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JESHAL007:
The aim of the red pill is for men to see below the surface and stay on course as a man. Not trifling in life with unserious issues like running after the low-value girls in your neighbourhood etc.

sabbiboi:
When a man gets to the point in his life where he sees girls, especially in his neighborhood and ignores them, because familiarity brews all kinds of rubbish that may cause him a setback. At this point, he has a definite path to greatness.

When you know you can get laid, but you start to do a mental calculation like is the pussy deserving of my time. Because I have got no time to waste in life for frivolities.

Pukkalolo:
@bolded. That's the problem with most guys. They treat the pussy like it's a big deal.

Men fail with women because they see pussy as a trophy instead of seeing it as a tool. Let me explain…

Back in school I was gisting with this young lecturer, and along the line, I told him, “I wish I could graduate with first class.”

He laughed and said, “Boy, stop chasing lower ground goals…. Go for the higher ground goal.”

He explained quickly and shallowly… and changed the topic immediately. I didn't seem to grasp it. But I later got what he was trying to say; but I had to learn it the hard way.


Lower ground goals are the normal goal we desire, and you can possibly achieve them if we try harder and work harder.

While Higher ground goals are goals that are almost impossible to achieve: and to achieve the higher goal, having the lower ground goal is almost a prerequisite.

For example, aiming for the moon is a lower ground goal, while aiming for the star is a higher goal.

Using that young lecturer as example. He graduated out of that university with first class. But according to him, he never aim to get first class. He believes First-class was a lower ground goal. Instead he aimed for a higher ground goal: being a Lecturer in the university.

The lower ground goal is only a prerequisite or by-product of going for higher ground goal.
When you are going for a lower ground goal, you simply do the regular activities to achieve it. But when you're going for a higher-ground goal, you are naturally forced to bring out the best behavior in you



As a Man, Aiming at lower ground goal demand only little from you. This why the typical guy can freely act like a weak simp while trying to get the pussy.

But aiming at higher ground goal literally demand A LOT from you. It will force you to be an ALPHA whether you like it or not.

To the p!mp, seducing a girl and fucking her is easy. But what's really hard is: Seducing a girl—NOT to Bleep you—but to Bleep another Man—and collecting over 80% of the money she makes.

That's not an easy one. This is why most veterans Pimps have to have a very TIGHT ALPHA GAME. It's not an option: it's a MUST.

The typical guy can show weakness and may still get the pussy.

But the P!mp must show no weakness, or else he will lose the higher ground goal. The P!mp get massive shit test from women, because she want to make sure he's really the Boss. The woman must look up to him like her lord, so that he can get what he wants from her.


I laugh when guys complain about onlyFans girls. But what you guys don't realize is that over 70% of onlyFans or webcam accounts are being controlled by Men(p!mps). The girls just show in the video, but the P!mps are in the background doing the chatting and other ‘manager’ stuffs.


Infact if an onlyFan girl is struggling to get fans(simps), then its because she haven't yet higher a manager(Pimps) to help her out.


Note: I am in no way encouraging p!mping…. I am only using it as an example.


Anyways, in summary. Stop chasing lower ground goals. Instead focus on higher ground goals, because they force out the best in you.


Stay blessed brothers.

JESHAL007:
@emmaodet, good evening sir, hope you had a good day, I want to clarify something, are married men receiving sex like mad since they monopolized the pussy in the institution or are they sex starved like majority of single guys out there who are average and struggling since they are bottom 80%, worse they patronise prostitutes who give them the worst of the worst forms of transactional sex, are married men sex starved that they too might opt for prostitutes, are married women weaponizing and hoarding pussy

JESHAL007:
Psychopaths are more prone to drug addiction that normal people.

Alcohol and Cocaine are drugs that psychopathic men seem to be in greater danger of becoming addicted to, than the average person.

The one drug psychopaths never get addicted to is Oxytocin.

JESHAL007:
When You Are In Love With A Woman Who You Imagine She Is Is Far Superior To Who She Actually Is This may sound ‘Obvious‘ yet otherwise intelligent men biased by Oxytocin do not realize this.

Being In Love Means

Overestimating The Difference Between

The Woman You Are Currently With

And Every Other Woman On The Planet

emmaodet:
Hello bro.
The question has a broad answer because it is an individual thing and many married men don't open up due to shame, so they keep it to themselves.
Many married men don't feel comfortable telling friends about their wife's sex life because it's kinda private but from my little observation and knowledge, i will say 5 out 10 married men around me had once complained about their wife's low sex attitudes.
We can say many of these women married their husbands due to financial cover or age not on their side, if given the chance and choice, they would have preferred a richer or more good-looking man, but this is life, we don't always get what we want.
Women will be women; it is up to the man to know how to handle such situation.
My case as an example, i don't beg my wife for sex or clingy. There were times she was forming not interested and wanted me to be simping to get the sex, i just ghosted her as if she never existed in that house. It is up to her to pick herself up and fix herself up and make me happy.
I don't wait for her to do my duties at home to provide, so i don't need to constantly remind her or beg her to do her duty to make her hubby happy. I have low tolerance for bullshits, manipulations or games.
If she had not come begging after 3 days of ghosting her, i would have given her just 2 months grace period after which i would have gone to shop for her replacement sex-wise
If you don't like sex or not really interested in it then stay away from relationships and marriages - e no hard.
I don't wait for anyone to tell me to wake up, go to work, pay school fees, house rent, food etc so i won't be the one forcing a woman to perform her duties
She woke me up midnight disturbed that have been ignoring her for days and i told her plain and blank that have lost interest in her, no point sugar coating it.
She was shocked and started crying and praying for evil ladies distracting me outside to die...wetin be my own, i was just sleeping.
EVER SINCE that time, our sex life CHANGED for better.... i guess a little external competition or threat of replacement helps a lot

Nyascobar1414:
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This sexual market game ain't fair..
Imagine what men are doing in exchange of having kids or sex😹😹..

What if I can control my sexual urge,then I'll be detached from this loosing game..

Men can't just see that nature made us losers😊..

Its okay though..
Friedrich Neiztche has already made me to stare into the abyss,same way the abyss have stared into me🚶

Fiscus105:

If every woman that men want to dig open it, without resistance, did you ever imagine how world will look like?

Stop thinking like shallow minded and stop killing yourself because of holes, face your life, it's more important to you than that.

Nyascobar1414:
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Go chat this to your dad,he really needs it👌

Martinez39s:
^{NB: my write-up applies especially to spinning plates and maintaining rotation; you know, when it is all about lust and fùcks. To a good extent, it can also be applied to serious relationships and marriage since your respect, your frame and sexual attraction from your woman are important components of the dynamics.}

I might want to add some clarification for the sake of discussion. First of all, I COULD BE WRONG, sajmark was probably not referring to marriage; you know most people, even I, in this country use "relationship" and "marriage" differently. Na so e be for naija and some parts of the world even though marriage is also a relationship. That being said, l move to want to duscuss.

If you have been simping (especially big-time simping) to a woman; if you have been a confirmed beta to a woman; if you have defied certain red pill principles to the detriment of her attraction towards you (eg crying, telling her your emotional problems); and she has "seen you finish," your simp/beta status is indelibly registered in her psyche. It will be impossible for her to perceive you as an alpha again and yield positively to your red pill/alpha moves. When you try to make alpha moves, she sees you as a beta who is acting a borrowed script and trying to be what you are not; as a result, she will perceive that you are manipulatively playing a game on her or, precisely put, trying to play a smart one on her and cross your boundaries. Your new efforts will fail for two simple reasons:

(1)  Your past beta self has become your identity and innate personality to her so that it now comes across as unbelievable and fake when you gyrate like an alpha and make red pill/alpha moves. She won't buy it. You are forever a turn-off. You simply can't command from her the respect, willing compliance, genuine desire (aka lust), and sexual openness an alpha commands. This is why in order to experience profound and maximum success in your new red pill awareness in all these aspects, starting afresh is your best and easiest option. If you apply red pill newly with that female you have done all those beta, simpish and nonredpill stuffs for and it is not working, move along and don't stress yourself. Women plenty.

(2) Female ego naturally won't condone succumbing to what she perceives as tricks and fakery coming from a man she perceives as a simp and beta in and out. Women take glory in playing the simp/beta, not the other way round. Women are wired to only willingly succumb and yield sexually to the man who she thinks is naturally an alpha, a man who naturally "gets it" and who she thinks have alpha/red pill sharpness and qualities in his DNA and isn't faking it. This can be called a natural feminine fantasy since no man is natural endowed with red pill awareness at birth and such has to be acquired with experience and exposure. As a result of this, women will willingly give the pùssy to, yield to and break rules for the alpha guy in whom she has seen no traces simping and weakness. He, unlike the beta and simp, gets the utmost sexual openness and her hòe side without much effort and spending a penny... genuine desire (aka unalloyed lust). This is why first impression matters and would set the tone of the encounter. This is why in order to experience profound and maximum success in your new red pill awareness, starting afresh is your best option.

Remember, only alphas can succeed with alpha moves. Betas can't get away with or succeed in making alpha moves; they will meet failure and stiff resistance from females who have seen them as betas.

My point in (2) is the reason why some guys would have noticed something: when you are running game on women and things are going smoothly, everything goes south when she discovers that you are watching and reading red pill contents and materials. In her mind, she is like "He is probably a beta and not a born alpha who naturally "gets it, hence he depends on online help and tricks from others to teach it game and manly frame. He has probably been tricking me and faking it all along and he isn't a natural alpha." She would lose interest rather than risk being a "victim" of the tricks and fakery of a beta and simp; she wouldn't risk it or give you benefit of doubt as her ego is at stake.

This is why many redpillers will advice you to never tell a female you are gaming that you are learning and consuming red pill contents and materials (online or offline). Don't let her see you reading or watching them or find out by any means that you are consuming them. Seal your mouth from using terms that shows your are learning of consuming red pill. Hide your red pill books and sources. Instead, be silent about your red pill awareness and let your actions speak for you from the first impression so that it looks as if they come naturally to you. This will make things easier for you and, sometimes, even less likely for her to intercept, anticipate or be aware of what is going on while she is focused on dealing with the alpha. She won't fear any beta tricks since she thinks you are a natural and she will drop her guard and yield

Let's say you have read the The 48 Laws of Power. Someone who has read The 48 Laws of Power ....

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Martinez39s:
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Let's say you have read the The 48 Laws of Power. Someone who has read The 48 Laws of Power will have success implementing what he has read against others and even against you to some extent if you are unaware of his knowledge (sometimes we losen up and don't always analyse, read meaning into and suspect everything; and we don't remember vividly all we've read). However when that person tells you he/she has read the book, you become alert and might find yourself reading meanings in his/her action to see where he/she is possibly applying these laws... and you wouldn't want to fall for his/her "tricks (who would?). If the person has been pulling such moves on or plans to pull such, you are more likely to notice it. You see him/her in a slightly more machiavellian light than before, unlike when you thought he/she was a bit clueless and being honest in some of their actions. Sometimes, even when they are not pulling any "tricks" from that book and doing things honestly, you are still reading certain unnecessary intents to their actions and speeches. This analogy shows you additional effects (additional to the previous paragraph) of letting a woman know your source.

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The notable exceptions to my write-up are as follows:
(1) if she has no other options and your association with her is very beneficial (especially financially), you can leverage on this to make some rules and put her bullcraps in check. However, she will yield unwillingly because it ensures the benefits, but her pùssy won't get wet for you ever again. Showing her sexual best to you and doing the nasty stuffs —that she would have willing done to the alpha— will be unavailable to you; you are a turn-off.

If left to her, she would have distanced herself from you sexually and still want the benefits. The difference between you and the perceived natural alpha is that she yields to him of her own accord and readily makes herself available because he inspires genuine desire and her feelings are involved. Your leverage (the benefits) can only go so far.  Genuine desire can't be negotiated. To experience profound and maximum success in your new red pill awareness IN ALL ASPECTS, starting afresh is the only way.

(2) If you made all these mistakes as a little kid in school and many years elasped before you met again; you can create a new impression. If the simping was minimal and wasn't a big-time, blatant mistake, the better chances you have at correcting them.
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I am not advocating divorce or the dissolution of your relationship. I am just reporting on how I see things. Even in marriage and relationships, there are things that you do that will irreversibly damage sexual attraction from your woman and level of respect as a alpha; despite this, relationships and marriages still continue despite the damaged because of financial benefits from the man, investments, convenience and diminished options. Heck, even betas are married to women who don't find them attractive and worthy of respect, but they move along because he has the benefits she married him for. A lot of husbands have lasting marriages, but they will never get to the sexual results and unalloyed lust from their wives that an alpha has gotten and can get from her. A woman's heart and pùssy can desire someone else, but she will endure a lifelong marriage if it benefits her.

I am just reporting as I know things are.

I welcome counter opinions; let's compare notes. I am forever opening to learning and reorientation.