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Two useless and unfortunate human beings. Useless modafvckers especially OP. What happened to condoms? What about to ensuring she takes the drug in your presence?

My guy well well, you have dodged a sniper bullet. I didnt have the guts to dodge mine and I paid for it dearly. It is obvious from your story if it is true ooo. For a girl to tell you that she can pin thee pregnancy on any guy she wishes to. You can only take her back on 1 condition, if the pregnancy is yours, that is after 9 months.

My brother, the red flag is pure red. Let her go and fend for herself. She's not meant to be with you

Lakebib:
I would say it's likely to be mine though I'm not certain, I feel a bit guilty because we've been together for 3 years but then her utterances and actions leaves much to be desired.

My advise to you is that you should check the date a Nairaland account was created before you take the person's advise serious.

I have taken time to read most of the comments here and I can tell you that most of the monikers that were created between 2020 and 2025 are likely to be teenagers or young adults who have no real experience in life so they are mostly talking rubbish!

Hi,

In as much you are in a situation with your babe i will advise you apply wisdom, find a way to reach out to her give the necessary support at least considering her situation for now two wrongs don't make a right ,after all you both do the do without using protection and your babe being complacent chose not use medication that will prevent her of getting pregnant, medically there's way to confirm if the child is yours but that would have been when the pregnancy is in advance developed stage, you have to sit your babe down and have a heart to heart open discussion with her before they pin a child that is not yours on you, it obvious there's more to what she's telling you there would be no smoke without a fire apply wisdom, patience and caution, some girls can be desperately wicked.

Lakebib:
Good morning romancelanders, I would love you guys to help me judge a complicated situation. My girlfriend visited me early this year, we had unprotected sex but before she left I personally bought contraceptives for her to take whenever she gets home. She travelled back to abj where she's serving and we kept communicating.

Fast forward to three weeks later, she complained to me that she missed her period, she opened up that she forgot to take the pills as at when due which led to the pregnancy. I was mad at her but the deed was already done. I told her that it was her mistake and she would have to fix it because I obviously don't a child now, she also agreed to terminate the pregnancy.

An incident occured while we were making arrangements for the abortion that led to a serious issue. We had a minor misunderstanding and didn't speak for a day, she called the second day around past eleven at night sounding a bit tensed, before I could ask her what the issue was, I heard a guy's voice asking her who she was talking to, she ended the call immediately. I called her back twice without response. When she picked up later she denied that she wasn't with a guy bla bla, I simply told her to stay away from me till she's ready to tell me the truth.

She sent me a message after 4 days about missing me and all, I asked her if she was ready to come clean about what happened that night, she still denied everything even contradicting herself in some parts. I insisted that she was lying while maintaining my stand that she must come clean before we settle any issue. She then asked me about the pregnancy because it was beginning to get obvious, I informed her that I'm not sure that the pregnancy is mine because she's obviously seeing other guys so she should do with it whatever she deems fit. She proceeded to insult me calling me stupid and all. I asked her if she thought insults could solve anything, madam told me that I should know that she can easily sleep with any guy she fancies and pin the pregnancy on him so I shouldn't think that leaving her would make her stranded. I wished her goodluck and she went into another barrage of insults, I just blocked her everywhere and deleted all her contacts.

My friend asked me about her last night and I told him what happened and he said I shouldn't have blocked her, he insisted that I should have taken care of the pregnancy first before cutting ties with her. I would love to get other opinions on the matter.

I'm sorry for the long post, please ignore any typos, I typed on the go and yes all insults are welcome.

Guy you did the right thing.

Don’t go and take your responsibility.

They find who wants read this novel, back you to be irresponsible

TheFinesseKid:
this girl is she a baby mama?

No bro

I just called her this morning to come and collect dick for night

She say she go come after work

The baby is not yours, Period!
Just like she said, she can sleep with any guy and pin the pregnancy on him. Let her have the baby. Just get cash ready for BVN.
The girl no worth am

Homeboiy:
No bro

I just called her this morning to come and collect dick for night

She say she go come after work

I wish I fit be like u. And you no dey spend o

TheFinesseKid:
I wish I fit be like u. And you no dey spend o

If she go sleep over na only noodles at night depending on the time she came

And 1k when she’s leaving

But if she no go sleep over

After knacking I will give her 2k to go house

She say her boyfriend no sabi knack

Bros, You Fork Abi You Nor Fork....

Once you answer this question correctly, you are in until its over...

Match of 9 months, you wan comot hand for 12mins... de play

James4358:
My wife can't even get pregnant... And I'm reading this. Chia... 'Inside Life'

Fingers are not equal. God knows what is perfect for you, don't disturb yourself have you not seen a child that killed his or her parent

Dude - You are not the father !

If she brings proof that you will need to step up !
Why a sexually active lady would “ forget “ to take the day after pill is mind boggling. Why you as a dude is int ready wouldn’t use a condom is crazzy

Lakebib:
Good morning romancelanders, I would love you guys to help me judge a complicated situation. My girlfriend visited me early this year, we had unprotected sex but before she left I personally bought contraceptives for her to take whenever she gets home. She travelled back to abj where she's serving and we kept communicating.

Fast forward to three weeks later, she complained to me that she missed her period, she opened up that she forgot to take the pills as at when due which led to the pregnancy. I was mad at her but the deed was already done. I told her that it was her mistake and she would have to fix it because I obviously don't a child now, she also agreed to terminate the pregnancy.

An incident occured while we were making arrangements for the abortion that led to a serious issue. We had a minor misunderstanding and didn't speak for a day, she called the second day around past eleven at night sounding a bit tensed, before I could ask her what the issue was, I heard a guy's voice asking her who she was talking to, she ended the call immediately. I called her back twice without response. When she picked up later she denied that she wasn't with a guy bla bla, I simply told her to stay away from me till she's ready to tell me the truth.

She sent me a message after 4 days about missing me and all, I asked her if she was ready to come clean about what happened that night, she still denied everything even contradicting herself in some parts. I insisted that she was lying while maintaining my stand that she must come clean before we settle any issue. She then asked me about the pregnancy because it was beginning to get obvious, I informed her that I'm not sure that the pregnancy is mine because she's obviously seeing other guys so she should do with it whatever she deems fit. She proceeded to insult me calling me stupid and all. I asked her if she thought insults could solve anything, madam told me that I should know that she can easily sleep with any guy she fancies and pin the pregnancy on him so I shouldn't think that leaving her would make her stranded. I wished her goodluck and she went into another barrage of insults, I just blocked her everywhere and deleted all her contacts.

My friend asked me about her last night and I told him what happened and he said I shouldn't have blocked her, he insisted that I should have taken care of the pregnancy first before cutting ties with her. I would love to get other opinions on the matter.

I'm sorry for the long post, please ignore any typos, I typed on the go and yes all insults are welcome.

change that pic to "Our girlfriend is pregnant"

Homeboiy:
If she go sleep over na only noodles at night depending on the time she came

And 1k when she’s leaving

But if she no go sleep over

After knacking I will give her 2k to go house

She say her boyfriend no sabi knack

Kai. You na boss.

IamAsiri:
Are you sure he has that kind of money? Or is it now everyone online that is now rich?

He may not have that kind of money now,but it should become a target to work towards while the lady too carry her cross.

Lakebib:
Good morning romancelanders, I would love you guys to help me judge a complicated situation. My girlfriend visited me early this year, we had unprotected sex but before she left I personally bought contraceptives for her to take whenever she gets home. She travelled back to abj where she's serving and we kept communicating.

Fast forward to three weeks later, she complained to me that she missed her period, she opened up that she forgot to take the pills as at when due which led to the pregnancy. I was mad at her but the deed was already done. I told her that it was her mistake and she would have to fix it because I obviously don't a child now, she also agreed to terminate the pregnancy.

An incident occured while we were making arrangements for the abortion that led to a serious issue. We had a minor misunderstanding and didn't speak for a day, she called the second day around past eleven at night sounding a bit tensed, before I could ask her what the issue was, I heard a guy's voice asking her who she was talking to, she ended the call immediately. I called her back twice without response. When she picked up later she denied that she wasn't with a guy bla bla, I simply told her to stay away from me till she's ready to tell me the truth.

She sent me a message after 4 days about missing me and all, I asked her if she was ready to come clean about what happened that night, she still denied everything even contradicting herself in some parts. I insisted that she was lying while maintaining my stand that she must come clean before we settle any issue. She then asked me about the pregnancy because it was beginning to get obvious, I informed her that I'm not sure that the pregnancy is mine because she's obviously seeing other guys so she should do with it whatever she deems fit. She proceeded to insult me calling me stupid and all. I asked her if she thought insults could solve anything, madam told me that I should know that she can easily sleep with any guy she fancies and pin the pregnancy on him so I shouldn't think that leaving her would make her stranded. I wished her goodluck and she went into another barrage of insults, I just blocked her everywhere and deleted all her contacts.

My friend asked me about her last night and I told him what happened and he said I shouldn't have blocked her, he insisted that I should have taken care of the pregnancy first before cutting ties with her. I would love to get other opinions on the matter.

I'm sorry for the long post, please ignore any typos, I typed on the go and yes all insults are welcome.

Was with her 3 weeks ago, it's too early for her to have ovulated, missed her period and then being obvious that she is pregnant. She isn't pregnant or it's not yours.

A woman ovulates then 2 weeks later has her next period (which was last week), so under 7 days she decided to take pregnancy test? And the timeframe listed of you guys discussed then didn't talk for 2/3 days then argued another 2 days. Meaning she told you she was pregnant before the 2 week period was over, meaning she shouldn't have been on her period then.

Congratulations, you're not the father

You are not ready for a child but ready for unprotected sex. Continue

Don't bother us with your Yen Yen Yen stories. If you are not ready for babies use protection.

If you had used protection, all these mess wouldn't have occurred.

I don't pity you one bit.

If you like abandon your child when he or she s born.

Will you learn from this? No.
You want it skim to skin without babies hahahaha
Kwanrinue gbenshing about and entertaining us with your childish tales

HaneefahRN:
You are not ready for a child but ready for unprotected sex. Continue

Make he go check price of Pampers ,Huggies and SMA Gold, he go ready by force.
Irresponsible guy

Codes151:
Don’t go and take your responsibility.

They find who wants read this novel, back you to be irresponsible

😂👍🏿

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