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1Corinthians 7

I should read some text that you want to use to justify raping me after I say no, and you think my brain will be washed by it and you can keep raping me,?

Dude, this is 2025. Evolve please!

Hope madam is safe? 😢

You didn't see where it said that it's a concession not a command?

I've said this before and I'll say it again: women, stop denying your husband s.ex ...

Men, if she consistently denies you s.ex for flimsy reasons that doesn't hold water, leave her! ...

Marriage isn't dating where women will be doing shakara with their bodies ...

As a man, whether or not it's comfortable for you, you must perform your role as a man! ...

But women do not understand that it is irresponsible to neglect their duties as a woman and because men tolerate it, it has led to this ...

Nothing like marital rape in Nigerian law. Spit on it, drill it and cum like a Boss. Zero apologies

Gotocourt:
Nothing like marital rape in Nigerian law. Spit on it, drill it and cum like a Boss. Zero apologies

Blimey, you are a dirty person

Drella:
1Corinthians 7

Bible does not protect evil.

That passage only says a woman should not do that evil of withholding and depriving a husband sex.

But neither does it say that a man should do the evil of raping his wife when she withholds sex

The bible does not advice one evil deserves another.

So the bible does not justify evil and no husband has a right to rape his wife.

If she refuse to give you sex divorce her

Dtruthspeaker:
Bible does not protect evil.

That passage only says a woman should not do that evil of withholding and depriving a husband sex.

But neither does it say that a man should do the evil of raping his wife.

The bible does not advice one evil deserves another.

So do the bible does not justify evil and no husband has a right to rape his wife exactly.

If you don’t have authority over a car in your possession, it means you can’t tell me when to drive it and when not to.
I can drive it when I wish!

budaatum:
I should read some text that you want to use to justify raping me after I say no, and you think my brain will be washed by it and you can keep raping me,?

Dude, this is 2025. Evolve please!

Are you saying the bible is no more valid in 2025?

Do you always feel like paying bills always or at all? No, but you gotta pay it regardless!

What should a man do when his wife constantly denies him sex? She has no underlying medical conditions, he has spiced up the marriage and made himself look more attractive to her but yet, she wouldn’t budge.
What should he do?

ItisWell22:
Hope madam is safe? 😢

I brought it here so people can share their views about it.
You can share your views let us learn.

Gmajor:
You didn't see where it said that it's a concession not a command?

What should a man do when his wife constantly denies him sex? She has no underlying medical conditions, he has spiced up the marriage and made himself look more attractive to her but yet, she wouldn’t budge.
What should he do?

Baronthecelebri:
If she refuse to give you sex divorce her

The bible condemns divorce outside of an infidelity case.

Drella:
Are you saying the bible is no more valid in 2025?

Do you always feel like paying bills always or at all? No, but you gotta pay it regardless!

What should a man do when his wife constantly denies him sex? She has no underlying medical conditions, he has spiced up the marriage and made himself look more attractive to her but yet, she wouldn’t budge.
What should he do?

I am saying you can't use your lame interpretation of an ancient text to imprison me in the 21st century.

Sex with you is not a bill I must pay! And if I wife denies you sex, you should wonder what it us you do so wrong that makes me not want you instead of trying to rape me by presenting some book written in the dark ages by misogynist fools who thanked their god they were not gentiles, first, nor women, second (meaning they'd rather be gentiles than women) that says I must!

Gotocourt:
Nothing like marital rape in Nigerian law. Spit on it, drill it and cum like a Boss. Zero apologies

There usually isn't in a nation full of pigs.

I will always say this there is nothing like marital rape and i stand to be corrected

A man is legally married to you and you are denying of sex for what reason exactly ?


if a man stop caring about you how will you feel?

Drella:
If you don’t have authority over a car in your possession, it means you can’t tell me when to drive it and when not to.
I can drive it when I wish!

But you don't have authority over your wife since you didn't buy a slave!

In fact, slavery, though sort of condoned by the book you quote from, has been abolished! Or would you like to bring it back with a Bible quotation?

Drella:
If you don’t have authority over a car in your possession, it means you can’t tell me when to drive it and when not to.
I can drive it when I wish!

A human being is not a car, which is why even for your children, you have no right to abuse and use them anyhow as you can to your car. Is it now a full grown adult you now want to do as you like, because you married her?

Man, you have no rights there.

If your wife refuses to open up to you and you can not bear it any longer it means therefore that she is no longer your wife but a stranger. And if you forcefully penetrated her, you are guilty of sexual assault and rape.

Still the same way you are guilty when you do that to a girl in your area, whom you are not married to.

So technically, there would be nothing like marital rape as marriage and sex go together.

But once a spouse refuses sex, it means your marriage is over. And all sex without consent here is rape.

Devil'swife, I mean devil'sbride, Nnamdi papa, una no go see this one talk now o. Atheists pretending to be righteous.

budaatum:
I am saying you can't use your lame interpretation of an ancient text to imprison me in the 21st century.

Sex with you is not a bill I must pay! And if I wife denies you sex, you should wonder what it us you do so wrong that makes me not want you instead of trying to rape me by presenting some book written in the dark ages by misogynist fools who thanked their god they were not gentiles, first, nor women, second (meaning they'd rather be gentiles than women) that says I must!

1. I see you don’t believe and follow the bible.

2. You didn’t answer my question.

The woman turns him down for no other reason than “I don’t feel like it”. What should the man do?

budaatum:
But you don't have authority over your wife since you didn't buy a slave!

In fact, slavery, though sort of condoned by the book you quote from, has been abolished! Or would you like to bring it back with a Bible quotation?

A man has authority over his wife because a man is the head of his home.
A head without authority is nothing but a tail!

Parents have authority over their children, does that mean the children are slaves?

Drella:
1. I see you don’t believe and follow the bible.

2. You didn’t answer my question.

The woman turns him down for no other reason than “I don’t feel like it”. What should the man do?

You wait till she feels like it, especially if you want to enjoy it and care about her.

And while you are at it, you ask yourself if you've done or not done something to make her feel like it instead of thinking you are entitled. She's your wife after all, and her feelings ought to matter to you more than some book, just as yours should matter to her if you are worth it.

Dtruthspeaker:
A human being is not a car, which is why even for your children, you have no right to abuse and use them anyhow as you can to your car. Is it now a full grown adult you now want to do as you like, because you married her?

Man, you have no rights there.

If your wife refuses to open up to you and you can not bear it any longer it means therefore that she is no longer your wife but a stranger. And if you forcefully penetrated her, you are guilty of sexual assault and rape.

Still the same way you are guilty when you do that to a girl in your area, whom you are not married to.

So technically, there would be nothing like marital rape as marriage and sex go together.

But once a spouse refuses sex, it means your marriage is over. And all sex without consent here is rape.

Devil'swife, I mean devil'sbride, Nnamdi papa, una no go see this one talk now o. Atheists pretending to be righteous.

The focus of that Car analogy is not on “car” but “authority”.

The main message is a woman should not refuse her husband for no reason. A man is not meant to force it. If she doesn’t refuse her husband, there won’t be the issue of forcing to start with.

As for you saying a marriage is over if she refuses sex, the only acceptable reason to end a marriage according to the bible is infidelity.

Drella:
A man has authority over his wife because a man is the head of his home.
A head without authority is nothing but a tail!

Parents have authority over their children, does that mean the children are slaves?

So, having authority over your children does not make them slaves who must obey you, but you think your wife must obey you like a slave must because a book says you are the man with authority?

I don't think you are married yet to be honest, and if you are you are now finding that reality differs from what you read in your Bible, and I'd say your introduction to reality is the beginning of your growth.

May Christ continue to open your eyes so you may see.

budaatum:
You wait till she feels like it, especially if you want to enjoy it and care about her.

And while you are at it, you ask yourself if you've done or not done something to make her feel like it instead of thinking you are entitled. She's your wife after all, and her feelings ought to matter to you more than some book, just as yours should matter to her if you are worth it.

Her feelings ought to matter,but mine doesn't count...if your man ever denies you sex more than once, you'd be the first person to accuse him of infidelity...
What the bleep happened to consideration in marriage,if you deny me sex for a week and you are perfectly okay to have sex, I'd deny you my right as a husband over you for a week...
Two can always play the game

budaatum:
You wait till she feels like it, especially if you want to enjoy it and care about her.

And while you are at it, you ask yourself if you've done or not done something to make her feel like it instead of thinking you are entitled. She's your wife after all, and her feelings ought to matter to you more than some book, just as yours should matter to her if you are worth it.

If it takes her 1 year to feel like it, I should wait too? Very unrealistic if you ask me. Even just for a month, no man deserves to be constantly denied sex for no reason.

What the fückk are you saying? If I don’t feel entitled to my wife’s body, is it your body I should feel entitled to?

budaatum:
So, having authority over your children does not make them slaves who must obey you, but you think your wife must obey you like a slave must because a book says you are the man with authority?

I don't think you are married yet to be honest, and if you are you are now finding that reality differs from what you read in your Bible, and I'd say your introduction to reality is the beginning of your growth.

May Christ continue to open your eyes so you may see.

Why are you linking obedience only to slavery? So everyone that obeys is a slave?

Your thought process is flawed!

Drella:
If it takes her 1 year to feel like it, I should wait too? Very unrealistic if you ask me. Even just for a month, no man deserves to be constantly denied sex for no reason.

What the Bleep are you saying? If I don’t feel entitled to my wife’s body, is it your body I should feel entitled to?

You are not entitled to anyone's body, wife or no wife! And if she denied you for a year, she must have a reason, which a mature intelligent man would like to find out instead of raping his wife and compounding his problem!

Drella:
Why are you linking obedience only to slavery? So everyone that obeys is a slave?

Your thought process is flawed!

A wife is not meant to obey you! She is meant to be your partner, as in, someone who works with you. But if you think she must obey you, I can see why she's refusing, since you likely have no respect or regard for her.

This is why i tell my guys
Go for hijabis
Go for muslim women
Most woke bastards are of Christian fold
Meet hijabis man
What is martial rape edakun?
Sex in marriage was what the bible wanted from us
If you're bringing rape, then the purpose of marriage is defeated
As a single guy, i shag more. But i get married
Ya telling me it's only when ya in the mood u do?


When payin bills
I pay REGARDLESS HOW I FEEL
I DON'T FEEL GOOD I PROVIDE
I FEEL DOWN I PROVIDE


But somehow, women have coined another term rape


Thank Jesus for hijabis abeg
Alhamdullilah

Gmajor:
You didn't see where it said that it's a concession not a command?

Buzu that's what you are. You only read but can't comprehend. Concession he meant is for fasting or other spiritual reason.

dhiqson:
As a single guy, i shag more. But i get married
Ya telling me it's only when ya in the mood u do?

What you do not realise is the olosho you shag is shagging you for money, and you consider a wife as olosho on tap.

Guess all I can say is, may you have many daughters. They'd soon teach you to value women more, or you'd have to train them to be oloshos.