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Why do single mothers, not want to marry single fathers?

Because women can't take half of what they dish.

Because they are NOT after genuine relationship per se.

They are looking for SLAVES who would devote his time and RESOURCES to shouldering the BURDEN of raising their BASTARDS.

They want CHUMPS.

And that's what men who marry single mothers are:

Dumb CHUMPS!

They already have responsibilities so they are looking for a man with few or no responsibilities who would share their responsibilities with them.

It's common sense. Women are selfish in nature.

kingbee90:

They already have responsibilities so they are looking for a man with few or no responsibilities who would share their responsibilities with them.

It's common sense. Women are selfish in nature.

Women are selfish in nature.

A man can comfortably marry a single mother and no one would ever know the previous child does not belong to the man, except those who knew before.

But if a single lady dares to marry a single father, even blind and deaf people will know at once who is her own child and the one that belongs to the man alone.

In reality nobody wants to raise anyone's kids..
Single mothers just expect men to be stvpid and accept what they won't advice their own sons...

First hand experience is better than fairy tale experience

Why is she a single mother?

helinues:
First hand experience is better than fairy tale experience

Why is she a single mother?

why else? she opened her legs for a man who is not her husband, or she got married to a temporary husband.

essentialone1:
why else? she opened her legs for a man who is not her husband, or she got married to a temporary husband.

So the guy also slept with a lady who is not his wife?

helinues:
So the guy also slept with a lady who is not his wife?

Guys don't get pregnant.

In a war, the one who has more to lose, should spearhead the call for a Ceasefire.

essentialone1:
Guys don't get pregnant.

In a war, the one who has more to lose, should spearhead the call for a Ceasefire.

I see, that might be the reason why we have so many dead beat father's lately

Every sensible man must avoid single mothers like plague.

Understand that She wouldn't date you if she wasn't a single mother. Also single mothers don't date, they are just looking for a Simp man who will help them pay their bills and train their child. Avoid them like plague

Most single fathers are no longer simps. They once were but the shege they saw that made them single fathers corrected their brains and made them experts in women affairs. Women especially single mothers who are mostly evil run from such men. It's a case of 'he knows I'm evil and he has the experience and capabilities to match my bad energy so let me avoid him'.

The single father will always put his child first before her. And that's something she can never accept.

Another thing is these single mothers come with a lot of baggage and past trauma. They know that any single man that is foolish enough to marry them is an automatic simp they can manipulate as they like.

helinues:
I see, that might be the reason why we have so many dead beat father's lately

Are you sure they are dead beats?...or these women are looking for a source of income just because they are baby mamas... most single mothers are rubbish

G0Oodharddick:
Every sensible man must avoid single mothers like plague.

Understand that She wouldn't date you if she wasn't a single mother. Also single mothers don't date, they are just looking for a Simp man who will help them pay their bills and train their child. Avoid them like plague

True.. I'm just getting out of one

Emu4u2c:
True.. I'm just getting out of one

It beats my imagination how single mothers even set standard for the kind of man they want despite they themselves are single mothers. Tueh!

Only finished men with low self-esteem and lack of abundance mindset stoop so low with a single mother.

helinues:
I see, that might be the reason why we have so many dead beat father's lately

It still does not change Nature

essentialone1:
It still does not change Nature

Nature of being irresponsible?

Like someone said they can't take what they dish , marrying or dating single women is huge risk.
Only keep around if is just to cure your sexual urge,other that ,it's a negative return.

The baby father will still be in the picture.

Nairaland men boys and single mothers, when will this fight end? ...

Whilst I would never marry a girl who isn't a virgin, talk more of a single mother, I won't talk down on them ...

They are humans, too, who deserve a chance at love. And just like every female, they have the right to set standards to ensure the same mistake doesn't happen twice ...

I know y'all don't want single mothers, agreed, but be mature enough not to throw insults at single mothers ...

You can state your preference without spitting venom at people. Make wuna try grow up abeg ...

Fahvvy:
Nairaland men boys and single mothers, when will this fight end? ...

Whilst I would never marry a girl who isn't a virgin, talk more of a single mother, I won't talk down on them ...

They are humans, too, who deserve a chance at love. And just like every female, they have the right to set standards to ensure the same mistake doesn't happen twice ...

I know y'all don't want single mothers, agreed, but be mature enough not to throw insults at single mothers ...

You can state your preference without spitting venom at people. Make wuna try grow up abeg ...

A son of a single mother spotted

Most women are not married to the man they actually love, rather they're married to the man who was "ready"
Ask almost any man to tell you about his wife he'll tell you "It was love at first sight"
Now ask the women about their husbands, they'll tell you "I wasn't really into him at first, but he grew on me"
And that's why most of these women are not happy in these marriages and end up frustrating their husbands, cheating on them and even divorcing them
Because they "settled"
100% of the time, if you didn't disvirgin her, she doesn't really love you, she settled for you
Men are in love, women are in business

essentialone1:
Most women are not married to the man they actually love, rather they're married to the man who was "ready"
Ask almost any man to tell you about his wife he'll tell you "It was love at first sight"
Now ask the women about their husbands, they'll tell you "I wasn't really into him at first, but he grew on me"
And that's why most of these women are not happy in these marriages and end up frustrating their husbands, cheating on them and even divorcing them
Because they "settled"
100% of the time, if you didn't disvirgin her, she doesn't really love you, she settled for you
Men are in love, women are in business

I have read your replies here,and I must say that you've got wisdom. Not like that idiot asking stupid questions. In politics section he acts stupid, coming to romancing section again,dude is still acting stupid. How can a grow up man be this stupid??

Because they both understand the game better.

Myrepublic:
I have read your replies here,and I must say that you've got wisdom. Not like that idiot asking stupid questions. In politics section he acts stupid, coming to romancing section again,dude is still acting stupid. How can a grow up man be this stupid??

Which person?

Avoid marrying single ladies who live alone. Most of them are...

Because they want someone to start afresh with

essentialone1:
Most women are not married to the man they actually love, rather they're married to the man who was "ready"
Ask almost any man to tell you about his wife he'll tell you "It was love at first sight"
Now ask the women about their husbands, they'll tell you "I wasn't really into him at first, but he grew on me"
And that's why most of these women are not happy in these marriages and end up frustrating their husbands, cheating on them and even divorcing them
Because they "settled"
100% of the time, if you didn't disvirgin her, she doesn't really love you, she settled for you
Men are in love, women are in business

This perspective suggests that many women marry men they're not truly in love with, often due to factors like timing, convenience, or pressure. The quotes highlight a perceived difference in how men and women approach marriage.

Key Points
- *Different approaches*: Men often report love at first sight, while women may describe growing into love or affection.
- *Settling vs. true love*: The idea is that women may settle for partners, leading to unhappiness and relationship issues.
- *Virginity and emotional investment*: The mention of "disvirgin her" implies a belief that a woman's emotional investment is tied to her sexual history.

Perspectives
- Some see this as a commentary on societal pressures, gender roles, and relationship dynamics.
- Others might argue that love and relationships are complex, and individual experiences vary widely.

Relationships involve many factors, including personal choices, cultural influences, and individual preferences.

Because they want a fresh man to start with and them are not fresh so single mother don't like single father lol
They know the man will always look after is child before anything so the woman will not want that .she want to be the first priority