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How do you feel when compared to others.
A girl compared Me with her ex, how the guy dey do anything she want,
to cut the story short that's how everytyn ended, i can't trade my value 4 any body, we are all unique.

You were not dating a girl, you were dating a baby. Next time, relate with a woman

I feel nothing. You can compare all you want and I will not care

When am being compared with others, i look to know the informative part of the comparison, but i will never monitor or wanting to be like that person.

I compare my life with myself. If i observe am derailing from my life goals, i quickly put myself back on track!

Oga thats the way all these bitches keep comparing because they have fvcked too many dickks no let anybody pressure you,you no fit satisfy them.

You dating a baby .

I’m a grown adult who is built amazing at an age where my peers should look worn out or be in the grave. Decades of confidence cannot be shaken because one idiot compared me to another. I pray most people learn my level of confidence or grow into it.

I honestly believe all you boys who come here crying because a female said one thing or the other are actually fifteen year olds. My mind is sealed on the belief.

Wizzy13:
How do you feel when compared to others.
A girl compared Me with her ex, how the guy dey do anything she want,

I think say na better thing seff wey she tell you. This one still be girl, even your wife go tell you things wey go make you wan use pressing iron for her mouth but as a real gee, shun and FACE WHAT YOU ARE DOING WITH YOUR LIFE.

The real problem is not about what she said, it is about you. WHAT ARE YOU DOING WITH YOUR LIFE?

I’ve learnt to listen carefully to criticisms as well as comparisons.

If the criticism is constructive, sometimes even destructive and the comparison torchlights my area of inadequacy; I try to intentionally make amends.

I’m big on being a better person than I was yesterday.
Not for anyone though, but for myself.

Most times I act like I didn’t even hear you nor care, but I sit back and introspectively go over everything said, then make amends where I can.

If it’s for nonsense issues, I can be very defiant.
No worry. You go talk, tire.

AllBlack:
The real problem is not about what she said, it is about you. WHAT ARE YOU DOING WITH YOUR LIFE?

That’s just it. 💯