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A young lady who identifies as a Christian woman has advised her fellow women to make enough money and desist from getting married in their 20s

In the video she posted, Faithful Femininity advised Christian women to stay away from early marriage especially when they can’t cater for themselves.

The young lady advised Christian women in their 20s to desist from getting married when they make enough money.

Her words: “As a Christian woman, I have decided that my 20s are not for marriage. My 20s are to make money. Christian women stop entering into marriage so early.”

”Go and make money. You don’t have a dime in your account. God and find a way to make money. In 20s, in your 30s, go and make money. Stop following men around. Some of you are doing Hallelujah Challenge and wearing bridal gowns.


“Have you made money? Like, I will not enter a marriage without money. And I’m talking about multiple sources of steady income. I’m not that kind of Christian woman that will enter her husband’s house with nothing in her account. God forbid. My 20s now na to work hard. My 20s is to make wealth.”

Anything to trend.
Even Dangote never made enough money.

Fish brain nothing like enough money.
Too much money and you may attract the kind of men you will regret later.

There is one thing I realized some years ago and many people are just making a big mistake, you don't have to be rich before you can start a family.. Why I'm saying this is, I have seen many people who always brag around that they can't marry until they are rich, and while waiting for this wealth age and time wait for nobody...
My uncle was victim of what I'm saying and he is regretting his actions today...
All what I'm trying to say is, if you are managing with your life then just look for a sensible Man or woman and plan things together.. many things you have never achieved when you was alone with a sensible man or woman you might be able to achieve some..
YOU JUST NEED THE RIGHT PARTNER...

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A young lady who identifies as a Christian woman has advised her fellow women to make enough money and desist from getting married in their 20s

In the video she posted, Faithful Femininity advised Christian women to stay away from early marriage especially when they can’t cater for themselves.

The young lady advised Christian women in their 20s to desist from getting married when they make enough money.

Her words: “As a Christian woman, I have decided that my 20s are not for marriage. My 20s are to make money. Christian women stop entering into marriage so early.”

”Go and make money. You don’t have a dime in your account. God and find a way to make money. In 20s, in your 30s, go and make money. Stop following men around. Some of you are doing Hallelujah Challenge and wearing bridal gowns.


“Have you made money? Like, I will not enter a marriage without money. And I’m talking about multiple sources of steady income. I’m not that kind of Christian woman that will enter her husband’s house with nothing in her account. God forbid. My 20s now na to work hard. My 20s is to make wealth.”

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Plenty plenty things , plenty plenty nonsense wey no suppose to dey happen for this life....it doesn't work for you doesn't mean it won't work for someone else.....u see that thing called marriage? ....in my next life I heard it nah run, who come know it may be favorable in another world. Man just tire sef

talented321:
There is one thing I realized some years ago and many people are just making a big mistake, you don't have to be rich before you can start a family.. Why I'm saying this is, I have seen many people who always brag around that they can't marry until they are rich, and while waiting for this wealth age and time wait for nobody...
My uncle was victim of what I'm saying and he is regretting his actions today...
All what I'm trying to say is, if you are managing with your life then just look for a sensible Man or woman and plan things together.. many things you have never achieved when you was alone with a sensible man or woman you might be able to achieve some..
YOU JUST NEED THE RIGHT PARTNER...

Apt

I support her

After making the money iin your 30s you still look for a man to take care if your bills who are you deceiving? Yourself of course

Look up there and you'll see nonsense picks from young men saying shit , na him make am them they die early . This woman spoke the truth now but they're still finding ways to rubbish her truthful takes even when they know one man can't provide for the whole family now due to the economy . Marry housewife or poor wife for this 21st century, you don't need an high earning woman to help with the bills , no worry you go just die from HBP Sara . Are ya'll not having parents at home and saw the compromise they had to make while our father work , our mother were traders because they were uneducated now what about an educated lady .

libertyfather:
Plenty plenty things , plenty plenty nonsense wey no suppose to dey happen for this life....it doesn't work for you doesn't mean it won't work for someone else.....u see that thing called marriage? ....in my next life I heard it nah run, who come know it may be favorable in another world. Man just tire sef

I just pray it work for me, because comont girl friend self e hard to keep for me, and I don dey old faaaa

She's saying if you get married in your 20's, there won't be opportunity for oloshoism. Listen to her at your peril!

For your accurate peace of mind and harmony, l recommend you do not marry but try have a kid or children, ask your self why

A financially strong female is a plus to the society at large. Beautiful!
In the prevention of childhood illnesses, girl child education is almost always number 1. Reason being that an educated female is expected to be viable, financially as well as make good decisions and contributions to the wellbeing of the family.

But then, there’s no age range or limit nor starting point for making wealth. It happens when it happens.

Do what works for you, lady.

For me, I’ll always advocate for early marriage.
The benefits healthwise, are enormous.
Your body will thank you.

If you can’t do it early, make sure you position yourself well, especially financially, to make it less strenuous on your body.
Your body will be grateful…

Makamatic:
Look up there and you'll see nonsense picks from young men saying shit , na him make am them they die early . This woman spoke the truth now but they're still finding ways to rubbish her truthful takes even when they know one man can't provide for the whole family now due to the economy . Marry housewife or poor wife for this 21st century, you don't need an high earning woman to help with the bills , no worry you go just die from HBP Sara . Are ya'll not having parents at home and saw the compromise they had to make while our father work , our mother were traders because they were uneducated now what about an educated lady .

Men hardly marry women in their 30s ...did she consider the biological factor ?? At 30 women loose 90% of their eggs and at 35yrs she could have serious problems conceiving

cr7lomo:
Men hardly marry women in their 30s ...did she consider the biological factor ?? At 30 women loose 90% of their eggs and at 35yrs she could have serious problems conceiving

I’ve advised you before to do proper research before making baseless claims. Did you visit marriage registries, churches, mosques, or other wedding venues to verify whether up to 70% of brides are in their 20s before declaring that men hardly marry women in their 30s? Or you just pulled your claim out of thin air?

You sound like someone who skimmed through a high school biology textbook and now thinks he's an expert.

Since you seem so eager to learn ‘biology,’ let me educate you: while women’s fertility declines at 35-40, men’s sperm quality also starts deteriorating around the same time.

Aging sperm leads to lower motility, higher DNA damage, and increased risks of autism, schizophrenia, and genetic disorders in children.

Instead of obsessing over women, maybe advice your fellow men to get their sperm checked because a lot of them have sperm that get a head start but can’t even swim, let alone make a baby.

Many women in their 30s conceive naturally. Menopause, which happens around 45-50, is the real cut-off, not some imaginary ‘30-year expiration date’ you made up.

Merry100:
I’ve advised you before to do proper research before making baseless claims. Did you visit marriage registries, churches, mosques, or other wedding venues to verify whether up to 70% of brides are in their 20s before declaring that men hardly marry women in their 30s? Or you just pulled your claim out of thin air?

You sound like someone who skimmed through a high school biology textbook and now thinks he's an expert.

Since you seem so eager to learn ‘biology,’ let me educate you: while women’s fertility declines at 35-40, men’s sperm quality also starts deteriorating around the same time.

Aging sperm leads to lower motility, higher DNA damage, and increased risks of autism, schizophrenia, and genetic disorders in children.

Instead of obsessing over women, maybe advice your fellow men to get their sperm checked because a lot of them have sperm that get a head start but can’t even swim, let alone make a baby.

Many women in their 30s conceive naturally. Menopause, which happens around 45-50, is the real cut-off, not some imaginary ‘30-year expiration date’ you made up.

Madam ...stop deceiving urself....men sperms don't decline even at 70 ...as long as his healthy and lifestyle is not compromised negatively.... how many women can naturally give birth easily after 35.... Ned still impregnated Regina at 70.... a man sperms quality never declines a long as he's healthy .... feminists are just bitter and decided to throw lies cos they think everything na competition.... God has naturally blessed man to b able to father a child even at 80 .... men no de get low quality sperm unless he has health issues ....

cr7lomo:
Madam ...stop deceiving urself....men sperms don't decline even at 70 ...as long as his healthy and lifestyle is not compromised negatively.... how many women can naturally give birth easily after 35.... Ned still impregnated Regina at 70.... a man sperms quality never declines a long as he's healthy .... feminists are just bitter and decided to throw lies cos they think everything na competition.... God has naturally blessed man to b able to father a child even at 80 .... men no de get low quality sperm unless he has health issues ....

You don’t need to bring God into your baseless claims, just stick to biological facts since you seem allergic to reality.

Wow, what a scientist you are! You cherry-picked one example and decided it applies to all men, impressive logic. By that same reasoning, since Ekene Umena had a baby at 33, that must mean all women remain fertile as long as they’re healthy and maintain a good lifestyle, right?

Yes, fertility declines with age for women, but many in their 30s still conceive naturally. Male fertility isn’t immune to aging either, sperm count and quality start declining around 35-40.

Does that mean all men over 40 are infertile? No. Just like women don’t suddenly lose their ability to conceive once they hit 30. In fact, women have more than enough eggs, so even after losing a significant percentage, they still have plenty left to conceive.

The takeaway? Few women experience age-related fertility issues in their 30s, just as few men do as well. So, stop the sweeping generalizations.

Yes. Tell them to wait until 90% of their eggs are gone so that they can battle infertility just like you are doing.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cujUqQb76Xc

Don't forget women get too old

I wish this woman well

Merry100:
You don’t need to bring God into your baseless claims, just stick to biological facts since you seem allergic to reality.

Wow, what a scientist you are! You cherry-picked one example and decided it applies to all men, impressive logic. By that same reasoning, since Ekene Umena had a baby at 33, that must mean all women remain fertile as long as they’re healthy and maintain a good lifestyle, right?

Yes, fertility declines with age for women, but many in their 30s still conceive naturally. Male fertility isn’t immune to aging either, sperm count and quality start declining around 35-40.

Does that mean all men over 40 are infertile? No. Just like women don’t suddenly lose their ability to conceive once they hit 30. In fact, women have more than enough eggs, so even after losing a significant percentage, they still have plenty left to conceive.

The takeaway? Few women experience age-related fertility issues in their 30s, just as few men do as well. So, stop the sweeping generalizations.

U have Google to help u instead of allowing ur emotions to get a better of u like every typical woman when facts are thrown at them and they are loosing.... at 30 , women loose 90% of their eggs ....I never said they can't get pregnant again, but at 30 the chances reduces drastically.... at 35 , the pregnancy could become geriatric.... it becomes even more difficult to conceive....not like it will become impossible..... but for men , it doesn't slow down, its still same like their teen years and 20s ... it remains same uptil their 80s , as long as he's healthy.... my uncle lost his only son at 73 , his son was 38 when he died... he had to marry another woman to bare him a son as his wife was aboutv60 at that time ... the new wife that was 24 when she married him, conceived within 3 months of the marriage and still gave birth to a 2nd 2 yrs later.... so this ur a man's sperm declines is just in ur head .... Trump is 78 while his last kid Baron is 18.... do the maths .... I remember the late fatai rolling dollars impregnating his 26yr old girlfriend at the age of 82 many years ago....as long as a man is healthy, he can impregnate a woman ( depending on the health issues ) ...but for a woman , even if she's the healthiest person on earth., once she reaches 40.... e don be

cr7lomo:
U have Google to help u instead of allowing ur emotions to get a better of u like every typical woman when facts are thrown at them and they are loosing.... at 30 , women loose 90% of their eggs ....I never said they can't get pregnant again, but at 30 the chances reduces drastically.... at 35 , the pregnancy could become geriatric.... it becomes even more difficult to conceive....not like it will become impossible..... but for men , it doesn't slow down, its still same like their teen years and 20s ... it remains same uptil their 80s , as long as he's healthy.... my uncle lost his only son at 73 , his son was 38 when he died... he had to marry another woman to bare him a son as his wife was aboutv60 at that time ... the new wife that was 24 when she married him, conceived within 3 months of the marriage and still gave birth to a 2nd 2 yrs later.... so this ur a man's sperm declines is just in ur head .... Trump is 78 while his last kid Baron is 18.... do the maths .... I remember the late fatai rolling dollars impregnating his 26yr old girlfriend at the age of 82 many years ago....as long as a man is healthy, he can impregnate a woman ( depending on the health issues ) ...but for a woman , even if she's the healthiest person on earth., once she reaches 40.... e don be

Disagreeing with your baseless claims doesn’t mean I’m being emotional. I’m simply trying to educate you so you don’t keep spreading misinformation and blindly Googling things without actually understanding them.

If you recall, you started by falsely claiming that men rarely marry women in their 30s.

By the way, why is your focus often on women's issues? Why haven’t you ever advised your fellow men to cut down on sugar? Excessive sugar consumption negatively affects male fertility and sexual performance.

Stop acting like women reach menopause in their 30s or that all women in their 30s struggle with fertility issues.

While women do experience a gradual decline in egg count, fertility issues are less common in the early 30s.

Yes, fertility issues become more prevalent in the late 30s, but many women still conceive naturally at this stage.

Let me cite some examples, just as you did:

Rihanna gave birth to her second child at 35 with no issues.

My cousin gave birth at 37 with no issues.

Nicki Minaj gave birth at 37 with no issues.

I have friends who gave birth in their late 30s with no issues, some were even 38 or 39.


Though aging can lead to reduced sperm quality in some men over 60, some remain capable of fathering children. Similarly, although women's fertility declines after 35, with a more pronounced decrease after 40, some women in this age group can still conceive naturally. Everybody's biological clock is unique.

Susan Sarandon had her children between the ages of 39 and 45 with no issues.

Halle Berry gave birth at 47 with no issues.

Up to twenty of my acquaintances were over forty, and some were even up to fifty, and they gave birth without issues.

My grandma was over sixty when she gave birth to my dad without issues.

talented321:
There is one thing I realized some years ago and many people are just making a big mistake, you don't have to be rich before you can start a family.. Why I'm saying this is, I have seen many people who always brag around that they can't marry until they are rich, and while waiting for this wealth age and time wait for nobody...
My uncle was victim of what I'm saying and he is regretting his actions today...
All what I'm trying to say is, if you are managing with your life then just look for a sensible Man or woman and plan things together.. many things you have never achieved when you was alone with a sensible man or woman you might be able to achieve some..
YOU JUST NEED THE RIGHT PARTNER...

This is also the beginning of generational porverty also if things don't pan out well 🤷

Merry100:
Disagreeing with your baseless claims doesn’t mean I’m being emotional. I’m simply trying to educate you so you don’t keep spreading misinformation and blindly Googling things without actually understanding them.

If you recall, you started by falsely claiming that men rarely marry women in their 30s.

By the way, why is your focus often on women's issues? Why haven’t you ever advised your fellow men to cut down on sugar? Excessive sugar consumption negatively affects male fertility and sexual performance.

Stop acting like women reach menopause in their 30s or that all women in their 30s struggle with fertility issues.

While women do experience a gradual decline in egg count, fertility issues are less common in the early 30s.

Yes, fertility issues become more prevalent in the late 30s, but many women still conceive naturally at this stage.

Let me cite some examples, just as you did:

Rihanna gave birth to her second child at 35 with no issues.

My cousin gave birth at 37 with no issues.

Nicki Minaj gave birth at 37 with no issues.

I have friends who gave birth in their late 30s with no issues, some were even 38 or 39.


Though aging can lead to reduced sperm quality in some men over 60, some remain capable of fathering children. Similarly, although women's fertility declines after 35, with a more pronounced decrease after 40, some women in this age group can still conceive naturally. Everybody's biological clock is unique.

Susan Sarandon had her children between the ages of 39 and 45 with no issues.

Halle Berry gave birth at 47 with no issues.

Up to twenty of my acquaintances were over forty, and some were even up to fifty, and they gave birth without issues.

My grandma was over sixty when she gave birth to my dad without issues.

After doing IVF ...ur gran ma must be Sarah in the bible ...

cr7lomo:
After doing IVF ...ur gran ma must be Sarah in the bible ...

IVF? LOL. Science had to catch up with my grandma, not the other way around, my dad was born well before the '80s. And though he's a Christian, he was born to Muslim parents.

A lot of things happened in those days that were never documented. Sit down with some senior citizens and ask them questions instead of solely relying on Google for information.

Things are changing with time, life expectancy used to be 100+, but it’s gradually decreasing. My paternal grandmother passed away at 100. My maternal great-grandmother died in 2009 at over 100 years old.

talented321:
There is one thing I realized some years ago and many people are just making a big mistake, you don't have to be rich before you can start a family.. Why I'm saying this is, I have seen many people who always brag around that they can't marry until they are rich, and while waiting for this wealth age and time wait for nobody...
My uncle was victim of what I'm saying and he is regretting his actions today...
All what I'm trying to say is, if you are managing with your life then just look for a sensible Man or woman and plan things together.. many things you have never achieved when you was alone with a sensible man or woman you might be able to achieve some..
YOU JUST NEED THE RIGHT PARTNER...

For some people it is easy to see the right person.

For some, very difficult

And for some others, there may be no right partner.



Each to his own.

It's actually sound advice when you look at it critically

Wrong advice

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Princess Faith Chukwu

Make money first abi create a consistent source of income first.

You can make money and everything will disapia

Typical native hen mentality...

Life has taught me to reinforce what works for me, ignore idiots ranting on the internet and follow God's leading.

If you like, listen to fools, you will reap foolishness.

How much money is enough? Ask her, she won't be able to answer...

This is their ploy to jump from bed to bed, have a high mileage and start looking for a simp-an "Odogwu" to bring oghene and propose

Let people do what works for them.
This life no get template. The other day, one man was lamenting that the mistake he made in his life was not marrying early.

You can’t tell people to live life in a certain way. Your template may not work for another person.