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Kobojunkie:
I don't believe in such scams!

So why aren't you attracted to men. They equally have a warm hole where you can stick your dick

DaddyCoool:
➜Fact. You can sleep quite fine alone in a warm room in cold weather. But it feels better under covers cuddling with someone, watching a favorite movie or sport event

Please stop perpetuating this brain-dead nonsense. You make women seem even more pathetic when you do this.

Some good blankets and mattresses give people a better night's rest and all the warmth necessary. Research after research has revealed that cuddling DOES NOT guarantee individuals a good night's rest nor does it provide better quality warmth since even those who cuddle find they need blankets and a good mattress during those cold nights.

Kobojunkie:
What ideas were those boys and girls fed of their identities and responsibilities before they were then separated?

This was a SCIENTIFIC contolled social experiment

You do know what scientific means, don't you?

aswani:
Foolish men and women comparing themselves to others and, this one is a female trait, allowing others to push you into doing things they themselves wouldn't do in their marraige.

You compare your situation to others not knowing how they got there, before you know it, the immature man or woman starts losing interest in their marraige and the slow detachment and disintegration begins

Also, another female trait, you take your marital problems to every Tom, Dick and Harry. This one is to do with immaturity as well.

You got it all

DaddyCoool:
➜So why aren't you attracted to men. They equally have a warm hole where you can stick your dick

Could you please stop pretending you speak for all women because your ignorant insinuations— which you confuse as facts— make them seem to portray them as pathetic beings that they are not.

DaddyCoool:
➜This was a SCIENTIFIC contolled social experiment. You do know what scientific means, don't you?

Does scientific control mean we are not to ask questions? Answer the question I asked or move on abeg! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Kobojunkie:
Please stop perpetuating this brain-dead nonsense. You make women seem even more pathetic when you do this.

Some good blankets and mattresses give people a better night's rest and all the warmth necessary. Research after research has revealed that cuddling DOES NOT guarantee individuals a good night's rest nor does it provide better quality warmth since even those who cuddle find they need blankets and a good mattress during those cold nights.

You missed that I wrote WARM room. Heat from another's body feels quite different from ambient heat. How about having someone you'd be bantering back and forth about what you're watching. We'er SOCIAL animals whether we like it or not. You can survive quite fine alone, but the best human life is one SHARED with others

Gandrova:
Are you with your senses at all?
You should allow your spouse to cheat without any fuss about it?
I strongly believed you are not married.

Don’t worry. If you live abroad (UK, US and Canada) and your wife want to cheat and bring another man home, tell her not to do it…you’ll learn lesson. You’ll know that women are the leader of the house and they should be allowed to lead in the way they want

Not just Nigerian marriages fail abroad. Marriages in general have a high tendency of failure abroad.

In fact, marriages fail in Nigeria because of the culture borrowed abroad.

Kobojunkie:
Could you please stop pretending you speak for all women because your ignorant insinuations— which you confuse as facts— make them seem to portray them as pathetic beings that they are not.

I only asked you a question sir

Kobojunkie:
Does scientific control mean we are not to ask questions? Answer the question I asked or move on abeg! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

What question did you ask? Would be quite glad to answer it

DaddyCoool:
➜You missed that I wrote WARM room. Heat from another's body feels quite different from ambient heat.
➜How about having someone you'd be bantering back and forth about what you're watching. We'er SOCIAL animals whether we like it or not. You can survive quite fine alone, but the best human life is one SHARED with others

1. There is no truth to this as warmth is warmth.

2. You should probably go research what it means to say that humans are social animals since you keep applying the notion wrongly! We are social animals does not mean all humans want to cuddle up. That particular delusion is yours. So, stop extending it to all humans particularly women as you do them a disservice by doing so.

imustsaymymindo:
Not just Nigerian marriages fail abroad. Marriages in general have a high tendency of failure abroad.

In fact, marriages fail in Nigeria because of the culture borrowed abroad.

There's a difference between marriage you're enjoying and marriage you're forced to stay in due to society.
Some Nigerian marriages are like high-security prisons - no escape

DaddyCoool:
There's a difference between marriage you're enjoying and marriage you're forced to stay in due to society.
Some Nigerian marriages are like high-security prisons - no escape

mtcheeeeeewwwww

Kobojunkie:
1. There is no truth to this as warmth is warmth.

2. You should probably go research what it means to say that humans are social animals since you keep applying the notion wrongly! We are social animals does not mean all humans want to cuddle up. That particular delusion is yours. So, stop extending it to all humans particularly women as you do them a disservice by doing so.

You are wrong. There's a reason previously married people find it much harder staying single than never married people. If you taste both you'd need no one to tell you there's a huge difference - heat is NOT heat!

Social animal means just that. There are animals that are naturally solitary. There's a reason humans always end up in groups

DaddyCoool:
✓ You are wrong. There's a reason previously married people find it much harder staying single than never married people. If you taste both you'd need no one to tell you there's a huge difference - heat is NOT heat!
✓ Social animal means just that. There are animals that are naturally solitary. There's a reason humans always end up in groups

1. Ever heard the saying, "Old habits die hard"? 😳😳😳😳

2. And in your tiny mind, being social has to do with an inane idea of cuddling ? 😩🙄🙄🙄

Reggzy:
mtcheeeeeewwwww

Say mtcheeeeeewwwww all you want, some Nigerian marriages are like prisons

Eastman20:
It's only an unfortunate man in this era dat will take Nigerian gals abroad esp Igbo gals
TREATMENT
Nigerian ladies are very vindictive and cunny...take them abroad and suffer fr it
The best thing is to leave them in Nigeria, although they will be sleeping around but it's better than being kicked out from d house u laboured to get

Maybe to Anglophone countries, not East Asia. East Asia has a way to conform a Black woman.

Kobojunkie:
1. Ever heard the saying, "Old habits die hard"? 😳😳😳😳

2. And in your tiny mind, being social has to do with an inane idea of cuddling ? 😩🙄🙄🙄

We'er talking of something that feels better. If something doesn't feel good you won't want to go back to it, habit or not.

Cuddling is part of it. You'll do just fine alone but by human nature it feels better having someone you can hold (and fucķ if u wish, let's not forget that!)

Gerrard59:
Maybe to Anglophone countries, not East Asia. East Asia has a way to conform a Black woman.

Really? Gist us

DaddyCoool:
Really? Gist us

The way a Nigerian woman will behave in the UK will differ significantly from if she's in China.

DaddyCoool:
✓ We'er talking of something that feels better. If something doesn't feel good you won't want to go back to it, habit or not.
✓ Cuddling is part of it.
✓ You'll do just fine alone but by human nature it feels better having someone you can hold (and fucķ if u wish, let's not forget that)

1. Isn't it obvious to you at this point in time that your ideas of that which feels better does not connect with everyone out there, not even every woman?

2. So, because cuddling feels good to you, you take that to mean it must feel good and be desired by every human? [b]How old are you? [/b]I should have started off with this question.

3. So, even though almost 50% of humans never really enjoy/experience this cuddling and fking, you are rather convinced that it is all instead according to how you think? 😳😳

irumole1975:
That’s why I advise my male friends that they need to slave for their wives in their marriages. That’s how the marriage can last. Make money just for her. Cook, clean and provide for her. Also, sometimes let her cheat in peace without you harassing her for cheating. That way she will know you truly love her and she won’t leave u

which kind Good and bad advice be this lol

Airoflaw:
which kind Good and bad advice be this lol

Good in what sense?

Gerrard59:
The way a Nigerian woman will behave in the UK will differ significantly from if she's in China.

WHY?
Why do you think that is?

papyjaypaul:
Is there romance without finance

Too many enlightened people acting in selfish cocoon but they want to blame everyone else but themselves

Well put.

Nobody wants to play the fool anymore.

Kobojunkie:
1. Isn't it obvious to you at this point in time that your ideas of that which feels better does not connect with everyone out there, not even every woman?

2. So, because cuddling feels good to you, you take that to mean it must feel good and be desired by every human? [b]How old are you? [/b]I should have started off with this question.

3. So, even though almost 50% of humans never really enjoy/experience this cuddling and fking, you are rather convinced that it is all instead according to how you think? 😳😳

There are certain things that feel good to humans - unless you are not human! One is sex. Another is delicious food. Humans can easily survive without sex or delicious food but it feels much better having them!

irumole1975:
That’s why I advise my male friends that they need to slave for their wives in their marriages. That’s how the marriage can last. Make money just for her. Cook, clean and provide for her. Also, sometimes let her cheat in peace without you harassing her for cheating. That way she will know you truly love her and she won’t leave u

hilarious 😂

DaddyCoool:
✓ There are certain things that feel good to humans - unless you are not human! One is sex. Another is delicious food. Humans can easily survive without sex or delicious food but it feels much better having them!

Your list tells so much about your kind of person; I blame myself for the engaging you. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

irumole1975:
In the Nigerian system, the men do most of the heavy financial lifting in the family. But over there, the structure and system requires women to participate in the heavy financial lifting also. So along the line, these 9ja .women begin to get overwhelmed and they begin to loose interest in the man that took them there , because in the first place most of their reasons for settling down weren't from a strong conviction of love for the man, but just some that will lighten their financial burden.

So abroad system puts.. ...that financial burden back on them, then they find out that, they don't even love this man or need him after all. These men are innocent, it's just the women that mostly married for the wrong reason, no body treated them wrongly in Nigeria.

If for anything, the abroad is... helping to expose this Nigerian women and their ulterior motives.
Maybe if they start marrying for the right reason, then there will see that, geographical location has nothing to do here.

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A man was asking a lady out for 3 years. She refused because he is not her type--she wants a spendrifth.

Now he is working on his visa to japa, stupidly showed her the documents and she finally agreed. They are processing their travel documents together. The wedding is next week.

Oh boy!

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irumole1975:
That’s why I advise my male friends that they need to slave for their wives in their marriages. That’s how the marriage can last. Make money just for her. Cook, clean and provide for her. Also, sometimes let her cheat in peace without you harassing her for cheating. That way she will know you truly love her and she won’t leave u

Airoflaw:
which kind Good and bad advice be this lol

Hmmm, actually not bad advice at all. I like it. I hope we can popularize it and somehow make it the norm😁

omoredia:
✓ More fail in Nigeria the difference is poverty. poverty will make u remain with a woman or man u have already divorced in ur heart.

Marriage abandonment rates in Southern Nigeria seem to mirror divorce rates in other climes, including that in Northern Nigeria. Southerners refuse to admit to themselves that abandonment is pretty much now an illegal form of divorce.