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Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by charlsecy(m): 6:10pm On Feb 03, 2025
GistMedia0:
Others have expressed concerns over the body-shaming comment, particularly his dislike of "fat girls."
Not liking fat girls is body-shaming?
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by dheilaw1(m): 6:12pm On Feb 03, 2025
Jennyclay:
Who told you Yeye men that a virgin lady makes a good wife undecided. Look at how he even capitalized it. Mtcheww!
Any woman can make your life miserable wether she’s a virgin or not. undecided

Is not as if he’s a virgin either undecided

Bunch of randy men everywhere looking for virgin!!
Shior!!
he's not the one responsible for your 103 body counts..
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by Sonofgod1990(m): 6:21pm On Feb 03, 2025
Nelllson:
Baba, 2k is enough.
6762208954
Monie point
I letter learnt it was a copy and paste you did shocked
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by simpleseyi: 6:25pm On Feb 03, 2025
Jennyclay:
Who told you Yeye men that a virgin lady makes a good wife undecided. Look at how he even capitalized it. Mtcheww!
Any woman can make your life miserable wether she’s a virgin or not. undecided

Is not as if he’s a virgin either undecided

Bunch of randy men everywhere looking for virgin!!
Shior!!
Cry well well
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by Thazard(m): 6:37pm On Feb 03, 2025
Nelllson:
close ur legs, u no gree close am… well, I understand say u need to survive.

Let me briefly give u a breakdown why we Alpha males need a virgin:
1. Virgins are tear-rubber, untouched. You get to commission her.

2. No abortion.

3. She has a higher chance to remain faithful when married to me. Someone that defeated fornication can't fall for adultery.

4. You won't worry about paternity fraud.

5. They are the perfect role model for our children in terms of sexual purity.

6. They have a higher chance of bringing a saviour to the world.

7. No ex trauma and baggage.

It is not easy to control the hormones responsible for sex cravings. Virgins deserve a Grammy and Oscar.

If you disagree, then tell us the benefits of marrying an Olosho.

I don drop my mic.
grin grin grin
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by Tallesty1(m): 6:40pm On Feb 03, 2025
GloriousGbola:
That is the exact vibe I got and why I assumed the guy is trolling. It honestly sounds like what these chicks push out all the time. Looking for the ultra complete and perfect man
A guy couldn't get his girlfriend a gift for her birthday because he was having financial problems. Meanwhile, the lady received money from several other guys, even a flower bouquet, and posted it on her WhatsApp status. The guy saw it and sent it to an influencer, asking for advice.

The influencer shared it, and the comments were wild. Some blamed him, some told him to move on because she had no respect for him, and others supported the girl, arguing that a man shouldn't allow another man to outgift him on his girl's birthday.

Men clapped back, asking what these people knew about the guy’s finances—he could be a student or in his early twenties. But the ladies wouldn’t have it. They said he shouldn’t date if he didn’t have money and should focus on making money first.

That’s case one.

Case two: A guy in his late twenties posted that he had nothing—no house, no car, still living with his parents. Men who made their first million in their mid-30s shared their stories to encourage him.

Then some ladies started saying that if you’re in your twenties with no house or car and still living with your parents, you’re a failure.

That’s why the guy made this post, and suddenly, the same ladies started complaining that he shouldn’t expect a 24-year-old to be financially stable because most of them are still in school.

It’s a gender war.

cc Pocohantas
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by Thazard(m): 6:41pm On Feb 03, 2025
MasterJayJay:
Even those wey dey suffer from erectile dysfunction will come online to brag Dem dey fuc* up and down.

Always opening mouth waaaaaaa. Because she gave you her virginity certificate when she was married?

Lai Lai Mohammed

Babablu bulabu
grin grin grin
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by freddie009(m): 7:05pm On Feb 03, 2025
bikefab:
Everyone seem to be running away from fat girls, who will marry them?
Guys running after big yansh and boobs during dating when it comes to marriage nah lepa them they follow.
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by freddie009(m): 7:07pm On Feb 03, 2025
Majesty33:
Guy man Joshua, pls look for a woman that loves you genuinely cos virginity doesnt guarantee a good woman with moral virtues. I currently discharged one just 2 weeks ago. A virgin with terrible character. Well, if u have a virgin with good character, good for u.
Virgins usually have this terrible character. They usually stubborn and stingy.


Me nah novice babe I dey find, some girls their eye don tear go back they every tricks behind the book.
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by Dalohad: 7:42pm On Feb 03, 2025
Jennyclay:
Who told you Yeye men that a virgin lady makes a good wife undecided. Look at how he even capitalized it. Mtcheww!
Any woman can make your life miserable wether she’s a virgin or not. undecided

Is not as if he’s a virgin either undecided

Bunch of randy men everywhere looking for virgin!!
Shior!!
I was expecting this nonsense. A man has the right to choose, even if he wants Queen Eliza's daughter, it is not your business.

Stop gaslighting and blackmailing men who know what they want and say it. It is their choice not yours..

When you women were younger, a promising guy will keep chasing you, you keep taking their money and friendzoning. He leaves women and decides to chase money full time.

He is now in his prime and well-to-do, yet you want him to settle for your old ass in your late 30s when you are close to menopausal termination.

Sorry, he cannot lose in his 20s and in his 30s. Kolework.

He has money now, he can go for your younger sisters in their feminine prime. He deserves it.
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by AfDapone: 7:55pm On Feb 03, 2025
Jennyclay:
Who told you Yeye men that a virgin lady makes a good wife undecided. Look at how he even capitalized it. Mtcheww!
Any woman can make your life miserable wether she’s a virgin or not. undecided

Is not as if he’s a virgin either undecided

Bunch of randy men everywhere looking for virgin!!
Shior!!
Who send you to lose your own virginity over a bottle of coca cola.

You are the one who has a good thing that you couldn't keep.
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by zubinike(m): 8:02pm On Feb 03, 2025
GistMedia0:
A 36-year-old man named Joshua has taken to social media to announce his search for a partner, and his candid list of requirements has gone viral, igniting intense reactions online. shocked

In his post, Joshua, who describes himself as single and financially stable, outlines a list of specific conditions that his potential partner must meet. The requirements, which range from physical attributes to lifestyle expectations, have drawn criticism for their stringent and, in some cases, controversial nature.

Joshua’s post reads:

"Hi, my name is Joshua.
Age: 36y/o Status: Single
Genotype: AA
Blood group: O+


Choice of partner:

(1) Must be a VIRGIN
(2) Not older than 24
(3) Must be doing well for herself financially
(4) Dark skin is preferred
(5) Money is not a problem for me.

Note: I don't like FAT girls."


The post has caused a stir, with many criticizing his narrow view on relationships, especially the insistence on his partner being a virgin and under a specific age. Others have expressed concerns over the body-shaming comment, particularly his dislike of "fat girls."
This is Valid of he himself is a V too.....
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by Afolue(m): 8:08pm On Feb 03, 2025
As a man that he is, for as long as he has defeated poverty, he will definitely get what he wants. His lines are beeping already as we speak. They are there, and a chatting him up already. Money speaking... Him own no hard
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by advanceDNA: 8:12pm On Feb 03, 2025
Jennyclay:
Who told you Yeye men that a virgin lady makes a good wife undecided. !
Did u see "good wife" in his criteria list??

Guy man never said he's looking for a good wife...

Somebody's choice is just vexing you for no reason
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by Ishilove: 8:24pm On Feb 03, 2025
Doing well financially at the age of 24?? In this current economy? Are your sisters doing well financially at that age?

Stinginess plus senselessness dey worry this one
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by Omoejigbahe(m): 8:26pm On Feb 03, 2025
Jennyclay:
Who told you Yeye men that a virgin lady makes a good wife undecided. Look at how he even capitalized it. Mtcheww!
Any woman can make your life miserable wether she’s a virgin or not. undecided

Is not as if he’s a virgin either undecided

Bunch of randy men everywhere looking for virgin!!
Shior!!
Olosho don vex
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by Ishilove: 8:30pm On Feb 03, 2025
123readygo:
Lol. Virginity should be amongst the least of virtues a man should be looking out for in a woman. I made the same mistake two decades ago and I’m still paying the price till date.

I’m the only person in my family tree that suffers HBP; thanks to a virgin wife
They won't listen. While virginity is a very admirable trait, especially in this age of shameless sexual immorality, it shouldn't be the determining factor in the choice of a life partner because Jezebel was once a virgin and Christians know how she messed up the lives of everyone around her.
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by cococandy(f): 8:32pm On Feb 03, 2025
123readygo:
Lol. Virginity should be amongst the least of virtues a man should be looking out for in a woman. I made the same mistake two decades ago and I’m still paying the price till date.

I’m the only person in my family tree that suffers HBP; thanks to a virgin wife
Lol
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by Ishilove: 8:33pm On Feb 03, 2025
ednut1:
Most of these 36 years old men are already battling erectile dysfunction o. Can u handle her?
What could be the cause?
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by Inosky: 8:43pm On Feb 03, 2025
I like his choice.

Virgins make wife materials but I have met few virgin girls but their stature and mentality didn't yield me into to stick, even though it's my innermost intend to marry one.
I wish I could see a coolheaded and very attractive one to marry.
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by Nazgul: 8:45pm On Feb 03, 2025
pocohantas:
Thank you!!
So there is a backstory? 😂
Car and house in twenties ke?
I need to get active on Twitter. Seems Nairaland does incomplete copy and paste.
You want to become active on Twitter that has more vile creatures than Nairaland?

Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by Dshocker(m): 9:04pm On Feb 03, 2025
Jennyclay:
Who told you Yeye men that a virgin lady makes a good wife undecided. Look at how he even capitalized it. Mtcheww!
Any woman can make your life miserable wether she’s a virgin or not. undecided

Is not as if he’s a virgin either undecided

Bunch of randy men everywhere looking for virgin!!
Shior!!
Its a lie, virgins make more of a better wife, than non virgins 😂

I know you are angry deep down, because you aren't a virgin, so respect his decision.
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by jonadaft: 9:09pm On Feb 03, 2025
Jennyclay:
Who told you Yeye men that a virgin lady makes a good wife undecided. Look at how he even capitalized it. Mtcheww!
Any woman can make your life miserable wether she’s a virgin or not. undecided

Is not as if he’s a virgin either undecided

Bunch of randy men everywhere looking for virgin!!
Shior!!
It's better for a virgin to make your life miserable than to allow a slųt who has been ran through and passed around by multiple guys to make YOUR LIFE miserable.
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by jonadaft: 9:17pm On Feb 03, 2025
Kobicove:
His search will be very long...

By the way only a virgin has any right to insist on also marrying a virgin! undecided
Or deh
Noodles must have replaced the Grey matter in your head.
So any girl that only wants a
Tall
Rich
Dark-skinned guy
Must also be Tall, rich and dark too?
Some of you just reason with your anus I swear
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by jonadaft: 9:18pm On Feb 03, 2025
DaudaTheSexyGuy:
Make una dey deceive unaself, I don bang married woman wey them marry as virgin grin

I have the master key to open any toto grin
You are condemned
You will never be with a loyal partner and your daughters to will grow to be whoŕes.
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by ednut1(m): 9:18pm On Feb 03, 2025
Ishilove:
What could be the cause?
poor lifestyle choices, excessive alcohol, drug abuse, lack of exercise, too much masturbation etc. isreal DMW an almost 40 years old man went to marry 22 years old virgin. The virgin told him he was not performing in bed 😂

Even me in my 20s i could do 5 rounds . In my 30s max i can do is 3 or else i will sleep off😂
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by Acidosis(m): 9:44pm On Feb 03, 2025
Everyone, male and female, should be "brutal" when it comes to life-changing decisions. If you are going to commit, trust someone with your life, and even have children together, be sure your decisions are the result of a rigorous process.

If you can't stand the thought of being with a woman or man with a dirty past, better stay away. You and only you alone with deal with the consequences. Do not adopt someone else's specs.
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by Nefort: 9:46pm On Feb 03, 2025
Nelllson:
close ur legs, u no gree close am… well, I understand say u need to survive.

Let me briefly give u a breakdown why we Alpha males need a virgin:
1. Virgins are tear-rubber, untouched. You get to commission her.

2. No abortion.

3. She has a higher chance to remain faithful when married to me. Someone that defeated fornication can't fall for adultery.

4. You won't worry about paternity fraud.

5. They are the perfect role model for our children in terms of sexual purity.

6. They have a higher chance of bringing a saviour to the world.

7. No ex trauma and baggage.

It is not easy to control the hormones responsible for sex cravings. Virgins deserve a Grammy and Oscar.

If you disagree, then tell us the benefits of marrying an Olosho.

I don drop my mic.
All these things you typed are a load of crap. As long as you men go about sleeping with as many girls as you can, those girls you took their virginity will be what is left for you all to marry.
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by TTPAAR(m): 9:48pm On Feb 03, 2025
Nelllson:
close ur legs, u no gree close am… well, I understand say u need to survive.

Let me briefly give u a breakdown why we Alpha males need a virgin:
1. Virgins are tear-rubber, untouched. You get to commission her.

2. No abortion.

3. She has a higher chance to remain faithful when married to me. Someone that defeated fornication can't fall for adultery.

4. You won't worry about paternity fraud.

5. They are the perfect role model for our children in terms of sexual purity.

6. They have a higher chance of bringing a saviour to the world.

7. No ex trauma and baggage.

It is not easy to control the hormones responsible for sex cravings. Virgins deserve a Grammy and Oscar.

If you disagree, then tell us the benefits of marrying an Olosho.

I don drop my mic.
U killed it bro.
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by 1Sharon(f): 9:52pm On Feb 03, 2025
grin
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by plessis: 10:00pm On Feb 03, 2025
richie240:
I support him 100%.
Even after finding the virgin, he must ensure she's not on social media (tiktok, instagram etc) except she's using it to promote her biznaze!


You're absolutely right. Eve was a virgin, but look at the result. If men know what they SHOULD know, I doubt if any one of them will try marriage in the first instance!
cool
I cannot live in the same house with a woman. Not even my mother. I'm always in a hurry to discharge them because I no like their entitlement mentality. Na so I wooze one foolish girl for ATM stand. The foolish girl enter my front, instead make she beg me make i allow am, she dey cut eye for me.
Re: 36-Year-Old Man’s Strict Search for Virgin Wife Sparks Uproar (Photo) by Sparrk007(m): 6:33am On Feb 04, 2025
The guy no want marry be that
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