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Mariangeles:
If you condone that, get ready to be played like a ping-pong.

Goodmarlian:
I think this girl will be very manipulative,we just dated for months met her in January, I have not forgiven her yet but I will eventually forgive but if she tries it again I have vowed to end the relationship.

Exceed15:
Na their way . This is the trick, when they ghost u don't pursue, don't ask her why . She will come back.

Goodmarlian:
My friend told me she is shit testing me that it's a normal thing with girls to know if you truly like them

Silentgroper:
Me and a girl that's sweet on each other are like that.. we're literally on and off ..

Since I called the last time and she told me she was busy, we haven't talked in four weeks nw .. lol

The good part is she usually the first to come around after the long silence ..

It happened during Christmas and new year until she texted a week after , we went on chatting and calling for like a week till the above happened..


Now if she dare text me before Valentine or on Valentine's Day looking for one shitty gift or the other, I ain't responding..

Rabiu4190:
There's a psychology behind ghosting.
More often than not, it's young women who frequently ghost men for this reason:

If your girlfriend is between the ages of 18-25, she's always being hit upon (toasted) by several men. It so happens while she's dating you, she will meet guys who are better than you. Rather than break things off, she will take a break from the relationship to try the new guy out. She won't return your calls, spend weekends unavailable, appear to be moody. She's testing the waters with new guy while still guaranteed your commitment. At that moment, you're her backup plan.

If new guy is better/richer/funkier and if he offers commitment, after a month of ghosting you, she will break things off officially. If the dude doesn't match you, she'll make up some BS reason to return. Ghosting is the warning sign your competition is auditioning for her affection.

Don't just take my word for it, there are countless examples where this actually happened. Listen to the guys in this video narrate how their girlfriends ghosted them for over a week and a month.

Mariangeles:
If you condone that, get ready to be played like a ping-pong.

Stephen0mozzy:
So una don normalize bad behavior?

Rabiu4190:
There's a psychology behind ghosting.


More often than not, it's young women who frequently ghost men for this reason:

If your girlfriend is between the ages of 18-25, she's always being hit upon (toasted) by several men. It so happens while she's dating you, she will meet guys who are better than you. Rather than break things off, she will take a break from the relationship to try the new guy out. She won't return your calls, spend weekends unavailable, appear to be moody. She's testing the waters with new guy while still guaranteed your commitment. At that moment, you're her backup plan.

If new guy is better/richer/funkier and if he offers commitment, after a month of ghosting you, she will break things off officially. If the dude doesn't match you, she'll make up some BS reason to return. Ghosting is the warning sign your competition is auditioning for her affection.

Don't just take my word for it, there are countless examples where this actually happened. Listen to the guys in this video narrate how their girlfriends ghosted them for over a week and a month.

Goodmarlian:
Omo can you imagine my girlfriend ghosted me for 2 days straight,didn't call,didn't pick my calls,didn't reply chats,I had to stop calling after she refused to pick the 4th time, she loves in ogun state while i stay in lagos,a lot was going in my mind coz I was confused I had to conclude she doesn't want me anymore,I have already moved on,only for her to call today and tell me she is sorry that she was in a bad mood for 2 days,I was wondering if it was that bad that she had to ignore my calls.this is a girl that calls me every two hour before omo relationship na work oooo,we dont go everyday without calling each other before she brought this style,I am just trying serious relationship out now for the first time omo I am wondering if this is what you guys pass through if it's just normal.

Rabiu4190:
Ghosting is the warning sign your competition is auditioning for her affection..

Goodmarlian:
My friend told me she is shit testing me that it's a normal thing with girls to know if you truly like them

Goodmarlian:
Omo can you imagine my girlfriend ghosted me for 2 days straight, didn't call, didn't pick my calls, didn't reply chats.

I had to stop calling after she refused to pick the 4th time, she loves in ogun state while I stay in Lagos, a lot was going in my mind coz I was confused. I had to conclude she doesn't want me anymore.

I have already moved on, only for her to call today and tell me she is sorry that she was in a bad mood for 2 days. I was wondering if it was that bad that she had to ignore my calls. This is a girl that calls me every two hour before omo relationship na work oooo, we dont go everyday without calling each other before she brought this style.

I am just trying serious relationship out now for the first time omo I am wondering if this is what you guys pass through if it's just normal.

Goodmarlian:
Omo can you imagine my girlfriend ghosted me for 2 days straight, didn't call, didn't pick my calls, didn't reply chats.

I had to stop calling after she refused to pick the 4th time, she loves in ogun state while I stay in Lagos, a lot was going in my mind coz I was confused. I had to conclude she doesn't want me anymore.



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For 2 solid days
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I have already moved on, only for her to call today and tell me she is sorry that she was in a bad mood for 2 days. I was wondering if it was that bad that she had to ignore my calls. This is a girl that calls me every two hour before omo relationship na work oooo, we dont go everyday without calling each other before she brought this style.

I am just trying serious relationship out now for the first time omo I am wondering if this is what you guys pass through if it's just normal.