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Men Are B*stards, Women Are Heartless by iLegendd(op): 1:45pm On Feb 25, 2025
Yesterday, I was strolling with my boy when we decided to stop at a restaurant. On the road, near a newly built edifice, two girls walked out of the gate.

A man on a bike, carrying about six or more big bags of flour, got stuck as he struggled to adjust his almost-fallen bags in front of these girls.

They noticed he needed help but acted aloof as they gisted.

As real men, we had to save our gender. We got up to assist him, brought all the bags down, and rearranged everything. My clothes got terribly stained from head to toe.

While we were helping the man—who seemed to be around 46 years old—I said, "If to say na car you drive, you see our two, you no go gree help us o. Na women you go help. If na to give money or train stranger for school, na woman you go choose."

Those two girls started laughing because they knew I was talking about them. They tried to defend themselves, claiming they wouldn’t have minded helping him. In my mind, I thought, "What were you waiting for when he was struggling?"

Anyway, we helped him, and he drove off. I can’t even remember if he said thank you. I needed to change clothes despite buying water to clean the stained areas.

As we were heading home, we saw the man returning. I waved at him, but he seemed not to have noticed us. I guess he’s going through a lot in his family, so I won’t hold it against him. A lot of men are struggling to survive.

Despite all these struggles, these men are always willing to give everything to women. What is wrong with them?

Lesson: Women don’t care if you’re suffering or not—they won’t help you. They’d rather save their strength for sex or their money for wigs.

They couldn't stain their clothes for a stranger. Yet, these are the same women on social media always claiming, "What a man can do, we can do better."

Men, on the other hand, are always ready to help, but 90% of the time, the SIMPs among us prefer to help women only.

So, I can conclude that men are slaves, and some are b*stards.

We appreciate women, but please, learn to help men too—with your strength and your money. Whatever we can do, we know you can do better.

Please, be kind to men—even though we know you’ll still rub it in our faces, reminding us how you helped and fed us.

And for men, invest wisely! No one loves you after age 20 except for what you provide or the energy you radiate.
Re: Men Are B*stards, Women Are Heartless by lekdap: 3:39pm On Feb 25, 2025
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Re: Men Are B*stards, Women Are Heartless by Cerebellum: 5:23pm On Feb 25, 2025
Even though you talk too muchgrin

You're absolutely right.
Re: Men Are B*stards, Women Are Heartless by effixxyguy1: 5:39pm On Feb 25, 2025
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Re: Men Are B*stards, Women Are Heartless by iLegendd(op):
Re: Men Are B*stards, Women Are Heartless by Kalatium(m): 6:23pm On Feb 25, 2025
You are right, what a world.
Re: Men Are B*stards, Women Are Heartless by iLegendd(op): 8:29pm On Feb 25, 2025
Cerebellum:
Even though you talk too muchgrin

You're absolutely right.
When you're an author, you must talk too much, else your book will only be 5 pages. Without us, timid envious introverts like you have nothing to read. grin

You've been addicted to me for too long, even with your old monikers.

I'm not gay o! I know what you want. I have read your gay confession before.
Re: Men Are B*stards, Women Are Heartless by calabaman(m): 8:55pm On Feb 25, 2025
@op: I agree.

But thankfully, most men are having a change of mindset.
Re: Men Are B*stards, Women Are Heartless by motionarena: 9:00pm On Feb 25, 2025
iLegendd:
Yesterday, I was strolling with my boy when we decided to stop at a restaurant. On the road, near a newly built edifice, two girls walked out of the gate.

A man on a bike, carrying about six or more big bags of flour, got stuck as he struggled to adjust his almost-fallen bags in front of these girls.

They noticed he needed help but acted aloof as they gisted.

As real men, we had to save our gender. We got up to assist him, brought all the bags down, and rearranged everything. My clothes got terribly stained from head to toe.

While we were helping the man—who seemed to be around 46 years old—I said, "If to say na car you drive, you see our two, you no go gree help us o. Na women you go help. If na to give money or train stranger for school, na woman you go choose."

Those two girls started laughing because they knew I was talking about them. They tried to defend themselves, claiming they wouldn’t have minded helping him. In my mind, I thought, "What were you waiting for when he was struggling?"

Anyway, we helped him, and he drove off. I can’t even remember if he said thank you. I needed to change clothes despite buying water to clean the stained areas.

As we were heading home, we saw the man returning. I waved at him, but he seemed not to have noticed us. I guess he’s going through a lot in his family, so I won’t hold it against him. A lot of men are struggling to survive.

Despite all these struggles, these men are always willing to give everything to women. What is wrong with them?

Lesson: Women don’t care if you’re suffering or not—they won’t help you. They’d rather save their strength for sex or their money for wigs.

They couldn't stain their clothes for a stranger. Yet, these are the same women on social media always claiming, "What a man can do, we can do better."

Men, on the other hand, are always ready to help, but 90% of the time, the SIMPs among us prefer to help women only.

So, I can conclude that men are slaves, and some are b*stards.

We appreciate women, but please, learn to help men too—with your strength and your money. Whatever we can do, we know you can do better.

Please, be kind to men—even though we know you’ll still rub it in our faces, reminding us how you helped and fed us.

And for men, invest wisely! No one loves you after age 20 except for what you provide or the energy you radiate.
U no dey shame every hour na to dey create thread for nland

You no get live ni
Re: Men Are B*stards, Women Are Heartless by iLegendd(op): 9:03pm On Feb 25, 2025
motionarena:
U no dey shame every hour na to dey create thread for nland

You no get live ni
Life! Fixed.

Content creation or sharing your story doesn't require shame. If you can do it well, it'll feed you.

So, don't be ashamed of what you're good at as long as it's working.

Also, don't be ashamed of persistence. I'm a testimony.

Most people won't achieve much in life because they're constantly thinking of what others think of them.

Shameless people like us don't think that way. We just do and do more regardless of what they say or want.

I'll be creating another post soon. cheesy I'm annoyingly good at what I do.
Re: Men Are B*stards, Women Are Heartless by SuperOnyi: 9:30pm On Feb 25, 2025
shocked



It's heartbreaking knowing that this is so true cry. The only women that has always had my back are my mother and sisters — I'm just too proud to have those girls as siblings. I just finished talking to one of them on phone and she said she had been calling and texting but when it wasn't connecting, she got scared.

When I lost my KDP account and lost my millionaire net worth status, the only humans that stood by me were my friend, mother, and siblings. Although, my so-called "woman" showed concern but I noticed that she felt comfortable acting childish and expecting me to be "caring" and also accusing me of being "heartless." This was a moment I was hurting because of how I lost my biz! Pathetic!

I kept intentionally mentioning about my biz and how she's surprisingly comfortable with acting like what happened was nothing. This woman was more concerned about getting my attention and making me more "caring" toward her. It was clear that all she cared about was HER EMOTIONS—just like most women of this generation.

Dax's songs on being a man touches deeply on these issues, a man is alone in this world. The world only cares about what you can offer them, and if you can't, you become useless to them and a LESS REAL MAN. They wanna define what a real man should be like, so they can keep you in bondage.

Even your kids has a high possibility of loving their mother more, not every kid would be like me—I loved and adored my father and enjoyed his presence. As a man, you must learn to relentlessly improve yourself, it's better you suffer now and enjoy later.

I learned this earlier as a kid who battled with depression and anxiety from an early age.
Re: Men Are B*stards, Women Are Heartless by haybhi1(m): 12:45am On Feb 26, 2025
Comrade, you've spoken well. Please change the headline to something more decent. This needs to reach the FP for wider audience and public enlightenment.
Re: Men Are B*stards, Women Are Heartless by iLegendd(op): 11:55am On Feb 26, 2025
haybhi1:
Comrade, you've spoken well. Please change the headline to something more decent. This needs to reach the FP for wider audience and public enlightenment.
You have a point, but I'm not really into the politically correct language realm. I just blurt it out based on how I feel.
Re: Men Are B*stards, Women Are Heartless by AllBlack: 3:41pm On Feb 26, 2025
iLegendd:
A man on a bike, carrying about six or more big bags of flour, got stuck as he struggled to adjust his almost-fallen bags in front of these girls.

They noticed he needed help but acted aloof as they gisted.
What exactly were you expecting the girls to do about the 6 BAGS OF FLOUR?

You did well by helping out according to your ability. Or you wanted the girls to come sing for you while you helped?

Meanwhile. has the pastor finished with your babe?
Re: Men Are B*stards, Women Are Heartless by iLegendd(op): 3:51pm On Feb 26, 2025
AllBlack:
What exactly were you expecting the girls to do about the 6 BAGS OF FLOUR?

You did well by helping out according to your ability. Or you wanted the girls to come sing for you while you helped?

Meanwhile. has the pastor finished with your babe?
Lol. Not my babe, but friend with benefit.

Of course, they're supposed to sing praises to me. cheesy When that man was in his 20s and 30s, who do you think enjoyed most of his money? Women. Look at him suffering today looking helpless just to feed another woman (wife) at home.

Men need to be wise financially as early as age 15 or at least 20.
Re: Men Are B*stards, Women Are Heartless by AllBlack:
iLegendd:
When that man was in his 20s and 30s, who do you think enjoyed most of his money?.
Yes it was those girls that enjoyed his money. And the girls would have come to submit their head for the man to put the load if it was 6 bags of cement he was carrying, why? Because women spent his money sometime ago.

This your logic is illogical. Try something else.
Re: Men Are B*stards, Women Are Heartless by iLegendd(op): 5:12pm On Feb 26, 2025
AllBlack:
Yes it was those girls that enjoyed his money. And the girls would have come to submit their head for the man to put the if it was 6 bags of cement he was carrying, why? Because women spent his money sometime ago.

This your logic is illogical. Try something else.
It's either you're a woman or just a SIMP.

If you're a man, you're just one of those that help and worship women, but when you need help, you expect men to come to your rescue. Learn to help your fellow men more so that when you're in trouble, they'll be there for you.

Anyway, the end of the debate. You some. You don't need to reply again.
Re: Men Are B*stards, Women Are Heartless by AllBlack: 5:20pm On Feb 26, 2025
iLegendd:
It's either you're a woman or just a SIMP.

If you're a man, you're just one of those that help and worship women, but when you need help, you expect men to come to your rescue. Learn to help your fellow men more so that when you're in trouble, they'll be there for you.

Anyway, the end of the debate. You some. You don't need to reply again.
Young boy, you have just shown your comprehension deficiency. Using the word SIMP to cover your flaws is just too shallow and it validates NOTHING within reason or FACT. Should I measure Alpha dick with someone who was crying about he is going crazy that pastor is fucking his girl while he is calling her 100 times a minute? You better get on a scale and measure yourself before you step in the wrong weight category. Debate with you? Don't flatter your little self.

I ask again, and I triple dare you to summon every last drop of intelligence to answer without the need to throw baseless names like a child running from the whip; What was your expected reaction from those girls?
Re: Men Are B*stards, Women Are Heartless by iLegendd(op): 5:32pm On Feb 26, 2025
AllBlack:
Young boy, you have just shown your comprehension deficiency. Using the word SIMP to cover your flaws is just too shallow and it validates NOTHING within reason or FACT. Should I measure Alpha dick with someone who was crying about he is going crazy that pastor is fucking his girl while he is calling her 100 times a minute? You better get on a scale and measure yourself before you step in the wrong weight category. Debate with you? Don't flatter your little self.

I ask again, and I triple dare you to summon every last drop of intelligence to answer without the need to throw baseless names like a child running from the whip; What was your expected reaction from those girls?
I didn't read, but whatever you wrote, you're right. Bye.
Re: Men Are B*stards, Women Are Heartless by AllBlack: 5:33pm On Feb 26, 2025
iLegendd:
I didn't read, but whatever you wrote, you're right. Bye.
The disability is quite noted.
Re: Men Are B*stards, Women Are Heartless by iLegendd(op): 5:38pm On Feb 26, 2025
AllBlack:
The disability is quite noted.
You're welcome.
Re: Men Are B*stards, Women Are Heartless by TheGreatIyaebe(f): 6:04pm On Feb 26, 2025
The most useless men are the ones on Nairaland. Very useless and irresponsible set of people.

Rolls eyes, Mtcheww
Re: Men Are B*stards, Women Are Heartless by iLegendd(op): 8:20pm On Feb 26, 2025
TheGreatIyaebe:
The most useless men are the ones on Nairaland. Very useless and irresponsible set of people.

Rolls eyes, Mtcheww
The more irresponsible you are, but financially smart, buoyant and unknown, the more you'll enjoy life.

Responsible men are currently frustrated with family and extended family responsibilities and when these responsibilities kill them, these family members will still say, "What did he achieve with his money?"

So, if you're looking for responsible men, go to another social media platform, Darling.
Re: Men Are B*stards, Women Are Heartless by Smilleydr(m): 8:45am On Feb 27, 2025
iLegendd:
The more irresponsible you are, but financially smart, buoyant and unknown, the more you'll enjoy life.

Responsible men are currently frustrated with family and extended family responsibilities and when these responsibilities kill them, these family members will still say, "What did he achieve with his money?" I just notice that if you want to be responsible in this life na small. E go remain make you die, what am I even say bro you fit die along the way self and life still continue, nobody send you ooo, no go do pass your self.

So, if you're looking for responsible men, go to another social media platform, Darling.
Re: Men Are B*stards, Women Are Heartless by Cerebellum: 6:27pm On Feb 28, 2025
iLegendd:
When you're an author, you must talk too much, else your book will only be 5 pages. Without us, timid envious introverts like you have nothing to read. grin

You've been addicted to me for too long, even with your old monikers.

I'm not gay o! I know what you want. I have read your gay confession before.
Lol, I read this and I'm seriously laughing, I hold no grudge with you baba, calm downgrin
Re: Men Are B*stards, Women Are Heartless by iLegendd(op): 7:35pm On Feb 28, 2025
Cerebellum:
Lol, I read this and I'm seriously laughing, I hold no grudge with you baba, calm downgrin
That's the format. Offend people and when they react, tell them it's just a joke and cruise, then do it again weeks later. Rinse and repeat.

This is your second or third attempt. Keep it up.
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