thinking of a million things and this means that you can spend an entire day with someone and they would feel lonely. You have to be taught how to love someone. You look down on me cause you feel like my world is butterflies and roses. You don't fight for love in anyway, it's like "whatever, just get over it already so we can go back to how we were", "I'm waiting for you to stop being angry so we can chill". I don't know what else to say.

I mean it, I don't think I want you anymore. I love you but.. I've crossed a line, some kind of line of endurance and I'm not going back. Maybe people are right, a man should love you more than you love him for it to work..not the other way around.

Hmmmn.. that’s deep and a lot. I hope you both find your right partners

Temitunz:
Hmmmn.. that’s deep and a lot. I hope you both find your right partners

Nah so

E get any reason why real guy man no go breakup with 9ja girl, if no be say ashawo too full 9ja girl brain? They are all the same.

The last two wanted to marry me as I was too sweet, one even gave me an ultimatum, me wey dey use am. One was too demanding and wanted sex all the time and I barely escaped with my life.

I disconnected from both relationships. Now, I have an amazing gf and life is good.

1st: after 4 years together, it just weirdly ended like there's some force affecting situations.

2nd: Started 4 months after the first ended, lasted for only 6 months before the girl went back to her boyfriend that left her without a break up out of guilt.

Life no easy lol.

And myself, I'm not even young anymore (29 now). E pain me o!

Lack of communication

Lack of attention

Lack of trust

Lack of shared dreams and goals in life

Lack of funds

One or all of these can end a relationship.

Divoc19:
Lack of communication

Lack of attention




Lack of trust

Lack of shared dreams and goals in life

Lack of funds

One or all of these can end a relationship.

Was the above what ended yours?

Affirmative.

Nnamdipapa:
Was the above what ended yours?

Divoc19:
Affirmative.

Marriage or romantic relationships?

Both
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Marriage or romantic relationships?[/quote]

Nnamdipapa:
Sometimes we cannot get everything and need to strike a balance and determine what is most important to us. Relationship is a very hard job for the two parties involved.

[quote author=Nnamdipapa post=133803628]Very hard job. Am not interested in any right now self.

Divoc19:
Both

Sometimes we cannot get everything and need to strike a balance and determine what is most important to us. Relationship is a very hard job for the two parties involved.