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Re: I Just Checked My Wife's Phone And Found This... by Tigernut101: 6:54pm On Feb 22, 2025
Jesuspistol:
First relax and know that you're in reality.

Don't raise any alarm, keep the evidences you found on her phone.

Conduct DNA tests for your children one by one. Stay away from her sexually henceforth.

If they're your children, then decide if you want to forgive her or you want a separation considering that she might continue later if you don't give her a deep fearsome impression with your actions

If the children aren't yours, then you know what to do.
What if you don’t have money for dna test?
Re: I Just Checked My Wife's Phone And Found This... by iLegendd(op): 10:33pm On Feb 22, 2025
effixxyguy1:
Good day ilegendd. I have been following your post back to back. One thing i like majorly about your post because they are more detailed. I need your idea on what a man must have achieved before is 30's and before planning of marriage with kids. I'm 29 rn. When i asked a typical africa man they told me to hold God tight and worship he says if have God i have gotten greater achievement than everything on earth but still i have to be candid with him that i was not satisfied with his response. So i need you to put more light to my question in real detailed. Thank you waiting to hear from you soon.
Back in the day, you must have 3 things.

1. A land for farming (given to you by your extended family)
2. Hunting skill
3. Wrestling strength

In modern day, the land for farming is now academic certificates. The hunting skill is now digital skills like AI, coding, trading, graphics, motion, editing, content creation, etc. The wrestling skill in now confidence, public speaking or social life where you're in command and not a pushover by both men and women.

So, do you have the modern version of those three I listed? You should have at least 2, the degree might not be that important anymore if it's theoretical, except it's practical, which we'll classify as skill.


I tell men that they'll be loved from age 0 to age 20 and love stops there. From age 20, don't expect love from a woman — she's there for her selfish interest, it could be your looks, riches, or the comfort and amazing sex you give her.

So, from your 20, you should focus on using option 1 or 2 to generate income.

How much you have before departing the 20s club is not quantifiable. Even if it's just lots of knowledge about finance and skills you have, no problem, as long as it's a skill that'll change anyone's life in 5 years of the person is dedicated.

The last skill, wrestling, now confidence, is what you need to avoid being a push over by family members or women and have a judgment of your own in difficult situations.

Those, my dear, are the 3 things you need to have.

I have a reason for not mentioning money, house and car.
Re: I Just Checked My Wife's Phone And Found This... by effixxyguy1: 8:02am On Feb 24, 2025
Thank you very for this message. Appreciate this.
iLegendd:
Back in the day, you must have 3 things.

1. A land for farming (given to you by your extended family)
2. Hunting skill
3. Wrestling strength

In modern day, the land for farming is now academic certificates. The hunting skill is now digital skills like AI, coding, trading, graphics, motion, editing, content creation, etc. The wrestling skill in now confidence, public speaking or social life where you're in command and not a pushover by both men and women.

So, do you have the modern version of those three I listed? You should have at least 2, the degree might not be that important anymore if it's theoretical, except it's practical, which we'll classify as skill.


I tell men that they'll be loved from age 0 to age 20 and love stops there. From age 20, don't expect love from a woman — she's there for her selfish interest, it could be your looks, riches, or the comfort and amazing sex you give her.

So, from your 20, you should focus on using option 1 or 2 to generate income.

How much you have before departing the 20s club is not quantifiable. Even if it's just lots of knowledge about finance and skills you have, no problem, as long as it's a skill that'll change anyone's life in 5 years of the person is dedicated.

The last skill, wrestling, now confidence, is what you need to avoid being a push over by family members or women and have a judgment of your own in difficult situations.

Those, my dear, are the 3 things you need to have.

I have a reason for not mentioning money, house and car.
Re: I Just Checked My Wife's Phone And Found This... by Karlifate: 9:46pm On Feb 24, 2025
iLegendd:
Back in the day, you must have 3 things.

1. A land for farming (given to you by your extended family)
2. Hunting skill
3. Wrestling strength

In modern day, the land for farming is now academic certificates. The hunting skill is now digital skills like AI, coding, trading, graphics, motion, editing, content creation, etc. The wrestling skill in now confidence, public speaking or social life where you're in command and not a pushover by both men and women.

So, do you have the modern version of those three I listed? You should have at least 2, the degree might not be that important anymore if it's theoretical, except it's practical, which we'll classify as skill.


I tell men that they'll be loved from age 0 to age 20 and love stops there. From age 20, don't expect love from a woman — she's there for her selfish interest, it could be your looks, riches, or the comfort and amazing sex you give her.

So, from your 20, you should focus on using option 1 or 2 to generate income.

How much you have before departing the 20s club is not quantifiable. Even if it's just lots of knowledge about finance and skills you have, no problem, as long as it's a skill that'll change anyone's life in 5 years of the person is dedicated.

The last skill, wrestling, now confidence, is what you need to avoid being a push over by family members or women and have a judgment of your own in difficult situations.

Those, my dear, are the 3 things you need to have.

I have a reason for not mentioning money, house and car.
Apt!
Re: I Just Checked My Wife's Phone And Found This... by Kipaji: 9:07am On Mar 08, 2025
iLegendd:
The idea of marriage is good and I love it.

Here is how it got destroyed.

The sad thing about the white businessmen is, when something is good, they go behind and destroy it so that they'll start a business around it, pretending to have found the solution, but it's not free.

They came and saw how 1 African man was enjoying 50 p*ssies as wives and 100% peace at home with abundance of food. Each family was like a happy company.

The wives go to farm with the daughters to provide food and the man goes for hunting with the sons to provide meat or fish.

The whites saw this and got jealous, then built a plan on how to destroy it and make money from it. At this point, there weren't things like HIV. They got animals to mate with humans and that's how they got different infections to push to Africa.

They wrote books telling us killing animals is bad, inhumane and evil. Why? Just to stop African men from hunting. These were the same people who killed lots of Africans, but now, they said killing animals for food is bad. Can't you sense something fishy?

They brought schools and told our men and women that farming is for illiterates and uneducated people that degree is the way.

To get this degree, you have to pay. Families that had graduates started bragging about how educated their families are. The other families that focused on farming felt ashamed and stopped.

The little they had, they spent it on making sure there is a graduate in the house to wipe off their shame. Having a graduate in the house became a flex.

When these men an women went to school, the men got introduced to things that'll destroy them like cultism, smoking, etc. and the women into próstitution, etc. It wasn't like this at first, but the white men knew it'll get to this. These people are visionaries.

Then, they introduced feminism to let the women know whatever a man can do, they can do better.

If he can marry 7 wives, she can sleep with 700 men. Pleasure is addictive, hence these women became addicted to multiple dicks.

Any of their female friends that refuses to sleep around like them, they'll mock her, isolate her and call her sister Mary. Sadly, most of the girls succumb and starts following the wayward ones to clubs and visit different men. Along the line, some got infected and kept spreading it with the mindset of "I can't die alone."

It didn't stop there. They invented séx toys for the women to use and some of these séx toys are way better than men and the list goes on.

The good ones that didn't want to spread this infection buy séx toys to continue their pleasure while spending millions buying drugs produced by these same white men to treat it. Now you can clearly see it's a business all along.

When white men want to annihilate other races, they don't rush — they draft a 100 year blueprint and work slowly and even smart people, especially Africans won't notice. Even if they do, their puppets, they politicians that are working to uphold white men's businesses in Africa will come after you and jail you.

The school was a business. The invention of infection was a business. The destruction of African men's polygamous happy family was a business out of jealousy. Stopping African men from hunting was a business so that they'll come to Africa and carry all the animals to put in a zoo in their countries and people will pay to see them, etc.

So, the whites intentionally destroyed marriage and this was planned 100+ years ago.

Now, the 50 pussies our great grandfathers used to enjoy without being cheated on and all of them are loyal is no longer attainable. Every woman now has a séx toy produced by the whites.

China saw what the whites were doing to Africans and decided to focus 100% on production so that they'll take 90% market share from the manipulative whites, hence the West hates China and tries to ban most of their products or accuse it of being fake.

I have a lot to say, but I'll stop here. Marriage is beautiful if we can go back to the days when the whites hadn't inferred. But now, they've destroyed it for their selfish interest "business." They have manipulated our men to become SIMPs. If you disagree with a woman today she says you're not a real man or you're insecure. Who caused it? The businessmen of the European nations.

At least, Fela, Ned Nwoko, 2face, Isaac Fayoshé and a host of other real African men refused to listen to the whites.

If you mess up, they dump you and get a new woman who will worship them as our women used to do 100+ years ago before the whites came and destroyed the peace with religion, democracy, and other businesses they brought to Africa.

Do you see how China blocks 95% of American social media sites and TV stations? They are smart. It's to protect their people from social engineering and destruction of morality from the West. They've already succeeded.

Have you tried sleeping with a Chinese woman? You'll see the innocence and naivete. These are the things men love in African women back then and not the overexposed white and African women of nowadays with boreholes as p*ssies and have banged almost every big rod in their neighborhood, her Church, school, NYSC camp, etc. And Saida Boj is their role model.

The whites are ready to go to war or destroy humanity just to establish a business, then turn around to sell medicine, guns, drones, etc. after the war. They planned the destruction of African women and family values and they still want to pretend they have the solution.

Since we're all going to die one day, don't your think abundance of food and a happy home/marriage is more important than 80 million degrees or careers that are not based on creations/invention, but importation and consumption?

Food for thought.
The whites won.

But we still have
A chance to revive
Ourselves like China
And finally stop the
Blame game.
How insightful!
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