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Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by obinna58(m):
Wizzy13:
We broke up after having multiple quarrels.
We have dated for 3years and she became a part of me. We went our separate ways for close to a month now.
I started healing but these says she has been appearing to Me like every day and it hurts when ever i set my eyes on her.
She has moved on so quickly and she's dating now.
This is really hurting.
Now wishing i neva knew her
pls don't Say am simping its only who had loved for that long will understand.
It’s natural thing in men that they feel this way, once I felt this way but I had to ask my shameless self why I had to get depressed for someone who never gave a fvk about you, someone willing to move on without thinking twice then you realize it’s the nature of women to punish weakness in men
Counter your weak mind turning you into weak stupid simp and start chasing success instead of women
I feel no atom of pity for women cos they are simply the cause of their woes
Once she finds out your honest likeness for her then you’re doomed


Fvckin stop thinking about women it’s totally stupid and reeks high level of irresponsibility/weakness

Remember it’s men who marries 7beatiful ladies and these women shower him with respect and praises always, so ask yourself why would you be stuck on the level you are


Women are mere toys to play with even though the society lies about it
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Kinkinatus(m): 12:42pm On Feb 21, 2025
I remember what one white woman shared with a friend of mine who went through a tough breakup. She told him to not waste any time and find another babe to date and that was the quickest and best way to get over a heartbreak.
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by biggz82: 12:45pm On Feb 21, 2025
Just hang yourself thinking go stop


Thank me later from the other side.
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by tollyboy5(m): 12:46pm On Feb 21, 2025
Carndidlaydid:
She moved on... You too try to move on


Men are obsessed beings
It's not easy lol. Don't worry I will give him some advice that might put tears in someone's eyes.
Women contribute nothing to relationship, so they quickly move on when they discovered a new Maga.
Guys invest alot and breakdown at the end grin
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Exceed15: 12:47pm On Feb 21, 2025
Stop torturing yourself. Move on bro.
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by JustPowerApps(m): 12:47pm On Feb 21, 2025
SIMPle man cheesy
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by favour32(m): 12:48pm On Feb 21, 2025
As a man love carefully anything can happen.
As a woman, no shaking, as you don't love but have self interest.


So,it's easy for the woman to move on easily to the next self interest.
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by israelmao(m):
From your explanation it is clear that you love you ex more than she loved and this one of the reasons she found it easier to move on so quickly than you.To move on and leave the past behind you must first love yourself and believe that the reason you parted was because you are not meant for each and there is a far better relationship waiting for you.
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by tollyboy5(m): 12:50pm On Feb 21, 2025
Wizzy13:
We broke up after having multiple quarrels.
We have dated for 3years and she became a part of me. We went our separate ways for close to a month now.
I started healing but these says she has been appearing to Me like every day and it hurts when ever i set my eyes on her.
She has moved on so quickly and she's dating now.
This is really hurting.
Now wishing i neva knew her
pls don't Say am simping its only who had loved for that long will understand.
It will always taunt you my bro. Women don't love. Their love is based on how you prove yourself to them.
Once there's an issue they quickly forget everything lol. All your sacrifice..
You need to know this and make sure you're ready to just catch fun and that's all lol.
Don't prove yourself to a lady anymore..
It doesn't worth it grin
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by eepeepook: 12:57pm On Feb 21, 2025
Get a new soon to be ex. That’s how relationships work. You can try the hard mode version of improving on yourself while hoping to forget her. That can take as little as six months to twelve years to forget her.
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by kayyyy44: 1:12pm On Feb 21, 2025
😂😂
osazsky:
Always think of her pooing in a dirty toilet..it helps
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by MrNipplesLover(m): 1:15pm On Feb 21, 2025
Someone should tell this niggah that all he needs is a brand new pussy...

Weak men are not African....
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Ezzymadu(m): 1:19pm On Feb 21, 2025
Go hospital doctor will operate her comot from your body 🤓🥺 how
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Miramonica: 1:20pm On Feb 21, 2025
I hope you fvcked her well before breaking up with her?

Get busy, when you're busy you will forget her.
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Coolbadguy: 1:33pm On Feb 21, 2025
Women doesn't love completely compared to men, when a women is dating you their eyes are also outside with many options and back up plans which is why they easily move on once they break up in a relationship, while men at the other hand gets hurt more and they don't easily move on because they love completely without other options or back up plans.
So my brother's out of 365 days in a year use 364 days take fear woman..
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by kentokay71: 1:33pm On Feb 21, 2025
She don jazz you
Wizzy13:
We broke up after having multiple quarrels.
We have dated for 3years and she became a part of me. We went our separate ways for close to a month now.
I started healing but these says she has been appearing to Me like every day and it hurts when ever i set my eyes on her.
She has moved on so quickly and she's dating now.
This is really hurting.
Now wishing i neva knew her
pls don't Say am simping its only who had loved for that long will understand.
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by AfahaAbia(m): 1:39pm On Feb 21, 2025
MarveworldG:
Here is the solution.
Just reach out to us so we can do something like this for you. Each time you behold it, you will forget about anybody else.
Note: it's not limited to this alone, we have many that will suit you.
+234 8 - 1 1 98 - 96 4 - 7 - 2
How much is that? I want to do it for my Mother
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by sync(f): 1:41pm On Feb 21, 2025
The best way to get over one is to get under another
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by aswani(m): 1:44pm On Feb 21, 2025
Wizzy13:
We broke up after having multiple quarrels.
We have dated for 3years and she became a part of me. We went our separate ways for close to a month now.
I started healing but these says she has been appearing to Me like every day and it hurts when ever i set my eyes on her.
She has moved on so quickly and she's dating now.
This is really hurting.
Now wishing i neva knew her
pls don't Say am simping its only who had loved for that long will understand.
No one can help you on that, you must do it yourself and soon
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by amadiwati(m): 1:45pm On Feb 21, 2025
Delete and block everything that connect/ reminds you of her.
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by efemena5050(m): 1:48pm On Feb 21, 2025
Let me help u out cuz hv been in ur shoes .....see it's a normal thing to think about ur ex ....infact the mind will make it look like u cause all the error in relationships......


Now the solution is this ...go back to her and beg her tell her u want her back obviously she will reject u and say no ....don't relent go back again do things u never did when u were dating she will reject u this time continue this recipe for 1 month each time she reject u .....ur brain unconsciously erase her from ur psychic and formulate her negative sides to u......when u do this over time her constant lay off of u will make u get tired and u will find out she was not worth it.........


Don't listen to anybody telling u to date another person in her place .....the new girl will remind u of ur ex......also don't try to bottle up the feeling cuz u will be seeing her even inside ur plate of food......our brain keep visuals of people tht were good to us later on ...
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by SmartyPants(m):
Wizzy13:
We broke up after having multiple quarrels.
We have dated for 3years and she became a part of me. We went our separate ways for close to a month now.
I started healing but these says she has been appearing to Me like every day and it hurts when ever i set my eyes on her.
She has moved on so quickly and she's dating now.
This is really hurting.
Now wishing i neva knew her
pls don't Say am simping its only who had loved for that long will understand.
After 3 years, you should have just gotten married. Haba - that's a significant investment in time and energy and if you could make it work for 3 years you could have made it work for 30 years. Don't be fooled by the fact that she has moved on - it's much easier for women to enter a relationship because they always have suitors.

What she is doing is rebounding into another relationship to cope with leaving you. You, too, just want her back because she is with someone else.

Anyway, there is no advice that will work here other than be patient. Time will heal you.
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by GindoX(m): 1:51pm On Feb 21, 2025
Do away with all that could remind you of her,
Gifts she bought
Her Number
If possible, places she frequent
Photos etc
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by gabbytabby: 1:55pm On Feb 21, 2025
Usually from people one would say what benefit self.

Carndidlaydid:
Same old lame story

Women are always in a relationship for the benefits

Some old bs
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by occfx: 1:56pm On Feb 21, 2025
Wizzy13:
We broke up after having multiple quarrels.
We have dated for 3years and she became a part of me. We went our separate ways for close to a month now.
I started healing but these says she has been appearing to Me like every day and it hurts when ever i set my eyes on her.
She has moved on so quickly and she's dating now.
This is really hurting.
Now wishing i neva knew her
pls don't Say am simping its only who had loved for that long will understand.
You are simping bro and from your writing you are not upto 25. You don't know those people, you will be glad she is no longer part of you in 3yrs time. Focus your energy on money. Someone who is dating after one month was cheating on you or was planning to cheat. Women plenty ooo but money dey scarce... Choose your struggle wisely
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Uguruzik(m): 1:56pm On Feb 21, 2025
Go and make money, make yourself better and more important and attractive
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by EmmyOD(m): 1:59pm On Feb 21, 2025
MarveworldG:
Here is the solution.
Just reach out to us so we can do something like this for you. Each time you behold it, you will forget about anybody else.
Note: it's not limited to this alone, we have many that will suit you.
+234 8 - 1 1 98 - 96 4 - 7 - 2
Do you stay in Enugu ?
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Sparrk007(m): 1:59pm On Feb 21, 2025
The speed these girls used to move on after breakup need to be study, seem girls don't really love them just pretend all along
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by EmmyOD(m): 2:00pm On Feb 21, 2025
BABANGBALI:
I sell rat poison and it's very ship
Getaway u !
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by sholly28(m): 2:00pm On Feb 21, 2025
You need another girl friend
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by VeryBoi(m): 2:02pm On Feb 21, 2025
Carndidlaydid:
Same old lame story

Women are always in a relationship for the benefits

Some old bs
🙂😂
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by LoneSoldier: 2:03pm On Feb 21, 2025
Wizzy13:
We broke up after having multiple quarrels.
We have dated for 3years and she became a part of me. We went our separate ways for close to a month now.
I started healing but these says she has been appearing to Me like every day and it hurts when ever i set my eyes on her.
She has moved on so quickly and she's dating now.
This is really hurting.
Now wishing i neva knew her
pls don't Say am simping its only who had loved for that long will understand.
All this year's you wasted with that liability would have been channelled into improving yourself financially, and the greatest of all, being a bachelor would have gave you peace of mind.....
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