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NikoWinaman:
Lol

My brother if you listen to some certain comments you will get here you will think stupidly. Just two days not that you both are married. Did you bother to know exactly what was bothering her because that should be your major focus not expecting to hear that she was with someone else or whatsoever. If a woman wants to cheat on you she will not even give you any reason to suspect her. I mean she can even be with a man and a dick in her pussy and take your calls.

So maybe she has family issues or personal issues she needed to leave boyfriend matter one side and you never know if she also ignored all her friends as well not just you. Show her more love to be able to confide in you when she has issues and not look into just ignoring your calls for mere two days.

Don't be insecure as a man

Goodmarlian:
Omo can you imagine my girlfriend ghosted me for 2 days straight, didn't call, didn't pick my calls, didn't reply chats.

I had to stop calling after she refused to pick the 4th time, she loves in ogun state while I stay in Lagos, a lot was going in my mind coz I was confused. I had to conclude she doesn't want me anymore.

I have already moved on, only for her to call today and tell me she is sorry that she was in a bad mood for 2 days. I was wondering if it was that bad that she had to ignore my calls. This is a girl that calls me every two hour before omo relationship na work oooo, we dont go everyday without calling each other before she brought this style.

I am just trying serious relationship out now for the first time omo I am wondering if this is what you guys pass through if it's just normal.

Goodmarlian:
Omo can you imagine my girlfriend ghosted me for 2 days straight, didn't call, didn't pick my calls, didn't reply chats.

I had to stop calling after she refused to pick the 4th time, she loves in ogun state while I stay in Lagos, a lot was going in my mind coz I was confused. I had to conclude she doesn't want me anymore.

I have already moved on, only for her to call today and tell me she is sorry that she was in a bad mood for 2 days. I was wondering if it was that bad that she had to ignore my calls. This is a girl that calls me every two hour before omo relationship na work oooo, we dont go everyday without calling each other before she brought this style.

I am just trying serious relationship out now for the first time omo I am wondering if this is what you guys pass through if it's just normal.

Namaster:
END it!

If a girl likes you, you will become her SAFE SPACE.
Anything bothers her, you will be the FIRST to know.

She used to call you every 2 hours 'cause the relationship was FRESH and the attraction was FIRE.

Now she ducks your calls for 2 full days because the relationship is STALE and the attraction has EXPIRED.

IGNORE the excuse.
BLOCK her everywhere.

And whatever you do, DON'T "talk it out" before you VANISH.

Make it ABRUPT.
DENY her closure.

Drives them CRAZY.

And for fucccck's sake, STOP engaging in LONG DISTANCE relationship!

OKOATA:
My ex did something like this and hers was for 3days straight. I thought something bad happened only for her to call she travelled and no network. I knew it was a game, I didn't even block her immediately. I know even vex, after I knackered wetin no good after 6 months she left herself as she didn't see the vibes again.

sunday1989:
The most sensible comment I have read so far on this thread. May the oil of your wisdom never runs dry. Amen. Relationship as per Nigerian concept is a big "job". I would also add that he hear from her first. Until she fails to provide tangible reasons for ignoring him, then I would advise he call it quit. There are many fishes in the ocean.

NikoWinaman:
Lol

My brother if you listen to some certain comments you will get here you will think stupidly. Just two days not that you both are married. Did you bother to know exactly what was bothering her because that should be your major focus not expecting to hear that she was with someone else or whatsoever. If a woman wants to cheat on you she will not even give you any reason to suspect her. I mean she can even be with a man and a dick in her pussy and take your calls.

So maybe she has family issues or personal issues she needed to leave boyfriend matter one side and you never know if she also ignored all her friends as well not just you. Show her more love to be able to confide in you when she has issues and not look into just ignoring your calls for mere two days.

Don't be insecure as a man

Goodmarlian:
she loves in ogun state while I stay in Lagos

Goodmarlian:
I think this girl will be very manipulative,we just dated for months met her in January, I have not forgiven her yet but I will eventually forgive but if she tries it again I have vowed to end the relationship.

ValCon888:
Your girlfriend was in another man's house collecting kpa kpa kpa kpa.

Her pùnna was sweating under his holy rod for two days straight as he poured his thick akamu inside her oil rig without remorse.

She was indeed in a bad mood getting dìcked down by a bad niggèr.

The sweetest pùnna to knack is another man's girlfriend, it is like stealing meat from a pot at midnight when everyone is asleep.

Goodmarlian:
Omo can you imagine my girlfriend ghosted me for 2 days straight, didn't call, didn't pick my calls, didn't reply chats.

I had to stop calling after she refused to pick the 4th time, she loves in ogun state while I stay in Lagos, a lot was going in my mind coz I was confused. I had to conclude she doesn't want me anymore.

I have already moved on, only for her to call today and tell me she is sorry that she was in a bad mood for 2 days. I was wondering if it was that bad that she had to ignore my calls. This is a girl that calls me every two hour before omo relationship na work oooo, we dont go everyday without calling each other before she brought this style.

I am just trying serious relationship out now for the first time omo I am wondering if this is what you guys pass through if it's just normal.

Danzakidakura:
Somebody booked her for straight two days hook-up. Wize up

SlayQueenSlayer:
That wasn't a mistake. She really loves in Ogun state.

Shegebanza:
Should we?

NikoWinaman:
Lol

My brother if you listen to some certain comments you will get here you will think stupidly. Just two days not that you both are married. Did you bother to know exactly what was bothering her because that should be your major focus not expecting to hear that she was with someone else or whatsoever. If a woman wants to cheat on you she will not even give you any reason to suspect her. I mean she can even be with a man and a dick in her pussy and take your calls.

So maybe she has family issues or personal issues she needed to leave boyfriend matter one side and you never know if she also ignored all her friends as well not just you. Show her more love to be able to confide in you when she has issues and not look into just ignoring your calls for mere two days.

Don't be insecure as a man

iLegendd:
I wanted to be harsh on you, but since you're trying relationship for this first time, I want you to learn it the hard way.

Rabiu4190:
There's a psychology behind ghosting.


More often than not, it's young women who frequently ghost men for this reason:

If your girlfriend is between the ages of 18-25, she's always being hit upon (toasted) by several men. It so happens while she's dating you, she will meet guys who are better than you. Rather than break things off, she will take a break from the relationship to try the new guy out. She won't return your calls, spend weekends unavailable, appear to be moody. She's testing the waters with new guy while still guaranteed your commitment. At that moment, you're her backup plan.

If new guy is better/richer/funkier and if he offers commitment, after a month of ghosting you, she will break things off officially. If the dude doesn't match you, she'll make up some BS reason to return. Ghosting is the warning sign your competition is auditioning for her affection.

Don't just take my word for it, there are countless examples where this actually happened. Listen to the guys in this video narrate how their girlfriends ghosted them for over a week and a month.

Rabiu4190:
There's a psychology behind ghosting.


More often than not, it's young women who frequently ghost men for this reason:

If your girlfriend is between the ages of 18-25, she's always being hit upon (toasted) by several men. It so happens while she's dating you, she will meet guys who are better than you. Rather than break things off, she will take a break from the relationship to try the new guy out. She won't return your calls, spend weekends unavailable, appear to be moody. She's testing the waters with new guy while still guaranteed your commitment. At that moment, you're her backup plan.

If new guy is better/richer/funkier and if he offers commitment, after a month of ghosting you, she will break things off officially. If the dude doesn't match you, she'll make up some BS reason to return. Ghosting is the warning sign your competition is auditioning for her affection.

Don't just take my word for it, there are countless examples where this actually happened. Listen to the guys in this video narrate how their girlfriends ghosted them for over a week and a month.