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There is this man who is my next compound neighbor and he is cohabiting with a lady and they have two kids together. They are not married yet so I was like why are they not married, and the kids are not in school. This discussion was between me and another next compound neighbor, who is into small scale kiosk selling. She told me that the man have refused to marry the lady because the lady is not supporting him with farm work. She even told me that the lady at a time left they guy to be with another man until she found out that the man has a serious relationship with another lady. Now, the lady is back to the guy and they are just like that.
I asked my neighbor that how come the woman protested and instead of going to her family house, went to stay with another man. My neighbor boldly told me that she supports her actions. That since the man has refused to pay her bride price, she is not married yet and therefore can go to any where she wants. Why are women like this?

Op:

With all due respect.

Amebo no go kee you.

Mind your business and face your life.

The day you acknowledge that women are 90% emotional and just 5% logical that day you start seeing things differently.

calabaman:
Op:

With all due respect.

Amebo no go kee you.

Mind your business and face your life.

There is difference between Amebo and knowledge. The Day you know the difference, you'll start being inquisitive.

This petty conversation with a lady about any man or woman in a simple street vocabulary is called Amebo

floss:
This petty conversation with a lady about any man or woman in a simple street vocabulary is called Amebo

So, we have the full blown conversation between a lady and a man that isn't amebo?

Don't worry it is knowledge sharing people would share from your life style too

marksonrick:
✓ There is this man who is my next compound neighbor and he is cohabiting with a lady and they have two kids together. They are not married yet so I was like why are they not married, and the kids are not in school. This discussion was between me and another next compound neighbor, who is into small scale kiosk selling. She told me that the man have refused to marry the lady because the lady is not supporting him with farm work. She even told me that the lady at a time left they guy to be with another man until she found out that the man has a serious relationship with another lady. Now, the lady is back to the guy and they are just like that.
I asked my neighbor that how come the woman protested and instead of going to her family house, went to stay with another man. My neighbor boldly told me that she supports her actions. That since the man has refused to pay her bride price, she is not married yet and therefore can go to any where she wants. Why are women like this?

OP, are you OK at all? Why are you making another person's affairs your own ? Is it because she is a woman and so you think it is Ok for you to judge her and not the man at the center of all of it? 🙄🙄🙄

marksonrick:
✓ There is difference between Amebo and knowledge. The Day you know the difference, you'll start being inquisitive.

What knowledge? A man choose to have kids with a woman he has no plans to marry. Rather than scold the man you take to attacking the woman, in what is blatant cowardice, for settling. And the when this is pointed out to you by the kiosk woman, you resort to attacking her too. Are you OK?

Kobojunkie:
OP, are you OK at all? Why are you making another person's affairs your own ? Is it because she is a woman and so you think it is Ok for you to judge her and not the man at the center of all of it? 🙄🙄🙄

Yes, I am okay.

But I never knew it was okay to run into another man's arms instead of her home. But maybe, what do I know.
The man could be wrong but if she was supportive, maybe and just maybe the man wouldn't have gotten an excuse.

marksonrick:
✓ Yes, I am okay. But I never knew it was okay to run into another man's arms instead of her home. But maybe, what do I know.
✓ The man could be wrong but if she was supportive, maybe and just maybe the man wouldn't have gotten an excuse.

Who gets to decide for her what is OK and what is not ok? You? She did not criminally violate the man who had 2 kids with her. So, why do you take it on yourself to attack her? 🙄

2. The man could be wrong? You are just a coward who thinks it Ok to selectively bully the woman in this situation, aren't you? Is the man not supporting the woman?

Kobojunkie:
OP, are you OK at all? Why are you making another person's affairs your own ? Is it because she is a woman and so you think it is Ok for you to judge her and not the man at the center of all of it? 🙄🙄🙄

You lack comprehension skills i must say, the topic daid why do women support women for the wrong reasons? His discussed is hinged on why is the lady he is discussing with supporting her and you haven't said anything as regards to the topic but brought down the whole idea of judging the woman who they are talking about but interestingly his topic is about the lady in discussion with him.

marksonrick:
There is this man who is my next compound neighbor and he is cohabiting with a lady and they have two kids together. They are not married yet so I was like why are they not married, and the kids are not in school. This discussion was between me and another next compound neighbor, who is into small scale kiosk selling. She told me that the man have refused to marry the lady because the lady is not supporting him with farm work. She even told me that the lady at a time left they guy to be with another man until she found out that the man has a serious relationship with another lady. Now, the lady is back to the guy and they are just like that.
I asked my neighbor that how come the woman protested and instead of going to her family house, went to stay with another man. My neighbor boldly told me that she supports her actions. That since the man has refused to pay her bride price, she is not married yet and therefore can go to any where she wants. Why are women like this?

95% of women are that indeed, but men also surporting them though about 70%,and this is reason why society not stable

Kobojunkie:
Who gets to decide for her what is OK and what is not ok? You? She did not criminally violate the man who had 2 kids with her. So, why do you take it on yourself to attack her? 🙄

2. The man could be wrong? You are just a coward who thinks it Ok to selectively bully the woman in this situation, aren't you? Is the man not supporting the woman?

You've been insultive all along and I wonder why.
I asked, why is it that a lady supported another in what seems to be wrong and you, instead of genuinely giving your opinion, and or counter wisely, have resulted in many form of insults. This kind of show the character you are made of. If you have resulted to insults then you are the coward here.

marksonrick:
✓ You've been insultive all along and I wonder why.
✓ I asked, why is it that a lady supported another in what seems to be wrong and you, instead of genuinely giving your opinion, and or counter wisely,
✓ have resulted in many form of insults. This kind of show the character you are made of. If you have resulted to insults then you are the coward here.

Insultive? What word should I use to qualify the act of attacking the weaker rather than both partners in this case?

2. Why shouldn't the lady support when the man involved supports?

3. Again, the situation is clearly supported by both the man and woman in this case. So why attack only the "weaker sex"? What is that tactic typically called? Last I checked it is a form of cowardice... So are you certain that I am being "Insultive" here?