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| "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by annolomy(op): 4:52pm On Feb 22, 2025 |
There's this girl who frequently comes to my mom's store to buy foodstuffs and snacks. Over time, I've developed a crush on her, but I'm struggling with how to express my feelings and start a conversation with her. The challenge is that she always seems busy. She's a tailoring apprentice, so she’s often in a hurry and might not have time to stop and chat. To be honest, I do have a girlfriend, but her behavior has been questionable. I have a strong feeling that she has a side boyfriend in school, and I don’t want to invest all my emotions in her only to end up disappointed. So, I need some advice. How can I get closer to this girl I'm crushing on and make her notice my interest? Also, if there’s a way to get her contact without making things awkward, I’d really appreciate it. |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by santaclaws: 5:16pm On Feb 22, 2025 |
Better face your studies and focus on how to leave your mother's shop so you can become something in life! Your parents are training you, but you are looking for a girl to date and start sleeping with. Very soon now, you will impregnate her and come here again for solution. If you like insult me, I have told you the truth as an elder. |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by Zaheertyler(m): 5:22pm On Feb 22, 2025 |
Lol Better go and start learning a skill |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by Saga16: 6:15pm On Feb 22, 2025 |
Summon the courage to talk to her. She may already be nursing some interest in you. You never know. Even if she never took notice of you, you might just give her something to think about. Forget all those telling you about school. When you gain experience in life, you realise things don't always work in an ordered form. Back to the matter: If she doesn't accept your approach, at least you've tried. Lastly, the beautiful ones are not yet born. What I mean is, years from now, you'll see another that would blow your mind. E no dey finish. |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by Vicboy1(m): 6:16pm On Feb 22, 2025 |
Oga go hustle and leave crush |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by Fiscus105(m): 6:18pm On Feb 22, 2025 |
annolomy:.... feeding him,but planning to be be feeding dog. Life not start destroying at 40s, 50s or 70s, but from very tender age. |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by Emvicprints1: 8:17pm On Feb 22, 2025 |
Guy go learn better work. Not even school self. |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by joromii: 8:46pm On Feb 22, 2025 |
One day while you're packing her order for her. Ask her a relative question about work or her wellbeing. Ask for her name, after she answers you. Tell her to have a nice day and enjoy her snacks, be friendly Next time she comes, Ask her how's she's doing, don't be too friendly. Put her in confusion. Third time: with maximum confidence, ask her do you mind if I get your phone number. If she asks why, tell her, just basic texting if she doesn't mind. If she gives you. Play your games right. Don't be too forward and don't be too slow Disclaimer: all these would work if you're good looking, always well dressed and you're presentable. If not. I wish you all the best |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by Nicepoker(m): 10:24pm On Feb 22, 2025 |
Pack all your mom's goods hand them over to her. Problem solved . Ole your preek is dangling for a seamstress apprentice. ![]() |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by EmmyMaestro(m): 10:34pm On Feb 22, 2025 |
santaclaws:Don't mind him, he does not know she waiting for him to befriend her so that she can start collecting credit and he no go even see her pant |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by Nijimog: 10:39pm On Feb 22, 2025 |
I hope no be your dick dey do the thinking, abi na crushing Better guage yourself well, especially if she comes to buy something. If not, you fit dey hand am market on credit. At the end puna, u fit no see |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by Ki11YurSev: 11:47pm On Feb 22, 2025 |
Ah! First you be Bart Simpson! And you be mumu wey u suppose dey reason how you go get money better your own LIFE.. you con dey reason apprentice wey dey probably reason how her OWN LIFE wey go change wen she finish learning tailoring. Also leave that your schoolgirl gf wey dey manage you make she face her book Abi nah her school parole WHATEVER! Shame on YOU sheema
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| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by dopedealer(m): 2:01am On Feb 23, 2025 |
The next time you sight her , hide your phone and tell her you're looking for it , pls could she assist in calling your number . Shey na everything we go reach Una ? Anyways , dont forget to tell her thank you and you wouldn't mind saving her number . Introduce your self and ask for her name so you could save her her number. Simple |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by Rodimi20000000: 3:00am On Feb 23, 2025 |
Dash her things from your moms store.. U goan learn |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by Nobody: 3:48am On Feb 23, 2025 |
Just grab her by the pussy. It works all the time.. |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by Nobody: 3:50am On Feb 23, 2025 |
Rodimi20000000:This will work wonders. Always tell her to come back for more ![]() |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by teeteepeejay: 8:02am On Feb 23, 2025 |
annolomy:Whenever she comes around, ensure she doesn't pay for anything and give her double of what she asks for. This way she will notice you. Thank me later when you and your mother's life spoil finish. Slowpoke |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by floss(m): 9:53am On Feb 23, 2025 |
Tell her your dicck has noticed her, but you want to know if her puccy has noticed you too. She’ll automatically see that she needs you to fvck her brain out, she will offer you to knack her in your mom’s shop. Your fantasies will be satisfied, you’ll both get what you both wanted at the end, she gets full access to your mom’s shop and your life, in exchange you gets to be digging a hole inside her that other guys have dug and still digging for free. That you saw a new gal in your area doesn’t mean her puccy is new |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by Myrepublic(m): 9:59am On Feb 23, 2025 |
This one wan use his mom shop do giveaway. Very soon she won't be paying for things she comes to buy,when she don get you down with manipulations |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by xtianchris(m): 11:10am On Feb 23, 2025 |
Don't Blame yourself my boy..It's good to crush but apply wisdom...Don't crush away your mom's store... |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by laivwire(m): 11:32am On Feb 23, 2025 |
When next she buys something, tell her not to pay. Give her for free ![]() Repeat multiple times until she's asks why you're being nice to her. Express yourself afterwards in blunt terms as you've paid your dues. |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by Samajogs: 12:32pm On Feb 23, 2025 |
You just want to kill this girl future and focus in life. That girl has a bright future. Take your Ashawo mindset off that girl. Go and look for something important and do with your life. |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by DeeCarti: 12:36pm On Feb 23, 2025 |
Leave woman Chase the bag |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by Exceed15: 1:03pm On Feb 23, 2025 |
Firstly , use the avenue ( mun shop) to meet her. Just tell u noticed she's been a regular person here, thanking her for patronage. Gbam! ask if you may have her number to say hello one these days. If she's refuses, don't push it. If she gives u , wait till next day or two before calling or text. More importantly, don't act too interested. Keep it casual, play on until u observe she's enjoying your company.. next move ASK HER OUT! be confident n talk slowly. Don't praise her beauty. Rather commend on her attitude towards her career or her being organized and ambitious. Dress well, look neat , snell nice . Don't act too excited when you are with her . Be in control but courteous. All the best bro |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by Kobicove(m): 1:19pm On Feb 23, 2025 |
Please leave the girl alone to focus on her training, don't distract her! |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by Dogalmighty17: 1:49pm On Feb 23, 2025 |
Hmmm... Lets see. Instead of you to focus on how you can expand your mom's shop and get it more stocked you are eyeing one of her customers. If you make your feelings known to her and the girl starts demanding you bring her items from your mom's shop without paying for them what will that make you? You say she is a tailor and hardly has time that means she is a very productive person. Do you think she will look to kindly on a sluggard who has nothing to do but to slag around his mothers shop doing nothing of value? |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by KingNom(m): 2:15pm On Feb 23, 2025 |
Hmmm |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by Fiscus105(m): 3:08pm On Feb 23, 2025 |
Dogalmighty17:Apart from valid points you mentioned above,..the girl can use opportunity of not having time to drain him and allow him to see ordinary tip of her pant. |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by Chevrolet076(m): 3:39pm On Feb 23, 2025 |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by NotOfThisWorld(f): 4:42pm On Feb 23, 2025 |
The best thing to do is to ask your girlfriend for advice. Good luck. ![]() |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by RealityKings1: 4:45pm On Feb 23, 2025 |
You have to leave one before you bond with another. This will help you determine who you want... Just strike a convoy with her and I'm sure she has noticed your intention even before you speak |
| Re: "I'm Crushing On A Girl Who Shops At My Mom's Store But There's A Problem" by Fcwilly: 10:41pm On Feb 23, 2025 |
dopedealer:You be criminal lol |
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. Ole your preek is dangling for a seamstress apprentice. 