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In this age and time, it's important to build a family and live a responsible life taking care of your wife and children.
Society grows based on conformity. Men who stay unmarried from 30 years upwards without a wife are non-conformist and create an imbalance in the society.
They are also problematic in the society because they feel they are not responsible for anyone neither are they committed to anyone. Majority of them also find it easy to engage in crimes.

If they have a wife they are committed to, crime of any nature will not be an option to them.
Also it is important to note that having children helps society to grow new ideas and vibrant economy. When you get married, you have children, the children grow to be successful geniuses.

This can only be achieved when the government steps in. There is no reason why a man should not be married to a woman even before the age of 30.
The government should come in order to stop Promiscuity.

OP are u mad or about to run mad

Mumu talk.

Lol. They should do it. Lol.

Cityqueengirl:
In this age and time, it's important to build a family and live a responsible life taking care of your wife and children.
Society grows based on conformity. Men who stay unmarried from 30 years upwards without a wife are non-conformist and create an imbalance in the society.
They are also problematic in the society because they feel they are not responsible for anyone neither are they committed to anyone. Majority of them also find it easy to engage in crimes.

If they have a wife they are committed to, crime of any nature will not be an option to them.
Also it is important to note that having children helps society to grow new ideas and vibrant economy. When you get married, you have children, the children grow to be successful geniuses.

This can only be achieved when the government steps in. There is no reason why a man should not be married to a woman even before the age of 30.
The government should come in order to stop Promiscuity.

please don't mind all the fellas above me who don't see the comedy of your piece! Shey you dey find husband ni? Don't worry your own "Saturday" will come and we will gather to eat your rice!

What has the government done for them

Mumu talk

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Before government can arrest men for not getting married, the government should make sure that they have satisfy the following.

1. The girls are worth marrying. Imagine forcing men to marry Saidal Boj lol
2. There are jobs for men to take care of their family

Otherwise, it is dead on arrival.

Cityqueengirl:
In this age and time, it's important to build a family and live a responsible life taking care of your wife and children.

Gociety grows based on conformity. Men who stay unmarried from 30 years upwards without a wife are non-conformist and create an imbalance in the society.
They are also problematic in the society because they feel they are not responsible for anyone neither are they committed to anyone. Majority of them also find it easy to engage in crimes.

If they have a wife they are committed to, crime of any nature will not be an option to them.
Also it is important to note that having children helps society to grow new ideas and vibrant economy. When you get married, you have children, the children grow to be successful geniuses.

This can only be achieved when the government steps in. There is no reason why a man should not be married to a woman even before the age of 30.
The government should come in order to stop Promiscuity.

😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂

Go arrest your papa for house fess.

Shey na by Force to marry.

In the north government is sponsoring mass weddings. Leading to more almajiri 😒

I'm sure this OP is the joke we need for the weekend.

Manculated:
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂

Go arrest your papa for house fess.
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That won't be possible because my father is married.
What I gave is an opinion based on availabile facts

Another attention seeking topic. Welcome to Nairaland. E sure me die say na Olu type this thing. I don tell that boy tire say na only gay dey form woman online.

pansophist:
Before government can arrest men for not getting married, the government should make sure that they have satisfy the following.

1. The girls are worth marrying. Imagine forcing men to marry Saidal Boj lol
2. There are jobs for men to take care of their family

Otherwise, it is dead on arrival.

That Saida Boj part got me cracked!! Una don label that petite fellow a logo for HBP and problems

No make I catch u for road
https://m.youtube.com/shorts/4r8D9Q2aKs8

pansophist:
Before government can arrest men for not getting married, the government should make sure that they have satisfy the following.

1. The girls are worth marrying. Imagine forcing men to marry Saidal Boj lol
2. There are jobs for men to take care of their family
Otherwise, it is dead on arrival.

This is the number one factor globally for men marrying late or deciding not to marry. From what I have read so far, men are seemingly tired of the job market which pits them against women and other men for scarce roles. At the same time, these women are hypergamous - so the men do not just have to compete with women for limited jobs, but have to satisfy their hypergamous tendencies.

Marriage rates have plunged across the developed world, and if not for culture and strong religion inclinations, the same would have replicated itself across Africa.

Gerrard59:
This is the number one factor globally for men marrying late or deciding not to marry. From what I have read so far, men are seemingly tired of the job market which pits them against women and other men for scarce roles. At the same time, these women are hypergamous - so the men do not just have to compete with women for limited jobs, but have to satisfy their hypergamous tendencies.

Marriage rates have plunged across the developed world, and if not for culture and strong religion inclinations, the same would have replicated itself across Africa.

The second paragraph. True

Evening newspaper spotted. After u probably finished shouting that you don't need a man in ur life forming fake feminist, now u have realised the value of a man in ur life u wants gov't to force us to marry ur left overs. Women are not willing to settle for less, thier only definition of responsible man are the ones that can provide everything for them while them the women contribute nothing nd these kind of men are just 10% of men while 100% of women are chasing them.

Mad 😡 talk

I think it's high time government started paying bachelors for staying single.
Imagine not breeding more humans in a devastating economy. That's a noble quest I tell you

OP is tired of living alone and wants a man to dump herself on. You go wait tire.

Come and force me na.

laugh with me life begins at 40
we will marry your daughters you will be too old then

Make Nigeria Great Again

Honestly, I wished we had data for marriage rates and the ages at which folks get married that cut across all ethnic groups in the country. I want to see if the social media posts align with reality. Are Nigerian men marrying much later in life? If yes, this means the women are also doing the same. In which ethnic group(s) is this more pronounced and less obvious? If they marry much later in life, why do they do so?

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According to an article in The Economist, the north has a higher fertility rate than the south largely because the latter's women are marrying much later in life. So with that, one can infer that southern Nigerian men marry later in life.

Article by The Economist (free-to-read): https://archive.md/3UMVL

Trute talk but being 30 is a biological age, but men deal with financial age

Senseless post!

Government has to start arresting all those employed ladies who still expect men to carry their responsibilities as if men are paid higher wages than women in their work places.

To address the imbalance you talked about, it's either government stop giving jobs to women so that only men work and provide for their families or arrest all employed ladies who refuse to marry because they are searching for some few richer men than their male colleagues who are at the same level with them.

There are many married irresponsible men littering the society. Most men are married but still balling like single men. The reason some people are running away from marriage is because of its conformity. That is why marriages should be treated like a business contract and everyone made to sign the rules that will govern them.