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KennycruzIsla:
Right now I’m fed up

KennycruzIsla:
I have come to realized that men are the causes of most happy homes to turn sour. Don’t mind my English
MY EXPERIENCE
I have been married for 6years now, I have never felt like this before my heart so heavy and mental health is affected
I saw a chat on my partner phone ‘ I feel like kissing you when I saw you’ my world almost crumbed when I saw it cos I never believed my hubby would sent something like that to anybody. I nearly run mad. I have trusted him 100%
He apologized that he was just using it to catch cruise that he never meant those words. That he has deleted the number.I cried and forgave him. Not knowing he only re-saved the number to another name.
After some time I saw another message( I have messaged you on your other line). I felt betrayed again which other line is that which I did my findings and it’s still the same person. Name resaved. He always delete the messages. I asked him again what was going on. He said nothing that he loved me and will never hurt me. But deleting and re-saving numbers are issues for me. I woke up my hubby and asked him is there something I’m not doing right? Have I ever neglected my duties as a wife? He said No. He said since he got married he never slept with another woman. It’s just mere messages
I did my findings and I got to know a lot about all this. Yes he’s faithful
I don’t know what I’m not doing right:
I’m beautiful even with 3 kids
I dress neatly
I take my bath 2 times morning and night
I have job
I prepared his foods every time
I initiate sex every time( I have never denied him sex)
I pray for him every time
I support him
I buy gift him and pamper my him
My money is for us all, I don’t hide my finances
Right now I’m fed up

KennycruzIsla:
I have come to realized that men are the causes of most happy homes to turn sour. Don’t mind my English
MY EXPERIENCE
I have been married for 6years now, I have never felt like this before my heart so heavy and mental health is affected
I saw a chat on my partner phone ‘ I feel like kissing you when I saw you’ my world almost crumbed when I saw it cos I never believed my hubby would sent something like that to anybody. I nearly run mad. I have trusted him 100%
He apologized that he was just using it to catch cruise that he never meant those words. That he has deleted the number.I cried and forgave him. Not knowing he only re-saved the number to another name.
After some time I saw another message( I have messaged you on your other line). I felt betrayed again which other line is that which I did my findings and it’s still the same person. Name resaved. He always delete the messages. I asked him again what was going on. He said nothing that he loved me and will never hurt me. But deleting and re-saving numbers are issues for me. I woke up my hubby and asked him is there something I’m not doing right? Have I ever neglected my duties as a wife? He said No. He said since he got married he never slept with another woman. It’s just mere messages
I did my findings and I got to know a lot about all this. Yes he’s faithful
I don’t know what I’m not doing right:
I’m beautiful even with 3 kids
I dress neatly
I take my bath 2 times morning and night
I have job
I prepared his foods every time
I initiate sex every time( I have never denied him sex)
I pray for him every time
I support him
I buy gift him and pamper my him
My money is for us all, I don’t hide my finances
Right now I’m fed up

KennycruzIsla:
I did my findings and I got to know a lot about all this. Yes he’s faithful

Right now I’m fed up

KennycruzIsla:
I have come to realized that men are the causes of most happy homes to turn sour. Don’t mind my English
MY EXPERIENCE
I have been married for 6years now, I have never felt like this before my heart so heavy and mental health is affected
I saw a chat on my partner phone ‘ I feel like kissing you when I saw you’ my world almost crumbed when I saw it cos I never believed my hubby would sent something like that to anybody. I nearly run mad. I have trusted him 100%
He apologized that he was just using it to catch cruise that he never meant those words. That he has deleted the number.I cried and forgave him. Not knowing he only re-saved the number to another name.
After some time I saw another message( I have messaged you on your other line). I felt betrayed again which other line is that which I did my findings and it’s still the same person. Name resaved. He always delete the messages. I asked him again what was going on. He said nothing that he loved me and will never hurt me. But deleting and re-saving numbers are issues for me. I woke up my hubby and asked him is there something I’m not doing right? Have I ever neglected my duties as a wife? He said No. He said since he got married he never slept with another woman. It’s just mere messages
I did my findings and I got to know a lot about all this. Yes he’s faithful
I don’t know what I’m not doing right:
I’m beautiful even with 3 kids
I dress neatly
I take my bath 2 times morning and night
I have job
I prepared his foods every time
I initiate sex every time( I have never denied him sex)
I pray for him every time
I support him
I buy gift him and pamper my him
My money is for us all, I don’t hide my finances
Right now I’m fed up

KennycruzIsla:
If you see me you won’t believe I have giving birth to just a child . I take good care of myself. I just can’t help but cry cry every time

ChirstFireAltar:
You just say he is faithful?
Then something is wrong, with what have seen over the years as a counselor, you must help him to deliver him from strange women...
1. Some ladies goes after married men to scatter their home.
2. Some ladies goes after married men for monetary gain.
These ladies are not ordinary, they're diabolical...they have people that do charms and all these evil for them.

My advice:
1. Get him involved to pray and fast together for himself for deliverance from strange women.
2. Study the word of God together.
3. It a battle against your marriage, fight it together.
4. May God give you wisdom to handle it with losing your marriage. It's red outside and they're dangerous.
Peace be unto you.

tanigororo:
You can start your own, let's see who looses.
It's in every man's nature to flirt, if he flirt and eat snacks outside it still doesn't mean he did not love you.
From your narration he respect you a lot by keeping it a secret, na you go dey check his phone.

Afodot0022:
I will advise you in a man perspective, see no matter how you do it, a man will once in a while stray even out of his own doing, it doesn't mean that he does not love you, it's just a man nature to behave that way, men are carried away by what we see and imagine how many women are out there displaying all sorts, it takes a man of dignity, self control and fear of God not to stray, it's a huge temptation for we men of this generation. Pls don't leave your home cos the street is cold and the next man you meet might be worse than your former, just pray for him and let him know you love him , one day he will realize and change for good. No man is immune to this, even pastor are also not immune, it's just the man nature. Keep loving him, support him, respect him and submit to him, when he will start to change and stop all those, you will be surprised. Don't loose your home o, you go cry taya

Dtruthspeaker:
Flirting is cheating.

KennycruzIsla:
➜I have come to realized that men are the causes of most happy homes to turn sour. Don’t mind my English
MY EXPERIENCE
I have been married for 6years now, I have never felt like this before my heart so heavy and mental health is affected
I saw a chat on my partner phone ‘ I feel like kissing you when I saw you’ my world almost crumbed when I saw it cos I never believed my hubby would sent something like that to anybody. I nearly run mad. I have trusted him 100%. He apologized that he was just using it to catch cruise that he never meant those words. That he has deleted the number.I cried and forgave him. Not knowing he only re-saved the number to another name.
After some time I saw another message( I have messaged you on your other line). I felt betrayed again which other line is that which I did my findings and it’s still the same person. Name resaved. He always delete the messages. I asked him again what was going on. He said nothing that he loved me and will never hurt me. But deleting and re-saving numbers are issues for me.
➜I woke up my hubby and asked him is there something I’m not doing right? Have I ever neglected my duties as a wife? He said No. He said since he got married he never slept with another woman. It’s just mere messages. I did my findings and I got to know a lot about all this. Yes he’s faithful . I don’t know what I’m not doing right: I’m beautiful even with 3 kids. I dress neatly. I take my bath 2 times morning and night. I have job. I prepared his foods every time. I initiate sex every time( I have never denied him sex). I pray for him every time. I support him. I buy gift him and pamper my him. My money is for us all, I don’t hide my finances
Right now I’m fed up

KennycruzIsla:
If you see me you won’t believe I have giving birth to just a child . I take good care of myself. I just can’t help but cry cry every time

ChirstFireAltar:
➜You just say he is faithful?
Then something is wrong, with what have seen over the years as a counselor, you must help him to deliver him from strange women...
1. Some ladies goes after married men to scatter their home.
2. Some ladies goes after married men for monetary gain.
➜These ladies are not ordinary, they're diabolical...they have people that do charms and all these evil for them.
My advice:
1. Get him involved to pray and fast together for himself for deliverance from strange women.
2. Study the word of God together.
3. It a battle against your marriage, fight it together.
4. May God give you wisdom to handle it with losing your marriage. It's red outside and they're dangerous.
Peace be unto you.

tanigororo:
If your boss decided to interview a new candidate for your position, will you dare call your boss out for not being loyal to you? I am very sure you dare not because he is paying you and he calls the shot, why would any woman say her husband is cheating on her when he is sacrificing everything for her.
First Men don't and cannot cheat.
Does this ever make sense to you

Biqsahm:
Dis generation n sex ehh! If all u have said is d truth I feel u should stop checking his fone avoid dats his fone like plague then make sure anytime he wants sex from u it must be done with protection lastly focus on urself n kid

Dtruthspeaker:
You don't know that you are asking the impossible? Can you yourself do it?

KennycruzIsla:
I have come to realized that men are the causes of most happy homes to turn sour. Don’t mind my English
MY EXPERIENCE
I have been married for 6years now, I have never felt like this before my heart so heavy and mental health is affected
I saw a chat on my partner phone ‘ I feel like kissing you when I saw you’ my world almost crumbed when I saw it cos I never believed my hubby would sent something like that to anybody. I nearly run mad. I have trusted him 100%
He apologized that he was just using it to catch cruise that he never meant those words. That he has deleted the number.I cried and forgave him. Not knowing he only re-saved the number to another name.
After some time I saw another message( I have messaged you on your other line). I felt betrayed again which other line is that which I did my findings and it’s still the same person. Name resaved. He always delete the messages. I asked him again what was going on. He said nothing that he loved me and will never hurt me. But deleting and re-saving numbers are issues for me. I woke up my hubby and asked him is there something I’m not doing right? Have I ever neglected my duties as a wife? He said No. He said since he got married he never slept with another woman. It’s just mere messages
I did my findings and I got to know a lot about all this. Yes he’s faithful
I don’t know what I’m not doing right:
I’m beautiful even with 3 kids
I dress neatly
I take my bath 2 times morning and night
I have job
I prepared his foods every time
I initiate sex every time( I have never denied him sex)
I pray for him every time
I support him
I buy gift him and pamper my him
My money is for us all, I don’t hide my finances
Right now I’m fed up

Sharpsharp00123:
the earlier d better u people understand that being with a woman for life is boring, the fact that your man is doing that doesn't mean he doesn't love u

U women should understand that a man can cheat n also love him wife n not even attached to d woman

But once a woman cheats,that's all.

A man can have sex with 200 women n still love his wife but once a woman have sex with another man n that's all

Nnamdipapa:
You are totally wrong and I tell you that as a man.
If a woman gives me everything I want, there will be no need to look outside.

Biqsahm:
so u want dis woman to keep having unprotected sex with her unfaithful husband?she needs to keep her sanity in check. I won’t tell to do what I won’t do bro n that guy is not stoping soon she need to brace up like I said earlier n keep her sanity in check

Dtruthspeaker:
She is not going anywhere she is just going to go out and cheat her own if this story is to be believed.

Sharpsharp00123:
then d husband will send her out of d house n let's see who go lose

Many of u want to start acting like men Right?

Dtruthspeaker:
As you can see today many wives are now ready to leave which is why the crime climate has changed from "get out of my house" to "I will kill you".

Sharpsharp00123:
let d op leave d house now n see who will suffer