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No amount of wealth or things can erase that pain .
That penalty should also be meted on me if I make my kids to undergo such perpetual trauma.
Public execution must be carried out on such parents.
The pain is much.
So much immorality in the society in the name of unqualified male and female coming together to give birth to kids in the name of marriage.
Thinking that sending them or feeding them is what they own them.
The drum has begun and war against evil parents subjecting their kids to emotional trauma.
No amount of wealth or anything can erase

What traumas are you talking about? you need to be specific

Nnamdipapa:
What traumas are you talking about? you need to be specific

How would you feel as a child growing up amongst your sibling that you are the only one that never smell the four walls of private school.
How would you feel as a child while your sibling every Sunday go to church.
That you are the only that sit at home because you don't have clothes to wear.
How would you feel that you were anti social as a child because you were bullied in school and called degrading names.
Because of the bully , you never go out after coming back from school.
You stay in the house after school because of fear of your class mates calling you degrading names when u go out.
You only go out in the night and stroll to evade being called names by people.
Your parents never care to take or change that toxic environment for you because of your mental health.
You never had the courage to talk girls until in your 30s.
Your feel emotional and easily irritated because you believe you are not good enough.
You easily loose interest in people all in the name of the truama you passed through.

Nnamdipapa:
What traumas are you talking about? you need to be specific

Will you ever forgive your dad if you find out that he worked for close to 10 to12 year before he married without a single achievement.
The only achievement for that period is boasting of NCE certificate.
This is when Nigeria economy was booming in the 1970s when he started working.
Someone that got job in his early 20s could not use that oportunity to secure bright future for his unborn kids.
He could not use that period to advance his careers or get atleast BSC or master degree that will help him stand out as a man.
Instead he went and marry one yellow pawpaw girl in the village that never went to school and that Lady put him in perptual debt because didnt plan well.
All his 23 remaining years out of the 35 years of his salary was used to pay debt and upon debt that his wife put him

Hmmok

All these trolls on this forum are obviously suffering from childhood trauma because traumatized people would do traumatic things in order to transfer those years of hurt and pain to others.

Nnamdipapa:
What traumas are you talking about? you need to be specific

Samantha125:
All these trolls on this forum are obviously suffering from childhood trauma because traumatized people would do traumatic things in order to transfer those years of hurt and pain to others.

You are senseless.
You think with your smelling and fallen boobs:
Someone is trying to voice out his Pains and you are saying this trash.
You deserve to be flog mercilessly

It's okay, I understand...😌😌😌

plsdisvirginme:
You are senseless.
You think with your smelling and fallen boobs:
Someone is trying to voice out his Pains and you are saying this trash.
You deserve to be flog mercilessly

She is actually right. Do you have flashbacks recently

plsdisvirginme:
You are senseless.
You think with your smelling and fallen boobs:
Someone is trying to voice out his Pains and you are saying this trash.
You deserve to be flog mercilessly

Sirchiboy:
Let us be honest with yourself.
Someone will come here and be abusing.
Youths now make money through scam and fraud.
I have friends all married and living large through fraud Money.
This is not the kind of life I want to live.
I can't live a life through scamming people of their hard earned money.
That is not life I dream of

Who told you scamming people is the only option to be wealthy?

Again, what traumas are you talking about? We're you raped as a child?

Sirchiboy:
Will you ever forgive your dad if you find out that he worked for close to 10 to12 year before he married without a single achievement.
The only achievement for that period is boasting of NCE certificate.
This is when Nigeria economy was booming in the 1970s when he started working.
Someone that got job in his early 20s could not use that oportunity to secure bright future for his unborn kids.
He could not use that period to advance his careers or get atleast BSC or master degree that will help him stand out as a man.
Instead he went and marry one yellow pawpaw girl in the village that never went to school and that Lady put him in perptual debt because didnt plan well.
All his 23 remaining years out of the 35 years of his salary was used to pay debt and upon debt that his wife put him

Hand how does that translate to trauma for you is what is what I am trying to understand?

He lived his life and you should live your life too? What did his father leave for him or do you know what kind of childhood he had?

Like you, I grew up in abject poverty, used pit latrine in a face me I face you kind of house all through my secondary school. I slept on mats or cardboard boxes my dad brought from work.

With seven kids and only two rooms, we slept on the floor packed like sardines all through my secondary school and I grew with inferiority complex.
Early in life, I was determined to succeed so I started reading books from when I was 15, read more than 5 books every week.
I love my background of poverty because that is what fuelled me into success as I read all night and try to make connections.
I never went for NYSC as I attended an evening university part-time while working. At 14, I left home to live with a family friend where we woke up 5 am to hike to Adeniyi Jones where I worked in the oven at Wahum.
I cut grass and lifted blocks for constructions at 15. I never for once blamed my parents or anyone as I was determined to control my own destiny.

I eventually bought a car and built a house for my dad in my twenties.

At some point, I decided I wanted to travel abroad and everyone laughed me to scorn, they said I was daydreaming as we had no one abroad for help.

Everyday, I read more than a 100 pages on immigration, I sent application is to UK, New Zealand, Australia, Canada, Denmark and the list goes on.

The reason for my story is to teach you how to personally hold yourself accountable. I succeeded in life without a silverspoon, you too can with sheer determination and hard work.

Stop making excuses and looking for who to blame.

This is inspirational. Thanks for sharing.

I know wahum. I have friends who worked there still now. For the fact you were determined to change your fate, it is something encouraging to others.

I remember I used to trek from agege to viju. Although I'm still working towards my dream..I believe. I know this, you have inspired someone today.

Nnamdipapa:
Hand how does that translate to trauma for you is what is what I am trying to understand?

He lived his life and you should live your life too? What did his father leave for him or do you know what kind of childhood he had?

Like you, I grew up in abject poverty, used pit latrine in a face me I face you kind of house all through my secondary school. I slept on mats or cardboard boxes my dad brought from work.

With seven kids and only two rooms, we slept on the floor packed like sardines all through my secondary school and I grew with inferiority complex.
Early in life, I was determined to succeed so I started reading books from when I was 15, read more than 5 books every week.
I love my background of poverty because that is what fuelled me into success as I read all night and try to make connections.
I never went for NYSC as I attended an evening university part-time while working. At 14, I left home to live with a family friend where we woke up 5 am to hike to Adeniyi Jones where I worked in the oven at Wahum.
I cut grass and lifted blocks for constructions at 15. I never for once blamed my parents or anyone as I was determined to control my own destiny.

I eventually bought a car and built a house for my dad in my twenties.

At some point, I decided I wanted to travel abroad and everyone laughed me to scorn, they said I was daydreaming as we had no one abroad for help.

Everyday, I read more than a 100 pages on immigration, I sent application is to UK, New Zealand, Australia, Canada, Denmark and the list goes on.

The reason for my story is to teach you how to personally hold yourself accountable. I succeeded in life without a silverspoon, you too can with sheer determination and hard work.

Stop making excuses and looking for who to blame.

I had a very bad childhood it's affecting me till date I was never loved,the trauma made life really difficult for me but thank God for wisdom sha,I am gradually getting over it.

You weaklings should get over ur entitled selves abeg. So what ur parents aren't wealthy. Life isn't all about wealthy background but what u can make out of it as an individual. Change the pattern and stop whining like a b!tcch

Nnamdipapa:
Hand how does that translate to trauma for you is what is what I am trying to understand?

He lived his life and you should live your life too? What did his father leave for him or do you know what kind of childhood he had?

Like you, I grew up in abject poverty, used pit latrine in a face me I face you kind of house all through my secondary school. I slept on mats or cardboard boxes my dad brought from work.

With seven kids and only two rooms, we slept on the floor packed like sardines all through my secondary school and I grew with inferiority complex.
Early in life, I was determined to succeed so I started reading books from when I was 15, read more than 5 books every week.
I love my background of poverty because that is what fuelled me into success as I read all night and try to make connections.
I never went for NYSC as I attended an evening university part-time while working. At 14, I left home to live with a family friend where we woke up 5 am to hike to Adeniyi Jones where I worked in the oven at Wahum.
I cut grass and lifted blocks for constructions at 15. I never for once blamed my parents or anyone as I was determined to control my own destiny.

I eventually bought a car and built a house for my dad in my twenties.

At some point, I decided I wanted to travel abroad and everyone laughed me to scorn, they said I was daydreaming as we had no one abroad for help.

Everyday, I read more than a 100 pages on immigration, I sent application is to UK, New Zealand, Australia, Canada, Denmark and the list goes on.

The reason for my story is to teach you how to personally hold yourself accountable. I succeeded in life without a silverspoon, you too can with sheer determination and hard work.

Stop making excuses and looking for who to blame.

Stop these lies.
Can you stop talking yayan pun and tell us what you did or nature of job you did to give you money to buy car and house if not fraud money.
I sabi all of una.

Inspector usman

plsdisvirginme:
Stop these lies.
Can you stop talking yayan pun and tell us what you did or nature of job you did to give you money to buy car and house if not fraud money.
I sabi all of una.

Inspector usman

Nigeria has a long way to to if you continue thinking like this.

All those pain/trauma u mentioned is actual fuel for your power. Ur parents have played their hand, ur environment has played it's hand. From the moment u realize the hand uve been played. U must step up to the plate in giving urself a way out. Todeny your future ones of this trauma. It's a call to action not a call to surrender.how do u respond?

plsdisvirginme:
Stop these lies.
Can you stop talking yayan pun and tell us what you did or nature of job you did to give you money to buy car and house if not fraud money.
I sabi all of una.

Inspector usman

I gave 3m yesterday dash.

Nnamdipapa:
I gave 3m yesterday dash.

Thank you for your advice. .
Can you help me with something.
Nothing is small

Sirchiboy:
Thank you for your advice. .
Can you help me with something.
Nothing is small

After you don insult am with your plsdisvirginme moniker, you fit say you dey deceive anybody for here, create silly topics, use your other moniker dey insult people and trying to get them to tell you their secret to their money then use your main account to act innocent and beg.
Nnamdipapa don't mind this silly Op, he and plsdisvirginme are the Same person and that's their MO

NoBodyknow:
After you don insult am with your plsdisvirginme moniker, you fit say you dey deceive anybody for here, create silly topics, use your other moniker dey insult people and trying to get them to tell you their secret to their money then use your main account to act innocent and beg.
Nnamdipapa don't mind this silly Op, he and plsdisvirginme are the Same person and that's their MO

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