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Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by Samantha125(op): 12:33pm On Mar 18, 2025
There's a lady by the name Dr Celiwe Dada who's married to a Nigerian man by the name of Temi Dada, but according to her, they're now separated and currently going through a divorce.... Her family disowned her for marrying the man and she was the one financially supporting him as he was unemployed to a point that she even bought him a R1.3 million Mercedes Benz that she paid in installment, which was R23k per month despite him subjecting her to emotional and physical abuse... Yes, he used to beat her up!!! According to her, he'd even not allow her to use the car and as a result, she'd walk to work everyday while her unemployed Nigerian husband was driving a whole Mercedes Benz that she was paying for every month.

Now I'm curious, I thought you Nigerian guys always brag about how you know how to take care of your women and how you don't lay your hands on them, now what is this? The man even looks way older than her, I don't know if she was desperate for love or what.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-byV_FJXqLM?si=91x2KBt7VDqsry4R


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jwYjVcXT5oc?si=aqnvm_N-uIXIu_ds

The man then left her after she decided that she was no longer going to financially support him...😂😂😂... Nigerian guys, what's your opinion on this brother of yours? grin grin grin
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by Sonnobax15(m):
lipsrsealed
Just like every average south African man has natural hate for Nigerians,so is also every south African banny...

In fact,every south African banny's dream is to find herself going to bed every night with her hands tightly holding a Nigerian diick like her life depends on it lipsrsealed
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by Kobicove(m): 12:46pm On Mar 18, 2025
Samantha125:
There's a lady by the name Dr Celiwe Dada who's married to a Nigerian man by the name of Temi Dada, but according to her, they're now separated and currently going through a divorce.... Her family disowned her for marrying the man and she was the one financially supporting him as he was unemployed to a point that she even bought him a R1.3 million Mercedes Benz that she paid in installment, which was R23k per month despite him subjecting her to emotional and physical abuse... Yes, he used to beat her up!!! According to her, he'd even not allow her to use the car and as a result, she'd walk to work everyday while her unemployed Nigerian husband was driving a whole Mercedes Benz that she was paying for every month.

Now I'm curious, I thought you Nigerian guys always brag about how you know how to take care of your women and how you don't lay your hands on them, now what is this? The man even looks way older than her, I don't know if she was desperate for love or what.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-byV_FJXqLM?si=91x2KBt7VDqsry4R


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jwYjVcXT5oc?si=aqnvm_N-uIXIu_ds

The man then left her after she decided that she was no longer going to financially support him...😂😂😂... Nigerian guys, what's your opinion on this brother of yours? grin grin grin
This story does not sound plausible to me especially the part I highlighted undecided
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by FitCorper: 12:47pm On Mar 18, 2025
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Just like every average south African man has naturally hate for Nigerians,so is also every south African banny...

In fact,every south African banny's dream is to find herself going to bed every night with her hands tightly holding a Nigerian diick like her life depends on it lipsrsealed
Says a dickhead who hasn’t even been to the airport and probably doesn’t have a passport yet. But knows the dream of everybody from ur Warri enclave?
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by Samantha125(op): 12:52pm On Mar 18, 2025
Did you even watch the entire video?🙄🙄🙄
Kobicove:
This story does not sound plausible to me especially the part I highlighted undecided
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by writetopoka: 12:54pm On Mar 18, 2025
It most Igboman that can take care of there wife, not all nigerian men.

So be guilded
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by Kobicove(m): 12:55pm On Mar 18, 2025
Samantha125:
Did you even watch the entire video?🙄🙄🙄
I didn't even bother to watch the video, I made my comment based on just the write-up which I assumed is an accurate account of what happened
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by Samantha125(op): 1:01pm On Mar 18, 2025
Then go watch the video and hear how your lazy and abusive brother was exploiting our SA sister... grin grin grin

Like what happened to you guys spending on your women and taking good care of them?🤭🤭🤭
Kobicove:
I didn't even bother to watch the video, I made my comment based on just the write-up which I assumed is an accurate account of what happened
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by HawkTuahGirl:
She met a Yoruba Demon.

That's aside, why would a woman bought a car for a man, she was lost the in the passion that take over her reasons.

No Bleep given, the woman is the architect of her problem .
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by erad(m):
While I try as much as possible not to involve myself in all these national and ethnic immature banters, I find this op's mode of reasoning very amusing.

It's weird a supposed adult can think in such myopic ways.

Is there any perfect person, tribe or country anywhere in the world? It's so childish to open a thread on a Nigerian forum in a bid to claim your superiority over Nigerians all because of the actions of one man. I can only imagine for how long you've be digging the internet for such story and how happy you must have been when you found one.

If you were pointing out the existence of a pattern of such behavior amongst Nigerian men, maybe I would have found some sense in your write-up. But you're so happy you've finally found something to use again Nigerians that you are not even sensitive to the hurt and heartbreak your 'sister' might be going through.

Nobody is perfect, there are monsters in Nigeria as well as other countries. When Nigerians brag about Nigerian men and stuffs like that online, they are most times just online banters that should be taken in that light. It's not that deep.
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by Starboytwo(m): 3:26pm On Mar 18, 2025
This is a useless thread...

Since we are generalizing.

Why is every South African a slave in his homeland. All the richest South Africans we know are white dutchmen...

Why is all south african male violent, a drunk, serial rapist and HIV carrier.

And to you particularly, why did you participate in the last Xenophobia against fellow black settlers.

I'm waiting ma'am
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by FreeSpirited: 3:28pm On Mar 18, 2025
Yoruba demon on rampage
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by Samantha125(op): 3:31pm On Mar 18, 2025
My thread is also not that deep... So sit down, drink some water, and calm down...😂😂😂

I'm just shocked that there are some lazy and abusive Nigerian men out there because I thought you guys spend on your women by treating them like queens without subjecting them to domestic violence...🤭🤭🤭

I didn't go digging anywhere... Her story is currently trending here in SA, everyone is talking about her...😌😌😌
erad:
While I try as much as possible not to involve myself in all these national and ethnic immature banters, I find this op's mode of reasoning very amusing.

It's weird a supposed adult can think in such myopic mays.

Is there any perfect person, tribe or country anywhere in the world? It's so childish to open a thread on a Nigerian forum in a bid to claim your superiority over Nigerians all because of the actions of one man. I can only imagine for how long you've be digging the internet for such story and how happy you must have been when you found one.

If you were pointing out the existence of a pattern of such behavior amongst Nigerian men, maybe I would have found some sense in your write-up. But you're so happy you've finally found something to use again Nigerians that you are not even sensitive to the hurt and heartbreak your 'sister' might be going through.

Nobody is perfect, there are monsters in Nigeria as well as other countries. When Nigerians brag about Nigerian men and stuffs like that online, they are most times just online banters that should be taken in that light. It's not that deep.
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by Sirchiboy: 3:37pm On Mar 18, 2025
Samantha125:
There's a lady by the name Dr Celiwe Dada who's married to a Nigerian man by the name of Temi Dada, but according to her, they're now separated and currently going through a divorce.... Her family disowned her for marrying the man and she was the one financially supporting him as he was unemployed to a point that she even bought him a R1.3 million Mercedes Benz that she paid in installment, which was R23k per month despite him subjecting her to emotional and physical abuse... Yes, he used to beat her up!!! According to her, he'd even not allow her to use the car and as a result, she'd walk to work everyday while her unemployed Nigerian husband was driving a whole Mercedes Benz that she was paying for every month.

Now I'm curious, I thought you Nigerian guys always brag about how you know how to take care of your women and how you don't lay your hands on them, now what is this? The man even looks way older than her, I don't know if she was desperate for love or what.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-byV_FJXqLM?si=91x2KBt7VDqsry4R


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jwYjVcXT5oc?si=aqnvm_N-uIXIu_ds

The man then left her after she decided that she was no longer going to financially support him...😂😂😂... Nigerian guys, what's your opinion on this brother of yours? grin grin grin
Please I need a rich south African lady.
I will treat her well , I will never raise my hand on her.
I don't mind her turning me into a house boy.
Abeg I am serious
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by Samantha125(op): 3:40pm On Mar 18, 2025
It's funny how you guys like generalizing others, but get offended when the same thing is done to you guys... grin grin grin

And this is not about SA, but about your fellow lazy and abusive brother who exploited an SA lady in the name of love... If you wanna talk about SA and South Africans, feel free to open your own thread where you can generalize them as you wish...😃😃😃... Already you guys are always generalizing them, so there's nothing new there.

What happened to you guys taking care of your women? I thought it's a Nigerian trait...🤭🤭🤭
Starboytwo:
This is a useless thread...

Since we are generalizing.

Why is every South African a slave in his homeland. All the richest South Africans we know are white dutchmen...

Why is all south african male violent, a drunk, serial rapist and HIV carrier.

And to you particularly, why did you participate in the last Xenophobia against fellow black settlers.

I'm waiting ma'am
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by Starboytwo(m): 4:01pm On Mar 18, 2025
Samantha125:
It's funny how you guys like generalizing others, but get offended when the same thing is done to you guys... grin grin grin

And this is not about SA, but about your fellow lazy and abusive brother who exploited an SA lady in the name of love... If you wanna talk about SA and South Africans, feel free to open your own thread where you can generalize them as you wish...😃😃😃... Already you guys are always generalizing them, so there's nothing new there.

What happened to you guys taking care of your women? I thought it's a Nigerian trait...🤭🤭🤭
yeah yeah. All Nigerian men I know in Nigeria take care of their women.

I take care of my girl, my neighbor is the CEO of taking care of women.

Maybe the South African lady is Xenophobic, who knows.

If I meet a racist and Xenophobic lady, I will specially treat her with cruelty...
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by Antwan99: 4:15pm On Mar 18, 2025
Samantha125

Why? This is not you. 123 was different.

I miss 123.
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by Samantha125(op): 4:19pm On Mar 18, 2025
Do you even know the meaning of xenophobia?🤣🤣🤣... It's like you guys just like misusing some words without knowing their meanings.

Your brother was a lazy abusive man who had nothing to offer in the marriage...🤭🤭🤭
Starboytwo:
yeah yeah. All Nigerian men I know in Nigeria take care of their women.

I take care of my girl, my neighbor is the CEO of taking care of women.

Maybe the South African lady is Xenophobic, who knows.

If I meet a racist and Xenophobic lady, I will specially treat her with cruelty...
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by Samantha125(op): 4:29pm On Mar 18, 2025
You're right, 123 was different because she liked banters while 125 doesn't... I'm just shocked.

If I was still Samantha 123, I'd have been bickering with you guys all over the forum, some of you guys even said I was stubborn and liked arguments, but I've retired from that because I've realised that there's no use arguing with Nigerians on their platform over the same thing all the freaking time...😌😌😌
Antwan99:
Samantha125

Why? This is not you. 123 was different.

I miss 123.
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by Starboytwo(m): 4:30pm On Mar 18, 2025
Samantha125:
Do you even know the meaning of xenophobia?🤣🤣🤣... It's like you guys just like misusing some words without knowing their meanings.

Your brother was a lazy abusive man who had nothing to offer in the marriage...🤭🤭🤭
and your useless sister sat with him and bought him a Benz?? What stops her from opting out 🤷

Was she in a trance all the while or he put a gun on her head or it's juju or she don't see a suitable Southy male to replace??

Lazy abusive Nigerian man weds useless dumb hardworking southy woman in SA. What's that gotta do with us up here??

More importantly, why is the woman(in her country) so damn dumb??
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by Samantha125(op): 4:38pm On Mar 18, 2025
Maybe he used juju on her because you guys from there in West Africa are known to be the headquarters of Juju...😅😅😅

But seriously, so there are lazy Nigerian men out there who have nothing to offer in their marriages?😂😂😂
Starboytwo:
and your useless sister sat with him and bought him a Benz?? What stops her from opting out 🤷

Was she in a trance all the while or he put a gun on her head or it's juju or she don't see a suitable Southy male to replace??

Lazy abusive Nigerian man weds useless dumb hardworking southy woman in SA. What's that gotta do with us up here??

More importantly, why is the woman(in her country) so damn dumb??
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by Starboytwo(m): 4:41pm On Mar 18, 2025
Samantha125:
Maybe he used juju on her because you guys from there in West Africa are known to be the headquarters of Juju...😅😅😅

But seriously, so there are lazy Nigerian men out there who have nothing to offer in their marriages?😂😂😂
You are just one bored South African.

S/o to my nigga in Sandton.
I like the murdered Aka too... Rip
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by Dogalmighty17: 4:46pm On Mar 18, 2025
Samantha, I really admired your level headed contributions on this forum. But I must now ask, what sentiment exactly are you trying to stir up with this post of yours?

It is inevitable that among countless thousands of Nigerian men married to foreigners, a number will definitely not turn out right and that's normal across all nationalities.

Frankly, I consider your post irresponsible, reckless and stupid. You used to be better than this.
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by Samantha125(op): 4:56pm On Mar 18, 2025
This is not about AKA... why are you trying so hard to deviate from the main topic at hand?🤭🤭🤭
Starboytwo:
You are just one bored South African.

S/o to my nigga in Sandton.
I like the murdered Aka too... Rip
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by Samantha125(op): 5:01pm On Mar 18, 2025
What did I do wrong?🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️... I mean the lady was the one who willingly came out to the public to narrate about her useless Nigerian husband... I'm just shocked...😏😏😏

I'm still the same good Sammie Sammie that you know... grin grin grin
Dogalmighty17:
Samantha, I really admired your level headed contributions on this forum. But I must now ask, what sentiment exactly are you trying to stir up with this post of yours?

It is inevitable that among countless thousands of Nigerian men married to foreigners, a number will definitely not turn out right and that's normal across all nationalities.

Frankly, I consider your post irresponsible, reckless and stupid. You used to be better than this.
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by Starboytwo(m): 5:08pm On Mar 18, 2025
Starboytwo:
yeah yeah. All Nigerian men I know in Nigeria take care of their women.
Already replied.
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by WhiteIverson: 5:19pm On Mar 18, 2025
Always looking for attention on this platform from the same Nigerian men you're insulting. Abi your S.A husband is being abusive to you and this is your way of coping? You prolly infected him with HIV cos' that's what S.A girls are known for right? wink

You registered in November 2024 and you've racked up 2k+ comments. Seems you're an unemployed housewife with a lot of time on her hands.
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by TheBreastSucker(m): 5:19pm On Mar 18, 2025
Samantha125:
Do you even know the meaning of xenophobia?🤣🤣🤣... It's like you guys just like misusing some words without knowing their meanings.

Your brother was a lazy abusive man who had nothing to offer in the marriage...🤭🤭🤭
The real reason why she's pissed is cos the guy did not suck her breasts well.

Please direct her to me, I'll do her nicely grin
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by SamuraiXXX: 5:23pm On Mar 18, 2025
WhiteIverson:
Always looking for attention on this platform from the same Nigerian men you're insulting. Abi your SA husband is being abusive to you and this is your way of coping?

You registered in November 2024 and you've racked up 2k+ comments. Seems you're an unemployed housewife with a lot of time on her hands.
Oga the thing never reach like this, please go easy on the insults
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by WhiteIverson: 5:25pm On Mar 18, 2025
SamuraiXXX:
Oga the thing never reach like this, please go easy on the insults
The truth is stranger than fiction and it can be misinterpreted as an insult.
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by SamuraiXXX: 5:25pm On Mar 18, 2025
Samantha125:
You're right, 123 was different because she liked banters while 125 doesn't... I'm just shocked.

If I was still Samantha 123, I'd have been bickering with you guys all over the forum, some of you guys even said I was stubborn and liked arguments, but I've retired from that because I've realised that there's no use arguing with Nigerians on their platform over the same thing all the freaking time...😌😌😌
Your previous number was never 123, it was 124.
Re: Another South African Jollofina Filled With Regrets. by SamuraiXXX: 5:29pm On Mar 18, 2025
Antwan99:
Samantha125

Why? This is not you. 123 was different.

I miss 123.
Good girl gone bad grin

Meanwhile her previous number was 124 not 123
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