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The Truth No One Tells Men—But You Must Know

Start seeing relationships or marriage as an unspoken transaction from age 20.

"The earlier you understand that no one will love you—and that you don’t want anyone to love you either because you won’t reciprocate—the sooner you become strong and stoic in handling matters that require emotions." Joe Clef.


No woman will love you after age 20. Yes, I know you don’t believe it, but in the end, you’ll agree with me.

Go into the world with this mentality, and you’ll achieve a lot while never experiencing heartbreak—because you started the union differently, unlike other men who don’t know what you're about to learn.

The first thing you need to do as a man is to kill the spirit of lust; otherwise, you'll always mess up with women. Once you achieve this, the sky is your limit.

I have given countless girls full-body massage on my bed—both of us náked—yet I never made a move for sex, even though I know I’m the best in bed. Read the book Lasticle on how to last forever in bed and you'll understand what I'm saying.

So, these women were wet because, when I massaged those areas—especially the labia majora or even the inner thighs—their body language gave it away. In the end, we'll listen to soothing music and sleep.

We woke up, showered and I handed her TP to go home. No sex. This act has given me so much power over women, yet at the same time, many of them hate me for such "punishment."

Do I want to be loved? No.
Do I love? No.
But that doesn’t stop me from being romantic and caring towards women.

For refusing to have sex after those massages, they felt rejected—some even thought their private parts smelled, hence I didn't proceed, which wasn’t the case.

I didn’t do it because I have gone beyond lust and cravings. Not that I didn't want to knack, but I was able to separate what enriches the spirit and soul over what enriches the body and flesh. Getting to this stage of life is hard, but doable.

Yes, I know you love ass, breasts, or pretty faces, but slow it down. There is nothing there. The media has overhyped and attached so much value to these things to make money through traffic. I guess experience is why I no longer value them as much.

When you meet a woman, say in your mind:

"Let me try a transaction with this girl. Oh, there is even 80% probability she has an infection—no doubt."

With this mindset, you stop taking her seriously from the beginning. You no longer think, "I hope she likes me," because after age 20, there is no love for you. You should no longer expect it from women and don't give it to women too.

The moment you do this, you automatically stop judging yourself—your looks, your bank account, or your desirability. Instead, you judge her because you are about to initiate a transaction in which she will benefit 90%. See approaching her as doing her a favour because that's what it is.

How?

If you two date, you do most of the spending—but that doesn’t mean she won’t cheat. You’re the slave.

If you two have sex, you do 90% of the waist-shaking just to impress her that you're the best in bed—which requires a lot of energy—yet that doesn’t mean she won’t cheat. You’re the slave.

If you two date, she is more likely to bring infections into the relationship (if she doesn’t already have one), and you’ll be the one paying for treatment for both of you. You’re still the slave.

After analyzing this, you’ll realize that from age 20 onward, a man should never fall in love because he will never be loved by women. Don’t give what they can’t give you unconditionally. That’s why I pity men who fall in love after 20.

When you enter a relationship with the mindset of transaction-ship and mutual understanding—not mutual love—you will never be manipulated again.

The moment she messes up, you won’t be scared of losing her because you were never in love with her in the first place—you were in an unspoken transaction-ship, unlike other men who fall for beauty, a big ass, breasts, or a wealthy background.

This doesn’t mean you won’t treat her well—giving her sensual massages, being romantic, etc. You will. But you won’t tolerate nonsense in this business. And you won’t SIMP either.

Being romantic is not simping—it’s about creating memories that she will miss when it finally ends because there is 90% it will.

Those memories will make her long for you after dating a couple of boring guys.

She will still cheat on those guys with you, her ex, because she misses the confident "bad boy" romance you gave her—the massages, the jokes, the outing, the fun moments. And she’ll miss the fact that, after the breakup, you never cared to reconnect.

Why? You were never in love. You're born a polygamist by nature, not a lover. You're Ned Nwoko, not Nedu Wazobia.

You never told her to love you nor have your professed how much you love her. You were in a transaction-ship — and that transaction could only continue if she met three conditions:

1. Respect you forever
2. Stay loyal forever
3. Never cheat, give out her number, or exchange romantic messages with other men

If she fails in any of those, you leave. But still, she would come back—to cheat on her new boyfriend with you. That boyfriend? The one who forgives her every time he catches her cheating.

So, if you're between ages 1 to 19, fall in love and enjoy your teenage years with your love interest—you deserve it. But the moment you hit 20, rude awakening and you're not with the same girl you started with—avoid love.

If you're still with her, continue, but focus more on becoming wealthy than on constantly proving your love to her  through words while being broke.

Sadly, on your journey to wealth—or even while showing more love—your teenage lover, now above 20, will cheat on you despite all you've done. Her friends misled her, but she wanted it too so she can compare.

And when she does cheat and gets caught, it will feel like the end of the world for you. This is the most painful betrayal ever. Some men become misogynists because of this and it's bad for you health, so it's better to be wise now before it's too late. 

Don't hate women and the best way not to hate women is never to fall in love or expect love from them, but transaction-ship and cooperation.

Just imagining another man putting his BIG d*ck inside her will make you want to commit suicide, right? It's because you're in love. Real men don't love, they only provide and protect.

Welcome to the real world of no love lost, no love found.

Remember: from age 20, no one loves you as a man.

They only love:
1. How you make them feel
2. What you provide

*If you're tall and handsome, they use you to brag and oppress their friends.

*If you're rich, they flaunt your gifts—the car, the iPhone you bought them.

*If you're smart and great in bed, they brag about it.

So, it's never about loving you. It's about what you give and how you make them feel.

Now that you finally understand this post, you can now agree that you don’t want them to love you—because you don’t love them either, you only accommodated them in a transaction-ship until the contract is over.

All you want as a man is respect, loyalty, and faithfulness, not love after age 20.

Remember this post and your dating game will never remain the same and no woman will hurt you again.

No be lie you talk high chief iLegend....

The infection part really got me . Imagine paying for infection that was Bluetooth to you for free of charge after cheating on you with another nigha

And every other thing you just said is nothing but the truth tho..

💯 I’m beginning to see things from your pov

Sigh


This is deep.

Sonnobax15:

No be lie you talk high chief iLegend....

The infection part really got me . Imagine paying for infection that was Bluetooth to you for free of charge after cheating on you with another nigha

And every other thing you just said is nothing but the truth tho..

The sad thing is, a huge percentage of medicine in small chemists are fake. You go drink taya, but the infection go still dey.

You go enter native and drink lots of bitter things for months, things you'll never drink on a normal day. In the end, you'll realize you've spent more than 200k on yourself and another 200k on her.

She that gave you the infection, you'll see her looking healthy and happy and still has lists of men she wants to sleep with without curing the infection first, hence bringing more to you.

Men are just on the losing side of everything. 100% of the problem in the world would be solved if men can control lust for skin-to-skin sex and lust for quick money.

Imagine if Burna collected one infection from his American baddies. The Lamborghini girl's innocent boyfriend that cheated with Burna will immediately transfer it to her man. Transaction successful.

So, you see, it's all transaction. As big as Burna, she refused to give him sex, but the moment he activated his transaction-ship price, she bent for doggy, forgetting she has an innocent boyfriend.

This is why I said, no matter how handsome you are, rich or famous, after age 20, as a man, there is no love for you — it's what she'll benefit that she's after. PERIOD!

iLegendd:
The sad thing is, a huge percentage of medicine in small chemists are fake. You go drink taya, but the infection go still dey.

You go enter native and drink lots of bitter things for months, things you'll never drink on a normal day. In the end, you'll realize you've spent more than 200k on yourself and another 200k on her.

She that gave you the infection, you'll see her looking healthy and happy and still has lists of men she wants to sleep with without curing the infection first, hence bringing more to you.

Men are just on the losing side of everything. 100% of the problem in the world would be solved if men can control lust for skin-to-skin sex and lust for quick money.

Imagine if Burna collected one infection from his American baddies. The Lamborghini girl's innocent boyfriend that cheated with Burna will immediately transfer it to her man. Transaction successful.

So, you see, it's all transaction. As big as Burna, she refused to give him sex, but the moment he activated his transaction-ship price, she bent for doggy, forgetting she has an innocent boyfriend.

This is why I said, no matter how handsome you are, rich or famous, after age 20, as a man, there is no love for you — it's what she'll benefit that she's after. PERIOD!

So that girl has a boyfriend yet she bent for Lambo truck
LMFAO

I've been seeing half gist here and there but I didn't just follow up.

Ignore this fool, he no get sense

ChizzyBuna:
Ignore this fool, he no get sense

5 years of hatred. This is a case of VDM VS DWorm. Always wishing I reply you to feel noticed.

You think this post is the type you create talking about sleeping with your cousin, peeping your mom in the bathroom and walking your father out or battling numerous STDs. Frustrated and wayward first son.

Listen to this video below and thank me later, my 5 year bitter fan.

What have you achieved with Nairaland within this 5 years of stalking and hatred? You want to use me for clout, abi? I'll ignore you to go sleep with your siblings as usual.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b1HR6ykZRgY?si=bSQZ-iaqjAAV7zbR

revived2:
So that girl has a boyfriend yet she bent for Lambo truck
LMFAO

I've been seeing half gist here and there but I didn't just follow up.

Husband is nothing to them let alone boyfriend. People that disobey God regularly, so a man is nothing.

I have read stories of craziest places women had sex and it's always Church or Church toilet, their parent's room, club, bar, etc.

The best you can do for yourself and to protect your heart is not to love and not to expect to be loved, yet a caring person towards those who deserve it.

You have started again

Oh....it's from iLegend! He's deserving of his monicker.

iLegendd:
Husband is nothing to them let alone boyfriend. People that disobey God regularly, so a man is nothing.

I have read stories of craziest places women had sex and it's always Church or Church toilet, their parent's room, club, bar, etc.

The best you can do for yourself and to protect your heart is not to love and not to expect to be loved, yet a caring person towards those who deserve it.

You don't practice what you preach

Hmm, this is really deep!

You're right.
Being in the medical field had exposed me to a lot of confidential information especially from woman including married woman.
If you know the things women do ehn, to marry come dey fear me sef

dontrulee:
You're right.
Being in the medical field had exposed me to a lot of confidential information especially from woman including married woman.
If you know the things women do ehn, to marry come dey fear me sef

Omo, una medical field eh, I fear them.

One fine nurse posted today, or was it yesterday that she needs head. She's more beautiful than Regina. I replied her status, but wasn't interested in the offer. I don't give such, but I know lots of men would reply her.

This will make you realize the more beautiful a woman is, the cheaper she is. All they want is a bad boy who's good in bed or has game or has money. They're are all whọ́res or at least, 90%.

Those of us that know how to innocently initiate naughty conversations or hold it for hours dey see things.

This particular girl is in a serious relationship.

Lemme give you a glimpse of the kind of chat the nurses, including the married one love.

If you see the things I have seen, you'll never want to date, but be the side guy.

tanigororo:
As a Man, Love at the detriment of your Sanity, you are nothing but cash cow.

No Woman will want to be in any relationship with you, if she has nothing to gain. Know this and you know peace.

Can’t be said any better!

Too long

NoBodyknow:
Too long

Not too long. Your brain just doesn't like knowledge or improvements. If you're given 50 long (tall) female basketball players to sleep with, trust me you won't say they're too long (tall). You'll want to bang all of them even if it takes a month.

If you're put in a room with 1 billion Dollar and you're told whatever you count out is yours, trust me, you'll count all of them, even if it takes a year.

The African brain just hates new knowledge, hence, we'll always been seen as the lowest race even though we're the best. Our hatred for knowledge but love for pleasure and money is why.

When you see a poor African man, just know that he hates knowledge (or doesn't have access to the right knowledge) or he's a religious extremist.

iLegendd:
Not too long. Your brain just doesn't like knowledge or improvements. If you're given 50 long (tall) female basketball players to sleep with, trust me you won't say they're too long (tall). You'll want to bang all of them even if it takes a month.

If you're put in a room with 1 billion Dollar and you're told whatever you count out is yours, trust me, you'll count all of them, even if it takes a year.

The African brain just hates new knowledge, hence, we'll always been seen as the lowest race even though we're the best. Our hatred for knowledge but love for pleasure and money is why.

When you see a poor African man, just know that he hates knowledge (or doesn't have access to the right knowledge) or he's a religious extremist.

mentor boys you no gree. You won carry all this knowledge go abi. Mah worry. We go soon kidnap you. Na to swap your brain with mine.

iLegendd:
The Truth No One Tells Men—But You Must Know

Start seeing relationships or marriage as an unspoken transaction from age 20.

"The earlier you understand that no one will love you—and that you don’t want anyone to love you either because you won’t reciprocate—the sooner you become strong and stoic in handling matters that require emotions." Joe Clef.


No woman will love you after age 20. Yes, I know you don’t believe it, but in the end, you’ll agree with me.

Go into the world with this mentality, and you’ll achieve a lot while never experiencing heartbreak—because you started the union differently, unlike other men who don’t know what you're about to learn.

The first thing you need to do as a man is to kill the spirit of lust; otherwise, you'll always mess up with women. Once you achieve this, the sky is your limit.

I have given countless girls full-body massage on my bed—both of us náked—yet I never made a move for sex, even though I know I’m the best in bed. Read the book Lasticle on how to last forever in bed and you'll understand what I'm saying.

So, these women were wet because, when I massaged those areas—especially the labia majora or even the inner thighs—their body language gave it away. In the end, we'll listen to soothing music and sleep.

We woke up, showered and I handed her TP to go home. No sex. This act has given me so much power over women, yet at the same time, many of them hate me for such "punishment."

Do I want to be loved? No.
Do I love? No.
But that doesn’t stop me from being romantic and caring towards women.

For refusing to have sex after those massages, they felt rejected—some even thought their private parts smelled, hence I didn't proceed, which wasn’t the case.

I didn’t do it because I have gone beyond lust and cravings. Not that I didn't want to knack, but I was able to separate what enriches the spirit and soul over what enriches the body and flesh. Getting to this stage of life is hard, but doable.

Yes, I know you love ass, breasts, or pretty faces, but slow it down. There is nothing there. The media has overhyped and attached so much value to these things to make money through traffic. I guess experience is why I no longer value them as much.

When you meet a woman, say in your mind:

"Let me try a transaction with this girl. Oh, there is even 80% probability she has an infection—no doubt."

With this mindset, you stop taking her seriously from the beginning. You no longer think, "I hope she likes me," because after age 20, there is no love for you. You should no longer expect it from women and don't give it to women too.

The moment you do this, you automatically stop judging yourself—your looks, your bank account, or your desirability. Instead, you judge her because you are about to initiate a transaction in which she will benefit 90%. See approaching her as doing her a favour because that's what it is.

How?

If you two date, you do most of the spending—but that doesn’t mean she won’t cheat. You’re the slave.

If you two have sex, you do 90% of the waist-shaking just to impress her that you're the best in bed—which requires a lot of energy—yet that doesn’t mean she won’t cheat. You’re the slave.

If you two date, she is more likely to bring infections into the relationship (if she doesn’t already have one), and you’ll be the one paying for treatment for both of you. You’re still the slave.

After analyzing this, you’ll realize that from age 20 onward, a man should never fall in love because he will never be loved by women. Don’t give what they can’t give you unconditionally. That’s why I pity men who fall in love after 20.

When you enter a relationship with the mindset of transaction-ship and mutual understanding—not mutual love—you will never be manipulated again.

The moment she messes up, you won’t be scared of losing her because you were never in love with her in the first place—you were in an unspoken transaction-ship, unlike other men who fall for beauty, a big ass, breasts, or a wealthy background.

This doesn’t mean you won’t treat her well—giving her sensual massages, being romantic, etc. You will. But you won’t tolerate nonsense in this business. And you won’t SIMP either.

Being romantic is not simping—it’s about creating memories that she will miss when it finally ends because there is 90% it will.

Those memories will make her long for you after dating a couple of boring guys.

She will still cheat on those guys with you, her ex, because she misses the confident "bad boy" romance you gave her—the massages, the jokes, the outing, the fun moments. And she’ll miss the fact that, after the breakup, you never cared to reconnect.

Why? You were never in love. You're born a polygamist by nature, not a lover. You're Ned Nwoko, not Nedu Wazobia.

You never told her to love you nor have your professed how much you love her. You were in a transaction-ship — and that transaction could only continue if she met three conditions:

1. Respect you forever
2. Stay loyal forever
3. Never cheat, give out her number, or exchange romantic messages with other men

If she fails in any of those, you leave. But still, she would come back—to cheat on her new boyfriend with you. That boyfriend? The one who forgives her every time he catches her cheating.

So, if you're between ages 1 to 19, fall in love and enjoy your teenage years with your love interest—you deserve it. But the moment you hit 20, rude awakening and you're not with the same girl you started with—avoid love.

If you're still with her, continue, but focus more on becoming wealthy than on constantly proving your love to her  through words while being broke.

Sadly, on your journey to wealth—or even while showing more love—your teenage lover, now above 20, will cheat on you despite all you've done. Her friends misled her, but she wanted it too so she can compare.

And when she does cheat and gets caught, it will feel like the end of the world for you. This is the most painful betrayal ever. Some men become misogynists because of this and it's bad for you health, so it's better to be wise now before it's too late. 

Don't hate women and the best way not to hate women is never to fall in love or expect love from them, but transaction-ship and cooperation.

Just imagining another man putting his BIG d*ck inside her will make you want to commit suicide, right? It's because you're in love. Real men don't love, they only provide and protect.

Welcome to the real world of no love lost, no love found.

Remember: from age 20, no one loves you as a man.

They only love:
1. How you make them feel
2. What you provide

*If you're tall and handsome, they use you to brag and oppress their friends.

*If you're rich, they flaunt your gifts—the car, the iPhone you bought them.

*If you're smart and great in bed, they brag about it.

So, it's never about loving you. It's about what you give and how you make them feel.

Now that you finally understand this post, you can now agree that you don’t want them to love you—because you don’t love them either, you only accommodated them in a transaction-ship until the contract is over.

All you want as a man is respect, loyalty, and faithfulness, not love after age 20.

Remember this post and your dating game will never remain the same and no woman will hurt you again.

"Real men don't love, they only provide and protect."

Knew this in my teens. Thanks for reinforcing these ideals.

I need that Lasticle book
How would I get it

iLegendd:
The Truth No One Tells Men—But You Must Know

Start seeing relationships or marriage as an unspoken transaction from age 20.

"The earlier you understand that no one will love you—and that you don’t want anyone to love you either because you won’t reciprocate—the sooner you become strong and stoic in handling matters that require emotions." Joe Clef.


No woman will love you after age 20. Yes, I know you don’t believe it, but in the end, you’ll agree with me.

Go into the world with this mentality, and you’ll achieve a lot while never experiencing heartbreak—because you started the union differently, unlike other men who don’t know what you're about to learn.

The first thing you need to do as a man is to kill the spirit of lust; otherwise, you'll always mess up with women. Once you achieve this, the sky is your limit.

I have given countless girls full-body massage on my bed—both of us náked—yet I never made a move for sex, even though I know I’m the best in bed. Read the book Lasticle on how to last forever in bed and you'll understand what I'm saying.

So, these women were wet because, when I massaged those areas—especially the labia majora or even the inner thighs—their body language gave it away. In the end, we'll listen to soothing music and sleep.

We woke up, showered and I handed her TP to go home. No sex. This act has given me so much power over women, yet at the same time, many of them hate me for such "punishment."

Do I want to be loved? No.
Do I love? No.
But that doesn’t stop me from being romantic and caring towards women.

For refusing to have sex after those massages, they felt rejected—some even thought their private parts smelled, hence I didn't proceed, which wasn’t the case.

I didn’t do it because I have gone beyond lust and cravings. Not that I didn't want to knack, but I was able to separate what enriches the spirit and soul over what enriches the body and flesh. Getting to this stage of life is hard, but doable.

Yes, I know you love ass, breasts, or pretty faces, but slow it down. There is nothing there. The media has overhyped and attached so much value to these things to make money through traffic. I guess experience is why I no longer value them as much.

When you meet a woman, say in your mind:

"Let me try a transaction with this girl. Oh, there is even 80% probability she has an infection—no doubt."

With this mindset, you stop taking her seriously from the beginning. You no longer think, "I hope she likes me," because after age 20, there is no love for you. You should no longer expect it from women and don't give it to women too.

The moment you do this, you automatically stop judging yourself—your looks, your bank account, or your desirability. Instead, you judge her because you are about to initiate a transaction in which she will benefit 90%. See approaching her as doing her a favour because that's what it is.

How?

If you two date, you do most of the spending—but that doesn’t mean she won’t cheat. You’re the slave.

If you two have sex, you do 90% of the waist-shaking just to impress her that you're the best in bed—which requires a lot of energy—yet that doesn’t mean she won’t cheat. You’re the slave.

If you two date, she is more likely to bring infections into the relationship (if she doesn’t already have one), and you’ll be the one paying for treatment for both of you. You’re still the slave.

After analyzing this, you’ll realize that from age 20 onward, a man should never fall in love because he will never be loved by women. Don’t give what they can’t give you unconditionally. That’s why I pity men who fall in love after 20.

When you enter a relationship with the mindset of transaction-ship and mutual understanding—not mutual love—you will never be manipulated again.

The moment she messes up, you won’t be scared of losing her because you were never in love with her in the first place—you were in an unspoken transaction-ship, unlike other men who fall for beauty, a big ass, breasts, or a wealthy background.

This doesn’t mean you won’t treat her well—giving her sensual massages, being romantic, etc. You will. But you won’t tolerate nonsense in this business. And you won’t SIMP either.

Being romantic is not simping—it’s about creating memories that she will miss when it finally ends because there is 90% it will.

Those memories will make her long for you after dating a couple of boring guys.

She will still cheat on those guys with you, her ex, because she misses the confident "bad boy" romance you gave her—the massages, the jokes, the outing, the fun moments. And she’ll miss the fact that, after the breakup, you never cared to reconnect.

Why? You were never in love. You're born a polygamist by nature, not a lover. You're Ned Nwoko, not Nedu Wazobia.

You never told her to love you nor have your professed how much you love her. You were in a transaction-ship — and that transaction could only continue if she met three conditions:

1. Respect you forever
2. Stay loyal forever
3. Never cheat, give out her number, or exchange romantic messages with other men

If she fails in any of those, you leave. But still, she would come back—to cheat on her new boyfriend with you. That boyfriend? The one who forgives her every time he catches her cheating.

So, if you're between ages 1 to 19, fall in love and enjoy your teenage years with your love interest—you deserve it. But the moment you hit 20, rude awakening and you're not with the same girl you started with—avoid love.

If you're still with her, continue, but focus more on becoming wealthy than on constantly proving your love to her  through words while being broke.

Sadly, on your journey to wealth—or even while showing more love—your teenage lover, now above 20, will cheat on you despite all you've done. Her friends misled her, but she wanted it too so she can compare.

And when she does cheat and gets caught, it will feel like the end of the world for you. This is the most painful betrayal ever. Some men become misogynists because of this and it's bad for you health, so it's better to be wise now before it's too late. 

Don't hate women and the best way not to hate women is never to fall in love or expect love from them, but transaction-ship and cooperation.

Just imagining another man putting his BIG d*ck inside her will make you want to commit suicide, right? It's because you're in love. Real men don't love, they only provide and protect.

Welcome to the real world of no love lost, no love found.

Remember: from age 20, no one loves you as a man.

They only love:
1. How you make them feel
2. What you provide

*If you're tall and handsome, they use you to brag and oppress their friends.

*If you're rich, they flaunt your gifts—the car, the iPhone you bought them.

*If you're smart and great in bed, they brag about it.

So, it's never about loving you. It's about what you give and how you make them feel.

Now that you finally understand this post, you can now agree that you don’t want them to love you—because you don’t love them either, you only accommodated them in a transaction-ship until the contract is over.

All you want as a man is respect, loyalty, and faithfulness, not love after age 20.

Remember this post and your dating game will never remain the same and no woman will hurt you again.

Rule1. Fvck them like a stud and don't get emotionally attached to them.
Rule2. Don't spend what you can't afford to lose.