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I saw this post on a meme page, how true is this? I believe it's just a hype, because how can people predict you are up to 30 years old besides there are a lot of people who found success later in life way after 30 years.

Dey play

I don't know why I somehow agree with this sha..

LoopyNigeria:
I saw this post on a meme page, how true is this? I believe it's just a hype, because how can people predict you are up to 30 years old besides there are a lot of people who found success later in life way after 30 years.

rich or poor u will kpai one day life is nothing but a vanity




If you spend one hundred years enjoying and another man spend 200 years suffering the day both of u died u r equal

Lol lies or rather let me say it depends on the admirer. All these social media construct trying to control how we think and behave shouldn't be promoted in any form. This is bs and everyone isn't thinking uniformly cos we're not robots but they've been trying to turn us into that with the media and internet now

I'll be 30 in five months, and my way of thinking has shifted. In the past few years when attending occasions and functions with family and friends, I realize it's no longer just about appearances. The image you project now revolves around financial capability. You start to understand that every action you take has an impact on the years ahead, and you don't want to jeopardize your future with unnecessary and unproductive things.
My level of sobriety over the past year 😬

dkidd:
Lol lies or rather let me say it depends on the admirer. All these social media construct trying to control how we think and behave shouldn't be promoted in any form. This is bs and everyone isn't thinking uniformly cos we're not robots but they've been trying to turn us into that with the media and internet now

Play with your life till you enter 40

Maxxim:
Play with your life till you enter 40

Mugu

Before the age of 30. By the time most people graduate, usually between 22 to 25, the ugly guy who got a job at NNPC begins to look better than the unemployed cute guy.

The stress of being unemployed would even reduce the ginger to focus on looking good. Unless of course you have wealthy folks who continue to give you money.

I support him

abba190b:
rich or poor u will kpai one day life is nothing but a vanity




If you spend one hundred years enjoying and another man spend 200 years suffering the day both of u died u r equal

These mumu philosophies una dey carry waka. Carry poverty plaster for centre of head until you die, you hear?

Mr Op how far with ur own life as u don hit ur 30?

Give me small time, I will be able to answer.

Maxxim:
Play with your life till you enter 40

His point is, You can take care of your looks/be obsessed with your looks as a guy and still strife towards financial stability. These things arent mutually exclusive.


We should learn to balance things up.

Its even more funny when people assume that disagreeing with a random online opinion means you're a joke offline


This is 2025 abeg, be flexible in your reasoning.

Na this Kain mentality dey push people dey go do money Ritual.
Societal pressure.
Family pressure.
Peer pressure.
Just do things at your own pace, And pray to God things will work out well for you.

Focus.

Maxxim:
Play with your life till you enter 40

Looking good and working towards wealth are not mutually exclusive. If you like don't take care of your looks and health.

No ugly man from 30

Beauty is value for a woman as capacity to provide is value for a man.

Imagine a 30 year old man who is a liability...... Appearance will not pay the bills


Money itself is attractive. Expectations increases from around 30.

No.

abba190b:
rich or poor u will kpai one day life is nothing but a vanity




If you spend one hundred years enjoying and another man spend 200 years suffering the day both of u died u r equal

Word..your wealth, wife, children won't be remembered again..life

Bookhub:
Dey play

that's d reality guy

I am above 30 n now aside barbing n wearing nice clothes I don't really care but I care much about my bank account n how I maintain my family n car

At that stage nobody cares if u are a fine boy or not but what u care to offer yourself, family n d society at large

Anybody can call u fine boy as a compliment but just know for sure that is secondary

Go to any reunion once u are above 30 n u will realize nobody cares about that guy that use to b ugly but how good looking n comfortable (rich) u are

dkidd:
Lol lies or rather let me say it depends on the admirer. All these social media construct trying to control how we think and behave shouldn't be promoted in any form. This is bs and everyone isn't thinking uniformly cos we're not robots but they've been trying to turn us into that with the media and internet now

are u above 30?

When u get there u will understand that even your wife or siblings don't care about your look but how u can help or add meaning to their lives

Maxxim:
I'll be 30 in five months, and my way of thinking has shifted. In the past few years when attending occasions and functions with family and friends, I realize it's no longer just about appearances. The image you project now revolves around financial capability. You start to understand that every action you take has an impact on the years ahead, and you don't want to jeopardize your future with unnecessary and unproductive things.
My level of sobriety over the past year 😬

God bless u

Sharpsharp00123:
are u above 30?

When u get there u will understand that even your wife or siblings don't care about your look but how u can help or add meaning to their lives

I'm not saying Ur looks matter or not why can't most of U kids read to understand? All I'm stressing is to each person their preferences. I'm way above 30. U kids should try to think for urselves that's all I'm saying and stop being some internet puppets on strings

dkidd:
I'm not saying Ur looks matter or not why can't most of U kids read to understand? All I'm stressing is to each person their preferences. I'm way above 30. U kids should try to think for urselves that's all I'm saying and stop being some internet puppets on strings

Methuselah

Something's are unwritten rules in life, at a point even u will no longer relate with people based on look but based on what they can add to u n what u can add to them

At a stage in life u will have to accept some realities no matter how different or wise u want to look.....u will accept it

Was it society that created rules for u before u stopped bathing outside?

Was it society that created rules for u before u stopped playing with sand?

Naturally in life, when u reach a stage ur focus will shift n u will see things differently

Sharpsharp00123:
Methuselah

Something's are unwritten rules in life, at a point even u will no longer relate with people based on look but based on what they can add to u n what u can add to them

At a stage in life u will have to accept some realities no matter how different or wise u want to look.....u will accept it

Now firstly looks attract.
Secondly no reasonable human being relates with people just based on their looks. Even in my teens I was already smart enough to know that. Attraction first then substance will determine if we relate or not but a lot of shallow people stick with others based off of their looks only and then when problem comes they wonder why. Good looks is something very nice and pleasant but it should never be the basis of any relationship with anyone. U should be aware from the time U start gaining knowledge. And it's the reason why sayings like "U never judge a book by it's covers" and"not all that glitters is gold" these are for those like a lot of u who are catching up slow. I'm not trying to look wise I'm blessed to know what I know and still learning to know what I don't know.

Methuselah? Yeah right 👍

dkidd:
Now firstly looks attract.
Secondly no reasonable human being relates with people just based on their looks. Even in my teens I was already smart enough to know that. Attraction first then substance will determine if we relate or not but a lot of shallow people stick with others based off of their looks only and then when problem comes they wonder why. Good looks is something very nice and pleasant but it should never be the basis of any relationship with anyone. U should be aware from the time U start gaining knowledge. And it's the reason why sayings like "U never judge a book by it's covers" and"not all that glitters is gold" these are for those like a lot of u who are catching up slow. I'm not trying to look wise I'm blessed to know what I know and still learning to know what I don't know.

Methuselah? Yeah right 👍

to u, have said many things but u have said nothing.

The basis of my argument with u is to buttress d op post that at a time in life, something's like looks becomes secondary in situations but achievement n how well to do speak

Most handsome man trekking in hot sun and a ugly guy in a nice ride

People will prefer to discuss business with that ugly guy than that broke fine boy

In every secondary school reunion, people no longer care about d most handsome n most beautiful during school but those who they can share connection n business cards with

So if u like fine from here go reach Sokoto na small small underage girls go Dey look your side but once u are ugly n loaded u will get d best

U think say na small thing make Regina Daniel leave fine boy somadima go marry ancestors

Compare d 2 pictures n tell me if looks really matter at a certain stage in life

Sharpsharp00123:
to u, have said many things but u have said nothing.

The basis of my argument with u is to buttress d op post that at a time in life, something's like looks becomes secondary in situations but achievement n how well to do speak

Most handsome man trekking in hot sun and a ugly guy in a nice ride

People will prefer to discuss business with that ugly guy than that broke fine boy

In every secondary school reunion, people no longer care about d most handsome n most beautiful during school but those who they can share connection n business cards with

So if u like fine from here go reach Sokoto na small small underage girls go Dey look your side but once u are ugly n loaded u will get d best

U think say na small thing make Regina Daniel leave fine boy somadima go marry ancestors

Compare d 2 pictures n tell me if looks really matter at a certain stage in life

Let me clear this now. The OP is to discredit good looks and to promote hustling and getting paid/ being well to do. Now all I'm pointing out again is to leave the damn stereotype of ugly man big money and fine man no money. It's all bs. There are many ugly guys like chimpanzees with no money and good looking guys who are still doing better. Instead of U guys to open topics on educating urselves on how to be better most of U open baseless threads and promote bs and more bs. Generate helpful topics, share updates and stop sharing foolishness that's my stand. Looks are just for attraction and substance is all that matters wether wealthy or not. Every man U see around has his timeline in life. Mine is different from urs and vice versa. Some make it in thier 20's while some in their 30's and some still in their 40's even some in their 50/60's. Na the day when man wake up na then him day break. Some get it early and lose it later some retain what they get early and get better with age,some get it late and retain it till next generation while some still get it late and lose it or it dies with them. There's no one size fits all like most of y'all think and try to force down our throats. Live Ur life and live right. Do the right thing at the right time. Take advantage of opportunities without fear. Do what suits Ur soul. Know Ur purpose and don't live on other people's terms or because someone else has made it at a certain time U too must make it at that same time. So long as y can foot Ur own bills and put food on the table take it one day at a time but always stay smart to know when the opportunity shows up and fvckn take advantage of it like a new pussy about to be fvcked! I'm done with U here I have engagements to attend to 👍

dkidd:
Let me clear this now. The OP is to discredit good looks and to promote hustling and getting paid/ being well to do. Now all I'm pointing out again is to leave the damn stereotype of ugly man big money and fine man no money. It's all bs. There are many ugly guys like chimpanzees with no money and good looking guys who are still doing better. Instead of U guys to open topics on educating urselves on how to be better most of U open baseless threads and promote bs and more bs. Generate helpful topics, share updates and stop sharing foolishness that's my stand. Looks are just for attraction and substance is all that matters wether wealthy or not. Every man U see around has his timeline in life. Mine is different from urs and vice versa. Some make it in thier 20's while some in their 30's and some still in their 40's even some in their 50/60's. Na the day when man wake up na then him day break. Some get it early and lose it later some retain what they get early and get better with age,some get it late and retain it till next generation while some still get it late and lose it or it dies with them. There's no one size fits all like most of y'all think and try to force down our throats. Live Ur life and live right. Do the right thing at the right time. Take advantage of opportunities without fear. Do what suits Ur soul. Know Ur purpose and don't live on other people's terms or because someone else has made it at a certain time U too must make it at that same time. So long as y can foot Ur own bills and put food on the table take it one day at a time but always stay smart to know when the opportunity shows up and fvckn take advantage of it like a new pussy about to be fvcked! I'm done with U here I have engagements to attend to 👍

leave story

Which do u prefer to b

A poor fine boy or an ugly rich man?

Sharpsharp00123:
to u, have said many things but u have said nothing.

The basis of my argument with u is to buttress d op post that at a time in life, something's like looks becomes secondary in situations but achievement n how well to do speak

Most handsome man trekking in hot sun and a ugly guy in a nice ride

People will prefer to discuss business with that ugly guy than that broke fine boy

In every secondary school reunion, people no longer care about d most handsome n most beautiful during school but those who they can share connection n business cards with

So if u like fine from here go reach Sokoto na small small underage girls go Dey look your side but once u are ugly n loaded u will get d best

U think say na small thing make Regina Daniel leave fine boy somadima go marry ancestors

Compare d 2 pictures n tell me if looks really matter at a certain stage in life

Children of today are allergic to wisdom to the point that I think it is better to leave them to live misery full in and with their stupidities.

LoopyNigeria:
I saw this post on a meme page, how true is this? I believe it's just a hype, because how can people predict you are up to 30 years old besides there are a lot of people who found success later in life way after 30 years.

Young boys will say its a lie because right now, what most of them have to offer in life right now is their young teenage look and handsome face which they believe should make every girl they admire to open up to them....but with time, as they grow older, they will come to terms with the reality of this write up.


As men grow older, they are no longer rated or admired by women based on just their physical looks but mostly by their financial worth, personality and charisma which is mostly defined by the man's pocket size and means of income.




So op, don't force it on anybody to believe, it is only time and experience that makes humans believe some sad truths about life

Sharpsharp00123:
leave story

Which do u prefer to b

A poor fine boy or an ugly rich man?

You have just been schooled but it's like you still did not learn anything 😭

Dtruthspeaker:
Children of today are allergic to wisdom to the point that I think it is better to leave them to live misery full in and with their stupidities.

make yourself clear bro