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DaddyCoool:
They make for a BETTER life

Personal opinion or fact?

ibedun:
➜You make me laugh. The only remedy in the WEST is to avoid marriage altogether. It isn’t critical to life and it’s now a fraud.

A fraud in the West but not a fraud in Nigeria?

Kobojunkie:
There is nothing natural about the behavior as it is all learned behavior!

Nobody is born knowing how to clean, be better at housekeeping, care for things, or keep things organized. Everyone can learn these skills if taught or at least introduced to them.

Do you agree that everything is energy and that female energy is better than male energy?

nwirinedu:
It is not the so called burdens on the women that kill the marriage, rather the undeserved privilege of being able to divorce your husband without any explanation.
Many Nigerian women (especially the poverty-stricken ones who lost their way to the UK) use this advantage to kick their husbands out of the home he has been paying mortgage for.

When you reward people for doing a particular thing, they will repeat that thing.

Good thing Trump is taking care of the marriage scam in his own end.

Many Nigerian men have died because of the sudden change in personality of one wretched girl that he spends money trying to train to be a nurse or doctor, when these girls accomplish this things they just dump the man.

It you re going abroad with your wife better check her well, the treachery is too much at times these women don't even consider the welfare of the children just their selfish interests.

See your mouth like mortgage. Who dash am? About 30% of homeowners in the UK are black. For an immigrant Nigerian, that percentage is even less.

If a Nigerian immigrant man is paying the mortgage, there is a good chance that his wife is helping him pay it.

Money stops nonsense, if women in Nigeria had the means, they'll also leave their marriages.

I always tell my little cousins in Nigeria to make money before marrying. A broke woman is more vulnerable than a broke man.

DaddyCoool:
➜Do you agree that everything is energy and that female energy is better than male energy?

Wrong! There is no such thing as "female energy" being better than "male energy". Take a trip to a hospital's ICU, senior/living home, or Emergency Room to see this for yourself. There are instead individuals born into bodies with brains they are left with no choice but to adapt to and live with.

1Sharon:
See your mouth like mortgage. Who dash am? About 30% of homeowners in the UK are black. For an immigrant Nigerian, that percentage is even less.

If a Nigerian immigrant man is paying the mortgage, there is a good chance that his wife is helping him pay it.

Money stops nonsense, if women in Nigeria had the means, they'll also leave their marriages.

I always tell my little cousins in Nigeria to make money before marrying. A broke woman is more vulnerable than a broke man.

Sharon, please leave marriage alone. You’re not suited to it.

ibedun:
You make me laugh.
The only remedy in the WEST is to avoid marriage altogether. It isn’t critical to life and it’s now a fraud.

I see your point. My advice was for if you decide to marry or if it happens. This life get as e be. People go violently swear say dem nor go do this or that, but sometimes eventually, life just happens.

theophorus:
You see ehn, Shebi you self get Brothers and you go still born Boy abi? Hope you will be VERY HAPPY when other Women treat your Brothers and Son(s), the way you treat/or want to treat your Husband?

Back to the Topic, Social media and wokeness did more damages than sharing of Financial responsibilities.
Some of our mothers handled more of the Financials when our Dad's finances hit a rock and our Mothers never divorce them.

Marriage is a Covenant and not a Contract and it is suppose to be a "Till death do Us path" but wokeness has led to lack of Loyalty.

In 2025??

Dey playyy!

We are just a weak people with no self identity… copy and paste and easily influenced
Nigerian woman get abroad start speaking English and be saying “I’ll throw him out of the house” wetin dem dey see for Hollywood…

Kobojunkie:
A fraud in the West but not a fraud in Nigeria?

Open your eyes Sir

ibedun:
Personal opinion or fact?

Fact. You can sleep quite fine alone in a warm room in cold weather. But it feels better under covers cuddling with someone, watching a favorite movie or sport event

1Sharon:
➜See your mouth like mortgage. Who dash am? About 30% of homeowners in the UK are black. For an immigrant Nigerian, that percentage is even less. If a Nigerian immigrant man is paying the mortgage, there is a good chance that his wife is helping him pay it. ➜Money stops nonsense, if women in Nigeria had the means, they'll also leave their marriages.I always tell my little cousins in Nigeria to make money before marrying. A broke woman is more vulnerable than a broke man.

A broke woman literally ends up no better than a slave while fighting for rights for the duration of the marriage.

ibedun:
➜Open your eyes Sir

To what? That marriage as a fraud is a fact everywhere and not just in the West.

DaddyCoool:
Fact. You can sleep quite fine alone in a warm room in cold weather. But it feels better under covers cuddling with someone, watching a favorite movie or sport event

Haba! Personal opinion and preference, or veritable fact?

irumole1975:
That’s why I advise my male friends that they need to slave for their wives in their marriages. That’s how the marriage can last. Make money just for her. Cook, clean and provide for her. Also, sometimes let her cheat in peace without you harassing her for cheating. That way she will know you truly love her and she won’t leave u

Are you with your senses at all?
You should allow your spouse to cheat without any fuss about it?
I strongly believed you are not married.

Kobojunkie:
Wrong! There is no such thing as "female energy" being better than "male energy". Take a trip to a hospital's ICU, senior/living home, or Emergency Room to see this for yourself. There are instead individuals born into bodies with brains they are left with no choice but to adapt to and live with.

I typed "different". I don't know how it changed to "better".

Do you agree that everything is energy and that female energy is different from male energy?

Kobojunkie:
To what? That marriage as a fraud is a fact everywhere and not just in the West.

It’s going global but it has always been well hidden in past eras.

➜We are just a weak people with no self identity… copy and paste and easily influenced
Nigerian woman get abroad start speaking English and be saying “I’ll throw him out of the house” wetin dem dey see for Hollywood…

Sad but true of the vast majority of ideas and traditions of Nigerians.

ibedun:
Sharon, please leave marriage alone. You’re not suited to it.

Are you suited to it? Tell us. Address my points.

ibedun:
➜It’s going global but it has always been well hidden in past eras.

A fraud that has been perpetuated since the time of your ancestors and mine is going global. Come on now! Are you alright?

DaddyCoool:
➜I typed "different". I don't know how it changed to "better". Do you agree that everything is energy and that female energy is different from male energy?

I don't believe in such scams!

1Sharon:
Are you suited to it? Tell us. Address my points.

No I am not suited to it, and I can also identify people who are not so suited. You’re one of those.

Omoawoke:
We are just a weak people with no self identity… copy and paste and easily influenced
Nigerian woman get abroad start speaking English and be saying “I’ll throw him out of the house” wetin dem dey see for Hollywood…

Men rarely beg to keep a marriage nowadays, hope you know this.

Compare the number of weddings in a year to the divorce rate and you would be alarmed. When you get a chance, try and visit the shiloh service so you can grasp how serious the situation is.

Baby mums and baby dads nkọ....hahahaha! 😂

ibedun:
PROPAGANDA planted everywhere in the media. These are made up stories carefully choreographed to support a predetermined narrative.

This was a SCIENTIFIC contolled social experiment

ibedun:
No I am not suited to it, and I can also identify people who are not so suited. You’re one of those.

Ewedan.

BloomingDale:
➜There was a social experiment in Britain where young boys and young girls were separated into different apartment for a week. The boys devolved while the girls thrived.

What ideas were those boys and girls fed of their identities and responsibilities before they were then separated?

omooba969:
➜Men rarely beg to keep a marriage nowadays, hope you know this. Compare the number of weddings in a year to the divorce rate and you would be alarmed. When you get a chance, try and visit the shiloh service so you can grasp how serious the situation is. Baby mums and baby dads nkọ....hahahaha! 😂

As far back as the 80s, divorce in Northern Nigeria has been above 60%. It is only among Southern Nigerians that you find these meaningless ideas that divorce is taboo— to be looked down upon— or not to be accommodated at all.

1Sharon:
Ewedan.

What’s Ewedan?

StaffofOrayan:
➜The crazy part is that while Nigerian men always have the option of dating from other races, the black woman is mostly stuck on single and bitter! All men in general avoid them

Because she was programmed from a very young age to believe that her life is to be spent with a Nigerian man. That is the issue. Some of them eventually break out of that programming but a majority of them live and die even holding on to the delusion believing that somehow the Sky daddy will send them a Nigerian man to keep them. This is all connected to the Nigerian tradition of raising the girl child for marriage, a terrible thing.

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nwirinedu:
It is not the so called burdens on the women that kill the marriage, rather the undeserved privilege of being able to divorce your husband without any explanation.
Many Nigerian women (especially the poverty-stricken ones who lost their way to the UK) use this advantage to kick their husbands out of the home he has been paying mortgage for.

When you reward people for doing a particular thing, they will repeat that thing.

Why don't these nigerian men train themselves in nursing or medicine?

Good thing Trump is taking care of the marriage scam in his own end.

Many Nigerian men have died because of the sudden change in personality of one wretched girl that he spends money trying to train to be a nurse or doctor, when these girls accomplish this things they just dump the man.

It you re going abroad with your wife better check her well, the treachery is too much at times these women don't even consider the welfare of the children just their selfish interests.

nwirinedu:
➜It is not the so called burdens on the women that kill the marriage, rather the undeserved privilege of being able to divorce your husband without any explanation...

You mean like your ancestors were able to bundle a woman back to her father's house without so much as an explanation or even alimony? Is this what you regard as a deserved privilege?

ibedun:
Haba! Personal opinion and preference, or veritable fact?

FACT!
Unless you're other than human. We are SOCIAL animals