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Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Samajogs: 11:40am On Feb 21, 2025
Men, money can’t keep a woman. Stop thinking that spending heavily on her will make her yours forever. Save your money and invest it. You don’t need to overdo it to earn her love. Always remember, you are the prize.
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by joshbj(m): 11:40am On Feb 21, 2025
bigpicture001:
Women move on easily cuz they really never loved any man... Only men do love women... Women are in it for benefits
I can't agree less
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Harrynight(m): 11:41am On Feb 21, 2025
grin




Okafor's Law is s fuckin real shocked
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by hopexter(m): 11:41am On Feb 21, 2025
Carndidlaydid:
She moved on... You too try to move on


Men are obsessed beings
It’s always hard for simps to move on.
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by killuminati(m): 11:41am On Feb 21, 2025
grin
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by DaveHarry(m): 11:42am On Feb 21, 2025
any morgue job vacancy?
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by lovebird65(m): 11:42am On Feb 21, 2025
There's no happy ending for Simps like you!!!! D**e ModaF****ka
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by sunsweet33: 11:42am On Feb 21, 2025
Start doing simple meditations in the morning to clear your nervous system of painful emotions.
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by MatrixCircle:
Obsession. Go for counselling.
I didn't say go to Pastors.

Go to professional counsellors
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by osazsky(m): 11:44am On Feb 21, 2025
Always think of her pooing in a dirty toilet..it helps
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by dust144(m): 11:44am On Feb 21, 2025
Women knows the next guy they will be with after each breakup not for men, guy! Go hang out with friends.
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by DeepSightZ: 11:44am On Feb 21, 2025
BABANGBALI:
I sell rat poison and it's very ship
12345baba:
Taste sniper with the tip of ur tongue first
Shame on you guys.
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by DeepSightZ: 11:45am On Feb 21, 2025
osazsky:
Always think of her pooing in a dirty toilet..it helps
What if that's his kink?
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by gigabyte13: 11:45am On Feb 21, 2025
You still dey carry love for head with all these brouhaha wey dey Nigeria.
Be like you no get better workload
You still dey monitor her on her social media pages Abi.....
Find love again in another woman and moved on , stop monitoring her on her social media and through her friends.
Face your life.
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Fiscus105(m): 11:46am On Feb 21, 2025
By constant remembering urself that, ONLY YOU CAME TO THIS WORLD AND ONLY YOU WILL LEAVE WHEN THE TIMES COMES.

I won't surprise if any or the two factors I want to list below affecting you.

You are a type of guy struggling to toast and stay with a lady.


You are parasite in the relationship.
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by OlawaleBammie: 11:49am On Feb 21, 2025
Wizzy13:
We broke up after having multiple quarrels.
We have dated for 3years and she became a part of me. We went our separate ways for close to a month now.
I started healing but these says she has been appearing to Me like every day and it hurts when ever i set my eyes on her.
She has moved on so quickly and she's dating now.
This is really hurting.
Now wishing i neva knew her
pls don't Say am simping its only who had loved for that long will understand.
Urs is just two months grin

Mine is almost 6yrs now and she has never left my mind and head. I am even beginning to think it's spiritual
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by BABANGBALI: 11:49am On Feb 21, 2025
DeepSightZ:
Shame on you guys.
i am still selling rat poison and it's very ship
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by GVTAsiwaju(m): 11:49am On Feb 21, 2025
Wizzy13:
We broke up after having multiple quarrels.
We have dated for 3years and she became a part of me. We went our separate ways for close to a month now.
I started healing but these says she has been appearing to Me like every day and it hurts when ever i set my eyes on her.
She has moved on so quickly and she's dating now.
This is really hurting.
Now wishing i neva knew her
pls don't Say am simping its only who had loved for that long will understand.
Ladies move on before the physical manifestation…. You may not be able to forget until you get someone better in all ramifications and love you but now just learn to live your life with her thought on the backend of your mind
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by perezski(m): 11:49am On Feb 21, 2025
It's easy but you must be religious following all these steps.
1. Sever all ties with her e.g block all your connections with her via social media, pictures, her friends whom you know through her. I mean everything that will bring back her thougjhts through your mind.
2. If possible take a break from the same atea where you both have had romantic past together because this will always bring emotional flash backs. In fact if feasible, take a vacation or relocate if you both reside in same vicinity.
3. Follow all the aforementioned regiously and thank me later. Also while you adhere, time will always be your most healer. Dont forget to kewp your mind productive by making money legitimately. You be fine bro.
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by kay29000(m):
bigpicture001:
Women move on easily cuz they really never loved any man... Only men do love women... Women are in it for benefits
I think it's because they usually have many options. Even while dating, they usually have a male bestie and many men on their case. So it's easier for them to jump on the man they liked almost as much as their ex.

This theory is based on average men and women, not rich men and women.
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by ForexPay(m): 11:50am On Feb 21, 2025
The bible says "men,love your wife; women, honour your husband". This saying tells me that woman don't have the capacity to love but to respect a man.
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by kay29000(m): 11:51am On Feb 21, 2025
Wizzy13:
We broke up after having multiple quarrels.
We have dated for 3years and she became a part of me. We went our separate ways for close to a month now.
I started healing but these says she has been appearing to Me like every day and it hurts when ever i set my eyes on her.
She has moved on so quickly and she's dating now.
This is really hurting.
Now wishing i neva knew her
pls don't Say am simping its only who had loved for that long will understand.
I understand you. I was in the same spot 4 years ago. The beat thing is to get busy and get a new girl. You need to feel that void, or your mind will keep going to her.
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by ufotunang: 11:52am On Feb 21, 2025
Wizzy13:
We broke up after having multiple quarrels.
We have dated for 3years and she became a part of me. We went our separate ways for close to a month now.
I started healing but these says she has been appearing to Me like every day and it hurts when ever i set my eyes on her.
She has moved on so quickly and she's dating now.
This is really hurting.
Now wishing i neva knew her
pls don't Say am simping its only who had loved for that long will understand.
.. instead of thinking on how to make money...you are thinking of woman ? .. nawaoooo
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Barteze: 11:52am On Feb 21, 2025
Wizzy13:
We broke up after having multiple quarrels.
We have dated for 3years and she became a part of me. We went our separate ways for close to a month now.
I started healing but these says she has been appearing to Me like every day and it hurts when ever i set my eyes on her.
She has moved on so quickly and she's dating now.
This is really hurting.
Now wishing i neva knew her
pls don't Say am simping its only who had loved for that long will understand.
I understand you very well just try to occupy your mind with other thoughts stop thinking of her and gradually you will move on.
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Sofistcatdmoron: 11:53am On Feb 21, 2025
Wizzy13:
We broke up after having multiple quarrels.
We have dated for 3years and she became a part of me. We went our separate ways for close to a month now.
I started healing but these says she has been appearing to Me like every day and it hurts when ever i set my eyes on her.
She has moved on so quickly and she's dating now.
This is really hurting.
Now wishing i neva knew her
pls don't Say am simping its only who had loved for that long will understand.
you are a simp, dont love too much because love will kill u,
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Fiscus105(m): 11:53am On Feb 21, 2025
kay29000:
I think it's because they usually have many options. Even while dating, they usually have a bestie and many men on their case. So it's easier for them to jump on the man they liked almost as much as their ex.

This theory is based on average men and women, not rich men and women.
So, men doesn't have many options? Maybe from ur own angle.

Men have wider options than women and it's men that move on faster than women, if you as man finding it difficult to move on wen ur woman has even forgotten he ever met you, just know you are nothing but lowlife material.
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Afolue(m): 11:54am On Feb 21, 2025
elmagnifico411:
pluck like 10 beater leaves, put them in a blender and add some water. Blend a little and sieve using a thistle funnel.. after every, drink the water. The bitterness in bitter leave has an after sweet taste. U know this saying in Yoruba, “adun lo Kehinde ewuro”? After the bitterness of loosing your ex and u drinking the bitter leave water, the sweet after taste will later knock off the the bitterness making you happy in your heart, and you’d get your life back and move on like u never dated her… it works like magic!
he doesn’t want to leave her. This remedy is against the op solution to his problem. He wants people to say what he wants to hear
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by TheWitchKing(m): 11:55am On Feb 21, 2025
Someone way day collect outside Gbola since. Even the one shes with, she day collect gbola there, day collect another Gbola some place else.
Give yourself peace o.

Better find one country travel and have peace.
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by MikeofKd(m): 11:55am On Feb 21, 2025
You guys dated for 3 years and after you guys broke up , ur ex is already dating anoda nigga ahhh. Lol

Anyways the only real way to heal or move on is to accept that whatever has happened, has happened, certain things are beyond our control in this life. Don't fight the feelings of thinking about her , embrace it. It might take a year or two but you eventually move on naturally.
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by micflo28(m): 11:55am On Feb 21, 2025
3 years down the drain, it's time to leave woman matter for now bro. Make money to the extent that you are seriously ready for marriage, when you do, don't date for that long without seriously committing to marriage, 3 months is enough to ditch an unserious lady. You need to be mature to know that Women want marriage and not a headless lengthy relationship.
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by VicM6: 11:55am On Feb 21, 2025
Wizzy13:
We broke up after having multiple quarrels.
We have dated for 3years and she became a part of me. We went our separate ways for close to a month now.
I started healing but these says she has been appearing to Me like every day and it hurts when ever i set my eyes on her.
She has moved on so quickly and she's dating now.
This is really hurting.
Now wishing i neva knew her
pls don't Say am simping its only who had loved for that long will understand.
She already moved on while you are still feeling the heat due to the separation. Let me just be frank with you, Did you know all those 3 years of dating, you were actually dating ur own self thinking you were in love with someone else......She cut u off the track a long time ago and was jst finding a perfect time to quit. She ended the relationship long time ago but u neva knew.......

Just move on nd look for someone else who's worth it and let her be....
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by ufotunang: 11:55am On Feb 21, 2025
Wizzy13:
We broke up after having multiple quarrels.
We have dated for 3years and she became a part of me. We went our separate ways for close to a month now.
I started healing but these says she has been appearing to Me like every day and it hurts when ever i set my eyes on her.
She has moved on so quickly and she's dating now.
This is really hurting.
Now wishing i neva knew her
pls don't Say am simping its only who had loved for that long will understand.
.. thinking of woman in this Tinubu renewed shege hard economy?
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