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Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by LoneSoldier: 9:16am On Jan 26, 2025
Marriage is just a big time joke, women use pregnancy as a way to hold the man and also use that means to file a case against his will and take half of his hard earned gotten properties.... Nothing separates an African woman from western women, all are all snakes in disguise....

In all women's mind, they are wishing all men to fall for there traps so they can file a case and take all his properties and leave him with absolutely nothing....🤦

Bachelor for life!!!!
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Franky9584(m): 9:17am On Jan 26, 2025
1st; why U go give her belle when U ain't ready yet, USE CONDOM instead.

2nd; If by mistake she gets pregnant, PLS Kindly marry her if U like her, U ain't keeping it for anybody.

3rd; But pls if U ain't ready yet, pls ignore what people will say, take care of her pregnancy and explain to her, hope she undstands. Go Ur separate ways instead of allowing what people will say to enter into eternal hell.

4th; lastly, if possible brother, ABSTINENCE IS THE BEST
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Wickedlywicked:
DrFunmisticGlow:
abortion is better than being a single mama. But not having sex is the best option. The onus is on both of them to discuss what happens if there is a pregnancy before having sex. Both bear equal responsibility. But Men as usual will want to push more responsibility on women.
No I disagree. Marriage is a life-long contract btw two adults and it MUSTN'T be forced. When we decide to have sex, we aren’t signing agreement to get married. It’s this terrible mentality of yours that has made some ladies think getting pregnant for a man is the best way to ‘pin’ him down and some even do so with another man’s pregnancy. For your information, women don’t get pregnant by mistake. I agree that both are responsible and consenting but knowing fully well that women shoulder the higher burden when it comes to pregnancy, a reasonable woman would be more cautious about it and would only allow unprotected s3x and ejaculation if and only if pregnancy is something they both want.
For your own good, never use pregnancy to trap a man because you are never going to enjoy the so called marriage and he’s even going to taunt you with it in the future saying things like “na your type I suppose even marry?” Again, what happened to condoms, checking and reading of ovulation calendars and using of after pills? Pregnancies in most cases are deliberate or a result of gross negligence on the part of the females, so no tenable excuse whatsoever can share the responsibility 50/50 because the scar is never 50:50 for both genders should the man deny it.
Men also should refrain from “knacking and releasing” inside women you aren’t proud enough to wife but this is not enough to put yourself in a lifetime of misery.
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Womanizer(m): 9:26am On Jan 26, 2025
uuzba:
Is it by force to have sex with the girl when you're dating her?
Are you going to be looking at her like a television?
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Rubyjade: 9:31am On Jan 26, 2025
undecided
thesicilian:
Marrying a pregnant girlfriend is like studying a lifelong course just because you mistakenly walked into the classroom
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Lovestrong(m): 9:31am On Jan 26, 2025
1Sharon:
Na when belle enter una go remember say she get bad character.
lol! Even bastard spirit
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by DrFunmisticGlow: 9:32am On Jan 26, 2025
HenryWilliams:
All this epistle is pointless..
If the man doesn't want you,
Abort the pregnancy..
Don't keep it and start nagging about irresponsible men.
at least you agree that they are irresponsible
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Rubyjade: 9:34am On Jan 26, 2025
Who was begging for the sex?
Nnamdipapa:
Never let anyone blackmail you into a marriage unprepared, belle or not. She has the option to terminate the pregnancy if she does not want the title of a baby mama. When she had her legs raised in the air screaming, HARDER! HARDER! GIVE IT TO ME!, What was she thinking about? The sex was consensual and that was the end of business.

I REPEAT, never let the lady , her family, your family or ANYONE blackmail you into a marriage you are not prepared for. Having sex and marrying are two different kettle of fish. You may not even like her enough for marriage.

Wtf men!
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by bluefilm: 9:34am On Jan 26, 2025
thesicilian:
Marrying a pregnant girlfriend is like studying a lifelong course just because you mistakenly walked into the classroom
Damn!
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Rubyjade: 9:34am On Jan 26, 2025
1Sharon:
Na when belle enter una go remember say she get bad character.
No mind them.
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by complet: 9:34am On Jan 26, 2025
Yes because you did it
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by bixton(m): 9:34am On Jan 26, 2025
AfroKnight:
Emmmm no.

Belle no be proposal.

If you believe your girlfriend is terrible and she would turn out to be a bad wife, my brother, avoid marrying her. Avoid a situation where she has legal rights to your abode, your food, your property and finances.

Highest! She go swear for you.

No be today. You too, swear for her back.

If her parents use oloopa to carry you, say you no wan marry their pikin, ehn no wahala, when you come out you too, use oloopa to carry her papa.

Give them craze for craze to the extent that her parents will be the ones advising her to avoid “useless husband”. grin grin Don’t be so shy or timid that you’d enter serious problem.

A bad wife is not an easy affliction to endure.

However, if your babe is your dream girl with compatible character and values, don’t miss the opportunity to marry her.

Regardless of your decision, be financially responsible for her during pregnancy.

Caveat: Do this last one ☝️ if you know the baby is yours.
I did not read completely to the end.....
But why will you go to the extent of getting someone's else daughter pregnant and you know you don't have the intent of she becoming your wife !!!!!!
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Aguiyimba(m): 9:41am On Jan 26, 2025
SafetyFirst:
No. It's not enough reason on its own.
Marriage is for two mature minded adults who have agreed to work together to make it work.
Marriage no be childs play o!
Hmmmmmmm, if na your sister hope you go read this your comment to the guy responsible for her pregnancy
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Ficeo(m): 9:41am On Jan 26, 2025
There is an igbo adage that says: Meta onye di nma enyi, maka olulu! If translated it simply means; Get a good girlfriend incase it turns out to marriage. That's all I can say for now.
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by DigitB: 9:45am On Jan 26, 2025
But you saw her good for knacking.
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by aisha1314(f): 9:46am On Jan 26, 2025
idahme:
Women with zero accountability with victim mentality, what stops the girl from nit having sex if the man isn't with condoms? Always portraying women as victims pathetic
What also stops the lady from going on contraception too.
I don't typically use condoms when I have sex with my boyfriend but that's only because I'm on the combined pill and take it properly. If the girl isn't on any contraception then condoms are a must. Pulling out too.
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by mukthar2000(m): 9:48am On Jan 26, 2025
Rubbish advice' instead why not avoid her initially' instead of rejecting the pregnancy.
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by EMIOMOADEOYE: 9:53am On Jan 26, 2025
How did she get pregnant?

Did Angel Gabriel show up to give her news?

Abi na you Baltazar the place?

When you were doing it raw, what did you think was going to happen? That she would magically close the gates of her ovaries and no swimmer will get there?

The fact that you had no intention of marrying her and yet went ahead to impregnate her speaks volumes about the kind of person you yourself are.

Most people say they can't marry this person or that person because of this or that

Meanwhile, they do not even measure up to the standards they are setting for others.

If you give another girl belle wey you no marry am.....it can never be well with you.

Use your head next time you are gbenshing another man's future wife. That baby that will come out is your responsibility
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Anijay1212(m): 9:54am On Jan 26, 2025
thesicilian:
Marrying a pregnant girlfriend is like studying a lifelong course just because you mistakenly walked into the classroom
Ajeh...
You nailed it bro.
🤣🤣🤣
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Anijay1212(m): 9:55am On Jan 26, 2025
Gggjhhj:
Next they go about insulting single mothers, make them become single mother then follow single men to insult them. Why not avoid her when you observed those obnoxious behaviour.

Who you one keep her for, if you won't get married to her don't get her pregnant.
Very true.
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by EMIOMOADEOYE: 9:59am On Jan 26, 2025
LoneSoldier:
Marriage is just a big time joke, women use pregnancy as a way to hold the man and also use that means to file a case against his will and take half of his hard earned gotten properties.... Nothing separates an African woman from western women, all are all snakes in disguise....

In all women's mind, they are wishing all men to fall for there traps so they can file a case and take all his properties and leave him with absolutely nothing....🤦

Bachelor for life!!!!
You too don't fall into the trap.

Abi, they also controlled your legs and blokos into the trap?

Iya Lemuel, no be woman she be? Abi you did not read the advice she gave to her son?
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Hellisreal70: 9:59am On Jan 26, 2025
If the girl is a virgin and you defile her thereby getting her pregnant.
God said in the bible that you must pay her dowry and marry her.
And you must not divorce her
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by blaise26abj(m): 10:03am On Jan 26, 2025
Nothing in this life is by force
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by EMIOMOADEOYE: 10:05am On Jan 26, 2025
thesicilian:
Marrying a pregnant girlfriend is like studying a lifelong course just because you mistakenly walked into the classroom
The fact that this even had 41 likes makes me wonder.

Hold on a minute...

You met her....
You liked her....
You took her to bed...
Did not have the common sense to use protection...
You loaded her with fully virile and motile sperms....

Where is the mistake in all of this?

Dude....you walked into that classroom with your eyes wide open. Did you miss your Biology classes in high school?
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by EMIOMOADEOYE: 10:08am On Jan 26, 2025
Hellisreal70:
If the girl is a virgin and you defile her thereby getting her pregnant.
God said in the bible that you must pay her dowry and marry her.
And you must not divorce her
THANK YOU.....

Some people think they are being smart.

Meanwhile all they are doing is compounding the woes of their future.

That is how people will toil and toil and they wont know where the problem is coming from.
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Hellisreal70: 10:08am On Jan 26, 2025
blaise26abj:
Nothing in this life is by force
Na by force o
No be you give am belle ni?
You wan turn her to single mother after open your eyes with all your sense Bleep her

Check bible book exodus 22: 16
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Prettygirl200(f): 10:11am On Jan 26, 2025
AfroKnight:
Emmmm no.

Belle no be proposal.

If you believe your girlfriend is terrible and she would turn out to be a bad wife, my brother, avoid marrying her. Avoid a situation where she has legal rights to your abode, your food, your property and finances.

Highest! She go swear for you.

No be today. You too, swear for her back.

If her parents use oloopa to carry you, say you no wan marry their pikin, ehn no wahala, when you come out you too, use oloopa to carry her papa.

Give them craze for craze to the extent that her parents will be the ones advising her to avoid “useless husband”. grin grin Don’t be so shy or timid that you’d enter serious problem.

A bad wife is not an easy affliction to endure.

However, if your babe is your dream girl with compatible character and values, don’t miss the opportunity to marry her.

Regardless of your decision, be financially responsible for her during pregnancy.

Caveat: Do this last one ☝️ if you know the baby is yours.
Terrible girlfriend but you give am belle na thunder go damage you and your 15th generation to come. Nigerian girls make una no dey carry belle or sleep with these set of useless Nigerian boys una no go hear. Abortion is not illegal in Nigeria if the belle come comot am it's that simple!!
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Looking4Trouble: 10:13am On Jan 26, 2025
Mariangeles:
If you no want make God punish you, no go give "terrible" girl belle, then leave her O!
Leave her jeje make God work on her.
No go dey unfortunate.



i] undecided
Terrible girls are meant be fuccked and dump, any one wey carry belle, na her destiny be that
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Prettygirl200(f): 10:13am On Jan 26, 2025
Gggjhhj:
Next they go about insulting single mothers, make them become single mother then follow single men to insult them. Why not avoid her when you observed those obnoxious behaviour.

Who you one keep her for, if you won't get married to her don't get her pregnant.
very simple but No them wan form wetyn Dem no be and these set of useless things that calls themselves boys will come out to call single mothers names who decided to take responsibility of the child they abandoned. Death to all deadbeat father's.
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Prettygirl200(f): 10:15am On Jan 26, 2025
AfroKnight:
Emmmm no.

Belle no be proposal.

If you believe your girlfriend is terrible and she would turn out to be a bad wife, my brother, avoid marrying her. Avoid a situation where she has legal rights to your abode, your food, your property and finances.

Highest! She go swear for you.

No be today. You too, swear for her back.

If her parents use oloopa to carry you, say you no wan marry their pikin, ehn no wahala, when you come out you too, use oloopa to carry her papa.

Give them craze for craze to the extent that her parents will be the ones advising her to avoid “useless husband”. grin grin Don’t be so shy or timid that you’d enter serious problem.

A bad wife is not an easy affliction to endure.

However, if your babe is your dream girl with compatible character and values, don’t miss the opportunity to marry her.

Regardless of your decision, be financially responsible for her during pregnancy.

Caveat: Do this last one ☝️ if you know the baby is yours.
Death to all deadbeat Father's and may God bless the children of single mother's that were abandoned by a man. When the pikin grow and decides to wicked you back for what you did to their mum during old age na that time u go dey cry say the woman turn Dem against you? Shaaa I believe this generation of children body go dey tell all of una one by one. Useless things!!
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by timmydrogba(m): 10:18am On Jan 26, 2025
Mariangeles:
If you no want make God punish you, no go give "terrible" girl belle, then leave her O!
Leave her jeje make God work on her.
No go dey unfortunate.





You, wetin you wan talk? 🎤

E no dey kuku hard you to yarn rubbish about "bannies"
Na there them dey quick see you.
undecided
LOL grin
Hanhan now mariaaa 😂
Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Damzee5: 10:20am On Jan 26, 2025
Y did u put her in the family way, since u know u ain't ready to take responsibility....
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