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Kipaji:
So, pukkalolo, luminous, and the others, I would like to ask you this:

If you are short and ugly how can you be a winner with women without betabuxing?

Kipaji:
So, pukkalolo, luminous, and the others, I would like to ask you this:

If you are short and ugly how can you be a winner with women without betabuxing?

Pukkalolo:
Part 2:

Years ago, I used to believe that because I was "ugly," no girl would ever want me.

Then I watched a dating game show that completely shifted my perspective.

It was a YouTube show where five guys competed for the affection of a beautiful woman. (I’ve tried finding the video again, but no luck. Still, this show was the first thing that gave me real confidence that I could pull chicks…despite not having a fine face.)

In the show, the winner goes home with the woman and receive a cash prize along with other benefits.

The woman interacted with all five contestants, asked them questions, and slowly eliminated three of them…leaving only two finalists.

This is where things got intense.

One of them was tall, handsome, and cool: the type of guy most guys assume always wins with women.

The other guy was Just a normal looking guy.

The tall, handsome guy was more attractive. Even the judges of the show openly rooted for him to win. And to add salt to injury, the woman was clearly attracted to him.

So, at this point, we all thought the game was over.

Then something unexpected happened.

The show tested the two men by putting them in different real-life scenarios with the woman to see how they acted around her.

Scene 1: At the Bar

She sat with Mr. Tall, Handsome Guy and asked if he was a heavy drinker.

He confidently replied, "I drink, but I always control myself. I never let myself go too far. I have self-discipline."

The woman smiled and complimented him, "Wow, that’s really cool. I like that."

Attraction increased. No surprise.

Then, she sat with Mr. Normal Looking Guy and asked the same question.

He laughed and said, "I used to be a heavy drinker. One time, I got so drunk, I fell into a gutter on my way home."

She burst out laughing. Then he added, "That’s when I realized I needed to start drinking responsibly."

Then he playfully asked her, "What about you? Have you ever gotten drunk and accidentally kissed a dwarf at a bar before?"

She giggled, playfully hit his shoulder, and kept laughing.

Here’s what I noticed:

She wasn't initially attracted to Mr. Normal Guy, but she was slowly picking up interest in him.

Why?

Because Mr. Tall, Handsome Guy acted too perfect for her. He seemed like the guy who never messed up…which made her feel insecure around him.

Meanwhile, Mr. Normal Guy made her feel comfortable, relaxed, and playful.

She felt she could be vulnerable around him without being judged.

Scene 2: At the Pool

In the swimming pool, Mr. Tall, Handsome Guy was showing off his swimming skills, teaching her how to swim like a pro.

She was attracted, but at the same time, she felt insecure around him. Without realizing it, he was actually pushing her out of state…because he seemed too perfect for her.

But In the swimming pool with Mr. Normal Guy, he whispered in her ear and said,

"Hey, if you ever feel like peeing in the water, do it… Don’t worry, I won’t tell anyone."

She laughed and said, "You’re crazy!"

Now, that was a silly and weird statement… but it worked. He put her in a certain “state”

Because subconsciously, she interpreted it as:

"This guy isn’t going to judge me. He’s not like society or like Mr. Tall, Handsome Guy, who might think less of me if I make a mistake."

And here’s the kicker:

In her feminine mind, she probably thought, "If I ever decide to sleep with this Mr Normal Guy, he won’t judge me or think I’m a slut."


Again, Mr. Normal Guy unintentionally put her in a “state” where she felt she could be vulnerable around him.


When it was time for her to choose…

She said she was more attracted to Mr. Tall, Handsome Guy.

But then…

She chose Mr. Normal Guy. Right there on the show, she even kissed Mr Normal Guy.

The judges were shocked.

"Unbelievable! Are you kidding me?" they exclaimed.

Everyone assumed Mr. Tall, Handsome Guy would win…even the woman herself admitted she didn’t know why she picked Mr. Normal Guy.

But as I got more experience with women, I wasn’t surprised.

No one noticed that Mr. Normal Guy had been putting her in the right "state" the entire time—with his unfiltered, and judgment-free vibe.

Meanwhile, Mr. Tall, Handsome Guy—despite being more attractive— had unintentionally made her feel out of state. So he went home alone that night.

Here's the The Takeaway:

You might say, "That doesn’t make sense. Why would she choose Mr. Normal Guy over Mr. Tall, Handsome Guy?"

Well, let me tell you something…

I’ve known tall, handsome guys who struggle to get laid.

And I’ve known average-to-ugly guys who are pulling women like crazy.

I even have a friend who is super handsome…girls constantly give him choosing signals, flirt with him, and make it clear they’re interested.

Yet, he rarely bleeps them.

Meanwhile, I’m not considered good-looking, but I’ve been able to consistently pull beautiful chicks.

Why?

Because I understand how to put women in the right state of mind.


As a man, Never allow your looks or height any disadvantages limit you.

You might be ugly or short physically, but you can build a tall and handsome mindset.


Your mindset is your greatest weapon.

This isn’t just about dating.

Whether it’s career, finances, or any other area of life—as a man, the biggest thing limiting your success is your mindset.

Master that, and everything else follows.

Philosopher1979:
The idea that women only find 20 percent of men who are rich and or handsome attractive is disempowering and defeatist. It leads to
1. Inferiority complex or low self esteem
2. Pedastalizing women
3. Inceldoom. I think this ideology produces incels.
4. It even sounds like it goes beyond sex to lacking enough self confidence to relate with people and be successful in life.
One cannot be so harsh on oneself.
How can you tell a young man that 50 percent of the world population. (Which are women) somewhat think he is unattractive and inferior. Its very very disempowerong. Its not even about sex but the lack of self confidence, poor relational skills and unhappiness it will bring into someone's life. People should stop preaching this idea to young men.
It may be true to some extent but it does not help anybody. It just lives people disempowered.

JESHAL007:
The funny thing is that your girlfriends and wives ex boyfriends who pressed their breast, saw their nakednness, fingered and enjoy them, do you think that they would forget such memories even if they are no longer together, lolz, you are delusional, they would masturbate to it, think about how they enjoyed and defiled the women that you decided to settle down with, infact in some cases they have her nudes, in some cases they can reconnect, in some cases they rekindle the relationship and you can become a victim of paternity fraud because of the affair

JESHAL007:
The funny thing is that your girlfriends and wives ex boyfriends who pressed their breast, saw their nakednness, fingered and enjoy them, do you think that they would forget such memories even if they are no longer together, lolz, you are delusional, they would masturbate to it, think about how they enjoyed and defiled the women that you decided to settle down with, infact in some cases they have her nudes, in some cases they can reconnect, in some cases they rekindle the relationship and you can become a victim of paternity fraud because of the affair

joeeee240:
I partially agree and disagree with this. The reason i disagree is because red pillers dont have the best game to learn from

Reading red pill is like getting half baked knowledge of what true game is

Game is the TRUE distinguisher between the average man and a man in abundance.

Now, here's why your post misses a lot of things about game. When you go out to meet people, girls or just on your day... there are 5 kinds of girls you can potentially meet

1) High interest girls otherwise known as DTF girls . These girls are ripe and ready waiting for a nigga to come, talk to them and fuvk them. If you're that guy, they make it extremely easy for you to bang them. These girls are the horniest and often give out signs

2) Normal Interest girls

These girls are into you, open to you and like you. You don't need to do much but you still have to run game, seduce and arouse them... they make things easy for you, forgive your mistakes, break rules for you cuz they're feeling you. You can get away with certain types of average or blue pilled game cuz they're into you.


3) Maybe girls

These ones are 50/50. They're not sure about you yet. These ones are less forgiving of your mistakes. Miss a window and it's bye bye. Fuvk up too much, and it's the end. Game can shift the 50/50 to 80/20 where she starts feeling you like mad and before you know it she's very interested in you


4) NO girls

These ones are not feeling you. But at least they give you a listening ear. Sometimes they're indifferent. Sometimes they act disinterested but they stick around long enoùgh for you to run game so you can flip her. They can also play games, set obstacles or test you but once your game works they become very very interested


5) Absolutely NO girls

This one is simple. No amount of game will work with these ones. So don't waste your time

In terms of percentage, this is how many you will meet regularly

1) High interest 10%
2) normal interest 28%
3) maybe 32%
4) No 20%
5) absolutely no 10%

As you can see if you go for only girls in 1 and 2... that's 38% which is more than enough for you to think that you dont need game.. not to talk of some that will spill from maybe girls after she discovers something interesting about you


But the very hot girls are not in that category. In fact the hottest girls are in maybe and No category

The more you develop yourself... the percentages adjust.

What you called "preparedness" is what true gamers (not red pill clowns) call screening.

Basically you screen for girls that more receptive, more open to talk, more open to fuvk, more open to talk dirty, hornny etc...

Another thing, average or blue pilled game CAN work but it doesn't change the fact that it is average

Saying "are you single or taken" is generally average game but it's not that big of a deal that a girl will write you off simply because of it. Even if she is a No or maybe girl

Plus, if you have most areas of your game on point, you can make mistakes and seal the deal.

So yeah, learn game.

JESHAL007:
men with money can't seem to have real lasting relationships with Independent Women because it's masculine VS masculine. It won't work.