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Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Pukkalolo(op): 7:32am On Feb 06, 2025
plessis:
Keep it up.
Tell yourself that the modern woman is a LovePeddler that does not deserve a king like you. The stats are there. You see the baby mamas increase everyday. Over 100 million abortions yearly. You see them disgrace themselves on social media sticking their tongues out, showing their boobs and ass, walking around semiclad. No sane man will marry these modern women. They seem too reckless with everything and they will be reckless with your life. Just as the lady was reckless with your reputation.

Tell yourself that you have been doing stuffs and going the extra mile for women. If she's not willing to go the extra mile for you, let her bounce.
Even if you are broke. Tell yourself that you are a man and that means you are a god. As long as this world is concerned, there is no being higher than man.
Any woman who claims a broke man is not a real man will know the truth when the broke man strangles her and there is no man to save her.
The bolded statement is very key. I wish this was on the first page so that all men would see that statement.
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Pukkalolo(op): 7:50am On Feb 06, 2025
tanigororo:
Because most of us grew up watching too much Indian movie, where the good guy do everything for the girl and the bad guy meet with karma.

We think is the same in real life, so we jump ahead and invest a lot in the relationship and not expecting her to proof herself worthy of the relationship.
Very true brother.

And that's the core problem as guys, we never allow women prove themselves to us.

Instead we are always busy proving ourselves to them, trying to play the proverbial "real man"
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Trustmea: 8:26am On Feb 06, 2025
RollinTNDA:
This one really hit me for heart cry cry
Forget oooo
I really like her and wanted to take things serious with her.

Now here is what shocked me to the core of my soul!!
I opened up to her about my personal life and struggles.

This girl went around telling people that i smoke weed. That really damaged my reputation.

But out of all the things she said
SHE NEVER TOLD ANYONE HOW I RISK MY LIFE TO SAVE HER THAT MIDNIGHT...

Now if this same girl comes again dying and knocking at my door.. Otilor!!!! She go die that night.

Make she go meet jesus for heaven and sort out her problem. I dont care again.
That incident put me in great shock

Now if i see her i act like she dosent exist at all... very fine girl but all that beauty vanished after she did me dirty
Did u knack her after the good samaritan help u gave her?
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Rizzputin(m): 8:12pm On Feb 08, 2025
Pukkalolo:
Others, like who?

I guess this is your first time of reading my post on nairaland
People like me lol. Well, they say imitation (A.K.A copying) is one of the best forms of flattery

I laughed when I saw this thread. Because I've been singing this for a while now. But here you are copying it
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Pukkalolo(op): 10:25pm On Feb 08, 2025
Rizzputin:
People like me lol. Well, they say imitation (A.K.A copying) is one of the best forms of flattery

I laughed when I saw this thread. Because I've been singing this for a while now. But here you are copying it
Ok. But I rarely even read your stuff.

Anyways, what ever helps you sleep better at night...
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Rizzputin(m): 8:01am On Feb 09, 2025
Pukkalolo:
Ok. But I rarely even read your stuff

Anyways, what ever helps you sleep better at night...
Lmao. Sure you don't. Keep up with the copying & lies buddy. We love to see it
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Pukkalolo(op): 9:13am On Feb 09, 2025
Rizzputin:
Lmao. Sure you don't. Keep up with the copying & lies buddy. We love to see it
Glad you're entertained! Stick around...you might learn something.
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Rizzputin(m): 9:38am On Feb 09, 2025
Pukkalolo:
Glad you're entertained! Stick around...you might learn something.
Very much entertained & pleased when I see my stuff being copied buddy. Keep it up. We love to see it
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Pukkalolo(op): 9:55am On Feb 09, 2025
Rizzputin:
Very much entertained & pleased when I see my stuff being copied buddy. Keep it up. We love to see it
Glad to provide entertainment! Stay tuned for more.
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Rizzputin(m): 9:58am On Feb 09, 2025
Pukkalolo:
Glad to provide entertainment! Stay tuned for more.
Yeah buddy. Keep entertaining me. I love it
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Yaiba: 10:17am On Feb 09, 2025
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Pukkalolo:
When you do a favor for a girl or give her nice things, she might say, “Aww, thank you,” or even seem very appreciative.

Some might even call you a “real man”... Duh!

But that’s where it ends in her heart. I learned this the hard way

The bitter truth: Women don’t genuinely value what you do for them.

And that’s the basic thing most men don’t realize: You don’t win a woman’s heart by doing things for her. You win her heart by making her do things for you.

Women don’t care how much you’ve done for them. Women are naturally selfish by nature.

Empty your bank account for her?

Donate one of your kidneys to her?

Sacrifice your life for her?


SHE DOESN’T CARE.

The only thing she cares about is how much she has done for you.

This is why, if you try to break up with a girl who has done a lot for you, she says things like:

“So after everything I’ve done for you?”

That’s all she cares about—what she did for you.

All you did for her doesn’t count. It’s what she did for you that matters.

If you threaten to break up with a girl and she doesn’t seem to care, it doesn’t necessarily mean she has other guys she can easily jump to.

It simply means she has done nothing significant for you in the relationship—so she has nothing to lose.

Guys often ask me, “How can I get a girl to think about me?”

My answer:

Women don’t think about you. They think about what they’ve done for you. If you get her to do things for you, she will think about you all day.

If a girl claims she loves you but has done nothing significant for you, then it’s not genuine love. She just wants to exploit you or manipulate you.

Women don’t fall in love with you—they fall in love with their investment in you.

If you want a girl to genuinely fall in love with you, get her to do things for you. Make her invest in the interaction and the relationship.
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Pukkalolo(op): 10:20am On Feb 09, 2025
Rizzputin:
Yeah buddy. Keep entertaining me. I love it
Glad to be your favorite show...Stick around, there’s more coming.
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Pukkalolo(op): 10:22am On Feb 09, 2025
Yaiba:
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PUTRID STVPID WORTHLESS FVCKING STVPID IMBECILIC FVCKING SHIT EATING DAMNED IDIOT FVCKING IDIOT USELESS MORONIC BASTARD EVEN AS YOUR PUTRID FVCKING STVPID BASTARD IDIOT DAMNED FOOLISH MOTHER WHO IS OBVIOUSLY A WORTHLESS DAMNED STUPID HOPELESS LovePeddler IS ROTTING AND DYING LIKE THE WORTHLESS ROTTEN IDIOT IN HELL SO SHALL YOU ROT AND DIE IN HELL AS THE FVCKING BASTARD ANIMAL FOOL IDIOT BASTARD ANIMAL DEMONIC slowpoke FOOL DEVIL BASTARD IDIOT DEVIL FOOL BASTARD ANIMAL DEVIL BASTARD ANIMAL IDIOT DEVIL

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Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Rizzputin(m): 10:42am On Feb 09, 2025
Pukkalolo:
Glad to be your favorite show...Stick around, there’s more coming.
Yeah buddy. You're my favourite circus clown show. Keep it up
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Pukkalolo(op): 11:27am On Feb 09, 2025
Rizzputin:
Yeah buddy. You're my favourite circus clown show. Keep it up
I must admit, I'm loving this exchange! I'm gaining "off" it—we are both unintentionally tricking the nairaland algorithm to keep this on the front page & more and more smart brothers keep sending me PMs to learn more about my stuff..


You are being negative... but I try my best to gain off any negativity life throws at me. Thank you.


By the way,

If you’re here for real value instead of clown talk, check out Top G Dating Secret, it's going to change your game with women forever.

Check my profile.
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Rizzputin(m): 11:33am On Feb 09, 2025
Pukkalolo:
I must admit, I'm loving this exchange! I'm gaining "off" it—we are both unintentionally tricking the nairaland algorithm to keep this on the front page & more and more smart brothers keep sending me PMs to learn more about my stuff..


You are being negative... but I try my best to gain off any negativity life throws at me. Thank you.


By the way,

If you’re here for real value instead of clown talk, check out Top G Dating Secret, it's going to change your game with women forever.

Check my profile.
Dw, I know these cheap tactics lol. Just keep copying my stuff. Free publicity all around
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Rizzputin(m): 11:36am On Feb 09, 2025
Pukkalolo:
I must admit, I'm loving this exchange! I'm gaining "off" it—we are both unintentionally tricking the nairaland algorithm to keep this on the front page & more and more smart brothers keep sending me PMs to learn more about my stuff..


You are being negative... but I try my best to gain off any negativity life throws at me. Thank you.


By the way,

If you’re here for real value instead of clown talk, check out Top G Dating Secret, it's going to change your game with women forever.

Check my profile.
Also kindly tell everyone how you copied me from MY thread here and many other posts I've made:

https://www.nairaland.com/8162258/dont-surprising-truth-paying-gf#131095615
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Pukkalolo(op): 11:58am On Feb 09, 2025
Rizzputin:
Dw, I know these cheap tactics lol. Just keep copying my stuff. Free publicity all around
Appreciate the free promo, my guy. You’re working overtime for me, and I love it.

Meanwhile, real ones are PMing me to level up.

Keep hating from the sidelines.
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Rizzputin(m): 12:03pm On Feb 09, 2025
Pukkalolo:
Appreciate the free promo, my guy. You’re working overtime for me, and I love it.

Meanwhile, real ones are PMing me to level up.

Keep hating from the sidelines.
Dw.. it goes both ways. Thanks for making my stuff popular. Now everyone knows where to find original stuff
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Pukkalolo(op): 12:11pm On Feb 09, 2025
Rizzputin:
Dw.. it goes both ways. Thanks for making my stuff popular. Now everyone knows where to find original stuff
Glad I could help, my guy!

Speaking of real value… fellas, if you want to transform your dating life, grab Top G Dating Secret. . Check out my profile.

Every nairalander who has gotten the book and applied the wisdom in it has giving me nothing but positive feedbacks.
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Rizzputin(m): 12:16pm On Feb 09, 2025
Pukkalolo:
Glad I could help, my guy!

Speaking of real value… fellas, if you want to transform your dating life, grab Top G Dating Secret. . Check out my profile.

Every nairalander who has gotten the book and applied the wisdom in it has giving me nothing but positive feedbacks.
You're welcome bro.

Happy stealing:

https://www.nairaland.com/8162258/dont-surprising-truth-paying-gf#131095615
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Rizzputin(m): 12:18pm On Feb 09, 2025
Once I drop my own original book... everywhere go burst cheesy grin

So keep up the free entertainment & publicity. Loving it buddy
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Pukkalolo(op): 12:21pm On Feb 09, 2025
Rizzputin:
You're welcome bro.

Happy stealing:
Appreciate you, my biggest fan! Keep watching, keep commenting, and keep putting this post on the front page.

Meanwhile, I’ll keep winning.
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Rizzputin(m): 12:24pm On Feb 09, 2025
Pukkalolo:
Appreciate you, my biggest fan! Keep watching, keep commenting, and keep putting this post on the front page.

Meanwhile, I’ll keep winning.
Yeah, all that stealing. You're definitely winning making me popular. Just wait till I release a book so you can steal more ideas from buddy
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Pukkalolo(op): 12:24pm On Feb 09, 2025
Rizzputin:
Once I drop my own original book... everywhere go burst cheesy grin

So keep up the free entertainment & publicity. Loving it buddy
Fellas, If you want real results today, grab Top G Dating Secret and start winning now.

Stay blessed brothers.
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Rizzputin(m): 12:25pm On Feb 09, 2025
Pukkalolo:
Fellas, If you want real results today, grab Top G Dating Secret and start winning now.

Stay blessed brothers.
Bottom G Dating secrets you mean: copy & steal it all.
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Pukkalolo(op): 12:29pm On Feb 09, 2025
Rizzputin:
Bottom G Dating secrets you mean: copy & steal it all.
As a Man, If you’re ready to level up and actually win in dating, grab Top G Dating Secret now. Check my profile for more info.

Happy Sunday.
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Rizzputin(m): 12:39pm On Feb 09, 2025
Pukkalolo:
As a Man, If you’re ready to level up and actually win in dating, grab Top G Dating Secret now. Check my profile for more info.

Happy Sunday.
You mean, Bottom G Dating Lies
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Manaty2nice(m): 2:21pm On Feb 09, 2025
damma women are biologically selfish.
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Pukkalolo(op): 2:43pm On Feb 09, 2025
Manaty2nice:
damma women are biologically selfish.
This is why it's important for Men to also be selfish.
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Manaty2nice(m): 3:07pm On Feb 09, 2025
Be a bachelor and have peace, there is absolutely nothing any woman can offer you..
Re: I Learned This The Hard Way—Please Don’t Make This Same Mistake With Women by Pukkalolo(op): 3:23pm On Feb 09, 2025
Manaty2nice:
Be a bachelor and have peace, there is absolutely nothing any woman can offer you..
Maybe you are right.

But a Man can't be a bachelor forever.
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