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A brother asked me to advice him, I took it to Nairaland for you guys to help him.

I met her when she was 6 months pregnant. She told me baby daddy was married and he dumped her when she refused to terminate. I took care of her until she gave birth.

I paid thousands for her to give birth at a private hospital. She has been staying with me and I take care of her and the baby. The baby is one now and out of the blue the baby daddy wants to be part of the baby's life. I was not comfortable with it but I understand he's the father.

Last month she told me she still loves the guy and she's leaving me for him. Basically, she dumped me, a guy who took care of her and busy saving money for lobola, to be a side chick again to someone who dumped her when she needed him the most.

I don't want to lie, I'm more disappointed than hurt. We made so many plans for the future and I was looking forward to spending the rest of my life with her. At this stage I doubt I'll ever be with another woman.

She's got a very nice ass...

iamnotillicit:
She's got a nice ass...

Focus on the topic..

OduduwaNow:
Focus on the topic..

The topic is absurd...

The ass makes sense pass anything

OduduwaNow:
Focus on the topic..

Then you shouldn't have provided the ass. Men are visual animals. Most of them won't read but they'll see the ass!

OduduwaNow:
Focus on the topic..

but to be sincere that ass will get more attention than the topic it self the ass is really nice albeit

Lol.

Op, what do you want us to say?

Abeggi, leave the oloisho nice a55 girl to drown in her vomit.

Hope her good boy boifriend won't SIMply beg her to reconsider.

DaddyCoool:
Then you shouldn't have provided the ass. Men are visual animals. Most of them won't read but they'll see the ass!

Hehe, you are correct.

That's what I saw first before I read.

calabaman:
Hehe, you are correct.

That's what I saw first before I read.

Voila!
At least you read at all😆

I don't know what the man with a good heart is saying but I hope he report the woman to saphiere.

Afterall he's not among us that hates single mothers.. saphiere will help him talk to the girl.

But if the girl no con listen to saphiere then the guy can manage three bottles of sn!pers to cool down.

OlawaleBammie:
I don't know what the man with a good heart is saying but I hope he report the woman to saphiere.

Afterall he's not among us that hates single mothers.. saphiere will help him talk to the girl.

But if the girl no con listen to saphiere then the guy can manage three bottles of sn!pers to cool down.

Haha.
Which one is saphiere

OduduwaNow:
A brother asked me to advice him, I took it to Nairaland for you guys to help him.

Shout out to those women that can take a pic without making their useless ass to face the camera instead of their face, and the picture will still have a million dollar value.

Oga lick your wound and move on. Your mistake was that you should have impregnated her immediately after the baby was 9 months. At least you will have your own kid with her.

Am sorry for your loss but let it not prevent you from marriage or getting another women for prick-lashing. Let it be a lesson for your relationship. Always be protective

This is simple, the baby daddy should pay for your expenses which I assume would run into millions and that would serve as your compensation for all you've done... Money over Bitchez.

phorget:
This is simple, the baby daddy should pay for your expenses which I assume would run into millions and that would serve as your compensation for all you've done... Money over Bitchez.

How about sleeping with his babe all these while?
You give am compensation?

OduduwaNow:
How about sleeping with his babe all these while?
You give am compensation?

They both slept with each other, moreover the babe wasn't with him while the simp guy was busy taking responsibilities that wasn't his.

OlawaleBammie:
I don't know what the man with a good heart is saying but I hope he report the woman to saphiere.

Afterall he's not among us that hates single mothers.. saphiere will help him talk to the girl.

But if the girl no con listen to saphiere then the guy can manage three bottles of sn!pers to cool down.

Saphiere ass big reach like dis...?

Finished Man

This is super storyyyy!!!!

galantjoe:
Oga lick your wound and move on. Your mistake was that you should have impregnated her immediately after the baby was 9 months. At least you will have your own kid with her.

Am sorry for your loss but let it not prevent you from marriage or getting another women for prick-lashing. Let it be a lesson for your relationship. Always be protective

🤕🤕🤕,
Your heaven is dwindling 😅

phorget:
They both slept with each other, moreover the babe wasn't with him while the simp guy was busy taking responsibilities that wasn't his.

Case closed because it depends on the choice of the lady in question.

dominique:
This is super storyyyy!!!!

No mind d story jareh...

What do u think about the ass?

Place Holder let them be. You were just used.

Next please!

Nice ass,sue the guy and the girl they should pay you back

You accepted a pregnant baby mama/single mother into your life. What a married or single father will not do, a single simp of a man will do.

Actions like this are the reasons that encourage single mothers to connect with unmarried men because they know they can change course anytime and tell the single man to move on.

Nothing gives me joy than seeing simps learning the hard way.

OduduwaNow:
Case closed because it depends on the choice of the lady in question.

It can't end that way, the simp guy would decide how it would end. The girl is free to go back to the baby daddy but how about all the expenses incurred by the simp guy overtime? This is simple,the baby daddy should pay for the expenses and it becomes a win win for the parties involved, if otherwise then the simp guy can claim that he owns the child and I'm sure the baby daddy might opt for DNA test where he would still end up spending money. The simp guy just need to let them waste their time and waste their resources too. He can't just let go without giving a fight.

So OP what good has the story to us?

You and your friend nothing different, you both lack sense..

Let me explain

Your friend:
He started simping for a used and dump toilet tissue, not only that but went ahead to plan a future with garbage, now the owner of the waste bin came back knocking to take what belongs to him, you start crying.


OP:

You bring nonsense story that has no economic impact or value to people’s life here and looking for people’s opinion. What happened to you sitting with your dad or your mom to discuss this story with them so that they can give you good advice since you don’t know what to do with your life?


I think it’s high time NL start putting probation on topics before they get posted so that it can be thoroughly studied and sorted before they become public

OduduwaNow:
Case closed because it depends on the choice of the lady in question.

It can't end that way, the simp guy would decide how it would end. The girl is free to go back to the baby daddy but how about all the expenses incurred by the simp guy overtime? This is simple,the baby daddy should pay for the expenses and it becomes a win win for the parties involved, if otherwise then the simp guy can claim that he owns the child and I'm sure the baby daddy might opt for DNA test where he would still end up spending money. The simp guy just need to let them waste their time and waste their resources too. He can't just let go without giving a fight.

Where are the ladies crucifying men for similar issue. Now let's hear your advice to this heartbroken man

phorget:
It can't end that way, the simp guy would decide how it would end. The girl is free to go back to the baby daddy but how about all the expenses incurred by the simp guy overtime? This is simple,the baby daddy should pay for the expenses and it becomes a win win for the parties involved, if otherwise then the simp guy can claim that he owns the child and I'm sure the baby daddy might opt for DNA test where he would still end up spending money. The simp guy just need to let them waste their time and waste their resources too. He can't just let go without giving a fight.

He sleep with her abi e no sleep with her?

When will guys learn When??!