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ednut1:
ok explain to us what happens to men in the lower standards 😒. The final year guys the babes gree for are the one with looks , game or money that can usually take care of them. The broke and or ugly final year guy that reeks of poverty which girl go look hin side?

There will still be a girl more broke, ugly and poor than him.

Agberos have wives, Omo oniles have wives, Vulcanizers have wives, Soak-away packers have wives.
If all these people can have women, then any man can have babe. All he needs to do is to go for women below him.

Samantha125:
I was wondering out of curiosity and not condemning. Do you know the difference?

But when it came to carpeting female prostitutes, you were straightforward with your defending of their acts.

Hypocrite!

Ok.

olabrad:
But when it came to carpeting female prostitutes, you were straightforward with your defending of their acts.

Hypocrite!

Gerrard59:
You called me a clown and expected no strong response?

You are a still a clown.

Drella:
There will still be a girl more broke, ugly and poor than him.

Agberos have wives, Omo oniles have wives, Vulcanizers have wives, Soak-away packers have wives.
If all these people can have women, then any man can have babe. All he needs to do is to go for women below him.

Leave that guy with his low mentality. Let him go and pay for sex.

Drella:
There will still be a girl more broke, ugly and poor than him.

Agberos have wives, Omo oniles have wives, Vulcanizers have wives, Soak-away packers have wives.
If all these people can have women, then any man can have babe. All he needs to do is to go for women below him.

we are talking about sex here not wives. Going by your logic there should be no prostitute or brothel . The vulcanizer can import wife from his village but in his vicinity he may not be able to secure any babe to nack. Hence will go to brothel

If you've been starved for a very long time, dog food becomes delicious.

It's also like asking why men masturbate. They do because they don't have a loving woman that will make masturbating unnecessary.

Women really hold the key to sex, and they are very stingy with it because they do not find most men attractive.

Men in the League of naira Marley or Burna boy will never be caught masturbating or patronizing prostitute. They are the top shelve men and women give it to them for free.

Most men are sexually starved. I don't think the average women knows how sexually starved men are. Especially when there is no end in sight to your starvation because well, Nigeria had happened or is happening to you.

In such a circumstance, patronising prostitutes offers a low level warmth that is better than nothing.

This is not to justify anything, but it is what it is.

ednut1:
we are talking about sex here not wives. Going by your logic there should be no prostitute or brothel . The vulcanizer can import wife from his village but in his vicinity he may not be able to secure any babe to nack. Hence will go to brothel

You do realize it’s easier to get casual sex than get married, right? Ask those girls going to shiloh to look for husbands what their body count is.

People go to brothel for casual sex. They don’t want to go through the stress of dating just to have sex.

As long as the vulcanizer himself is not in the village, there are definitely his type of babes in his vicinity.

You think say Naija na Canny abi?😂

Drella:
You do realize it’s easier to get casual sex than get married, right? Ask those girls going to shiloh to look for husbands what their body count is.

People go to brothel for casual sex. They don’t want to go through the stress of dating just to have sex.

As long as the vulcanizer himself is not in the village, there are definitely his type of babes in his vicinity.

You think say Naija na Canny abi?😂

lol 75% of my lifetime was spent in Nigeria. The only thing that has changed since i left was the numbers of olosho don increase. I went to a cinema in sangotedo mall. Came out to enter uber. I saw over 50 girls in the car park looking for customers. Olosho no dey there the last time i was there before i japa 😂

ednut1:
lol 75% of my lifetime was spent in Nigeria. The only thing that has changed since i left was the numbers of olosho don increase. I went to a cinema in sangotedo mall. Came out to enter uber. I saw over 50 girls in the car park looking for customers. Olosho no dey there the last time i was there before i japa 😂

Country don hard na why😁

ednut1:
Even in normal relationships your girlfriend may cheat on you in the morning and still come have sex with you at night 😂

Fact. P.unani no get meter to display mileage or mouth to talk wetin him eye don see.

idahme:
Many men do this because they can't differentiate between those who say they aren't prostitutes and those who actually say they are because both most times operate in i open ny legs for you and you hand over money to me aka can you take care if my bills? Having a large chunk of women having the mindset of you sex me you take care of my bills (prostituting) makes it even harder for some men to navigate these waters and so now settle for the one who only bills him the moment he had sex and not bill him again until another sex time unlike the other so call girlfriend (prostitute) who calls herself a girlfriend and continues to bill the man even after the sex.

This is a very huge problem ik the society, to become sane you just avoid 99.9% of females you come across in order to avoid the one with a prostitute mindset (i sex you wnd you give me money) else you may never have peace of mind with your partner.

This is deep.

Gerrard59:
Call Tinubu to arrest men who patronise sex workers?

So what do men who cannot woo women because they don't have financial resources? Are ugly? Are disabled? Or have high libido? What should these men do? Rape women?!

Tinubu wey dey knack Ashawo no fit arrest his fellow patrons. Only that Tinubu dey carry at least 2 at a time and the 2 of them must smoke Igbo with him before they start knacking. If you don't smoke weed, Tinubu will tell you to go home. Was told this by one babe (runs girl) wey come buy something for my shop around 18 years ago. She was runzed to Tinubu along with one other Olosho but because she no dey smoke Igbo, Tinubu dispatched her but not before she had seen the massive Anaconda that Tinubu had in his boxers.


For UK, Councils dey give disabled men money to take knack Ashawo.

UK councils pay for prostitutes for the disabled.

UK Taxpayers' money is being spent on prostitutes, lap dancing clubs and exotic holidays under schemes designed to give more independence to the disabled.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/health/7945785/Councils-pay-for-prostitutes-for-the-disabled.html

Adexgentle005:
I don’t really get it . Like imagine paying over 50k and above to a girl that many men have slept with. No intimacy whatsoever you just dive in and off you go.

I don't know what you mean by low esteem I will rather patronize prostitute,pay her 2k and have a peace of mind than dating Nigerian girls who add no value to your life than wahala and idamu, and let me tell you this sex has no meaning to Man than to cum, secondly in ibadan here prostitute charge 2k to 1.5k .

Drella:
There will still be a girl more broke, ugly and poor than him.

Agberos have wives, Omo oniles have wives, Vulcanizers have wives, Soak-away packers have wives.
If all these people can have women, then any man can have babe. All he needs to do is to go for women below him.

Some mechanics have multiple wives.

I've met a tailor whose wife is one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen.

ednut1:
we are talking about sex here not wives. Going by your logic there should be no prostitute or brothel . The vulcanizer can import wife from his village but in his vicinity he may not be able to secure any babe to nack. Hence will go to brothel

Even UK Members of Parliament whose wives could easily come from their constituency home to London if asked, were found to be patronising brothels en masse in London some years ago and some of them boasted that although their wallets were lighter after visiting the brothel, they were happier for it and the brothel they visited was in one of the most expensive areas of London not too far from the UK Houses of Parliament and one of the MPs boasted that the brothel building had "a floor full of whores".

Even a high-ranking UK Police officer was allowed to keep his job despite being found to be a regular user of ‘high-class’ prostitutes.

A UK investigation claims that one former UK Conservative MP asked where the nearest brothel was when he visited a country in south-east Asia, and that a former UK minister stayed extra time abroad after official trips to "pursue his interest in women".

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12034017/Met-Police-officer-regular-user-high-class-prostitutes-allowed-job.html

https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2022/dec/28/no-10-concerned-mps-engaged-in-sex-and-heavy-drinking-on-trips-abroad

Ilekokonit:
Tinubu wey dey knack Ashawo no fit arrest his fellow patrons. Only that Tinubu dey carry at least 2 at a time and the 2 of them must smoke Igbo with him before they start knacking. If you don't smoke weed, Tinubu will tell you to go home. Was told this by one babe (runs girl) wey come buy something for my shop around 18 years ago. She was runzed to Tinubu along with one other Olosho but because she no dey smoke Igbo, Tinubu dispatched her but not before she had seen the massive Anaconda that Tinubu had in his boxers.


For UK, Councils dey give disabled men money to take knack Ashawo.

UK councils pay for prostitutes for the disabled.

UK Taxpayers' money is being spent on prostitutes, lap dancing clubs and exotic holidays under schemes designed to give more independence to the disabled.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/health/7945785/Councils-pay-for-prostitutes-for-the-disabled.html

Every man loves sex. It annoys me when I come across men who criticise others for paying for it. Sex is not free. We've seen Dangote's yansh and none of us is wealthier than he is. As seen here, are we wealthier or powerful than British MPs? The sanctimonious attitude of most of our people pisses me off! Diabolical, cruel and hypocritical yet na dem go dey carry religion for head like gala and tie on the head like gele.

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To OP and his minions, men, especially well-to-do men, will patronise sex workers and there is nothing you or anyone can do about it. Give the average Nigerian man 100K and he would spend half of it on women.

Gerrard59:
We've seen Dangote's yansh and none of us is wealthier than he is.

True dat.

Some men are dishonest and some women underestimate the power of a mans sex drive to their own chagrin.

At the point when a man "really" wants sex, EVERY man is a mad man especially at the point of entry.

Na the same men wey dey condemn other men go still go knack their house girl or their wife's junior sister for back.

When I see a woman saying all men are dogs, I have to hold myself back from telling her that the same thing she is condemning other men for out of her ignorance exists abundantly in all her male relatives be that her father, grandfather, uncles, brothers etc.

According to the late world renowned Televangelist - Dr Myles Munroe, The Number One Need Of A Male Is Sex


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=58uUc8Qdb7Q

sex is overrated and cause of ruin for most men

Gerrard59:
Every man loves sex. It annoys me when I come across men who criticise others for paying for it. [b]Sex is not free. [/b]We've seen Dangote's yansh and none of us is wealthier than he is. As seen here, are we wealthier or powerful than British MPs? The sanctimonious attitude of most of our people pisses me off! Diabolical, cruel and hypocritical yet na dem go dey carry religion for head like gala and tie on the head like gele.

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To OP and his minions, men, especially well-to-do men, will patronise sex workers and there is nothing you or anyone can do about it. Give the average Nigerian man 100K and he would spend half of it on women.

Gbam!
Men want to be miser with commitment and set standards on who to give it to,but will groan at the idea of paying for sex.

They want to take value while giving none(maybe bike fare,drink they saved from a wedding reception they attended etc). At least women are better,give women money or commitment and they will reward you with sex.

But men,they can happily take sex from you without offering neither money or commitment.

If you deman commitment before sex they will say you are not worth commiting too.

If you demand money,they will say you are an as$hawo.

So what will men give in return to sex to make it balance?

Intimacy with ashawo is not sweet. As a man you can only boost your ego when you shyke a girl, invite and Bleep her.

Even if the girl you're flirting with is a coded ashawo, that's not the issue but you see those ones that are official sex workers, run for them if you like your life.

Paying a woman 30k for sex is rubbish. I can take you out and spend that 30k, both of us will enjoy the money together but paying for sex don't just make sense

Oracle411:
Lies. Its easy to do and go without any emotions and attachment.
As a matter of fact, which women doesn't Bleep for money at one point or the other

Valid! It has nothing to do with self esteem. I know highly confident dudes who hook up with girls and pay — simply because they don't want any connection at all. And yes, they don't pay up to that 50k.

I used to find going to brothel weird but not anymore... I can talk to any woman on Earth, it's just that I naturally have the ability to get a woman obsessed and I do so unintentionally. I just got out of one relationship and I had to, I don't wanna destroy anyone's life to prove a stupid point. Right now, I have made up my mind to go visit a brothel in the future (if I'm alive), do what I want, and go.

By the way, I have total self control but I have found out that it has made me lose interest in sex. If I can get it back by visiting a brothel, no problem...

Dzzzz:
..Low self esteem my ass..Someone carry him mama mate and you say he has low self esteem!..

SuperOnyi:





Valid! It has nothing to do with self esteem. I know highly confident dudes who hook up with girls and pay — simply because they don't want any connection at all. And yes, they don't pay up to that 50k.

I used to find going to brothel weird but not anymore... I can talk to any woman on Earth, it's just that I naturally have the ability to get a woman obsessed and I do so unintentionally. I just got out of one relationship and I had to, I don't wanna destroy anyone's life to prove a stupid point. Right now, I have made up my mind to go visit a brothel in the future (if I'm alive), do what I want, and go.

By the way, I have total self control but I have found out that it has made me lose interest in sex. If I can get it back by visiting a brothel, no problem...

It has alot to do with self esteem oga

If you have the money to be paying hook-up steady, why not date a girl then?

If you said local ashawo it would have been better.

If you Bleep hook-up babe three times a week, do you know howmuch you will spend? Even normal girl friend won't consume that amount in a week.

You also risk infections

Bendeco02:
It has alot to do with self esteem oga

If you have the money to be paying hook-up steady, why not date a girl then?

If you said local ashawo it would have been better.

If you Bleep hook-up babe three times a week, do you know howmuch you will spend? Even normal girl friend won't consume that amount in a week.

You also risk infections

It's better you say it depends on the individual involved because I'm 100% sure my silence alone would leave any woman on Earth wanting to hear my voice—yeah, stupid digression... Anyways, I'm a typical introvert but IF I was one of those who frequently visit the local brothels, it certainly wouldn't be because of "low self esteem."

I literally ended a relationship because I needed space, I found out that I was unintentionally using the laws in the book below and I had to exit. I know a friend that sleeps with different women in a week and pays, just because he didn't want any connection.

I'm staying away from sex and my self-discipline is iron stone but that doesn't mean I have low self esteem. My first sex after all of this would be with an "ashawo" or whatever... it has nothing to do with self esteem. I just don't want the noise that comes with keeping women, they get too addicted. Lol. I have to keep a long distance from my female friends too because I'm addictive.

I know what I'm saying...

SuperOnyi:




It's better you say it depends on the individual involved because I'm 100% sure my silence alone would leave any woman on Earth wanting to hear my voice—yeah, stupid digression... Anyways, I'm a typical introvert but IF I was one of those who frequently visit the local brothels, it certainly wouldn't be because of "low self esteem."

I literally ended a relationship because I needed space, I found out that I was unintentionally using the laws in the book below and I had to exit. I know a friend that sleeps with different women in a week and pays, just because he didn't want any connection.

I'm staying away from sex and my self-discipline is iron stone but that doesn't mean I have low self esteem. My first sex after all of this would be with an "ashawo" or whatever... it has nothing to do with self esteem. I just don't want the noise that comes with keeping women, they get too addicted. Lol. I have to keep a long distance from my female friends too because I'm addictive.

I know what I'm saying...

Not referring to you direct, but most people that patronize hook-up are people that have no steady babe or can't talk to women.

Someone like me, i can't enter hook-up app in search of girls sha.

Once i know that you run hook-up, i will loose apitite in you. That's one thing with me

To be fucking hook-up, you will be spending alot. Imagine spending 30k three times (90k) in a week just for sex.

The point is that it's better to be sexually addicted to your normal girlfriend than hook-up because hook-up addiction can empty your account plus the risk of infections as well

Tightpussy2024:
Gbam!
Men want to be miser with commitment and set standards on who to give it to,but will groan at the idea of paying for sex.

They want to take value while giving none(maybe bike fare,drink they saved from a wedding reception they attended etc). At least women are better,give women money or commitment and they will reward you with sex. But men,they can happily take sex from you without offering neither money or commitment. If you deman commitment before sex they will say you are not worth commiting too. If you demand money,they will say you are an as$hawo. So what will men give in return to sex to make it balance?

To add, our society isn't forgiving on women who freely have sex for pleasure. So, either commitment or money. I cannot blame the ladies, and part of the reason I am a strong advocate of buying sex as a service.

I made this some days ago:

Gerrard59:
Just to add to this based on the Sophia and Burna Boy's saga. I think one of the reasons we Nigerian men are so lustful about sex is because we have been deterred about it from a very young age. Religion has made us view sex as evil and dangerous at least for much older men (30+) rather than Gen-Zs who grew up in a much sexually liberal world. The sexual attitudes in the Caribbean, from studies I have read and maybe from Southern Africa (yet to read about this), are way much liberal than ours. In summary, I strongly believe that if we promote safe sex from a young age, maybe the lads won't grow up to be so swayed by the inner linings of women's legs. Reading David Hundeyin's tweet that startup founders give away stock options to escort is maddening. We pay too much for sex. I strongly doubt the average Jamaican or Bahamaian man would do the same.

Our cousins in the Caribbean see sex as a normal thing, but we don't. In return, the society isn't so harsh or isn't harsh at all on women. I have read comments where Caribbean folks rebuked West Africans for criticising women in clad carnival attires. They defended what they term their "culture". Our young men want such but lampoon sexually liberal women. Things don't work out like that. Something has to give way.

SuperOnyi:





Valid! It has nothing to do with self esteem. I know highly confident dudes who hook up with girls and pay — simply because they don't want any connection at all. And yes, they don't pay up to that 50k.

I used to find going to brothel weird but not anymore... I can talk to any woman on Earth, it's just that I naturally have the ability to get a woman obsessed and I do so unintentionally. I just got out of one relationship and I had to, I don't wanna destroy anyone's life to prove a stupid point. Right now, I have made up my mind to go visit a brothel in the future (if I'm alive), do what I want, and go.

By the way, I have total self control but I have found out that it has made me lose interest in sex. If I can get it back by visiting a brothel, no problem...

These peeps write Rubbish.

Gerrard59:
To add, our society isn't forgiving on women who freely have sex for pleasure. So, either commitment or money. I cannot blame the ladies, and part of the reason I am a strong advocate of buying sex as a service.

I made this some days ago:



Our cousins in the Caribbean see sex as a normal thing, but we don't. In return, the society isn't so harsh or isn't harsh at all on women. I have read comments where Caribbean folks rebuked West Africans for criticising women in clad carnival attires. They defended what they term their "culture". Our young men want such but lampoon sexually liberal women. Things don't work out like that. Something has to give way.

boss, let me disagree with you today. I don't think we are harsh on sexually free women. Many men have already accepted that the wouldn't marry a virgin. A lot of men are sex starved because girls only give sex to financially buoyant men. Some men even know their wives are cheating on them but they don't complain.

Samantha125:
I also wonder why would a man wants to be sleeping with a woman who probably slept with three or five more men on that same day to a point that he's even willing to pay for it?

Don't you guys ever get disgusted? Or is it because you can't hold your urges?

I'm not trying to bash my fellow sisters for doing what they have to do in order to survive, but I'm just curious.

Let me explain it this way … it’s like renting a vehicle . These vehicles although are used a lot but are maintained and more reliable than some personal vehicles .
My first Audi vehicle I drove was a rental , same with a Range Rover. I can’t afford the monthly payments but I could afford a week or few days of use . All I have to do is return it to the same level of petrol as prior to rental. I don’t have to clean it .
Same it is with hookups - there are some women who don’t take more than 1 or 2 clients a day . They charge more and it’s a means to an end and there are others to whom it’s there daily bread.
Prostitution and hookups have existed since the Old Testament so it ain’t going anywhere .

Now, why do some men patronize
1. Demand and Supply - I have an itch , she fulfills
2. No excuses - oh my period , headache, tired etc
3. No dialogue - men don’t need to be ready .. wake up a dude at 5am and blood flow would make the phallus ready.
4. No need to make promises -
5. Uncontrollable urges - watching erotic movies leads to wanking and wanking leads to next stage and next leads to hookups .
6. More vocal - most hookups inflate the man’s ego and during intercourse are alive ( it’s an act )
7. More demonstrative - are open to all styles .
8. Variety - Big ass, small ass, big boobs , etc like a vehicle , I can select which fantasy I want to fulfill.

Payment is more about compensation for the persons time. It’s payment for rending a service.

rickleye:
Let me explain it this way … it’s like renting a vehicle . These vehicles although are used a lot but are maintained and more reliable than some personal vehicles .
My first Audi vehicle I drove was a rental , same with a Range Rover. I can’t afford the monthly payments but I could afford a week or few days of use . All I have to do is return it to the same level of petrol as prior to rental. I don’t have to clean it .
Same it is with hookups - there are some women who don’t take more than 1 or 2 clients a day . They charge more and it’s a means to an end and there are others to whom it’s there daily bread.
Prostitution and hookups have existed since the Old Testament so it ain’t going anywhere .

Now, why do some men patronize
1. Demand and Supply - I have an itch , she fulfills
2. No excuses - oh my period , headache, tired etc
3. No dialogue - men don’t need to be ready .. wake up a dude at 5am and blood flow would make the phallus ready.
4. No need to make promises -
5. Uncontrollable urges - watching erotic movies leads to wanking and wanking leads to next stage and next leads to hookups .
6. More vocal - most hookups inflate the man’s ego and during intercourse are alive ( it’s an act )
7. More demonstrative - are open to all styles .
8. Variety - Big ass, small ass, big boobs , etc like a vehicle , I can select which fantasy I want to fulfill.

Payment is more about compensation for the persons time. It’s payment for rending a service.

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