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Nigerian actress Bukky Wright recently sparked a conversation about relationships and gender dynamics in Nigeria, stating that many Nigerian men find it challenging to handle self-made, independent women
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Read https://degoldenblog.com.ng/many-nigerian-men-cannot-handle-self-made-women-bukky-wright-cries-out

Most Nigerian men don't want a dent to their authority else they go for what will not give them headaches.

Nigeria men don't care if you are self made or not.

That's her cup of tea...

My problem is how I can see light power my laptop and get myself busy so that I wouldn't have time to read nonsensical news in this platform again 🤔

Self made women that always use clitocurrency to buy lamborghini, What exchange rate is that?

That's if the man is not well to do way over her.

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No one is self-made, absolutely no one be it a man or a woman, you simply failed to acknowledge the people on whose shoulders you climbed. That phrase "self-made" is already riddled with lots of ego boldly written on it and true, it is difficult to deal with an ego-driven woman.

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now this is exactly what I am talking about
https://x.com/Dhavidote/status/1897610229845529040

The artist said he "discovered himself". See people's comment

Many self made women don't want to be handled...


They want to be independent!

We are all self made. Only the successful will admit it. Self confidence should not be confused with pride,

Good for her

Balistic4:
No one is self-made, absolutely no one be it a man or a woman, you simply failed to acknowledge the people on whose shoulders you climbed. That phrase "self-made" is already riddled lots of ego boldly written on it and true, it is difficult to deal with an ego-driven woman.

Thank you!

It's only ingrates who fail to acknowledge their benefactors that readily use the phrase "self-made"!

They forget the wise saying that "those who had their palmcarnel cracked by benevolent spirits should never forget to be humble"

Jman06:
Thank you!

It's only ingrates who fail to acknowledge their benefactors that readily use the phrase "self-made"!

They forget the wise saying that "those who had their palmcarnel cracked by benevolent spirits should never forget to be humble"

that's it my brother. When you say you are self-made, you have also removed God's help in your life. Even tarzan that grew up in the bush had the help of animals. No one is self-made

Tim1212:
Nigerian actress Bukky Wright recently sparked a conversation about relationships and gender dynamics in Nigeria, stating that many Nigerian men find it challenging to handle self-made, independent women
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Read https://degoldenblog.com.ng/many-nigerian-men-cannot-handle-self-made-women-bukky-wright-cries-out

I love self made women..dem no dey stress man...but be ready to go 50 50..0r 60 40...and dem go talk back at you...the best way to treat them is silent treatment and single warning...never repeat yourself.

We don't need Natashas .... once a woman has money , she becomes disrespectful and arrogant

No...not "self-made" women made by men through their bodies or by simply being women!

That's always the excuse they give when men no longer want them because of their disgusting, condescending, silly, rude attitudes. They should get ready to remain single and lonely for the rest of their miserable lives. Men don't need marriage; Women do!!!!

fuckingAyaya:
Self made women that always use clitocurrency to buy lamborghini, What exchange rate is that?

You don't know what you are saying.

Their generation put in the work but did not see the big rewards the ones there are enjoying today. Someone like you fit say Regina Askia do runs. You'll just open your mouth wa wa wa on the internet just because you can type anything thinking you are anonymous.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5S6KbsfBtFY?

papyjaypaul:
You don't know what you are saying.

Their generation put in the work but did not see the big rewards the ones there are enjoying today. Someone like you fit say Regina Askia do runs. You'll just open your mouth wa wa wa on the internet just because you can type anything thinking you are anonymous.

their generation did worse but codedly not like this present generation where there's internet and everyone wanna flaunt lavish lifestyles online. I won't say more. Runs wey day in existence before christ?

fuckingAyaya:
their generation did worse but codedly not like this present generation where there's internet and everyone wanna flaunt lavish lifestyles online. I won't say more. Runs wey day in existence before christ?

I know they did. They are not all saints but do you think a runs girl still has the brain for books? Runs is a mental illness like prostitution. Why will they do the hard work when their body can give them easy work to make the same money, if not more?

So who fuccks these self-made ladies? Men..right?

Is that not part of 'handling'?

And what is her real name? Is she ashamed of being called Bukola that she is now 'Bukky' and what the fucck is 'Wright?" is she ashamed of her father's indigenous name?

These "I -wanna-gonna' Nigerians are always having mental issues and their words are echoes of western brain-washed 'imbeciles/

Not so. Self made or people’s made, any woman that violate the golden rule of having stable home will always find refuge in saying man can not handle her. What’s it to manage.?

The golden rule is, submit to your husband. Anything outside this principle will lead to parlava.

We husbands have responsibility of respecting our wives as well and always treat them with honor. That’s for the good woman.


Among men there are animals in human skins as well. May we never meet agbakos.

But in all, no perfect marriage or relationship anywhere in the world, but at least manageable.

Know this and have your peace.

Tim1212:
Nigerian actress Bukky Wright recently sparked a conversation about relationships and gender dynamics in Nigeria, stating that many Nigerian men find it challenging to handle self-made, independent women
.
Read https://degoldenblog.com.ng/many-nigerian-men-cannot-handle-self-made-women-bukky-wright-cries-out

There is a very thin line btw self made clitocurrency made.This days every woman whose hole has seen serious mileage will come n claim self made or small girl wit big God

Na proof I dey find since morning.

meobizy:
Na proof I dey find since morning.

Which proof

Self made women don't have respect, and men hate disrespect

bdon123:
There is a very thin line btw self made clitocurrency made.This days every woman whose hole has seen serious mileage will come n claim self made or small girl wit big God

I was about to say exactly the same thing. Self-Made and Woman do not belong in the same sentence. This is what Americans call an "oxymoron".

Self made via clito? Nah, Nigerian men actually valued hard smart working Nigerian women in the tradition of our ancestors----- enter yahoo boys and runs girls-----

Most of the so called "self made women" don't need men to "handle" them, they rather be the handlers and no straight man wants to date another man. It's not just a Nigerian thing. It's global. So most of these "self made women" end up with wimps, fuckboys and gold miners

dkidd:
Most of the so called "self made women" don't need men to "handle" them, they rather be the handlers and no straight man wants to date another man. It's not just a Nigerian thing. It's global. So most of these "self made women" end up with wimps, fuckboys and gold miners

She said this in the interview at 9:40. She said the men who come along are probably clout chasers. "Even when the right men come along, a lot of them don't have what it takes to be with a self made woman or a popular actress". Women ehn.


In whatever you do as a man, I know it's not competition but always work on yourself. I don't do those alpha males and beta feminist rubbish on NL but this is one fact of life. Men cannot let their guards down.

Because hypergamy is a fact of life, it controls attraction. In younger years especially, women are initially attracted to alpha qualities. These qualities are initially the most obvious. They are displayed. True/Faithful beta qualities are qualities that are displayed over the years. Initial attraction tends to be the alpha qualities. Does he exude strength? Strength is not merely physical (though that doesn’t hurt) but mental, financial (real or potential), and confidence. Is he courageous, willing to take risks? Is he competent? Does he show some mastery in something or is he pursuing mastery and showing competency along the way? These are all factors in attraction.

The man’s work is never done. He has a burden of performance that he must maintain and continue to achieve in some form or fashion throughout his life. Our attraction to women in general and our wives in particular isn’t based on their performance. We are attracted to them when we see them (with certain clothes on or without clothes on, when their hair is fixed a certain way, etc.) and when they show us respect. (I’ll have a whole letter on the subject of respect.) We want them sexually for these reasons. Women desire men when we show that we are performing men; strong, competent, and courageous.

papyjaypaul:
In whatever you do as a man, I know it's not competition but always work on yourself

Constantly

Self-made women like Sophia Ogbanje