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Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by SmellingAnus(m): 7:24am On Jan 26, 2025
No
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Kobicove(m): 7:26am On Jan 26, 2025
DrFunmisticGlow:
no dey knack release akamu inside person daughter if you no wan marry am.

No con dey disturb us with this nonsense wey you dey type here with baṣtard spirit.

Posts like yours are why abortion should be made legal, so that women will not fall victim to men without home training with an agenda to ruin destinies.
Whether abortion is legal or not people still do it
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Checkwell: 7:26am On Jan 26, 2025
AfroKnight:
Emmmm no.

Belle no be proposal.

If you believe your girlfriend is terrible and she would turn out to be a bad wife, my brother, avoid marrying her. Avoid a situation where she has legal rights to your abode, your food, your property and finances.

Highest! She go swear for you.

No be today. You too, swear for her back.

If her parents use oloopa to carry you, say you no wan marry their pikin, ehn no wahala, when you come out you too, use oloopa to carry her papa.

Give them craze for craze to the extent that her parents will be the ones advising her to avoid “useless husband”. grin grin Don’t be so shy or timid that you’d enter serious problem.

A bad wife is not an easy affliction to endure.

However, if your babe is your dream girl with compatible character and values, don’t miss the opportunity to marry her.

Regardless of your decision, be financially responsible for her during pregnancy.

Caveat: Do this last one ☝️ if you know the baby is yours.
Stupid writeup. You sound highly unreasonable. And you're not civil.
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by twilliamx(m): 7:26am On Jan 26, 2025
AfroKnight:
Emmmm no.

Belle no be proposal.

If you believe your girlfriend is terrible and she would turn out to be a bad wife, my brother, avoid marrying her. Avoid a situation where she has legal rights to your abode, your food, your property and finances.

Highest! She go swear for you.

No be today. You too, swear for her back.

If her parents use oloopa to carry you, say you no wan marry their pikin, ehn no wahala, when you come out you too, use oloopa to carry her papa.

Give them craze for craze to the extent that her parents will be the ones advising her to avoid “useless husband”. grin grin Don’t be so shy or timid that you’d enter serious problem.

A bad wife is not an easy affliction to endure.

However, if your babe is your dream girl with compatible character and values, don’t miss the opportunity to marry her.

Regardless of your decision, be financially responsible for her during pregnancy.

Caveat: Do this last one ☝️ if you know the baby is yours.
GREAT ADVICE
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Wealthoptulent(m): 7:27am On Jan 26, 2025
AfroKnight:
Emmmm no.

Belle no be proposal.

If you believe your girlfriend is terrible and she would turn out to be a bad wife, my brother, avoid marrying her. Avoid a situation where she has legal rights to your abode, your food, your property and finances.

Regardless of your decision, be financially responsible for her during pregnancy.
No be Force U take KNACK?

Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by eepeepook: 7:27am On Jan 26, 2025
Somebody will create a thread asking “what is the state of Nairaland?” Nairaland will remain useless as long as stupid topics like this make front page.
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by twilliamx(m): 7:27am On Jan 26, 2025
Mariangeles:
If you no want make God punish you, no go give "terrible" girl belle, then leave her O!
Leave her jeje make God work on her.
No go dey unfortunate.





You, wetin you wan talk? 🎤

E no dey kuku hard you to yarn rubbish about "bannies"
Na there them dey quick see you.
undecided
You see am for dream?
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Jeezuzpick(m): 7:27am On Jan 26, 2025
Depends on her family, and to a lesser degree, yours.

If her brothers threaten to kill you if you don't marry her, and there are cultists, cops, militants or soldiers among them, guy, just do the needful.

If she's from a rich family or she's an American citizen on holidays, you won't even be here asking a dumb question.

So, it depends mostly on her family.
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Nnamdipapa(m): 7:27am On Jan 26, 2025
DrFunmisticGlow:
abortion is better than being a single mama. But not having sex is the best option. The onus is on both of them to discuss what happens if there is a pregnancy before having sex. Both bear equal responsibility. But Men as usual will want to push more responsibility on women.
Ideally, both are supposed to bear equal responsibilities but in reality, the lady bears more responsibilities for the pregnancy. Men don't get or carry pregnancies.
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Uranos: 7:28am On Jan 26, 2025
Na me follow impregnate herhuh??
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by femi4: 7:29am On Jan 26, 2025
AfroKnight:
Emmmm no.

Belle no be proposal.

If you believe your girlfriend is terrible and she would turn out to be a bad wife, my brother, avoid marrying her. Avoid a situation where she has legal rights to your abode, your food, your property and finances.

Highest! She go swear for you.

No be today. You too, swear for her back.

If her parents use oloopa to carry you, say you no wan marry their pikin, ehn no wahala, when you come out you too, use oloopa to carry her papa.

Give them craze for craze to the extent that her parents will be the ones advising her to avoid “useless husband”. grin grin Don’t be so shy or timid that you’d enter serious problem.

A bad wife is not an easy affliction to endure.

However, if your babe is your dream girl with compatible character and values, don’t miss the opportunity to marry her.

Regardless of your decision, be financially responsible for her during pregnancy.

Caveat: Do this last one ☝️ if you know the baby is yours.
You must take care of the baby. Since you enjoy the sex, you must enjoy the responsibility that comes with it
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by essentialone(m): 7:30am On Jan 26, 2025
If you force a guy that does not love you to marry you, just because he got you pregnant, then anything bad thing you see in that marriage, just accept it.

If he does not love you now, chances are high that he will never ever love you.
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by AbujaLagos: 7:30am On Jan 26, 2025
Absolutely ño
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Benwallt(m): 7:33am On Jan 26, 2025
If you no marry her who wan come marry her Abi who you impregnate her for.
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by spiSeyi: 7:33am On Jan 26, 2025
It's by force bcs you led her into it, I knew that you would have told her many sweet words promise heaven and earth. Why men dey do like this grin
If you don't marry her you just created a lifetime problems for yourself and unborn kids..
The world is still dealing with Abraham mistake with Hagar. sad
that's why you shouldn't start what you can't finish while diving raw when you know that you don't want her as your wife undecided . #500 kiss would have stopped this nonsense
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by mushroomFarm: 7:33am On Jan 26, 2025
thesicilian:
Marrying a pregnant girlfriend is like studying a lifelong course just because you mistakenly walked into the classroom
Bros are you okay?
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by thesicilian: 7:33am On Jan 26, 2025
AfroKnight:
Correct. But only if she’s not your choice.

If she’s the one you want as a wife and she has the required qualities, the belle will help speed things up. grin
Lol.
That's true.
That's also what some ladies think, that the pregnancy will help speed things up, but they don't consider the possibility that the guy may not really be that into them.
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Dtruthspeaker: 7:34am On Jan 26, 2025
uuzba:
Is it by force to have sex with the girl when you're dating her?
Ask them oo.
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Fiscus105(m): 7:36am On Jan 26, 2025
eepeepook:
Somebody will create a thread asking “what is the state of Nairaland?” Nairaland will remain useless as long as stupid topics like this make front page.
The topics that people will learn from, full inside, but useless and uneducated topics keep hitting the front page, their missions still not clear.


IS IT BY FORCE TO MARRY A PREGNANT LADY? This type of topic hitting front page, on Sunday morning.

I imagine the personality of the mod that pushes this type of topic to front page, we are expecting them to push several topics that would demean Christian faith soonest.
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Dtruthspeaker: 7:36am On Jan 26, 2025
thesicilian:
Marrying a pregnant girlfriend is like studying a lifelong course just because you mistakenly walked into the classroom
That is why we say "no dey waka anyhow".
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Tonytonex(m): 7:38am On Jan 26, 2025
AfroKnight:
Emmmm no.

Belle no be proposal.

If you believe your girlfriend is terrible and she would turn out to be a bad wife, my brother, avoid marrying her. Avoid a situation where she has legal rights to your abode, your food, your property and finances.

Highest! She go swear for you.

No be today. You too, swear for her back.

If her parents use oloopa to carry you, say you no wan marry their pikin, ehn no wahala, when you come out you too, use oloopa to carry her papa.

Give them craze for craze to the extent that her parents will be the ones advising her to avoid “useless husband”. grin grin Don’t be so shy or timid that you’d enter serious problem.

A bad wife is not an easy affliction to endure.

However, if your babe is your dream girl with compatible character and values, don’t miss the opportunity to marry her.

Regardless of your decision, be financially responsible for her during pregnancy.

Caveat: Do this last one ☝️ if you know the baby is yours.
For some culture, it's compulsory. So think twice and know the girl's background and culture before indulging in an elicit act.
Some people na every hole dem dey chuk preeq in. Not minding the consequences. Repent!
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Winnin009: 7:38am On Jan 26, 2025
Nnamdipapa:
harder, harder! And yet, the dic.k is without condom while she is ovulating, what was she thinking about? Is she surprised at the pregnancy?

I will not attempt to argue but will point out that we are talking about two consenting adults. When two lovers have sex, the last thing on their mind is marriage. Now, both are supposed to be adults and consenting so it is assumed that a woman will not allow sex without protection like a condom on the dude. This is to protect from pregnancies and STI's. Also, the lady is able to use after sex pills to prevent pregnancies if no protection, she also is to know her own ovulation cycle.

You see where I am going? The ultimate loser in an unwanted pregnancy is the lady therefore she needs to put in extra protection in my opinion.

Also, I would suggest guys have a protection before sex. The lady is receiving the di.ck and the onus on her to ensure it is protected.

I have seen a situation where a marriage is forced after a pregnancy and it crushed the lady. Abortion or being a single mama may be way better that a forced marriage.
You this man and carrying woman matter on your head like goods for sale.

In all you wrote, no accountability from the man... Just the woman should do this, the woman should do that, the onus is on the woman to protect herself...

So that gives the man excuse to be randy and go about having unprotected sex because the onus falls on the woman... You need help. Woman matter no suppose dey rile you up to excitement like this. I can taste the excitement in your texts.

Bro, I've told you this before, you need a life.
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by thesicilian: 7:39am On Jan 26, 2025
mushroomFarm:
Bros are you okay?

Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Hotzone(m): 7:41am On Jan 26, 2025
Even marriage itself is not guaranteed
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Tzar(m): 7:41am On Jan 26, 2025
No it is not by force- also be mindful of paternity fraud! But you should take care of the child (within your means) after you conduct a DNA test. Watch out for the woman too. She will try to manipulate, exploit and hurt you using the child if you don't marry her... especially when DNA proves the child is truly yours.
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by DeNovo: 7:43am On Jan 26, 2025
Na wa o!

My brother as long as you think the girl good enough to put your p***k unprotected, she is good enough to wife.

Running from the consequence of unprotected s** does not make her bad. therefore if she is bad, leave her alone.. dont put her in a family way.

Belle na proposal o!!
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by JuanDeDios: 7:43am On Jan 26, 2025
AfroKnight:
Emmmm no.

Belle no be proposal.

If you believe your girlfriend is terrible and she would turn out to be a bad wife, my brother, avoid marrying her. Avoid a situation where she has legal rights to your abode, your food, your property and finances.

Highest! She go swear for you.

No be today. You too, swear for her back.

If her parents use oloopa to carry you, say you no wan marry their pikin, ehn no wahala, when you come out you too, use oloopa to carry her papa.

Give them craze for craze to the extent that her parents will be the ones advising her to avoid “useless husband”. grin grin Don’t be so shy or timid that you’d enter serious problem.

A bad wife is not an easy affliction to endure.

However, if your babe is your dream girl with compatible character and values, don’t miss the opportunity to marry her.

Regardless of your decision, be financially responsible for her during pregnancy.

Caveat: Do this last one ☝️ if you know the baby is yours.
grin
Right. Someone I know made that mistake once. Didn't end well.
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Oluwazeezu(m): 7:43am On Jan 26, 2025
not really by force sha but wetin make u give am belle in d first place wen u know say u no go marry am?
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by DrFunmisticGlow: 7:44am On Jan 26, 2025
Nnamdipapa:
Ideally, both are supposed to bear equal responsibilities but in reality, the lady bears more responsibilities for the pregnancy. Men don't get or carry pregnancies.
I am glad we can agree. But @ bolded is not a good attitude to have. Women are individuals too. Is it until someone impregnantes your sister and abscond that you will have a change of heart?
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by sparko1(m): 7:44am On Jan 26, 2025
1Sharon:
Na when belle enter una go remember say she get bad character.
It feels unimaginable, but a lady that smokes and drinks is only good for one thing.

It's actually very simple, there's a difference between snacks and meal, you can eat snacks anywhere, sometimes without washing your hands even, but a meal requires a dinning table, wash both hands, include wine, invite family and friends, even pray before eating.
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by DrFunmisticGlow: 7:46am On Jan 26, 2025
Tzar:
No it is not by force- also be mindful of paternity fraud! But you should take care of the child (within your means) after you conduct a DNA test. Watch out for the woman too. She will try to manipulate, exploit and hurt you using the child if you don't marry her... especially when DNA proves the child is truly yours.
oga, releasing inside a woman is consenting to paternity fraud.
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Tonytonex(m): 7:46am On Jan 26, 2025
Mariangeles:
If you no want make God punish you, no go give "terrible" girl belle, then leave her O!
Leave her jeje make God work on her.
No go dey unfortunate.





You, wetin you wan talk? 🎤

E no dey kuku hard you to yarn rubbish about "bannies"
Na there them dey quick see you.
undecided
this moniker get mouth oh.
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