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AfroKnight:
Emmmm no.

Belle no be proposal.

If you believe your girlfriend is terrible and she would turn out to be a bad wife, my brother, avoid marrying her. Avoid a situation where she has legal rights to your abode, your food, your property and finances.

Highest! She go swear for you.

No be today. You too, swear for her back.

If her parents use oloopa to carry you, say you no wan marry their pikin, ehn no wahala, when you come out you too, use oloopa to carry her papa.

Give them craze for craze to the extent that her parents will be the ones advising her to avoid “useless husband”. Don’t be so shy or timid that you’d enter serious problem.

A bad wife is not an easy affliction to endure.

However, if your babe is your dream girl with compatible character and values, don’t miss the opportunity to marry her.

Regardless of your decision, be financially responsible for her during pregnancy.

Caveat: Do this last one ☝️ if you know the baby is yours.

sparko1:
It feels unimaginable, but a lady that smokes and drinks is only good for one thing.

It's actually very simple, there's a difference between snacks and meal, you can eat snacks anywhere, sometimes without washing your hands even, but a meal requires a dinning table, wash both hands, include wine, invite family and friends, even pray before eating.

DrFunmisticGlow:
I am glad we can agree. But @ bolded is not a good attitude to have. Women are individuals too. Is it until someone impregnantes your sister and abscond that you will have a change of heart?

sparko1:
It feels unimaginable, but a lady that smokes and drinks is only good for one thing.

It's actually very simple, there's a difference between snacks and meal, you can eat snacks anywhere, sometimes without washing your hands even, but a meal requires a dinning table, wash both hands, include wine, invite family and friends, even pray before eating.

Nnamdipapa:
I will abort the pregnancy and hope my sistet or daughter learns her lessions. We should desist from the mentality of forcing marriages because of pregnancies, I have seen this destroy the man and woman.

Winnin009:
You this man and carrying woman matter on your head like goods for sale.

In all you wrote, no accountability from the man... Just the woman should do this, the woman should do that, the onus is on the woman to protect herself...

So that gives the man excuse to be randy and go about having unprotected sex because the onus falls on the woman... You need help. Woman matter no suppose dey rile you up to excitement like this. I can taste the excitement in your texts.

Bro, I've told you this before, you need a life.

Goodlady:
The best solution is to not sleep with who you can't marry. You men don't know it is not good for children to have single parents. Why not withhold your sexual urges.

SUPERPACK:
And what if that your daughter loses her womb or dies due to complications from the abortion?

DrFunmisticGlow:
reproduction is a two way street oga. Both share equal responsibility. If a useless man now decides to dip out of his responsibility for putting her in harms way by getting her pregnant and expecting her to suffer alone, should she not terminate the contract?

Men have always been the one to aviod responsibility, women are the one more at risk.

Do you know that a clinical trial to come up with MALA hormonal birth control was terminated because the men dropped out. The study had 380 men and 20 dropped out because of the side effects. When asking for the side effects, it is the very same ones in women's hormonal birth control used today. Yet government agencies approved it for women. Women didn't drop out of clinical trial because they know that the benefits of having control of when to have children, of being put in harm's way with pregnancy for the wrong man and so on, outweigh the side effects. Men can never see the bigger picture and always expect women to sacrifice for them because they are the real selfish ones

Even research is coming out that how EASY a woman's pregnancy IS being tied to the man's health. Pre-eclampsia is being tied to the father too as his DNA is responsible for the placenta. There's also research underway that women who end up having multiple early miscarriages, it may be due to the man's defective genes by at least 50%. Yet you men don't want to take responsibility for reproduction and fertility.

They drink, smoke, don't exercise, eat poorly, sleep with multiple women who give them all sorts of nasty infections and use that defective rubbish they call sperm to impregnate someone's daughter and leave her to suffer severe morning sickness and harmful health conditions during pregnancy.

What of cases like reproductive coercion, and rape?. You are the one trying to deflect responsibility. Gaslighting will not work here, go for a vasectomy or wear a condom if you don't want pregnancy from a certain lady. Even that is too much for you all to do.

Talk about a case of talking to the locust tree while pointing to the mulberry tree.

thesicilian:
Marrying a pregnant girlfriend is like studying a lifelong course just because you mistakenly walked into the classroom

Nnamdipapa:
She will adopt kids in the future. Look, I am not your typical Nigerian / African man.
Having kids is not a big priority and does not determine life happiness .

AfroKnight:
Emmmm no.

Belle no be proposal.

If you believe your girlfriend is terrible and she would turn out to be a bad wife, my brother, avoid marrying her. Avoid a situation where she has legal rights to your abode, your food, your property and finances.

Highest! She go swear for you.

No be today. You too, swear for her back.

If her parents use oloopa to carry you, say you no wan marry their pikin, ehn no wahala, when you come out you too, use oloopa to carry her papa.

Give them craze for craze to the extent that her parents will be the ones advising her to avoid “useless husband”. Don’t be so shy or timid that you’d enter serious problem.

A bad wife is not an easy affliction to endure.

However, if your babe is your dream girl with compatible character and values, don’t miss the opportunity to marry her.

Regardless of your decision, be financially responsible for her during pregnancy.

Caveat: Do this last one ☝️ if you know the baby is yours.

Mariangeles:
If you no want make God punish you, no go give "terrible" girl belle, then leave her O!
Leave her jeje make God work on her.
No go dey unfortunate.




You, wetin you wan talk? 🎤

E no dey kuku hard you to yarn rubbish about "bannies"
Na there them dey quick see you.

BABANGBALI:
It is not. Collect your babe and tell her off. Don't allow any biiitch to use pregnancy to tie you down when you don't love her

Silentgroper:
Omoh, the thing touch you oo ..



Naso Dem do you??


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AfroKnight:
Emmmm no.

Belle no be proposal.

If you believe your girlfriend is terrible and she would turn out to be a bad wife, my brother, avoid marrying her. Avoid a situation where she has legal rights to your abode, your food, your property and finances.

Highest! She go swear for you.

No be today. You too, swear for her back.

If her parents use oloopa to carry you, say you no wan marry their pikin, ehn no wahala, when you come out you too, use oloopa to carry her papa.

Give them craze for craze to the extent that her parents will be the ones advising her to avoid “useless husband”. Don’t be so shy or timid that you’d enter serious problem.

A bad wife is not an easy affliction to endure.

However, if your babe is your dream girl with compatible character and values, don’t miss the opportunity to marry her.

Regardless of your decision, be financially responsible for her during pregnancy.

Caveat: Do this last one ☝️ if you know the baby is yours.