COOL10:
Every woman is a narcissist, especially modern day women.

Saintinoo:


Mehn, then I think I will remain single even at 50, I saw shege from that narc of a girl.

COOL10:



That's what they do. They drain you of all your happiness and make you doubt your sanity.

Stay away from toxic people.

Saintinoo:


Do you know the worst of it all? I kept on going back to her after vowing that I am done. Because of the love bomb she used on me.

Saintinoo:
This is not a female bashing thread

COOL10:
Every woman is a narcissist, especially modern day women.

Rexie96:
My woman is.. thatz why i steadily give her infevtion and treat myself right away...

She is sometimes a devil in human form.. put me through hell on earth , almost losing my sanity, lost business oppurtunities and many more.. best purnshment is watvhing her battle infections..

helinues:
The problem nowadays is people don't start with friendship anymore, they just jumped into relationship.

If you have gone through the friendship process, you would have seen such traits before considering going into a relationship with such person. Friendship is the process of getting to know more about each other's, likes and dislikes, do's and dont's..

Most people don't have love map.

Aaaaarghmed:
friendship yes,but sometimes people change.Just like getting married to someone and you sometimes cannot believe they are capable of doing somethings.both genders.

helinues:


Old habits hardly die, most of the changes are for worst cos life frustration would add to it .

So if you have gone through the process of friendship, you would have seen all those traits but the main problem there after seen those traits, someone who is not ready to change himself can not change others. You can't give what you don't have.

helinues:


Old habits hardly die, most of the changes are for worst cos life frustration would add to it .

So if you have gone through the process of friendship, you would have seen all those traits but the main problem there after seen those traits, someone who is not ready to change himself can not change others. You can't give what you don't have.

Aaaaarghmed:
u get point,sometimes the traits will be minimal and you will feel,well,everyone has their flaws.you no go like gbaga make e no be like say you too dey select or any small k leg you don move.you go like just stay dey observe ..before everything go crash for your head like broken bottle.lol

helinues:


Nobody is perfect, so having expectations of others to be perfect na the first thing people dey miss.

We don't learn a thing cos if we do, our current mistakes in life are repeated ones but in a different form.

A lady goes into 4 relationship in a year but by December, she's single again, if she did not go into any relationship, she wouldn't have missed a thing

purples25:


You're actually the narcissist. Doing horrible stuff like secretly and deliberately infecting someone. I hope she escapes you. Since you can't just leave her alone.

That aside. This thread is eye opening. So these are the characteristics of a narcissist. It's true actually.

poshestmina:
It shouldn't be a women bashing thread because narcissists are not only women.

They are the worst emotional manipulators on earth . they'll rather die than admit and take responsibility of their wrongs .
He'll cheat and would blame me for not giving him attention and his mental health blah blah .

Gaslighting . Playing the victim card.
Gets very aggressive when angry and of course Domestic violence.
He'd beat me up so bad and then force me to stay indoors so "I don't spoil his image".


The relationship ended with Nysc.
Started begging me and going for Therapies.

Only my brothers know what they said or did to him ,I didn't hear from him again till date.

Toxic souls and if you stick around them for a long time ,you become as toxic as them.
They'll drain you mentally , emotionally, spiritually and in every possible way if you let them.

Now,once I notice that attitude from anyone , even a female friend or colleague ,I cut them off immediately!!
Those people will make you feel mad and frustrated and that's how they derive their own happiness.

helinues:
The problem nowadays is people don't start with friendship anymore, they just jumped into relationship.

If you have gone through the friendship process, you would have seen such traits before considering going into a relationship with such person. Friendship is the process of getting to know more about each other's, likes and dislikes, do's and dont's..

Most people don't have love map.

Rexie96:
My woman is.. thatz why i steadily give her infevtion and treat myself right away...

She is sometimes a devil in human form.. put me through hell on earth , almost losing my sanity, lost business oppurtunities and many more.. best purnshment is watvhing her battle infections..

poshestmina:
It shouldn't be a women bashing thread because narcissists are not only women.

They are the worst emotional manipulators on earth . they'll rather die than admit and take responsibility of their wrongs .
He'll cheat and would blame me for not giving him attention and his mental health blah blah .

Gaslighting . Playing the victim card.
Gets very aggressive when angry and of course Domestic violence.
He'd beat me up so bad and then force me to stay indoors so "I don't spoil his image".


The relationship ended with Nysc.
Started begging me and going for Therapies.

Only my brothers know what they said or did to him ,I didn't hear from him again till date.

Toxic souls and if you stick around them for a long time ,you become as toxic as them.
They'll drain you mentally , emotionally, spiritually and in every possible way if you let them.

Now,once I notice that attitude from anyone , even a female friend or colleague ,I cut them off immediately!!
Those people will make you feel mad and frustrated and that's how they derive their own happiness.