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This isn't intended to defend 2face Innocent Idibia or patriarchy, as you may suppose. Instead, it approaches 2face’s decision to discontinue marriage to Annie Macaulay with minimal emotions unlike many reactions online/offline. Disagreeing with me doesn't erase this truth's existence regardless of how much it discomforts you.

Though I wished 2face-Annie divorce is fake news, 2face’s affirmation video surfaced. I wasn't delighted but rather compelled to contemplate how they got there, which would interest you. In fact, Annie shouldn't have married 2face. 2face never hid his insatiable appetite for women, hence baby mamas and children abundance and regard as “Abraham, father of many nations.” It indicated inability to commit, be loyal and love one woman in marriage. 2face wasn't innocent but Annie stayed optimistic about his character change. Why?

Annie crossed paths with 2baba as a teenager, growing so attached to him over several years together. As 2face philandered with results, it was natural sticking to him. But not all natural tendencies or feelings are in our best interest; we need filter them with reason. That was enough signal to cut her losses, walking away. Annie didn't. She endured repeated disloyalty from 2face and rewarded him with marriage. Whether marriage lasts for a lifetime or short-time depends on love’s conception.

Love is a decision, neither a feeling nor attachment, of commitment and loyalty to man's or woman's vision and values. 2face may have had a decent vision but his values indecent and insufficient to sustain a marriage. Love's cornerstone is reciprocity. One person's love is incapable of preserving any marriage; Annie’s love for 2face was unrequited but feelings blinded her, yielding divorce today. Don't let it blind you, too. People demotivated by this incident to marry showcase their ignorance. Annie neglected opportunities to decline marrying 2face during courtship, so blame her more than 2face.

©Kelechi O. Naze (KON)

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So, 2face himself can't realized that he lack the ability to commit to a lifelong relationship and therefore avoid marriage with her.

Except he explicitly inform her that he can't commit and won't make effort to commit and Annie accepted it, he is equally in the wrong.

The guy was never innocent

He is two faced...

What has having multiple women got to do with this divorce?
Did Annie confirm to you it was because of infidelity?
I hate when people act as over sabi on other peoples matters.
Bill Gates one of the worlds richest men split from his wife, so why can’t 2face split from his without these rubbish thoughts of infidelity

Make una dey rest for people private matters cos it will one day be your turn and people would analyze your divorce in ways you never fathomed

Tuface shouldnt have married and wedded annie. What he ought to do is to remain polygamist to his numerous baby mamas

You don't know the reason for their divorce...

This is mere speculation!

How 2face divorce saga take koinsain us nah?🤷‍♂️

See life

If 2Face was a Muslim with the rights to marry 4 wives nko? Annie no sabi when to fold. Possessiveness is how you lose out.

Why are people angry that a celebrity and social media personality announced his divorce on social media. Where else is he supposed to do it. Bill Gate called press conference for his own, Ay Makun and many other celebrities do same. Sometimes it is better to tell your story than allow bloggers to use you chase followers and tell the story in a false manner. He didn't slander her , he didn't say she did bad (at least in the initial post) . He simply announced their separation.

If your wife dey follow you up with juju, no run o. Stay there.

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I just weak.
I don't know what to comment

You cannot give what u don't have. 2 face was never anyone's idea of a good husband material. He already honored her with all he had by marrying her but She could have cut her losses and walked away long time ago and the public sympathy would have been with her. Now any emotion she displays will only be uses against her.

Stevenbright:
So, 2face himself can't realized that he lack the ability to commit to a lifelong relationship and therefore avoid marriage with her.

Except he explicitly inform her that he can't commit and won't make effort to commit and Annie accepted it, he is equally in the wrong.

She didn't realize that tuface is a polygamist and wanted a monogamous relationship with a man who has plethora of women at his disposal leading to her fighting wars she should never has started in the first place someone with different baby mamas and you expect him to behave like a monogamist? Snot possible

idahme:
She didn't realize that tuface is a polygamist and wanted a monogamous relationship with a man who has plethora of women at his disposal leading to her fighting wars she should never has started in the first place someone with different baby mamas and you expect him to behave like a monogamist? Snot possible

Hmmm. I even heard idoma men are highly polygamous in nature.

Tu Face and Annie deserved each other. While Tu Face was cheating on Annie, she was also doing the same.

She was married, but still wanted to enjoy the life of a single girl- partying, clubbing, smoking and abusing substance.

It annoys me that she is raising two girls and still living a wayward lifestyle as if she were single.

As for Tu Face, he is a very weak and promiscuous man who can't control his libido.

In the end, it is their children who will be deeply affected. However, I think their decision to part ways is for the best.

Mom007:
You cannot give what u don't have. 2 face was never anyone's idea of a good husband material. He already honored her with all he had by marrying her but She could have cut her losses and walked away long time ago and the public sympathy would have been with her. Now any emotion she displays will only be uses against her.

They are somewhere on Twitter claiming 99% of us would love to be Annie. Except their mama, wives and sisters follow inside the 99%. Because some of us have always made our stands clear on community husbands.

The babymamas got a better deal than Annie the longsuffering chosen one. Men know who to fck and who to marry indeed...

She should better not disturb us on social media. We stand with 2face. 🤸‍♀️🤸‍♀️🤸‍♀️

Klass99:
Lol . All of you combined, from the north, south, east and west of Nigeria are highly polygamous and promiscuous in nature. It is not a thing with Idoma men alone, it is an epidemic with Nigerian men!

The national anthem of the logical gender is, MEN ARE POLYGAMOUS IN NATURE I had to capitalise that for emphasis. Don't discriminate or qualify that slogan now. I'm flowing with the logic that has been repeatedly put out there, so no logical gender person should take offence.

Tuface has been consistent with that logic no one from his gender should criticise or crucify him either. His hit songs you no holy pass and amaka, come to mind. The opening statement of the amaka song is cracking me up right now - I like woman o, I dey straightforward!

You and the "Logical gender" thing sha. Take it easy on the logical gender because your over generalization is killing!

Sincerely, men and women can be promiscuous, it just depends on individuals and maybe to some extent "tribe" even though the second part of my assertion will be difficult to prove.

And like you said Tuface never pretended about his doings that is why people are surprised that she is so concerned about it when she knew about it even before getting married to him officially.

Still, Tuface was equally inconsiderate if he continued those ways of life after marriage knowing that it could negatively affect his spouse.

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Your thoughts on Nigeria men being highly polygamous and promiscuous in nature and at an epidemic level is amusing and I feel like leaving it at that because sharing my views about it might compel me to write long epistles.

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Klass99:
You all need to stay in one place with the logic.

The "You all" as used by you here is the generalization I am talking about. All men can't be guilty of the statement you are referring to.

For instance, many ladies do low-key olosho in the name of "friends with benefits". Will it be right to generalize by saying all women are of that nature? Or some women are guilty of paternity fraud, will it be right to generalize by saying all women are of the this nature too?

You get it, right!!