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“I checked my wife's phone yesterday and found out she is seeing someone, she sends him her nvdes, he is a well known politician in kaduna and i am so heartbroken.

I Really Love her and I can't wrap my head around what i saw. l had to check it over and over again. Whenever she goes out to buy something, they meet up and he even brings her back home.

We have 2 children together, her actions does not show off anything. I’ll never have guessed.

She knows how much I trust her, it’s been two days and I can’t seem to believe it.”💔

https://x.com/IM_muaaz/status/1891366172009828788?t=R5NBhYGdCGaBPe-c_s8eIg&s=19

See, women, even men, are not loyal to a living thing — they're only loyal to pleasure and food and it doesn't matter if they hurt someone who trusts them to achieve it. As long as they feel they won't be caught, they'll do it.

Being caught is the only reason some faithful people are still faithful. As long as they 100% know the secret will NEVER leak, they'll do it if the outcome is excitingly erótic and pleasurable.

As a man, I love varieties and I'll tell it to your face. If you can't cope, leave. I only live once.

Women are the same, but they don't have the ball to tell their men they love varieties and if he can't cope, he should leave, hence she sneaks to sleep with multiple men even when she's married and her husband trusts her.


If Northern women that all us trust so much and swear they're saints can cheat or attempt to, what will Southern, Eastern and Western women do?

Trusting a woman will ruin most men. Even if you trust, always know you'll one day be betrayed. A prepared man feels less pains.

my brother life goes on......

but i hope say know be yoruba woman

Tegabadguy:
my brother life goes on......

but i hope say know be yoruba woman

I no need tell you again say your life day under spell

First relax and know that you're in reality.

Don't raise any alarm, keep the evidences you found on her phone.

Conduct DNA tests for your children one by one. Stay away from her sexually henceforth.

If they're your children, then decide if you want to forgive her or you want a separation considering that she might continue later if you don't give her a deep fearsome impression with your actions

If the children aren't yours, then you know what to do.

Charlle don't cry pah!

Tegabadguy:
my brother life goes on......

but i hope say know be yoruba woman

You couldnt even make any intelligent contribution to the topic... Those from your side arent that bright sha




As for the Op, You go need divorce that woman o, else she go easily poison you if dem manipulate her

Women just be like commodity wey dey available for auction...na highest bidder things

A woman in a serious relationship just left my house after we showered. She headed to her boyfriend's house to spend two days so she can hand him the gift she bought for him in Aba, including Bible and lots of other things.

She came to my room and said, "I love your handwriting. What should I write on the card."

I came up with some lines, but she chose, "Deleted."

She said I should write it, but I refused and asked her to pay cuz I don't help for free.

I ended up writing it and she has gone to see him.

The moral of the story is: in every relationship, there is an invisible man (straight or gay) in-between whom he or she tells everything and they're probably f*cking and this person knows everything about you, the naive one in the relationship.

The manipulation in relationship and marriages is too much. If you're not participating in it, your spouse probably is while pretending to be innocent and naive.

Because you're a good and trustworthy person doesn't mean everyone is like you, so be wise and smart.

All those fake alpha males that usually say, "I'm too big to check her phone," una go hear weeen. Una go treat infection taya because of forming and allowing everyone have privacy. There shouldn't be privacy in a serious relationship or marriage.

Be vigilant!

I pray make the guy wey dey receive this gift no see this post sha. Na me write the caption for that gift bag.

A cheating wife is a dangerous woman!

Never trust your wife or girlfriend until you check her phone not just whatsapp/facebook, but mails and other coded messengers and recycle bin, if possible google map tracker too .. All these once na if you no want get peace of mind. But if your wife comes out clean then she is good to go, if she is cheating and you couldnt see any evidence with all these. She be real Don jazzy for the game.

I wonder who brought this useless idea of getting married. It just don't make sense. It supposed to be get pregnant for me and we will take of the child you can be flet with anyone you want likewise me.

Marriage is not for everybody.
1 Corinthians 7.
The most interesting part is verse 8

iLegendd:
A woman in a serious relationship just left my house after we showered. She headed to her boyfriend's house to spend two days so she can hand him the gift she bought for him in Aba, including Bible and lots of other things.

She came to my room and said, "I love your handwriting. What should I write on the card."

I came up with some lines, but she chose, "Deleted."

She said I should write it, but I refused and asked her to pay cuz I don't help for free.

I ended up writing it and she has gone to see him.

The moral of the story is: in every relationship, there is an invisible man (straight or gay) in-between whom he or she tells everything and they're probably f*cking and this person knows everything about you, the naive one in the relationship.

The manipulation in relationship and marriages is too much. If you're not participating in it, your spouse probably is while pretending to be innocent and naive.

Because you're a good and trustworthy person doesn't mean everyone is like you, so be wise and smart.

All those fake alpha males that usually say, "I'm too big to check her phone," una go hear weeen. Una go treat infection taya because of forming and allowing everyone have privacy. There shouldn't be privacy in a serious relationship or marriage.

Be vigilant!

I pray make the guy wey dey receive this gift no see this post sha. Na me write the caption for that gift bag.

What is the caption
Manipulation is sweet when you are the one in control. I understand women to some extent. They like to be in control. You will not offend them, but they will just do anything to hurt you. Just to tell " you wanna see crazy"
As a man, don't commit to any woman. Just feign it, pretend. Give her money, buy her gifts. But have it at the back of your mind that " I just wan Bleep this one" Bleep and go

You can never end a woman’s satisfaction , maybe the man no complete sha 🤔

Lol... Women are very sleek when it comes to cheating. It would take the grace of God for one to find out his female partner cheats. That's why the rate of paternity fraud is very high.

My girlfriend has taught a valuable lesson I'll carry to my subsequent relationships. Which is to never trust a woman. No watter how homely you think she looks. And her friends are actually a reflection of who she is.

She thinks I have forgiven her, but what she doesn't know is that the relationship is currently convenient for me. There are obvious signs she might still cheat again in the nearest future because I have access to her WhatsApp on my pc and I still see her chatting other guys. I'll keep gathering my evidences and when I'm ready to move on, I'll present it and fling her out of my life.

There is every possibility of a cheating partner doing it again in the future. Forgive a cheating partner at your own peril.

Letmecum:
I wonder who brought this useless idea of getting married. It just don't make sense. It supposed to be get pregnant for me and we will take of the child you can be flet with anyone you want likewise me.

The idea of marriage is good and I love it.

Here is how it got destroyed.

The sad thing about the white businessmen is, when something is good, they go behind and destroy it so that they'll start a business around it, pretending to have found the solution, but it's not free.

They came and saw how 1 African man was enjoying 50 p*ssies as wives and 100% peace at home with abundance of food. Each family was like a happy company.

The wives go to farm with the daughters to provide food and the man goes for hunting with the sons to provide meat or fish.

The whites saw this and got jealous, then built a plan on how to destroy it and make money from it. At this point, there weren't things like HIV. They got animals to mate with humans and that's how they got different infections to push to Africa.

They wrote books telling us killing animals is bad, inhumane and evil. Why? Just to stop African men from hunting. These were the same people who killed lots of Africans, but now, they said killing animals for food is bad. Can't you sense something fishy?

They brought schools and told our men and women that farming is for illiterates and uneducated people that degree is the way.

To get this degree, you have to pay. Families that had graduates started bragging about how educated their families are. The other families that focused on farming felt ashamed and stopped.

The little they had, they spent it on making sure there is a graduate in the house to wipe off their shame. Having a graduate in the house became a flex.

When these men an women went to school, the men got introduced to things that'll destroy them like cultism, smoking, etc. and the women into próstitution, etc. It wasn't like this at first, but the white men knew it'll get to this. These people are visionaries.

Then, they introduced feminism to let the women know whatever a man can do, they can do better.

If he can marry 7 wives, she can sleep with 700 men. Pleasure is addictive, hence these women became addicted to multiple dicks.

Any of their female friends that refuses to sleep around like them, they'll mock her, isolate her and call her sister Mary. Sadly, most of the girls succumb and starts following the wayward ones to clubs and visit different men. Along the line, some got infected and kept spreading it with the mindset of "I can't die alone."

It didn't stop there. They invented séx toys for the women to use and some of these séx toys are way better than men and the list goes on.

The good ones that didn't want to spread this infection buy séx toys to continue their pleasure while spending millions buying drugs produced by these same white men to treat it. Now you can clearly see it's a business all along.

When white men want to annihilate other races, they don't rush — they draft a 100 year blueprint and work slowly and even smart people, especially Africans won't notice. Even if they do, their puppets, they politicians that are working to uphold white men's businesses in Africa will come after you and jail you.

The school was a business. The invention of infection was a business. The destruction of African men's polygamous happy family was a business out of jealousy. Stopping African men from hunting was a business so that they'll come to Africa and carry all the animals to put in a zoo in their countries and people will pay to see them, etc.

So, the whites intentionally destroyed marriage and this was planned 100+ years ago.

Now, the 50 pussies our great grandfathers used to enjoy without being cheated on and all of them are loyal is no longer attainable. Every woman now has a séx toy produced by the whites.

China saw what the whites were doing to Africans and decided to focus 100% on production so that they'll take 90% market share from the manipulative whites, hence the West hates China and tries to ban most of their products or accuse it of being fake.

I have a lot to say, but I'll stop here. Marriage is beautiful if we can go back to the days when the whites hadn't inferred. But now, they've destroyed it for their selfish interest "business." They have manipulated our men to become SIMPs. If you disagree with a woman today she says you're not a real man or you're insecure. Who caused it? The businessmen of the European nations.

At least, Fela, Ned Nwoko, 2face, Isaac Fayoshé and a host of other real African men refused to listen to the whites.

If you mess up, they dump you and get a new woman who will worship them as our women used to do 100+ years ago before the whites came and destroyed the peace with religion, democracy, and other businesses they brought to Africa.

Do you see how China blocks 95% of American social media sites and TV stations? They are smart. It's to protect their people from social engineering and destruction of morality from the West. They've already succeeded.

Have you tried sleeping with a Chinese woman? You'll see the innocence and naivete. These are the things men love in African women back then and not the overexposed white and African women of nowadays with boreholes as p*ssies and have banged almost every big rod in their neighborhood, her Church, school, NYSC camp, etc. And Saida Boj is their role model.

The whites are ready to go to war or destroy humanity just to establish a business, then turn around to sell medicine, guns, drones, etc. after the war. They planned the destruction of African women and family values and they still want to pretend they have the solution.

Since we're all going to die one day, don't your think abundance of food and a happy home/marriage is more important than 80 million degrees or careers that are not based on creations/invention, but importation and consumption?

Food for thought.
The whites won.

But we still have
A chance to revive
Ourselves like China
And finally stop the
Blame game.

liveyourlife007:
What is the caption
Manipulation is sweet when you are the one in control. I understand women to some extent. They like to be in control. You will not offend them, but they will just do anything to hurt you. Just to tell " you wanna see crazy"
As a man, don't commit to any woman. Just feign it, pretend. Give her money, buy her gifts. But have it at the back of your mind that " I just wan Bleep this one" Bleep and go

You're a thief. How did you know our secret? Ah! This guy has exposed the bad boys' secret agenda. God will judge you.

You have mastered the game of "Only pleasure and happiness, zero emotional attachment and I'm more ready for the collapse of this union than her whenever she wants it."

Foolish man, instead to divorce her.

iLegendd:
Trusting a woman will ruin most men. Even if you trust, always know you'll one day be betrayed. A prepared man feels less pains.

How do you prepare for a betrayal when you don't know when exactly it will happen especially when you're really into the said partner. Is it by keeping multiple partners or not getting emotionally attached, will that make it less of a pain if the betrayal does happen? Just asking though..

My brother forget your wife phone and cheating habit. In this game you can never win. The best is go and look for money, more money and if you want peace get another wife. Period

There's nothing you will do to a woman that will satisfy her, money and sex nothing... Create a competition. Simple

CheedyJ:
How do you prepare for a betrayal when you don't know when exactly it will happen especially when you're really into the said partner. Is it by keeping multiple partners or not getting emotionally attached, will that make it less of a pain if the betrayal does happen? Just asking though..

I'm an author. When I reply people, I do it as if it's a chapter of an unfinished book, hence I'm detailed.

Let me answer you.


If you're a man, you need to put your ancestors first before any imported ideology.

What is the ideology of your ancestors about marriage?

1. One man to multiple women (Are you obeying it? No. That's failure 1).
2. You need to be in charge and no one else is above your order in your family, including her pastor, your pastor, your father, mother, her father, mother, etc. (Are you in charge like that? If no, failure 2).

Failure is not a bad thing or the end of the world, but are you prepared to rise again when it comes?

The two things you listed are actually how you prepare for betrayal and to achieve it, you need money.

In the olden days, you could achieve them without money, but your hunting or wrestling skills. Now, you must have money or come from a family where money is not a problem.

Men don't need love, but respect, peace of mind and loyalty. Na stupid men dey look for who go love them and these men are always emotional when they don't get loved by the woman they love.

For me, I just want her to be as beautiful as I want, as smart as I want, as respectful and loyal as I want, but she should keep the love for our children, not me because I'm also keeping my own love for our unborn children.

If we happen not to marry each other, my love for my unborn kids is still intact and I move on to the next women. When you don't show sign of love, but you're protecting and providing, women tend to become addicted to you until you profess your love, but don't. D

Look at Ned Nwoko's beautiful wives. They don't need to love him neither does he love them, they just need to obey and worship him and give him cute smart kids. That's all.

It's the good-looking smart children Ned is after, not love from his wives. If any of them cheats, she's out and a more beautiful and younger one takes over. This is the power every man must have, else you're not a complete man.

You won't live forever, so try and live in your terms and program yourself to handle betrayal by being less emotionally involved, have options and have money, simple. Men can't be short or ugly, they can only be broke.

Aki and Pawpaw are not short as long as there is money or fame. Ned is not old or ugly as long as there is money or fame.

How do you start in controlling your emotions? Let's Assume you love Ronaldo, Davido and Real Madrid passionately.

When there is an argument where people are talking down on one of those three above, don't react or be bothered. Feel the insult or pain and allow it to subside. At a point, even when Madrid loses by 6-0, you won't be bothered except you're a gambler. Do this until you're emotionally detached.

Back in the day when people used to abuse me in the comment section, I used to get upset, but now, it's just cruise and I feel nothing.

Let try an experiment.

If your mom is still alive and you love her so much, when your woman dumps you, ask yourself this:

A. Losing this relationship with girl and
B. Losing my mom to death...

...which would I prefer? Immediately, you'll realize you prefer losing the relationship to losing your mom.

One thing I also do to trick my brain is: I trade crypto and when I lose, I remind myself that at least another man in another country won, so my gender is getting richer. It's a win win.

I also tell myself that 50-80 years from now, I'll be dead and gone, hence all these money I'm making or losing is nothing but vanity.

This same mindset is what I use in relationship. As long as she's f*cking another man and didn't switch to lesbianism, my gender won.

I want my fellow men to always win, even if it's against me. So, I use gender war to trick myself into feeling better. Deep down, I love it when men succeed because I know he'll spread love and help people, especially the women in his family, his mother, etc.

I won't forgive you for cheating on me, but at least my gender won and I'm happy for him. The p*ssy still belongs to us, the male gender.

These are some of the tricks I use and they work. Your mental sanity and peace of mind is the most important, so find as many tricks and you can to protect it, else pay the price for being defenceless.

Love is for babies, teenagers and great-grandfathers of 80 and above. These are the people that need to be loved. From 20 to 70, you need money, skills and progress, not love.

Most men don't know this, hence they spend their 20s, 30s, 40s, to 70s searching for who will love them for who they are. Even with your money, you won't be loved, they can pretend to love you though. The respect, peace of mind and loyalty is all you'll get and maybe, fake love.

Know this now and know peace and act accordingly and you'll never anticipate for what does not exist for your age bracket.

The moment you embrace this mindset, you'll see how more confident and less expectant of love you'll become. GUARANTEED!

Na the love wey we play for primary, secondary or even uni dey decieve us. We want to replicate those fantasies and fun moments with a woman how has received more than 80 dicks before she became 18. She's already used to varieties.

After age 30, there is no love for you as a woman. After age 20 there is no love for you as a man, it's fake. She'll cheat on you. It's all games and manipulation. If you don't play it, they'll play it against you. Even if you don't want to play it, at least, be vigilant or stay away from relationship or marriage for your sanity.

From age 80 is when you'll get love again from your children or grandchildren, only if you're a rich and caring grandpa that always buys them gifts and celebrate their birthdays.

You see? Even as a grandpa, your playfulness and spending is the reason they love you. Some stingy grandpas, all their children and grandkids have deserted them.

A man must pay for something for him to get something in return.

iLegendd:
I'm an author. When I reply people, I do it as if it's a chapter of an unfinished book, hence I'm detailed.

Let me answer you.


If you're a man, you need to put your ancestors first before any imported ideology.

What is the ideology of your ancestors about marriage?

1. One man to multiple women (Are you obeying it? No. That's failure 1).
2. You need to be in charge and no one else is above your order in your family, including her pastor, your pastor, your father, mother, her father, mother, etc. (Are you in charge like that? If no, failure 2).

Failure is not a bad thing or the end of the world, but are you prepared to rise again when it comes?

The two things you listed are actually how you prepare for betrayal and to achieve it, you need money.

In the olden days, you could achieve them without money, but your hunting or wrestling skills. Now, you must have money or come from a family where money is not a problem.

Men don't need love, but respect, peace of mind and loyalty. Na stupid men dey look for who go love them and these men are always emotional when they don't get loved by the woman they love.

For me, I just want her to be as beautiful as I want, as smart as I want, as respectful and loyal as I want, but she should keep the love for our children, not me because I'm also keeping my own love for our unborn children.

If we happen not to marry each other, my love for my unborn kids is still intact and I move on to the next women. When you don't show sign of love, but you're protecting and providing, women tend to become addicted to you until you profess your love, but don't. D

Look at Ned Nwoko's beautiful wives. They don't need to love him neither does he love them, they just need to obey and worship him and give him cute smart kids. That's all.

It's the good-looking smart children Ned is after, not love from his wives. If any of them cheats, she's out and a more beautiful and younger one takes over. This is the power every man must have, else you're not a complete man.

You won't live forever, so try and live in your terms and program yourself to handle betrayal by being less emotionally involved, have options and have money, simple. Men can't be short or ugly, they can only be broke.

Aki and Pawpaw are not short as long as there is money or fame. Ned is not old or ugly as long as there is money or fame.

How do you start in controlling your emotions? Let's Assume you love Ronaldo, Davido and Real Madrid passionately.

When there is an argument where people are talking down on one of those three above, don't react or be bothered. Feel the insult or pain and allow it to subside. At a point, even when Madrid loses by 6-0, you won't be bothered except you're a gambler. Do this until you're emotionally detached.

Back in the day when people used to abuse me in the comment section, I used to get upset, but now, it's just cruise and I feel nothing.

Let try an experiment.

If your mom is still alive and you love her so much, when your woman dumps you, ask yourself this:

A. Losing this relationship with girl and
B. Losing my mom to death...

...which would I prefer? Immediately, you'll realize you prefer losing the relationship to losing your mom.

One thing I also do to trick my brain is: I trade crypto and when I lose, I remind myself that at least another man in another country won, so my gender is getting richer. It's a win win.

I also tell myself that 50-80 years from now, I'll be dead and gone, hence all these money I'm making or losing is nothing but vanity.

This same mindset is what I use in relationship. As long as she's f*cking another man and didn't switch to lesbianism, my gender won.

I want my fellow men to always win, even if it's against me. So, I use gender war to trick myself into feeling better. Deep down, I love it when men succeed because I know he'll spread love and help people, especially the women in his family, his mother, etc.

I won't forgive you for cheating on me, but at least my gender won and I'm happy for him. The p*ssy still belongs to us, the male gender.

These are some of the tricks I use and they work. Your mental sanity and peace of mind is the most important, so find as many tricks and you can to protect it, else pay the price for being defenceless.

Love is for babies, teenagers and great-grandfathers of 80 and above. These are the people that need to be loved. From 20 to 70, you need money, skills and progress, not love.

Most men don't know this, hence they spend their 20s, 30s, 40s, to 70s searching for who will love them for who they are. Even with your money, you won't be loved, they can pretend to love you though. The respect, peace of mind and loyalty is all you'll get and maybe, fake love.

Know this now and know peace and act accordingly and you'll never anticipate for what does not exist for your age bracket.

The moment you embrace this mindset, you'll see how more confident and less expectant of love you'll become. GUARANTEED!

Na the love wey we play for primary, secondary or even uni dey decieve us. We want to replicate those fantasies and fun moments with a woman how has received more than 80 dicks before she became 18. She's already used to varieties.

After age 30, there is no love for you as a woman. After age 20 there is no love for you as a man, it's fake. She'll cheat on you. It's all games and manipulation. If you don't play it, they'll play it against you. Even if you don't want to play it, at least, be vigilant or stay away from relationship or marriage for your sanity.

From age 80 is when you'll get love again from your children or grandchildren, only if you're a rich and caring grandpa that always buys them gifts and celebrate their birthdays.

You see? Even as a grandpa, your playfulness and spending is the reason they love you. Some stingy grandpas, all their children and grandkids have deserted them.

A man must pay for something for him to get something in return.

Nice write up although I disagree with a few of your points nevertheless, you made a lot of sense..

EmperorCaesar:
You couldnt even make any intelligent contribution to the topic... Those from your side arent that bright sha




As for the Op, You go need divorce that woman o, else she go easily poison you if dem manipulate her

Women just be like commodity wey dey available for auction...na highest bidder things

i only say my mind

Olachase:
I no need tell you again say your life day under spell

you funny

Letmecum:
I wonder who brought this useless idea of getting married. It just don't make sense. It supposed to be get pregnant for me and we will take of the child you can be flet with anyone you want likewise me.

your second name go be diseases and infections. You can’t be able to escape from the worse. There is more restriction in marriage to otherwise

iLegendd:
See, women, even men, are not loyal to a living thing — they're only loyal to pleasure and food and it doesn't matter if they hurt someone who trusts them to achieve it. As long as they feel they won't be caught, they'll do it.

Being caught is the only reason some faithful people are still faithful. As long as they 100% know the secret will NEVER leak, they'll do it if the outcome is excitingly erótic and pleasurable.

As a man, I love varieties and I'll tell it to your face. If you can't cope, leave. I only live once.

Women are the same, but they don't have the ball to tell their men they love varieties and if he can't cope, he should leave, hence she sneaks to sleep with multiple men even when she's married and her husband trusts her.


If Northern women that all us trust so much and swear they're saints can cheat or attempt to, what will Southern, Eastern and Western women do?

polygamy is just the sure way. She needs another woman to be check mating her lifestyle likewise she doing same in return. Women are good rivals to themselves. . Divorcing her will make you to end up going to marry another woman. what if the new one will have same attitude of infidelity. It is said that the devil you know is better than the angel you don’t know. A Woman that has delivered kids for you, why wanting her to leave

Ok

Stories penned on social media are mostly for entertainment. I won’t believe anything without irrefutable proof.

Nawa o

Only God can give a good wife

iLegendd:
https://x.com/IM_muaaz/status/1891366172009828788?t=R5NBhYGdCGaBPe-c_s8eIg&s=19

See, women, even men, are not loyal to a living thing — they're only loyal to pleasure and food and it doesn't matter if they hurt someone who trusts them to achieve it. As long as they feel they won't be caught, they'll do it.

Being caught is the only reason some faithful people are still faithful. As long as they 100% know the secret will NEVER leak, they'll do it if the outcome is excitingly erótic and pleasurable.

As a man, I love varieties and I'll tell it to your face. If you can't cope, leave. I only live once.

Women are the same, but they don't have the ball to tell their men they love varieties and if he can't cope, he should leave, hence she sneaks to sleep with multiple men even when she's married and her husband trusts her.


If Northern women that all us trust so much and swear they're saints can cheat or attempt to, what will Southern, Eastern and Western women do?

I think husbands should wake up to this reality, ........women not seeing marriage as "sacred" as it used to be in the past, women from 50 years downward don't have such mentality to hold their marriage in high esteem, and believe their body is precious to them and their husbands alone, they want to leave a life, that husband leaving.(polygamous)


My 2 cents for husbands nowadays, just be leaving in self-denial, if you want to leave peaceful life, before you go back to your creator.

Only 1 of 50 wives that still respecting her husband with her body.