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Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by FreeSpirited(op): 5:40pm On Mar 18, 2025
Most married people say that many times people don't end up with their spec when it's time for marriage.
Spec such as height, complexion, massive behind, slim stature, petite, or boob size, even educational status and specific tribe of interest.. People have various reasons to prefer certain quality or characteristics in their partner.

Paraventure, you dint eventually marry that spec you always wanted, kindly tell us why u had to settle happily or otherwise with someone who was initially not your spec.
I'm afraid many singles might end up same wise and should brace up with the possibility from your experiences instead of waiting unend for spec that may never come. After all our spec may not be the best partner. And for those who married their real spec, how is the journey, hope it's worth it
Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by specialbobby(m): 5:43pm On Mar 18, 2025
Spec to fe yi mi lorun
Moya fere ge grin grin grin
I no fit con die before my time oo
Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by Xannadu: 5:50pm On Mar 18, 2025
Because I was not my spec's spec. undecided
Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by FreeSpirited(op): 5:54pm On Mar 18, 2025
I heard a woman only has one spec.... I don't know how true is that..
Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by Carndidlaydid(f): 6:16pm On Mar 18, 2025
FreeSpirited:
I heard a woman only has one spec.... I don't know how true is that..
Lol

Different specs but one favourite
Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by Tolu2024(m):
Bleep you all
Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by Offpointng: 6:50pm On Mar 18, 2025
specialbobby:
Spec to fe yi mi lorun
Moya fere ge grin grin grin
I no fit con die before my time oo
Type in English. Nonsense angry
Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by Samantha125(f): 7:06pm On Mar 18, 2025
The spec was not specing... grin grin grin
Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by DeeScan: 7:34pm On Mar 18, 2025
I ain't getting married if she's not my spec ...

But if the spec no get sense .. I still am not going marry her ..



But the good thing is , there's a lot of my spec out there ..
Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by DeeScan: 7:34pm On Mar 18, 2025
Offpointng:
Type in English. Nonsense angry
Use Google to translate nw ..
Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by Samakus(m): 8:15pm On Mar 18, 2025
Married my spec!

Tall, fair, big nyash, fine face, slay-queen-looking lover of God!

I have been fulfilled ever since
Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by BrosG007: 8:39pm On Mar 18, 2025
Post her picture make we confirm joor.... cool

quote author=Samakus post=134599843]Married my spec!

Tall, fair, big nyash, fine face, slay-queen-looking lover of God!

I have been fulfilled ever since[/quote]
Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by elmagnifico411(m): 9:19pm On Mar 18, 2025
grin
Xannadu:
Because I was not my spec's spec. undecided
you were a spectacle
Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by EmperorIsaac(m): 9:23pm On Mar 18, 2025
FreeSpirited:
Most married people say that many times people don't end up with their spec when it's time for marriage.
Spec such as height, complexion, massive behind, slim stature, petite, or boob size, even educational status and specific tribe of interest.. People have various reasons to prefer certain quality or characteristics in their partner.

Paraventure, you dint eventually marry that spec you always wanted, kindly tell us why u had to settle happily or otherwise with someone who was initially not your spec.
I'm afraid many singles might end up same wise and should brace up with the possibility from your experiences instead of waiting unend for spec that may never come. After all our spec may not be the best partner. And for those who married their real spec, how is the journey, hope it's worth it
So does those looking for six packs!
Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by Samakus(m): 9:34pm On Mar 18, 2025
BrosG007:
Post her picture make we confirm joor.... cool

quote author=Samakus post=134599843]Married my spec!

Tall, fair, big nyash, fine face, slay-queen-looking lover of God!

I have been fulfilled ever since
I don't need to actually but let me serve you something to fap with cheesy

Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by Xannadu: 11:18pm On Mar 18, 2025
elmagnifico411:
grin you were a spectacle
grin grin grin
Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by BrosG007: 11:26pm On Mar 18, 2025
Mehn. You got gut. Congratulations to you. She is actually beautiful. Also about fapping, I stopped months ago. So. The picture is safe. Lol

Samakus:
I don't need to actually but let me serve you something to fap with cheesy
Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by Obakoolex(m): 11:50pm On Mar 18, 2025
I mostly like fair ladies but most have been with no too get sense and doesn't share my dreams, so I met a chocolate lady and immediately I know she's my missing ribs because everything clicked right from the start.

Aa ni gbe egun elegun o grin
Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by FreeSpirited(op): 12:15am On Mar 19, 2025
Samakus:
I don't need to actually but let me serve you something to fap with cheesy
Are you sure with this singular picture act you have not encouraged guys to search for their fantasy spec either by hook or crook either realistic or not? Cos I heard spec dey hook person for throat sometimes
Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by safarifarms(m): 12:34pm On Mar 19, 2025
I didn't have any strict spec with regards to physical appearance. I simply wanted a woman that I'm attracted to and we get along very well. Luckily I met a woman that fits very well especially on the part of getting along very well. I believe I'm lucky as we have a very peaceful home.
Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by Koppaguard(m): 3:29pm On Mar 19, 2025
My spec is after money and not love, so I no fit risk am before I start sharing my property with anyone to avoid what I will do to her if I catch her because I get anger issues.
Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by 3nity7: 3:45pm On Mar 19, 2025
Tolu2024:
Nobody have it all
I love tits with passion, I always go for the tits active duty ones, slope or felling part. But I end up marrying someone with small tits … lol
Why I did not marry my spec I really like the girl till date she have everything I need but she no go school, I even advise her to go to school even if it part time she refused because she have handwork .

Men will marry olodo that went to school than a hardworking lady who didn’t. That why you will see a lady who just finished school getting married immediately while some ladies are still waiting for anyhow husband.

My wife department WhatsApp group they know many who can’t even speak good English and the ones who graduated with only Pass not even lower credit getting married with expensive wedding.
so men will marry Olodo that went to school? What a trash talk. Your reasoning is still Juvenile.That girl you left is going to meet someone better than you if she hasn't because you don't deserve her.
Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by ogashman(m): 3:45pm On Mar 19, 2025
Omo forget spec....marry someone that has same vision as u and can help u build ur home.

Got married last year...is she my spec? Can't say...all I know is we love each other and she get average back and boobi...we dey manage
Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by Lifestone(m): 6:18pm On Mar 19, 2025
Offpointng:
Type in English. Nonsense angry
Go and learn Yoruba
Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by Tolu2024(m): 6:22pm On Mar 19, 2025
3nity7:
so men will marry Olodo that went to school? What a trash talk. Your reasoning is still Juvenile.That girl you left is going to meet someone better than you if she hasn't because you don't deserve her.
I did not leave her before of that my friend you guys are always in a hurry to insult or curse someone . Even if she find someone better than me I am still 100 times better than you .
Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by idahme(m): 6:22pm On Mar 19, 2025
Koppaguard:
My spec is after money and not love, so I no fit risk am before I start sharing my property with anyone to avoid what I will do to her if I catch her because I get anger issues.
Mumu men will see the red flag and go ahead, thombs up for using head.
Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by Merry100: 8:07pm On Mar 19, 2025
My spec looks like someone that likes too much sex and can't do without sex.
Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by 3nity7: 8:19pm On Mar 19, 2025
Tolu2024:
I did not leave her before of that my friend you guys are always in a hurry to insult or curse someone . Even if she find someone better than me I am still 100 times better than you .
you see why I say you are still juvenile in your thinking. You are now comparing yourself with me? Do you know me 😂
Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by 3nity7: 8:22pm On Mar 19, 2025
[quote author=Yaiba post=134618678][/quote]Oga who make you vex like this 😂
Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by Offpointng: 8:29pm On Mar 19, 2025
Lifestone:
Go and learn Yoruba
Teach me
Re: Why Did You End Up Not Marrying Your Spec? by Lifestone(m): 8:31pm On Mar 19, 2025
Offpointng:
Teach me
Lol
Start eating Amala and Gbegiri first
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