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Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by mrniceguy98: 3:42pm On Jul 12, 2020
Hello fams
Happy Sunday
I've been a member of this great forum since 2016 or thereabout though I deactivated my first account here.
I'm not a newbie here. I'm saying it cos some people may think I came to chase clout. I'm here to share my story and experience for others to learn

Back to why I created this topic.
Okay, I've been a chronic masturbator and porn lover. I started after my secondary school and being a Virgin then, it was the easiest way to get pleasure. Lemme say this MASTURBATION AND PORNOGRAPHY are destroyers. They will ruin u and turn you to mere shafts... I masturbated for 6solid years This is what masturbation will do to u

1. It'll make it difficult for you to ever fall in love with a woman. Your relationship and sexual life will become nothing to write home about
2. You'll become withdrawn from others. It'll destroy ur social life totally
3. It'll take you far away from God. Very very far
4. You'll start having memory loss.
5. It brings bad luck. Believe this, it's very true. Things won't be going the way u planned, though not true for everyone but majority of masturbators experience this.
6. You see your d*ck. It'll no longer remain the way God gave u. Trust me, you'll start having erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation if u don't stop on time
There are more but I'll stop here.

With time I noticed that I was becoming withdrawn, depressed and always weak, I was having memory loss, I couldn't keep an information for long, I was shy and didn't really fancy women and relationships. I was a shadow of myself. I didn't have friends, I liked being alone.

Honest truth is I tried stopping severally because the negative signs were obvious but I just couldn't stop. The farthest I could go was 1week, I'd start again. It was very frustrating. .. I tried praying, it wasn't working.

Soon, it weren't those anymore, it worsened. I started observing that my dick was becoming dysfunctional. It could no longer attain maximum erection and normally I've a very long d*ck cos I'm very tall but with time I observed that it was drawing back. I was having a very weak and poor erection. It worsened then again, I wasn't having morning erections anymore. I'd wake up with a flaccid d*ck and I'd have to stimulate it before it'd weakly come up and then fall again in seconds. It was disheartening to say the least. I was becoming weak. I was defeated.

On a fateful (should I even use fateful cos it worked for my favour) morning, after getting up I was with my phone and I saw something very erotic online, the urge came again, I tried to stop it but I couldn't. I masturbated. That masturbation that day nearly ended me. Immediately I was done, it was as if I lost my mind, my head was heavy, it was like men were using hammer on it. I slept for hours and got up but instead of stopping, it worsened. I was dying, my back was aching so painfully, my legs were hurting so badly, I couldn't walk well. My stomach was paining me inside. God!, the experience was tragic. This continued for two good weeks. I couldn't eat well, I was literally dying. I prayed to God to forgive me and give me my health that I wouldn't go back to it. Eventually with time I regained myself. Glory to God, my morning erections are back and my d*ck is becoming normal. I can now have my strong erection though still not completely long but with time.

My experience was horrible and I don't wish it for anyone, even an enemy. I'm happy today that I'm free, its been a long while now and I've not watched porn or masturbated. Thinking about my experience makes me detest it so much now. I've sworn I'll never go back and I believe God will help me.

I learnt the hard way. Please don't learn the hard way, you may not live to tell the tales. MASTURBATION IS A KILLER. RUN FROM IT

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 3:46pm On Jul 12, 2020
Lol

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Meedon: 3:58pm On Jul 12, 2020
.....

So is fornication also run from it

Modified: I'm dedicating all this likes and shares to those people who are ready to refrain from sex outside marriage.


Note: All the fornicators and masturbators go and hug transformer.

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 4:09pm On Jul 12, 2020
am also experience it it really bad

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Bluezy13(m): 4:34pm On Jul 12, 2020
1. Is false
2. Is false
3. Is non of my business.
4. Individualistic.
5. Is False
6. Superstitious.

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Stopfapping: 5:20pm On Jul 12, 2020
This is my 100+ days of quitting, the best decision I have ever made. May God grant strength to all those who want to quit

MODIFIED : never go on net to get help in quitting masturbation, they will justify this act with stupid benefits even when your body tells you otherwise, always see masturbation as a daily battle you must win, no matter the urge, convince yourself your hands won't get in there

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 5:22pm On Jul 12, 2020
The person (behind the moniker) above me needs help ASAP

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Stopfapping: 7:09pm On Jul 12, 2020
SIR0:
The person (behind the moniker) above me needs help ASAP
no, you need help, I was in your shoes defending this devilish act until God saved me, I now enjoy all the positive of quitting, within this 100 days, I have 2 job offers both 6 figures after joblessness for 3 years, I have massive confidence to conquer the world, bro, instead of giving excuses, try it and thank me later

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 7:20pm On Jul 12, 2020
Stopfapping:
no, you need help, I was in your shoes defending this devilish act until God saved me, I now enjoy all the positive of quitting, within this 100 days, I have 2 job offers both 6 figures after joblessness for 3 years, I have massive confidence to conquer the world, bro, instead of giving excuses, try it and thank me later
The guy who litters threads with porn posted above my mention earlier, I think the Mod has done the needful by deleting his post. You can see behind the moniker in my comment. It'd profit me nothing to encourage such act. It's just a misunderstanding

No fight

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 7:22pm On Jul 12, 2020
Old soldier never die

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by TrollKiller(m): 7:29pm On Jul 12, 2020
masturbation is not your problem

you are your own problem.....

it is your type that will self-service 5 times a day and then drink a cup of garri without sugar or anything after your self servicing spree. undecided

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Westernlove: 7:30pm On Jul 12, 2020
Stopfapping:
no, you need help, I was in your shoes defending this devilish act until God saved me, I now enjoy all the positive of quitting, within this 100 days, I have 2 job offers both 6 figures after joblessness for 3 years, I have massive confidence to conquer the world, bro, instead of giving excuses, try it and thank me later

Audio Jobs....... grin grin grin

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Westernlove: 7:32pm On Jul 12, 2020
TrollKiller:
masturbation is not your problem

you are your own problem.....

it is your type that will self-service 5 times a day and then drink a cup of garri without sugar or anything after your self servicing spree. undecided

Lol I tell you, The way Poverty have finished Nigerians ehn. Any small thing they will blame It on Spiritual and masturbation lol..... grin grin grin

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by GuyWise101(m): 7:52pm On Jul 12, 2020
Another load of rubbish!

Masturbation is never a destiny killer but instead it is a destiny keeper.

Impregenating a girl is more of a destiny killer than masturbation

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Starz825(m): 7:57pm On Jul 12, 2020
Stopfapping:
This is my 100+ days of quitting, the best decision I have ever made. May God grant strength to all those who want to quit

stop fapping

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Uyi168: 9:13pm On Jul 12, 2020
....
Ecclesiasties 9:10:,
Whatever your hand fineth to do, do it with all thy might.
There u have the Bible verse that supported masturbation.. grin

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Demayour: 9:44pm On Jul 12, 2020
Uyi168:
....
Ecclesiasties 9:10:,
Whatever your hand fineth to do, do it with all thy might.
There u have the Bible verse that supported masturbation.. grin

So you're Senior Special Adviser to Ray Hushpuppy, Adolf Hitler and Osama Bin Laden etc?

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by PureGoldh(m): 9:53pm On Jul 12, 2020
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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by seanwilliam(m): 9:56pm On Jul 12, 2020
Mastubating once in a while is good. Only addiction is bad.

If you dont have girlfriend and u no get money for olosho, I dont know how u want to do it oo. Dem never born you make you no mastubate

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Westernlove: 9:58pm On Jul 12, 2020
Tales Of A Chronic Masturbator. You suppose buy Benz by ending of the month lol...... grin grin grin

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by cfree14(m): 10:22pm On Jul 12, 2020
3 months without masturbation and I don't think I'm gonna go back to that shit. Best solution to it:
1. Avoid anything porn or erotic completely at the start until you're able to withstand the urge.
2. Get a girlfriend that is readily available

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Missy30: 10:47pm On Jul 12, 2020
I masturbated today.. Better than hoping on random d..icks

Ohhh and it felt so good

Just like having a tongue on cl.it

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by deolurexy1(m): 11:27pm On Jul 12, 2020
cfree14:
3 months without masturbation and I don't think I'm gonna go back to that shit. Best solution to it:
1. Avoid anything porn or erotic completely at the start until you're able to withstand the urge.
2. Get a girlfriend that is readily available


Onanism as it is called has been happening for thousands of years. Most organisms pleasure themselves. This generation feels like what they do is actually soo bad but go back in time and read ancient roman scripts. They performed self service more and some writers even called it a life saver. It all depends on your volition. But then too much of everything is bad!

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by BestOsai: 1:04am On Jul 13, 2020
I hope other chronic .masturbators learn.It is a killer.

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Nobody: 1:28am On Jul 13, 2020
Missy30:
I masturbated today.. Better than hoping on random d..icks

Ohhh and it felt so good

Just like having a tongue on cl.it
how about this guy teeth on your clit ?? Are you thinking what I’m thinking I know you will quickly cum sorry ambode

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by EbenezerTriumph: 2:33am On Jul 13, 2020
ok

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Humanoid01(m): 2:46am On Jul 13, 2020
I'll strictly urge anyone not to go into this act. Masturbation is a killer. Masturbation will destroy you, and you may not know that until you decide to take some things about life serious, then you'll consciously experience its effects.

Don't pay attention to those people trying to justify it with false benefits. The truth is most of them have tried quitting but they failed, so they're trying to look for reasons to make the act look normal, while some are deliberately trying to drag others down with them.

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Humanoid01(m): 2:59am On Jul 13, 2020
GuyWise101:
Another load of rubbish!

Masturbation is never a destiny killer but instead it is a destiny keeper.

Impregenating a girl is more of a destiny killer than masturbation
You haven't faced life.

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Humanoid01(m): 3:03am On Jul 13, 2020
seanwilliam:
Mastubating once in a while is good. Only addiction is bad.

If you dont have girlfriend and u no get money for olosho, I dont know how u want to do it oo. Dem never born you make you no mastubate
You think it is impossible because you think it is a must for us to always satisfy our sexual urges. Mind you, the intensity of our sexual urges depend on the materials we're exposed to.

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Re: Masturbation: I Learnt To Stop The Hard Way. by Stopfapping: 5:10am On Jul 13, 2020
EbenezerTriumph:
mine I can't go past one month.
How were you able to stop it?
I just decided not to get my hand down there, it was not easy, but if you can cross that 60 days, your urge will stabilize

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