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First of all ,I'm an introvert, good looking face 8/10 and tall as well with a nice skin color.
I don't know how but something in me feels broken because I'm always cold to everyone that comes close to me although sometimes I tend to losen up and be lively fun

My male friends ,Family understands and respect my persona ,they all know I love to keep to myself and all that but the problem is me dealing with my female friends

All my life I've been approached multiple times by girls and ladies who always throw themselves on me because of my good looks and low-key lifestyle. please be noted that all these still don't make me to play around with them or use the opportunity to trick them into my bed because I'm a very principled guy and many things don't bother me anymore including sex(maybe I'm depressed).

I love my space and hate to share it with anyone (except some few of my circle),so when these girls come around me,instead of playing with their hearts .I'll be honest with them and let them know that I'm not easily impressed ,don't like being in relationships and don't believe in love because I believe Nigerian got the wrong perspective on relationships and most of them just date for fun

I don't hate ladies but I'm always careful when dealing with them because I'm someone that hates drama and female shenanigans.
I know I sound cocky but trust me when I say your assumptions about me are wrong ,I'm a really humble guy and not stingy when it comes to helping out friends in need.

But my problem is with women because most are deceptive (forget the fine face) and have nothing upstairs except looking for a man to manipulate into relationship just to feel among or fulfill society pressure. But no that's not what I'm looking for . I just need to be with a lady who understands me for who I am and not easily swayed by Genz trendy shitss

Yes it's true I have trust issues (who doesn't?) And love myself to a fault but when it comes to women ,I can't stand to do all these romantic moves or funny stuffs that gets them going because I feel it'll make her look down on me .

I'm always serious and cold when dealing with them and that makes them look at me like someone with no feelings or redpill king
I'm old school and believe that man should always maintain his respect and carry himself with high regard.

I've tried dating here and there but it lasted for some few weeks (barely one month),because I get fed up easily, can't really bring myself down to do some relationship stuffs that women likes .

Even during sex .Of course I do pre-intimacy and all that but after the deal has been signed ,I tend to recoil to my shell and wish there's a way to get her going instead of passing the night with me .
I love sex but don't see it as something of great importance or worthwhile(it doesn't move me like that anymore)

Now after some many years of being single and hitting it off with call girls because that's the only way I can cool off without getting attached to one .I met a new girl ,she's so matured and a little older than me (don't worry,I love my women mature with good sense of reasoning)
The talking stage with this new girl was going fully well even though I'm still feeling skeptical about her and us .. multiple times I've told her to apply small break to our new friendship that she is taking things too fast and me I love taking me time to avoid jumping into something we'll both regret in the future.

I guess my good looks got her intoxicated and she was really pushing it for us .I couldn't take it anymore so I had to ghost her for some few days .After that we got back again but I don't know what happened because she all of a sudden starts talking about not being happy with the way I just decided to ghost on her and now threatening to break up with me(a matter we've talked about before and settled, now she's bringing it up again ,gosh)

I know her game and knows she's just trying to make me bend my rules and act romantic to her ,but I can't do all that because it's not in my nature. I can't even pet a girl or endure female childish display .
So I told her I'm cool with her and also respect her decision (of breaking up with me) of which she wasn't expecting to hear that from me .

She was expecting me to be shocked and begging her but deep down I know my heart is cold like a pack of ice.since my childhood I've been finding it difficult showing emotions. I don't even feel anything at all
Now we're playing the waiting game of who's going to first reach out and apologize. I can't do that and won't even think of it because of my hard man nature and code of honor rules .so it's either she hits me up again or nothing for us again (redpill and self love no easy)

So peeps with this little point of mine ,am I normal or weird and do you have anything to say that can help me improve when dealing with women ..Please don't forget I'm a street nigger with cold heart but not a wicked one ,tnx

Most of the time guys who claim to be good looking, look like terrestrial beings and same goes for ladies.

Good looking people don't go around announcing it to the world.

Little point??
Nigga practically told his life history yet called it little point..

Samantha125:
Most of the time guys who claim to be good looking, look like terrestrial beings and same goes for ladies.

Good looking people don't go around announcing it to the world.

Some pple look good and they know it ...

Desist from masturbating

But they don't go around announcing it like they're trying to get some validation from other people... A good looking person lets his looks speaks for him or herself.

Starz825:
Some pple look good and they know it ...

I think l like your nature, you won't believe how strong you are or your spirit does, it's not you entire that r performing those tasks but it's what your entire Spirits inside you wanted which you are not really sure of yourself, but stay strong and never ever in life beg any woman or lady to come back, you won't understand how powerful you are until u kept begging a minor pussy to break you down, a little story l wanted you to know is about Samson in the Bible snd also many other strong men, l would advice you use your brain

This is not normal, man is social animal and if you are finding it difficult to do that is a character defect, remember red pill and other stuff like that are just the doctrine of men, it will take to you to nowhere. Be compassionate and show love to others. Peace.

I read everything op. You are perfectly normal.
So far you are not hurting the people around you, You don't need to live a life trying to impress them.

About the girl waiting for you to reach out, if you still want to continue the relationship just text hi.
Its a man's world no matter what happens.

Mopeola:
I think l like your nature, you won't believe how strong you are or your spirit does, it's not you entire that r performing those tasks but it's what your entire Spirits inside you wanted which you are not really sure of yourself, but stay strong and never ever in life beg any woman or lady to come back, you won't understand how powerful you are until u kept begging a minor pussy to break you down, a little story l wanted you to know is about Samson in the Bible snd also many other strong men, l would advice you use your brain

❤

antidisestablis:
This is not normal, man is social animal and if you are finding it difficult to do that is a character defect, remember red pill and other stuff like that are just the doctrine of men, it will take to you to nowhere. Be compassionate and show love to others. Peace.

I'm not forming redpill, it's just that I find difficult to show emotions or feelings .I love to bottle things up and keep it to myself

You’re perfectly fine. Being stoic is a great attribute for one’s peace of mind and long term happiness. Remain stoic and be good, man!🫶🏾

USAfall2024:
You’re perfectly fine. Being stoic is a great attribute for one’s peace of mind and long term happiness. Remain stoic and be good, man!🫶🏾

thank you .

You are you
You are perfect
No change needed only perfection

Meedon:
Desist from masturbating

Are you speaking based on experience?

E bi like say na chronic masturbation dey worry you oooo. Although I had a friend like that shaa. The same characteristics. Only that he begs women, patronized runs girls. Cold sometimes but social

It's cool , make money. It's good you enjoy sex, so enjoy it and move on. But I'm bothered for you via marriage and tins wey follow am

I'm exactly the same.

First stay away from call girls .
Sex for money is not a healthy lifestyle .
While you seem to be taking the red pill, also take the chill pill to cool off .
Find a good woman you genuinely like and have a healthy relationship with her .
Avoid being a simp while showing her the manliness in you by simply loving her.

What is hard for you is also hard for many people. No dey use emotion

Your breast

You are gay. Though you are desperately trying to act straight by having sex with women and pretending to like it but deep down, you know you are gay. Just embrace your fate.

Palmercole:
First of all ,I'm an introvert, good looking face 8/10 and tall as well with a nice skin color.
I don't know how but something in me feels broken because I'm always cold to everyone that comes close to me although sometimes I tend to losen up and be lively fun

My male friends ,Family understands and respect my persona ,they all know I love to keep to myself and all that but the problem is me dealing with my female friends

All my life I've been approached multiple times by girls and ladies who always throw themselves on me because of my good looks and low-key lifestyle. please be noted that all these still don't make me to play around with them or use the opportunity to trick them into my bed because I'm a very principled guy and many things don't bother me anymore including sex(maybe I'm depressed).

I love my space and hate to share it with anyone (except some few of my circle),so when these girls come around me,instead of playing with their hearts .I'll be honest with them and let them know that I'm not easily impressed ,don't like being in relationships and don't believe in love because I believe Nigerian got the wrong perspective on relationships and most of them just date for fun

I don't hate ladies but I'm always careful when dealing with them because I'm someone that hates drama and female shenanigans.
I know I sound cocky but trust me when I say your assumptions about me are wrong ,I'm a really humble guy and not stingy when it comes to helping out friends in need.

But my problem is with women because most are deceptive (forget the fine face) and have nothing upstairs except looking for a man to manipulate into relationship just to feel among or fulfill society pressure. But no that's not what I'm looking for . I just need to be with a lady who understands me for who I am and not easily swayed by Genz trendy shitss

Yes it's true I have trust issues (who doesn't?) And love myself to a fault but when it comes to women ,I can't stand to do all these romantic moves or funny stuffs that gets them going because I feel it'll make her look down on me .

I'm always serious and cold when dealing with them and that makes them look at me like someone with no feelings or redpill king
I'm old school and believe that man should always maintain his respect and carry himself with high regard.

I've tried dating here and there but it lasted for some few weeks (barely one month),because I get fed up easily, can't really bring myself down to do some relationship stuffs that women likes .

Even during sex .Of course I do pre-intimacy and all that but after the deal has been signed ,I tend to recoil to my shell and wish there's a way to get her going instead of passing the night with me .
I love sex but don't see it as something of great importance or worthwhile(it doesn't move me like that anymore)

Now after some many years of being single and hitting it off with call girls because that's the only way I can cool off without getting attached to one .I met a new girl ,she's so matured and a little older than me (don't worry,I love my women mature with good sense of reasoning)
The talking stage with this new girl was going fully well even though I'm still feeling skeptical about her and us .. multiple times I've told her to apply small break to our new friendship that she is taking things too fast and me I love taking me time to avoid jumping into something we'll both regret in the future.

I guess my good looks got her intoxicated and she was really pushing it for us .I couldn't take it anymore so I had to ghost her for some few days .After that we got back again but I don't know what happened because she all of a sudden starts talking about not being happy with the way I just decided to ghost on her and now threatening to break up with me(a matter we've talked about before and settled, now she's bringing it up again ,gosh)

I know her game and knows she's just trying to make me bend my rules and act romantic to her ,but I can't do all that because it's not in my nature. I can't even pet a girl or endure female childish display .
So I told her I'm cool with her and also respect her decision (of breaking up with me) of which she wasn't expecting to hear that from me .

She was expecting me to be shocked and begging her but deep down I know my heart is cold like a pack of ice.since my childhood I've been finding it difficult showing emotions. I don't even feel anything at all
Now we're playing the waiting game of who's going to first reach out and apologize. I can't do that and won't even think of it because of my hard man nature and code of honor rules .so it's either she hits me up again or nothing for us again (redpill and self love no easy)

So peeps with this little point of mine ,am I normal or weird and do you have anything to say that can help me improve when dealing with women ..Please don't forget I'm a street nigger with cold heart but not a wicked one ,tnx

..Good looking my ass.You wey resemble ET..You wey be like mixture of chihuahua and orangutan.

TUANKU:
Are you speaking based on experience?

I go lie for you