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Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by keemsleek(m): 9:53pm On Jan 20, 2025
Afolue:
for me 100%…even count…

Single mothers should carry their cross. Afteral, na them get children according to them!

To cut the long story short, by all standards was she blind on her decision at the first place.? In most cases you see the family members of the girl giving warnings and advice but she will still stupidly go ahead in the name of love and money of course
If I might ask, who are making them single mothers? The only difference btw us and them after hrtbreak is that we can't get pregnant. You say love who is making them fall I'm love is it not we men? Who attracts them with money is it not we men? You take advantage of an innocent girl, pregnant her and our sne gender call them name. N.b I don't categorise runs girls, wayward girls among the single mothers I speak for.
Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by Meti99(m): 9:54pm On Jan 20, 2025
MasterJayJay:
Anyone that is a VIRGIN.
Sure!😅
The single mother is the virgin
Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by zebszebs: 9:56pm On Jan 20, 2025
Neither.

Fvck them both
Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by micflo28(m): 9:56pm On Jan 20, 2025
25 year single mum of two? Really? Do I look like a daycare proprietor? Well in the enormous pool of women, I am neither going for any. I am going for a single young lady with no kid

Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by Flangelo12: 10:03pm On Jan 20, 2025
keemsleek:
If I might ask, who are making them single mothers? The only difference btw us and them after hrtbreak is that we can't get pregnant. You say love who is making them fall I'm love is it not we men? Who attracts them with money is it not we men? You take advantage of an innocent girl, pregnant her and our sne gender call them name. N.b I don't categorise runs girls, wayward girls among the single mothers I speak for.
I don't think you have vast experience, I'm sorry to say.

Many women are incapable of being partners.

You think all the men left because they are evil?
Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by Afolue(m): 10:05pm On Jan 20, 2025
keemsleek:
If I might ask, who are making them single mothers? The only difference btw us and them after hrtbreak is that we can't get pregnant. You say love who is making them fall I'm love is it not we men? Who attracts them with money is it not we men? You take advantage of an innocent girl, pregnant her and our sne gender call them name. N.b I don't categorise runs girls, wayward girls among the single mothers I speak for.
considering all these things you just mentioned will be out of pity. We were not there... As a single guy, marrying her because of that will spell doom. He will be nothing but a 3rd class citizen. She will love those kids more than him.

Is it all women that are good? No! Some Men too dey see. The trait of an irresponsible man never hides but most women blindly ignore the red flags in the name of I want my own man syndrome.

If you should hear what women do to men abroad, then you will understand who most of them really can be in character.

I don’t pity them. Too many nasty circumstances that leads ladies to become single mum. I don’t pity them

Moreso, in the hands of bad women, men love their peace.
Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by Sirqt5(m): 10:11pm On Jan 20, 2025
I no be single Dad. Wetin i go do with single mother? Make i carry another man's responsibilities for head? Somebody who could be opening her legs behind my back angry. Single mothers should marry single fathers, simple. Unmarried women should marry unmarried men, simple.
Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by prophetfire: 10:19pm On Jan 20, 2025
oz4real83:
At 38 years old, most women would "have seen all", they know how to make relationships work, they are scared of remaining single for life and are now very humble, respectful and very willing to make their relationships work cool
Don't be a fool bro.
Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by Heffalump(m): 10:30pm On Jan 20, 2025
Hemanwel:
Like this one below?
You're a bad guy. Women chaser on the lose!
Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by keemsleek(m): 10:36pm On Jan 20, 2025
Flangelo12:
I don't think you have vast experience, I'm sorry to say.

Many women are incapable of being partners.

You think all the men left because they are evil?
Really, I do have more experience than you think but that does not make me see all single mother has bad women. I talk from my own experience.
Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by lereinter(m): 10:39pm On Jan 20, 2025
Nonexisting1:
Why not add a 41yr old divorcee to make the unfortunate list complete.
Your comment made me laugh
Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by lereinter(m): 10:40pm On Jan 20, 2025
Sirqt5:
I no be single Dad. Wetin i go do with single mother? Make i carry another man's responsibilities for head? Somebody who could be opening her legs behind my back angry. Single mothers should marry single fathers, simple. Unmarried women should marry unmarried men, simple.
What of if na death kill her ex
Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by AirBere:
oz4real83:
At 38 years old, most women would "have seen all", they know how to make relationships work, they are scared of remaining single for life and are now very humble, respectful and very willing to make their relationships work cool
This is not always the case. Marry her and your eyes will clear. Woman are wired differently and even at 60, the "fish brain" 🧠 still dey dia.

You can definitely not bet on what you just wrote up there. If you do, then you'll learn the hard way.

Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by Sirqt5(m):
lereinter:
What of if na death kill her ex
She should still find a single father with kids like her
Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by Raxxye(m): 11:04pm On Jan 20, 2025
Nonexisting1:
Why not add a 41yr old divorcee to make the unfortunate list complete.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by JTCHI: 11:14pm On Jan 20, 2025
Bro, abeg where u dey get this kind sense? Enroll me abeg

Nonexisting1:
Why not add a 41yr old divorcee to make the unfortunate list complete.
Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by mosicola(m): 11:14pm On Jan 20, 2025
Thundafireseun:
They are both the same….

I will pick the one with the BIGGEST NYASHHH 😁
nyansh na life bro. I like nyansh especially those ones wey dey vibrate during knacking and you will be hearing futum fotom sound
Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by DigitB: 11:15pm On Jan 20, 2025
oz4real83:
At 38 years old, most women would "have seen all", they know how to make relationships work, they are scared of remaining single for life and are now very humble, respectful and very willing to make their relationships work cool
Marry dem fess, all that humility will evaporate.
Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by THEGALADIMA(m): 11:34pm On Jan 20, 2025
😩😊😔😔😔😂😂😂😂😂😂😂




Thundafireseun:
They are both the same….

I will pick the one with the BIGGEST NYASHHH 😁
Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by Abbeytoy(m): 12:34am On Jan 21, 2025
How on earth would a single guy marry a single mother of 2? That's absolutely injustice...

There is nothing bad in marrying the 38-year-old single if she's a virgin; if not, run.

Both get k-leg sha
Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by Cousin9999: 12:42am On Jan 21, 2025
If you're a black man considering smashing a Mexican or a white, you're down bad.
Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by AirBere: 1:08am On Jan 21, 2025
DeeScan:
a 38 yr old.. if she has not had any dick in between those legs. she's first choice ...



a 25yr old with two kids ... this one is possibly a thot .. how the hell she gon be having two kids at 25


its hard to choose men .. but the first without ever getting smashed will be my pick..
Finding a 38 year old who's yet to smash is like looking for needle in Atlantic ocean. It's there but you can't see. In fact I doubt they exist in Nigeria. If they do, then it's not more than 2 out of over 200million people.
Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by QuestLINKsPrpty(f): 1:11am On Jan 21, 2025
Vulcanheph:
None of them are good options... I'd also choose the older lady only of she's rich.
Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by aswani(m): 1:22am On Jan 21, 2025
Hemanwel:
A 25-year-old single mother of two OR a 38-year-old unmarried banny.
The one that talks about her private issues to friends the least.
Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by essentialone1: 1:38am On Jan 21, 2025
Nonexisting1:
Why not add a 41yr old divorcee to make the unfortunate list complete.
And also include a 53 year old childless Widow
Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by bluefilm: 1:45am On Jan 21, 2025
ValCon888:
They are not comparable. Option A is 3 mouths to feed while option B is 1 mouth to feed.

I will pick option B.
Option C is none of the above which is no mouth whatsoever to feed!

Think wise
Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by InvertedHammer: 2:03am On Jan 21, 2025
Hemanwel:
A 25-year-old single mother of two OR a 38-year-old unmarried banny.
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You will be better off remaining single.

38-yrs old single lady probably has higher mileage than the 25-yrs old with two kids. Don't exclude multiple abortions and bad attitude.

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Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by treatise: 2:43am On Jan 21, 2025
Hemanwel:
A 25-year-old single mother of two OR a 38-year-old unmarried banny.
I've added mine - a 40 year old with 2 kids as well as multiple siblings that are dependent on her.
Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by Miramonica: 3:05am On Jan 21, 2025
MasterJayJay:
Anyone that is a VIRGIN.
You're right bro.

For me, it's either a virgin or Nothing. I aim to marry a virgin.

Having an intact Pussy that hasn't played host to numerous dicks is a pre-requsiste for me asking for any girl hand in marriage.
Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by optionalY09: 3:20am On Jan 21, 2025
keemsleek:
Being a single mother is not a curse has far shes not a runs or loose woman and not being married at 38 is not a ish. So any of them can go has far they fit into my plan.
go back to your husband
Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by onuman: 3:54am On Jan 21, 2025
Flangelo12:
None of them good.

Lord knows those are not the only options.

grin
Depends on how old he is.
Re: Which Of These Would You Choose For A Wife As A Single Guy? by BluntCrazeMan: 4:59am On Jan 21, 2025
keemsleek:
Being a single mother is not a curse has far shes not a runs or loose woman and not being married at 38 is not a ish. So any of them can go has far they fit into my plan.
At 25, she already has 2...
She was never married before..

So, is it Lack of self control.?? Or what.?
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