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Re: Why Is She Scared Of Having Sex With Me? by galantjoe(m): 5:49am On Feb 07, 2025
Break up with her for your sanity sake. A girl that behaves such is always still water runs deep.
Re: Why Is She Scared Of Having Sex With Me? by galantjoe(m): 5:53am On Feb 07, 2025
saintbillion:
Of all the problems in the country, ur choose to be sex. I'm quite sure u can't afford to eat 2 times a day cause u don't have chairs in ur room talkmore of you buying pampers and catering for a newborn baby. The girl is wise, very wise. I pray he finds the right man that loves her and not pervert like u.
People wants vary. Your priority is not another person priority. One's meat is another man's poison.


Stop using economic situation of this country to deny yourself happy moment that will make you happy and ensure that you remain happy thru out this BATified period
Re: Why Is She Scared Of Having Sex With Me? by SamuraiXXX: 6:14am On Feb 07, 2025
Lalami3232:
cheesy
I would have loved to analyze this issue but I won't because it seems you're just there for the sex. Both of una know each other so well, so una dey play game. She know say if she gives you kpekus, you will soon leave her, while you know say if you no collect the kpekus, she will give it to someone else out there grin. Make una dey play una games and I pray say "may the smartest win".
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

Oga if you no meet your wife as a virgin, oga go for DNA test oooooooo because non-virgins aka boreholes can't be trusted atall atall
Stale!
Re: Why Is She Scared Of Having Sex With Me? by Dtruthspeaker: 7:00am On Feb 07, 2025
JOACHINpedro:
Try being a woman a day in Nigeria, you go understand say societal pressure choke.
First, we bodyshame women for having multiple BC. So why will she settle for knacks in few weeks of dating?
And mind you, being desperate to get into her pant is a strong indicator that you came into the relationship to chop her and you fit clean mouth. Her body wants it but she is not sure she is ready to add you to her bodycount.
I no get advise for you cus it's obvious that relationship was not defined.
Make una continue dey deceive unasef
Did she not sell sex? So he is buying sex and both of them are playing games with the transaction so that they do not make losses.
Re: Why Is She Scared Of Having Sex With Me? by Dtruthspeaker: 7:01am On Feb 07, 2025
Meteng:
She’s learnt from her experience of being chopped and abandoned by many guys
Lies!

She is just playing games trying to ensure that her plans work
Re: Why Is She Scared Of Having Sex With Me? by Dtruthspeaker: 7:06am On Feb 07, 2025
Skooltynz:
Because if I don't another man will woman are like pendulum
They will still pound her like yam and pestle even after you, so you are still in the same spot
Re: Why Is She Scared Of Having Sex With Me? by Baronthecelebri(m): 7:24am On Feb 07, 2025
Leave her
Re: Why Is She Scared Of Having Sex With Me? by idahme(m): 7:57am On Feb 07, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Now you have moved post to impose and he was not imposing. He only gave his version of instruction which you and him both know that you have a right to reject.
He called him a pervert is that depressing his opinions too or condemning? Does he know the meaning of pervert? Does the narration of OP make him a pervert or is it not acceptable in the society? He even went ahead to say he is not fit for the girl because to him the OP doesn't have money. If that's not condemning don't know what condemning means
Re: Why Is She Scared Of Having Sex With Me? by idahme(m): 7:59am On Feb 07, 2025
Lanmonfishery:
Follow my steps and watch her beg u for sex

Continue to be a loving guy, even this time be more caring than before
When she tries to kiss u, don’t let it be. Do like u no Dey feel an if she near u
Be distant from her but still shower her with love and care
Invite her again but this time don’t even go near her, make her feel like u have no interest in touching her
Ignore passionate eye contact
Be more mature, no force conversations
Find a game to play maybe ludo or card game
After a few hours discharge her, don’t kiss her just hug and turn back

Reason: she will go home thinking her brains out like what is wrong with her, but this guy is always all oVer me

Do it again
After the third time try enter her and u go see she go open leg, I bet with u



Thank me later
Bad boy
Re: Why Is She Scared Of Having Sex With Me? by Exceed15: 9:36am On Feb 07, 2025
Unwanted pregnancy and STD/HIV .
Re: Why Is She Scared Of Having Sex With Me? by Flows001(m): 10:25am On Feb 07, 2025
saintbillion:
Of all the problems in the country, ur choose to be sex. I'm quite sure u can't afford to eat 2 times a day cause u don't have chairs in ur room talkmore of you buying pampers and catering for a newborn baby. The girl is wise, very wise. I pray he finds the right man that loves her and not pervert like u.
Re: Why Is She Scared Of Having Sex With Me? by AKWATGOLD1(m): 11:08am On Feb 07, 2025
No be every dog is eatable. From your statement, it clearly shows that you just want to get between her two legs.
Skooltynz:
My new girl is always acting scared and strange whenever I make move towards having sex with her,this girl has shown that she really loves me but she is always afraid of sex with me,when we first met it took up to a month before she agreed to come to my house,when she visited she sat on a chair a placed outside of my door post, I have to quote an epistle of sweet sermons before she agreed to enter inside my room. she even carried the chair with her to my room because there is no chair in my room I regret keeping that chair close to door.. angry
The day she visited first she refuse to sit on my bed, she just sat close to my door and gisted with me ,I went to sit with her on the chair kissed her and press her breast then I tried to carry her like a baby to my bed she screamed and bit my arm.. angry

Omo I am starting to get frustrated,from my observations my girl is not the wild type,but I know she is not a virgin,the funny thing is the moment we left my room just outside my door she hugged me again and started our normal cuddling ,hugging and kissing,she will let me touch everything in her body but she will , but she will never do it when we are inside the room,she will try to keep distance from me,I asked her why she does so,she said she doesn't trust her feelings that it may dissapoint her.
I am beginning to get tired of the relationship because I love sex and cannot be in a sexless relationship because women are unpredictable,if I quit asking for sex from her she may give it to another guy outside in the long run and nothing hurts a man more than that,I am beginning to get confused wether to patient maybe she will give me chop very soon or she is just playing with my head.
Re: Why Is She Scared Of Having Sex With Me? by Smilleydr(m): 11:56am On Feb 07, 2025
saintbillion:
Of all the problems in the country, ur choose to be sex. I'm quite sure u can't afford to eat 2 times a day cause u don't have chairs in ur room talkmore of you buying pampers and catering for a newborn baby. The girl is wise, very wise. I pray he finds the right man that loves her and not pervert like u.
baba if na problem you won talk about, problem no dey finish ooo, e better make everybody just dey do waittin go make am happy, so far no be suiicide matter Op dey talk about


abeg leave am make e dey enjoy dey go.
Re: Why Is She Scared Of Having Sex With Me? by Smilleydr(m): 12:21pm On Feb 07, 2025
Lanmonfishery:
Follow my steps and watch her beg u for sex

Continue to be a loving guy, even this time be more caring than before
When she tries to kiss u, don’t let it be. Do like u no Dey feel an if she near u
Be distant from her but still shower her with love and care
Invite her again but this time don’t even go near her, make her feel like u have no interest in touching her
Ignore passionate eye contact
Be more mature, no force conversations
Find a game to play maybe ludo or card game
After a few hours discharge her, don’t kiss her just hug and turn back

Reason: she will go home thinking her brains out like what is wrong with her, but this guy is always all oVer me

Do it again
After the third time try enter her and u go see she go open leg, I bet with u



Thank me later
This thing don work for me befor oooo, As i don make several attempt wey d babe no give me chop, i just kuku ma luck

But we stiil hug and kiss, but i no make any attempt of sex again, One day she ask me say when did i av sex last i say na yesterday night,

i say but i use condom shaa oo, she come ask who be that, i tell am na just one of my casual friend like that say base on say me don make attempt in her now and as she no won give me and congi dey my body na why i look for alternative

low and behold third day she just wear only polo no pant no bra, for my mind i say today na fire ooo

as we sleep on bed naso she carry d yarns rub my d, nasoo my lingu rise ooo, to my greatest suprise as i drill am bro na serious bolehold wey don slack, omo i no fit go second round self because d thing just tired me, i no expect say things go don spoil reach that level.
Re: Why Is She Scared Of Having Sex With Me? by Dtruthspeaker: 3:24pm On Feb 07, 2025
idahme:
He called him a pervert is that depressing his opinions too or condemning? Does he know the meaning of pervert? Does the narration of OP make him a pervert or is it not acceptable in the society? He even went ahead to say he is not fit for the girl because to him the OP doesn't have money. If that's not condemning don't know what condemning means
I did not see that one oo. I don't fully read comments. Once I read the beginning I know the flow. And true, he was too invasive. Syrusfineboy, abeg no ves. Saintbillion, you no talk well. For, for cases like this, you can not force morality on people.
Re: Why Is She Scared Of Having Sex With Me? by Lanmonfishery(m): 5:15pm On Feb 07, 2025
Smilleydr:
This thing don work for me befor oooo, As i don make several attempt wey d babe no give me chop, i just kuku ma luck

But we stiil hug and kiss, but i no make any attempt of sex again, One day she ask me say when did i av sex last i say na yesterday night,

i say but i use condom shaa oo, she come ask who be that, i tell am na just one of my casual friend like that say base on say me don make attempt in her now and as she no won give me and congi dey my body na why i look for alternative

low and behold third day she just wear only polo no pant no bra, for my mind i say today na fire ooo

as we sleep on bed naso she carry d yarns rub my d, nasoo my lingu rise ooo, to my greatest suprise as i drill am bro na serious bolehold wey don slack, omo i no fit go second round self because d thing just tired me, i no expect say things go don spoil reach that level.
Very painful issue
After all attempt, na come borehole the thing be
Omoh the second round na head I go demand
If she no gree, play the card again😂😂
Re: Why Is She Scared Of Having Sex With Me? by Smilleydr(m): 5:24pm On Feb 07, 2025
Lanmonfishery:
Very painful issue
After all attempt, na come borehole the thing be
Omoh the second round na head I go demand
If she no gree, play the card again😂😂
bro my prick no gree rise again ooo,
that s the first ttime i go experience borehole for my life
the werey even dey say hit harder when i don already cum
Re: Why Is She Scared Of Having Sex With Me? by badblackgod: 5:32pm On Feb 07, 2025
Lanmonfishery:
Follow my steps and watch her beg u for sex

Continue to be a loving guy, even this time be more caring than before
When she tries to kiss u, don’t let it be. Do like u no Dey feel an if she near u
Be distant from her but still shower her with love and care
Invite her again but this time don’t even go near her, make her feel like u have no interest in touching her
Ignore passionate eye contact
Be more mature, no force conversations
Find a game to play maybe ludo or card game
After a few hours discharge her, don’t kiss her just hug and turn back

Reason: she will go home thinking her brains out like what is wrong with her, but this guy is always all oVer me

Do it again
After the third time try enter her and u go see she go open leg, I bet with u



Thank me later
One of the 48 laws of power states ' conceal your intentions'.. Let her be the one to ask for it..
Re: Why Is She Scared Of Having Sex With Me? by Lanmonfishery(m): 7:44pm On Feb 07, 2025
Smilleydr:
bro my prick no gree rise again ooo,
that s the first ttime i go experience borehole for my life
the werey even dey say hit harder when i don already cum
😂😂😂
No be small issue o
Re: Why Is She Scared Of Having Sex With Me? by Skooltynz(op): 7:50pm On Feb 07, 2025
Smilleydr:
This thing don work for me befor oooo, As i don make several attempt wey d babe no give me chop, i just kuku ma luck

But we stiil hug and kiss, but i no make any attempt of sex again, One day she ask me say when did i av sex last i say na yesterday night,

i say but i use condom shaa oo, she come ask who be that, i tell am na just one of my casual friend like that say base on say me don make attempt in her now and as she no won give me and congi dey my body na why i look for alternative

low and behold third day she just wear only polo no pant no bra, for my mind i say today na fire ooo

as we sleep on bed naso she carry d yarns rub my d, nasoo my lingu rise ooo, to my greatest suprise as i drill am bro na serious bolehold wey don slack, omo i no fit go second round self because d thing just tired me, i no expect say things go don spoil reach that level.
Borehole? grin
Re: Why Is She Scared Of Having Sex With Me? by saintbillion(m): 9:53pm On Feb 07, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
I did not see that one oo. I don't fully read comments. Once I read the beginning I know the flow. And true, he was too invasive. Syrusfineboy, abeg no ves. Saintbillion, you no talk well. For, for cases like this, you can not force morality on people.
No vex bro. Me self done read my comment again, I no try for this one
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