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Tell Us About Your Marriage - How Did You Meet Your Partner by Sirchiboy(op): 12:24pm On Feb 25, 2025
It will be beneficial to us not yet married.
Additionally, we would appreciate it if you could offer us one or two pieces of advice for those who are considering marriage.
Re: Tell Us About Your Marriage - How Did You Meet Your Partner by Carndidlaydid(f): 12:31pm On Feb 25, 2025
Lemme park here to read lies.. Especially from those devil's spawns

Currently happy with my marital status...
Re: Tell Us About Your Marriage - How Did You Meet Your Partner by SafetyFirst(m):
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Marriage needs a stronger foundation than love.
You have to be ready to consciously work together to make it work.
Re: Tell Us About Your Marriage - How Did You Meet Your Partner by Lalami3232(m): 1:01pm On Feb 25, 2025
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Re: Tell Us About Your Marriage - How Did You Meet Your Partner by Sonnobax15(m): 1:16pm On Feb 25, 2025
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Re: Tell Us About Your Marriage - How Did You Meet Your Partner by Remmedy(m): 3:41pm On Feb 25, 2025
Lalami3232:
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Non virgin Marshall
Re: Tell Us About Your Marriage - How Did You Meet Your Partner by Samantha125(f): 3:53pm On Feb 25, 2025
Let me type my lies as usual... grin grin grin

The first time I saw my husband was at my friend's brother's 21st birthday party, I was 16 and half at that time... For me I don't know whether it was lust or love at first sight because I started feeling in a way I had never felt before... I started stalking him with my eyes throughout the entire party and whenever it seemed like he was coming my way, I'd look the other way... grin grin grin

After the party, I started asking my friend about him hoping that maybe she knew something about him, but aside knowing his name and that he's her brother's friend from varsity, she didn't know anything about him.

It wasn't until this other time it was on a Friday and I decided to pass by my friend's house after school, I was still in my school uniform and the moment I entered the house, I spotted him with some other guys in the living room and I immediately ran out of the house because I didn't want him to see me in my school uniform, it was embarrassing and my friend couldn't stop laughing... grin grin grin

My friend tried talking me into coming back into the house, but I refused because there was no way I was going to pass by the living room and let him see me in my school uniform and start regarding me as a baby, even though I was still a baby... grin grin grin... She then managed to convince me to get back into the house and wait for her in the kitchen while she goes to her room to change her clothes and we'll go and sit in the back veranda afterwards.

I eventually agreed to wait for her in the kitchen while she goes and change, but I made sure to hide my face when I entered the house so that he doesn't see me... grin grin grin... As I was waiting in the kitchen, did this guy not show up in the kitchen to get some drinks? grin grin grin I nearly fainted... Like I couldn't understand why would my friend's brother ask his friend to come to the kitchen and get drinks for them when he should be the one serving them instead since it's his family house... He greeted me and we exchanged pleasantries, I thought to myself that this was my chance to pull myself together and to get to know him a little bit.

We talked about school and that's when I got to know that he was studying a medical course, I told him about the biology project my friend and I were currently busy with and that's when he told me that he was available for the entire weekend, in case we needed help with it... I wasn't sure what to say, so I told him that I'll have to discuss it with my friend first, he was okay with it and told me that in case we get stuck somewhere during the weekend, we should feel free to tell my friend's brother to pass the message to him... But I thought that was a long process and I suggested that maybe he should leave his number with me, in that way I can personally call him and he wouldn't even have to stress about coming all the way to the house and to my greatest surprise, my suggestion worked... As he was writing down his number, my friend's brother came into the kitchen to call his friend back into the living room because he had been gone for a while ... grin grin grin

It took me a whole month to finally call him and I had to make up a story about how a certain chapter was giving me a tough time... grin grin grin... The truth is that I was very good in biology and I just used it as an excuse to talk to him... That's when we started talking over the phone and at first, we were strictly only talking about school, he was my mentor and I was his mentee... But feelings got caught along the way, he kept restricting himself considering the fact that I was still in high school and on top of that, I was friends with his friend's little sister.

It wasn't until the festive period that we finally opened up to each other, but he needed to get his friend's approval first because he didn't want to feel like he breaking the bro-code between them... We eventually started dating... We dated for a whole year until my father broke us up because I was about to start varsity and he didn't want me mingling with any boys... He wanted me to focus only on school... So we were forced to breakup and we didn't contact each other for about four years until one day we bumped into each other at a restaurant and he happened to be with his girlfriend... grin grin grin

But this guy still went ahead and showed up at my family house the following week hoping to find me there since I was nowhere to be found on social media... But unfortunately for him, I wasn't around when he came... grin grin grin
Re: Tell Us About Your Marriage - How Did You Meet Your Partner by Nicepoker(m): 4:46pm On Feb 25, 2025
To the one above. Keep downloading the lies.
Re: Tell Us About Your Marriage - How Did You Meet Your Partner by gunners160(m): 5:03pm On Feb 25, 2025
uh
Re: Tell Us About Your Marriage - How Did You Meet Your Partner by Emmaken25: 9:43pm On Feb 25, 2025
My own is parental connection and that's the best decision I have ever made in my life.
Is four years bliss, four years living in heaven on earth.
Re: Tell Us About Your Marriage - How Did You Meet Your Partner by Divija(f): 9:46pm On Feb 25, 2025
Emmaken25:
My own is parental connection and that's the best decision I have ever made in my life.
Is four years bliss, four years living in heaven on earth.
Lucky you
Re: Tell Us About Your Marriage - How Did You Meet Your Partner by Exceed15: 7:10am On Feb 26, 2025
How you met doesn't matter. What matters is how the marriage has faired.
Re: Tell Us About Your Marriage - How Did You Meet Your Partner by Gardreay: 7:22am On Feb 26, 2025
Samantha125:
Let me type my lies as usual... grin grin grin

The first time I saw my husband was at my friend's brother's 21st birthday party, I was 16 and half at that time... For me I don't know whether it was lust or love at first sight because I started feeling in a way I had never felt before... I started stalking him with my eyes throughout the entire party and whenever it seemed like he was coming my way, I'd look the other way... grin grin grin

After the party, I started asking my friend about him hoping that maybe she knew something about him, but aside knowing his name and that he's her brother's friend from varsity, she didn't know anything about him.

It wasn't until this other time it was on a Friday and I decided to pass by my friend's house after school, I was still in my school uniform and the moment I entered the house, I spotted him with some other guys in the living room and I immediately ran out of the house because I didn't want him to see me in my school uniform, it was embarrassing and my friend couldn't stop laughing... grin grin grin

My friend tried talking me into coming back into the house, but I refused because there was no way I was going to pass by the living room and let him see me in my school uniform and start regarding me as a baby, even though I was still a baby... grin grin grin... She then managed to convince me to get back into the house and wait for her in the kitchen while she goes to her room to change her clothes and we'll go and sit in the back veranda afterwards.

I eventually agreed to wait for her in the kitchen while she goes and change, but I made sure to hide my face when I entered the house so that he doesn't see me... grin grin grin... As I was waiting in the kitchen, did this guy not show up in the kitchen to get some drinks? grin grin grin I nearly fainted... Like I couldn't understand why would my friend's brother ask his friend to come to the kitchen and get drinks for them when he should be the one serving them instead since it's his family house... He greeted me and we exchanged pleasantries, I thought to myself that this was my chance to pull myself together and to get to know him a little bit.

We talked about school and that's when I got to know that he was studying a medical course, I told him about the biology project my friend and I were currently busy with and that's when he told me that he was available for the entire weekend, in case we needed help with it... I wasn't sure what to say, so I told him that I'll have to discuss it with my friend first, he was okay with it and told me that in case we get stuck somewhere during the weekend, we should feel free to tell my friend's brother to pass the message to him... But I thought that was a long process and I suggested that maybe he should leave his number with me, in that way I can personally call him and he wouldn't even have to stress about coming all the way to the house and to my greatest surprise, my suggestion worked... As he was writing down his number, my friend's brother came into the kitchen to call his friend back into the living room because he had been gone for a while ... grin grin grin

It took me a whole month to finally call him and I had to make up a story about how a certain chapter was giving me a tough time... grin grin grin... The truth is that I was very good in biology and I just used it as an excuse to talk to him... That's when we started talking over the phone and at first, we were strictly only talking about school, he was my mentor and I was his mentee... But feelings got caught along the way, he kept restricting himself considering the fact that I was still in high school and on top of that, I was friends with his friend's little sister.

It wasn't until the festive period that we finally opened up to each other, but he needed to get his friend's approval first because he didn't want to feel like he breaking the bro-code between them... We eventually started dating... We dated for a whole year until my father broke us up because I was about to start varsity and he didn't want me mingling with any boys... He wanted me to focus only on school... So we were forced to breakup and we didn't contact each other for about four years until one day we bumped into each other at a restaurant and he happened to be with his girlfriend... grin grin grin

But this guy still went ahead and showed up at my family house the following week hoping to find me there since I was nowhere to be found on social media... But unfortunately for him, I wasn't around when he came... grin grin grin
too lie
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