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Hedgefunds:
Are you sure police will file a case to court without evidence ...What evidence did she present at the station...Why didnt you tell the police it was business gone wrong with your own evidence ?

Where you giving bail at the court ..if yes how much .
What was she claiming at the station?
Was the case btw you and nigeria police ?

emmaodet:
I will say relationship-wise, the average woman has a big edge over the average man.

If a relationship breaks today, how fast will a woman and man get over it and move on? The woman gets the edge

These are the metrics i will use to judge a broken relation -

- How fast to move on and enter a new relationship : Ask yourself, if you are in a relationship with a lady were both are faithful but at a point the relationship stopped, who will find it easy to enter another relationship at the shortest time? the woman.
While you may still be sucking or trying to convince another lady to date you, she already have a list of toasters disturbing her all these days.
All she had to do is to start picking the calls of any of them and start giving him attention then Boooom, she is already in another relationship within 2 weeks while you are still struggling to build a new relationship with another lady.

- The quality of the relationship: while you may be lucky to enter another relationship like the woman, the question is the quality?
Your Ex can easily replace you with a banker, young medical doctor or business owner quite doing fine. What is the quality of woman you are getting to replace her?
Are you living your 6.5/10 Ex just to getting a 5/10 lady as a stop-gap? how easy is it to get another 8/10 lady to quietly and easily replace her?
How easy is it for you to quietly get a lady working in Glo, Mtn, Dangote, LNG as mid to top staff to replace your Ex?
These are things that will make you to easily move on from a fresh broken relationship without looking back or stalking your Ex and been moody and depressed.
Remember, when you start dating your woman, she will try to cut you off from all other ladies all in the name of Love and relationship to avoid regular quarrels, knowing fully that if the relationship stops today, she can easily kick-start another one and move on compared to you.

- Quantity of sex: This is quiet different. Let me throw a challenge. How many ladies can you sleep with within a week excluding prostitutes or paid sex? compared to your woman? if a woman wants, she can sleep with up to 5 toasters or more in a week easily compared to a man that may still be wooing a woman within that period before convincing them to come to his house for sex. Even after coming, she may decide not to have sex with you thereby losing the 1 week challenge.
In other words, women gets sex far easily compared to men and that is why money is a game changer for men.
If i add money, the man automatically becomes the winner of the 1-week challenge because he can just order dozens of women to sleep with in a week.

Pukkalolo:
The problem isn’t that he’s unqualified to speak on female nature.

The real issue is that many of his redpill “game” messages, along with those of some other guys here, are Westernized and not tailored to African or Nigerian men.

What do I mean by "Westernized"?

Please read open mindedly and slowly. This is will help you understand the reality of seduction or "game" in Nigeria

Most guys study redpill and game concepts written by men in the U.S. and the U.K., then blindly copy-paste them here. Worse, they try applying them to Naija or West African women without realizing that culture matters in seduction.

When I first set out to truly understand women and build my confidence, I approached a large number of them: both in public and within my social circles. And if there’s one thing I can say with certainty, it’s this:

Westernized "game" doesn’t really work here.

Culture and environment shape the way people think and behave—including in seduction. How you attract and seduce a Nigerian woman is different from how you do it with an American woman.

Most guys don’t realize this. That’s why, despite consuming all the redpill and "game" advice, something still isn’t clicking.

America and Nigeria are two different worlds.
In America, parents don’t flog their kids because their culture frowns upon it.

In Nigeria, most of us got flogged by our parents while growing up.

That’s culture for you.

Likewise, what works on a London girl won’t necessarily work on an Afghan girl because they were raised differently.

In America, couples openly kiss and make out in public: it’s normal there.

In Nigeria, public displays of affection are rare because our culture doesn’t encourage it.
That’s why Western redpill “game” that works on American women won’t necessarily work on Naija women.


I’ve gone sexual with quite a number of Naija girls, so I’m speaking from experience. I know the missing piece in most Naija guys’ “game.”
The problem with Westernized game advice is that it’s heavily focused on attraction.

A lot of Naija guys think, “If she’s attracted to me, she’ll sleep with me.”

Well, that might work in America, where an attractive woman might directly sleep with you just because she’s attracted. That’s why typical “game” advice is tailored to Western women.

But Naija girls don’t think that way. At least, not from my personal experience—unless she’s a shameless slut.

Notice the keyword: "shameless."

A lot of Naija girls are sluts, but they aren’t shameless about it. They are low-key. That’s why they won’t act on their attraction and just give a guy sex like that.


Guys have told me, “Pukka, you’re right. This girl seems attracted to me, but she won’t have sex with me.”

My response is:

She’s a Naija girl: she’s ashamed of her attraction for you.

Your job is to make her feel shameless about it. Or more accurately, make her feel sexually comfortable with the idea of sleeping with you.
A lot of Naija girls are attracted to you, but they hide it. You might think she’s just doing shakara, but no—she’s just ashamed of her attraction.

Your goal as a man is simple:

Make her feel comfortable being attracted to you or make her feel shameless about it.
Most guys don’t do this; or worse, they don’t even know how. So they keep losing girls over and over again, despite consuming all this redpill content.

The few legit players and pimps I know get sex—not because of attraction—but because they understand that attraction alone isn't what get them the pussy.


Some guys who roll with me initially assume that I’m just a natural with women: that I simply get stronger attraction from more women, which is why I sleep with them.

But that’s not true.

I’m not a good-looking guy, so I don’t rely on attraction. Instead, when I meet a girl with even the tiny attraction toward me, I build on that.

I make her feel shameless about her attraction and create a sense of comfort around sex.
Because I know that her shamelessness and comfort toward sex—not attraction—is what’s going to get me laid. Basically, I know how to give off a non-judgmental vibe around women.

The Harsh Truth About Attraction in Nigeria

If you’re relying purely on attraction to get laid in Nigeria, you’ll need to approach over 50 to even 100-200 women (or more) before one agrees to sleep with you based solely on attraction.
Most Naija women don’t sleep with men just because they’re attracted to them.

That’s why a lot of Naija girls, directly or indirectly, demand money or financial gifts before going sexual. Because that money or gift acts as a substitute for the sexual comfortableness you failed to create in them.

On the other hand, most legit players and pimps often get sex for free—not because they’re rich or good-looking, but because they know how to make a woman feel shameless or comfortable about sleeping with them.

Final Thoughts

At the end of the day, a lot of redpill posts on this thread are just copy-paste material from Western sources.

I can tell that many of the guys posting this stuff don’t have real experience with women. They just regurgitate Western redpill theories without adapting them to their own naija reality.

KennethIbe59:
Boss I don miss your contribution here
You and pukkalolo teach more of the practical than theory

I look forward to more of your contributions

emmaodet:
As a man, in whatever you do, please always constantly add value to yourself, try and make sure you are earning no matter what and please, improve your social life.
Working, earning, financially stable is not enough, please increase your social life i repeat because without increasing your social life, all what you have achieved will make you settle for less and be satisfied with it.

Join clubs be it Rotaract, 36 lioness, if you have the financial muscle golf club etc.
Register with a nice gym center, go swimming regularly etc.
Weekend movies, join tour/event groups that plans for weekend tours and beaches etc.
Mingle with friends that invites you to parties and events regularly etc.
With this, you will never be short of young beautiful women.
The problem with a low social life is that it makes you settle for less.
You will see your girlfriend as the best thing or woman you can get when in reality, your social status can afford you a far better lady.
Women will explore their femineity to the fullest to secure the best man they can get, while are we men not fully utilizing our masculinity and secure the best woman we can get also? we settle far too low

emmaodet:
A boy cries out that he has been molested by a lady or raped and people start laughing and mocking him but immediately you change that boy to a girl, all of a sudden, they stop laughing and start cursing and raining hell for the man or boy to be court-marshalled.

A man cries out about how is wife is maltreating him, disrespecting him, not giving him sex and wants to pack out of the house and people start laughing him to be weak, simp and a sisi man who deserves all he is getting but immediately you change that to a woman, people stop laughing and start cursing. All of a sudden, they are wise enough to judge the case normally.

A man takes a lady/wife abroad and on getting there shortly, she starts misbehaving and kicks him out or divorce him. When the man comes to nairaland with tears to pour out his mind, they all mock him, laugh him, call him names etc but change the same man to a woman and all hell would be let loose. Curses would be rained on the man for being an ingrate and a confirmation of why women are justified for not helping men when they climb up.

A man and his woman starts hustling and then God answered the prayer of the man. Everyone and the society expects the man to pull up his woman but when she climbs first and dump him and he comes here to pour out his mind, they start laughing at him, calling him names, tell him to double his hustles and stop complaining, some call him lazy and believe the woman did the best by dumping his lazy ass etc.

It just looks as if there is a deliberate campaign to rubbish and useless the male child....May God help us

emmaodet:
Despite all the Lovey-Dovey, Love has very strong weaknesses that can't be ignored.
Distance and Time are 2 factors that influences Love alot.

Distance - most relationship breaks due to distance alot and it is the reason why a relationship going on smoothly in school will start having issues after graduation because someone close to the lady in her street or church is now disturbing her.
They say, out of sight is out of mind and it is true despite the regular calls ye distance will take it's toll in a relationship.
Reason why so many japa relationship breaks. Even Lagos-Ogun state relationship is prone to breaking compared to Egbeda-Ipaja own.
Love and relationship is too fragile to rely on..

Hardly will you see a secondary school relationship leads to marriage and even university relationship to marriage percentage is very very slim. Probably 1 out of 5.....Distance

2. Time - The longer the relationship, the higher the chances of it not leading to marriage. I don't know the percentage but higher percentage of those who are married today falls within less than 2 years relationship from my observation.
Ask your female friends or family members that got married how long they dated their husbands before marrying......Please note Dated not Known.
A lady could have know a man for years, even probably the man disturbing her for relationship but didn't date him because you may get a response like have known him since since 2017. The question is when did you guys officially started dating.
The problem with Time in a relationship is that the longer a relationship, the more you get to know each other and quarrel occasionally which creates a vaccum or an opportunity for a new guy to sneak into the relationship.
There is no better time and opportunity to get a lady that is faithful to our guy if not that short window of misunderstanding in their relationship and distance also.

emmaodet:
As a man, in whatever you do, please always constantly add value to yourself, try and make sure you are earning no matter what and please, improve your social life.
Working, earning, financially stable is not enough, please increase your social life i repeat because without increasing your social life, all what you have achieved will make you settle for less and be satisfied with it.

Join clubs be it Rotaract, 36 lioness, if you have the financial muscle golf club etc.
Register with a nice gym center, go swimming regularly etc.
Weekend movies, join tour/event groups that plans for weekend tours and beaches etc.
Mingle with friends that invites you to parties and events regularly etc.
With this, you will never be short of young beautiful women.
The problem with a low social life is that it makes you settle for less.
You will see your girlfriend as the best thing or woman you can get when in reality, your social status can afford you a far better lady.
Women will explore their femineity to the fullest to secure the best man they can get, while are we men not fully utilizing our masculinity and secure the best woman we can get also? we settle far too low

Groupoid:
Good afternoon. Do you mind if I ask you a question?

emmaodet:
Please go ahead

Groupoid:
So, approximately 8 months ago; I was dumped by my gf(we're both university students). I don't want to go into details, as to what caused the breakup, but she moved on with another guy(her male bestie), and I'm not completely over her.

So, I believed I've grieved enough, and I'm ready to try dating again. But the problem is rejection. I've gotten so many rejections from females that I had to take a break from asking girls out. Dating as an average guy is very difficult. I just honestly want to give up on it entirely, since I don't even see how I'm going to get a girl here (I school in Edo state, so you know how materialistic the girls are).


I know I'll usually be advised to work hard, make money, and all those stuffs, but there's nothing wrong with me as I am. I know I'm just a student, still dependent on parents; but do I really don't to have a fat bank account just to get a girl in University? (I don't go for those high class ladies though. Just the average ones)

I'm asking for your advice sir. Do I just forget about women completely, and just focus on getting my shit right? Making money is not exactly easy here.

I endured a lot of things a guy shouldn't endure from my ex, because I knew I had no options if I broke up with her.

NB: I also have a next to non-existing social life.

This world is really brutal for a man.

Groupoid:
So, approximately 8 months ago; I was dumped by my gf(we're both university students). I don't want to go into details, as to what caused the breakup, but she moved on with another guy(her male bestie), and I'm not completely over her.

So, I believed I've grieved enough, and I'm ready to try dating again. But the problem is rejection. I've gotten so many rejections from females that I had to take a break from asking girls out. Dating as an average guy is very difficult. I just honestly want to give up on it entirely, since I don't even see how I'm going to get a girl here (I school in Edo state, so you know how materialistic the girls are).


I know I'll usually be advised to work hard, make money, and all those stuffs, but there's nothing wrong with me as I am. I know I'm just a student, still dependent on parents; but do I really don't to have a fat bank account just to get a girl in University? (I don't go for those high class ladies though. Just the average ones)

I'm asking for your advice sir. Do I just forget about women completely, and just focus on getting my shit right? Making money is not exactly easy here.

I endured a lot of things a guy shouldn't endure from my ex, because I knew I had no options if I broke up with her.

NB: I also have a next to non-existing social life.

This world is really brutal for a man.

Nyascobar1414:
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😹. Exactly what I see in the university.
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Check out those guys that kinda look hungry and all,no female looks at them,no one notices them,they are all alone..
And it's so sad that most of them don't know the redpill,cos aswrr after making the so called money , women will play them(ignorance is truly death if you're male).
For me,cos I'm kinda aware of the redpill..

I don't really care about the female folks,the same game they play to guys they don't desire is the same game I play to them if they give me their so called fake greenlights.. It works better if you can control your sexual urge..

Though you'll be alone,yea it's okay.That's the life of males..
Well, I'm into philosophy,so I don't really give a a fvck bout girls cos I know that it's all about orgasm(which last for 9-10secs). And by the way everything is nothing..
Most of my colleagues give these girls attention,they worship these girls,but these girls don't really give a shit about them.

It's so painful,that girls got to know this game naturally,but men have to learn the game either through pain(heartbeak) or just learnig from their older bros..

What usually affirm my stand on MGTOW and shutting females out is that, they don't love us,even though you eventually get the girl,you are the one that will loose(looking deep into the game, nature made men to be losers).

Women are not your friends,so why smile with them,give them your time, attention etc..
When a young girl in the university sees her colleague she will think she's better than the guy just cos she got an organ,so why affirm It to her that she's better than you,dont look at her,no attention,no fvcks given,this will even make her intrigued 😹but still it ain't still worth it,cos all she's trying to do is to bring you down to simp for her(to prove that she's better than you)..

But,there's a price for not acting along with your hormone and social conditioning..You'll be alone, you'll hardly have friends that are guys,since most of them are deep into the matrix (worshipping females and all that)..

Testosterone is the spell that nature casted on males😹 .If only we didn't have this urge ,I wonder who will give a fvck bout this entitled creatures ..

Well, life is to be overcomed..
Pain and isolation will only make you stronger,so go with the flow,I know it's hard cos I'm still there..

But Neiztche said,A man should have chaos in his soul to give birth to a new dancing ⭐ star..

How will a man arise anew if he has not first been burnt to ashes..

Most time I pity my male colleagues cos they are so dumb to this game,they are only interested in their books(medical students 😹),cos they are so vulnerable to the cold hands of female nature..

I think you should come to Philosophy,buy some books like "Thus spake Zarathustra,"Ecce Homo","Beyond good and Evil" etc... All written by Friedrich neiztche 🔥, if only you love knowledge or truth..

Neiztche said for the female,
Her great art is the lie..

And I'm aware of their nature,and it ain't desirable 😩.
Peace out..

The problem is that if you can really see guys that are aware like you,it will kinda be better,but no, you lost in an environment where you have to play dumb to be around these ignorant males✌️.


For an orgasm that lasts not more that 9 seconds ,man is born to suffer for 70yrs..

For we young guys,most of the time since we're not financially buoyant,girls will hardly give a shit about us,compared to our fathers of old,who kinda had girls that were not influenced by social media,materialism etc😹..
The game is the game though,and females play games with men.. Wonder why they hardly have video games on their phones?,cos the real game, they play it with males😹

Actually, since females cannot love,they will most of the time win the game with males..
One thing I discovered is that ,not being able to love,or easily deceived by a womans facial appearance,bossom etc..is truly a privilege 😹..

Men are suckers for beauty and that's our downfall..

It's hard though,but everything is all in the mind, channel your energy to other things like playing football,books other exciting things and loose yourself in those things,you'll forget females exist..
But when you're Hot, remember it will only last for a while, thereafter It will go off..

I think we need to train our minds, despite the face that females won't acknowledge us,our presence etc..
It's all part of the process,so when you're in your hey days,you play the game same way it was played to you..


Are you sure,women ain't what nature gave to us to test us to see if we're ready to transcend?
Life's kinda deep though.

✌️ ✌️

Groupoid:
So, approximately 8 months ago; I was dumped by my gf(we're both university students). I don't want to go into details, as to what caused the breakup, but she moved on with another guy(her male bestie), and I'm not completely over her.

So, I believed I've grieved enough, and I'm ready to try dating again. But the problem is rejection. I've gotten so many rejections from females that I had to take a break from asking girls out. Dating as an average guy is very difficult. I just honestly want to give up on it entirely, since I don't even see how I'm going to get a girl here (I school in Edo state, so you know how materialistic the girls are).


I know I'll usually be advised to work hard, make money, and all those stuffs, but there's nothing wrong with me as I am. I know I'm just a student, still dependent on parents; but do I really don't to have a fat bank account just to get a girl in University? (I don't go for those high class ladies though. Just the average ones)

I'm asking for your advice sir. Do I just forget about women completely, and just focus on getting my shit right? Making money is not exactly easy here.

I endured a lot of things a guy shouldn't endure from my ex, because I knew I had no options if I broke up with her.

NB: I also have a next to non-existing social life.

This world is really brutal for a man.

CaveAdullam:
1. How do you expect to have a rapport with women when your social life is zero? Will they come and meet you inside your house?

2. In 2025 and beyond, you can't be an introvert first before getting anything in this life. Else, you'll languish alone.

Be what you want to be first before metamorphosing into an introvert.

3. You want women. There's nothing wrong with that.

Don't rationalize it. Don't pretend about it.

4. Those university girls are not interested in a serious relationship. So, foolish of them. (I will not digress).

So, you too, don't come with the mindset of a serious relationship. Except you luckily find a homely and modest woman.

5. Be lively. Be jovial. Smell nice.

Nobody cares about your 2k long sleeves. Just iron it well and use good body sprays.

Don't act needy. Roll with the boys. Roll with the girls.

Start practicing with your coursemates and faculty colleagues.

Play. Be fun to be with. Don't be timid.

Another secret: experiment with your barber till you get the perfect haircut. Jeez!

You are not average bro. Maintain your small standard.

Babes will fall in pleasant places for you.

6. Use the library. Go to night class. Attend a local church.

Put yourself in places where women are abundant. At the end, there will always be that 1 woman that will have a genuine desire for you.

7. You don't need a fat bank account to reach this stage.

Dead that mindset.

At any stage you find yourself as man, a beautiful romance can happen.

I understand that we are in a hyper-social media culture today. But that shouldn't discourage you.

There are many good women outside that are waiting to bag you if you prove your masculinity and competence.

Everything is not about money, money, money.

You must learn how to get women without pillaging your pocket.

8. Don't complain.

Put in the work.

You can't tell me that you are the ugliest or least average in that faculty not to even talk of the university.

Bro, come out from your closet and catch the fun by yourself.

Nothing will happen until you make deliberate romantic efforts.

Thanks.

CaveAdullam:
Put yourself in places where women are abundant. At the end, there will always be that 1 woman that will have a genuine desire for you.

Thanks.

Groupoid:
So, approximately 8 months ago; I was dumped by my gf(we're both university students). I don't want to go into details, as to what caused the breakup, but she moved on with another guy(her male bestie), and I'm not completely over her.

So, I believed I've grieved enough, and I'm ready to try dating again. But the problem is rejection. I've gotten so many rejections from females that I had to take a break from asking girls out. Dating as an average guy is very difficult. I just honestly want to give up on it entirely, since I don't even see how I'm going to get a girl here (I school in Edo state, so you know how materialistic the girls are).


I know I'll usually be advised to work hard, make money, and all those stuffs, but there's nothing wrong with me as I am. I know I'm just a student, still dependent on parents; but do I really don't to have a fat bank account just to get a girl in University? (I don't go for those high class ladies though. Just the average ones)

I'm asking for your advice sir. Do I just forget about women completely, and just focus on getting my shit right? Making money is not exactly easy here.

I endured a lot of things a guy shouldn't endure from my ex, because I knew I had no options if I broke up with her.

NB: I also have a next to non-existing social life.

This world is really brutal for a man.

dreamxhaser:
Bro, I'm no expert here! But I had a similar experience. I even sought advice here! Let me tell you a story that might help answer all your questions.

The difference is, I was making some good cash as a freelancer in university. In fact, some of my friends were involved in fraud, and people couldn't tell if I was legit or not. So, money wasn't the issue (then).

Before my hustle started paying off (secondary school to 200 level), I was very good at attracting girls even without having to spend (because I knew I didn’t have money). Hence, I used my "99% intelligence" to get them using other methods. Mind you, I knew nothing about the "red pill" then. It just came naturally.

I have this friend of mine who I even helped boost his confidence in approaching women. Now, let me explain where things got tricky.

Later on (200 level to 400 level), I started making some cool cash. My friend, whom I boosted his morale, didn't. So, my approach to women switched to spending and impressing them (why not? It was easier). But my friend, who was still broke, continued to sharpen his skills.

I was "balling" with some of my other fraudulent friends, and I posted a lot of pictures or videos on my social media. These women saw it and were all over me. I was feeling like a king, and I started telling my other friend, who was still broke, to leave women and focus on money, that money is the only key to getting women.

I just threw money at them, they gave me compliments, and I felt like I'd "arrived." Sex wasn't hard either.

I didn’t realize I was messing up until I decided to go into a serious relationship. I later met this very beautiful girl, like, she’s super beautiful, whom men much better and richer than me had wooed.

Something happened; from just using her to pass the time, I fell in love like a fool for her. I even came here to seek advice because I didn’t want to be a fool in love. Well, I was already a fool in love.

I was already envisioning marrying her in my head. I started to become so insecure and scared of losing her. I would stalk her social media, monitor her, and all, just because I was scared of losing her.

I built a modest version of her in my head, so I ignored all the red flags, to the extent that this girl threw herself at me for sex, but I would ignore her. She even stylishly asked me why I hadn’t made an effort to have sex with her, and my reply was, “I wanted something serious that would lead to marriage.” Hehehe, and that was where I messed up.

You see! This girl switched it up. She started to paint herself like a saint. I would be spending money on her, like serious money! I wouldn’t ask for anything in return, all in the name of my future wife (stupid me).

dreamxhaser:
@ Groupoid continuation of the first

Bro, I became so obsessed with her that she started to treat me like trash. Man, even with my money! She really gave me a hard time. I was so mentally low that it affected my education and my hustle.

I was no longer improving myself; I was regressing financially, my social life was dying, and my game was dead.

I started to see her as the only option I could get.

Then, later, I started to realize this woman was probably running some underground scheme (allegedly). You'd expect me to man up and leave her! Well, I didn’t. In fact, if I mentioned what this girl did to me, with my own money, you guys would all laugh at me.

My other friend, on the other hand, had become so good with women that he was sleeping with them left and right without spending a dime. The good thing was he was always there and preached how I should go back to exploring more.

So, I started to go back to exploring more, but those women were still using me. I wasn’t getting them like I used to; my game was dead, and they all saw me as a pushover.

But my friend, who had gotten so good at the game, started to teach me a thing or two. Then, I came on this thread and learned some things about women's nature. I applied it, and guess what? They were all accurate.

I continued to develop, this time with more red-pill knowledge. Man! I've turned into a bad boy like this! I swear, if you give me 10 girls now, I will mess with their mental state and sleep with 7 of them easily without having to invest much.

Though I now have another girlfriend! What I did was to make sure that girl loves me more than I love her. The girl is so obsessed with me, man! She treats me like a king! No "billing" or anything. I didn't really care for the girl before. But from what I’ve gathered here, go for a woman who loves you more than you love her, like she has genuine desire for you from the start. Well, that’s the case with my new girlfriend.

Also! I’ve improved myself so much that my ex is now obsessed with me. Lol, it’s obvious. In fact, it’s just a matter of time before she slides into my DMs.

What you should understand is… Money is very important because it helps you command respect and maintain your style, especially after a breakup.

But you see that game! Man, if you don’t know the game, women will milk you and dump you.

Bro, chase both game and money! Don’t go for a relationship now; just chase the bag, improve yourself while testing the waters with these women and sharpening your red-pill skills. I know what I’m telling you. Money is necessary but never enough!


Special Thanks to all the mentors here! You’ve saved a brother

Smartb0y:
It was because you wanted change that's why you embraced the truth and saw things truly as they are.

Simps are not born, they're made into simps,

Most never get to realize the truth, even if they come across it they ignore or push it aside and continue in their delusional state.

I'm glad to hear you found your way back to reality.

dreamxhaser:
@ Groupoid continuation of the first

Bro, I became so obsessed with her that she started to treat me like trash. Man, even with my money! She really gave me a hard time. I was so mentally low that it affected my education and my hustle.

I was no longer improving myself; I was regressing financially, my social life was dying, and my game was dead.

I started to see her as the only option I could get.

Then, later, I started to realize this woman was probably running some underground scheme (allegedly). You'd expect me to man up and leave her! Well, I didn’t. In fact, if I mentioned what this girl did to me, with my own money, you guys would all laugh at me.

My other friend, on the other hand, had become so good with women that he was sleeping with them left and right without spending a dime. The good thing was he was always there and preached how I should go back to exploring more.

So, I started to go back to exploring more, but those women were still using me. I wasn’t getting them like I used to; my game was dead, and they all saw me as a pushover.

But my friend, who had gotten so good at the game, started to teach me a thing or two. Then, I came on this thread and learned some things about women's nature. I applied it, and guess what? They were all accurate.

I continued to develop, this time with more red-pill knowledge. Man! I've turned into a bad boy like this! I swear, if you give me 10 girls now, I will mess with their mental state and sleep with 7 of them easily without having to invest much.

Though I now have another girlfriend! What I did was to make sure that girl loves me more than I love her. The girl is so obsessed with me, man! She treats me like a king! No "billing" or anything. I didn't really care for the girl before. But from what I’ve gathered here, go for a woman who loves you more than you love her, like she has genuine desire for you from the start. Well, that’s the case with my new girlfriend.

Also! I’ve improved myself so much that my ex is now obsessed with me. Lol, it’s obvious. In fact, it’s just a matter of time before she slides into my DMs.

What you should understand is… Money is very important because it helps you command respect and maintain your style, especially after a breakup.

But you see that game! Man, if you don’t know the game, women will milk you and dump you.

Bro, chase both game and money! Don’t go for a relationship now; just chase the bag, improve yourself while testing the waters with these women and sharpening your red-pill skills. I know what I’m telling you. Money is necessary but never enough!


Special Thanks to all the mentors here! You’ve saved a brother

dreamxhaser:
@ Groupoid continuation of the first

Bro, I became so obsessed with her that she started to treat me like trash. Man, even with my money! She really gave me a hard time. I was so mentally low that it affected my education and my hustle.

I was no longer improving myself; I was regressing financially, my social life was dying, and my game was dead.

I started to see her as the only option I could get.

Then, later, I started to realize this woman was probably running some underground scheme (allegedly). You'd expect me to man up and leave her! Well, I didn’t. In fact, if I mentioned what this girl did to me, with my own money, you guys would all laugh at me.

My other friend, on the other hand, had become so good with women that he was sleeping with them left and right without spending a dime. The good thing was he was always there and preached how I should go back to exploring more.

So, I started to go back to exploring more, but those women were still using me. I wasn’t getting them like I used to; my game was dead, and they all saw me as a pushover.

But my friend, who had gotten so good at the game, started to teach me a thing or two. Then, I came on this thread and learned some things about women's nature. I applied it, and guess what? They were all accurate.

I continued to develop, this time with more red-pill knowledge. Man! I've turned into a bad boy like this! I swear, if you give me 10 girls now, I will mess with their mental state and sleep with 7 of them easily without having to invest much.

Though I now have another girlfriend! What I did was to make sure that girl loves me more than I love her. The girl is so obsessed with me, man! She treats me like a king! No "billing" or anything. I didn't really care for the girl before. But from what I’ve gathered here, go for a woman who loves you more than you love her, like she has genuine desire for you from the start. Well, that’s the case with my new girlfriend.

Also! I’ve improved myself so much that my ex is now obsessed with me. Lol, it’s obvious. In fact, it’s just a matter of time before she slides into my DMs.

What you should understand is… Money is very important because it helps you command respect and maintain your style, especially after a breakup.

But you see that game! Man, if you don’t know the game, women will milk you and dump you.

Bro, chase both game and money! Don’t go for a relationship now; just chase the bag, improve yourself while testing the waters with these women and sharpening your red-pill skills. I know what I’m telling you. Money is necessary but never enough!


Special Thanks to all the mentors here! You’ve saved a brother

Effects of pre-marital and extra marital affairs pic.twitter.com/VY3jh3mS2u

— De Christian Life (@DeChristianLife) March 10, 2025