₦airaland Forum

santaclaws:
➜If she does that she loses both ways, the money is gone and the husband is also gone...
It's better for the husband to be there and pay back the money or possibly help the woman, hopefully he's not crazy enough to abandon his family.

franvincoop:
➜Normally normally u correct ohh, but when I remember ur gender, I dey get reasonable doubt due to una God given talents.

munezo:
Go report to Interpol

Kobojunkie:
Is it possible to report crimes directly to Interpol these days?

Kobojunkie:
Is it possible to report crimes directly to Interpol these days?

advanceDNA:
Lol...werey don marry oyinbo for papers..
.he's under tight surveillance and walking on eggshells

..after two years plus e go pick your call after he don form fight with oyinbo, divorce collect paper....

Pele....u go dey alright....

munezo:
Yes, give it a shot. Their office is at Alagbon, Ikoyi, Lagos. You will be properly guided when you get there.

deji17:
➜The man no get family? That is where to start with your questions and search.

Zonefree:
How easy for you to believe a one-sided story.

Blaqputin:
Take one beer for my head

Kobojunkie:
Is it me or are many of you just incapable of reasoning things out as they are?

The current situation as revealed in the OP is that the the woman has been abandoned — her husband is gone —, and he took the money with her—money is gone too. Yet, you want us to believe that if she were to inform the authorities of the crime and he is either arrested or forced to pay back the money—have his wages galvanized, maybe,— wherever he may have gone, that puts her in an even worse situation than she already is. How is that?

ruffhandu:
Don't mind that guy. Woman just talking. She has not given us any detail at all, that is if she is even telling the truth. Travel abroad travel abroad, they think anybody can just travel to anywhere anytime and start packing money the next day.

Kobojunkie:
Find out what country/state he escaped to and contact the embassy or even law enforcement abi na immigration to inform them your husband has committed spousal abandonment. It is a criminal offense in most countries including Nigeria, so that might work in your favor.

Make sure to file a local case at the local police station, just in case, and record the case number for your reference. .

santaclaws:
➜Ok, let's assume you're the one with superior reasoning here, what then happens? Husband is caught, gets deported, comes back home to probably serve a jail term, how do all these help the woman repay the loan and train her children?
➜ I am of the opinion that the man would eventually reach out to the woman and find a way to resolve the financial crises once he makes it. Children are involved after all and I find it difficult to believe he's gone away from their lives permanently. Knowing the japa mentality among Nigerians, it's possible he eloped cos the money couldn't take the entire family abroad, cos how much is 20m Naira in USD/GBP?
➜ All I am saying is that if the man is abroad and working, there is still hope that he can contact the family, as opposed to just using the law and things won't get any better.

JASONjnr:
You always judge from one sided story.....

Alaga2222:
➜Why you dey give her clue on what to do? Women wey Dey japa with men money nko? Omo leave her oooo that’s her cross so let’s her bear the cross

1Sharon:
He thought he could do better. That's the point.

Kobojunkie:
1. Which kain yeye questions be this? Why would deportation be the response to committing fraud and fleeing the country? Second, why would it matter to the woman who no longer has a husband because the man has already abandoned her in marriage whether the man rots in jail or not?

2. Always with the yeye opinions as if una no get conscience.🙄🙄🙄🙄

⚉Do you know how many men abroad here literally abandoned their families back in Nigeria to pursue a better life for themselves and have never once looked back?
⚉ Do you know how many women in Nigeria live like single mothers because they were abandoned in marriage by their husbands?
⚉ Do you know the number of the "My husband is abroad" team of wives in Nigeria who live and die without ever again hearing from the man who abandoned them in marriage?
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3. Since your stance seems to be that a criminal offense should not be treated as such, then I will leave you to it.

santaclaws:
➜Can you engage in a debate like a civilised adult without anger and insult oozing out of you?
Gosh! Please stick to your opinion. Love and light.

Kobojunkie:
If this particular man were to defraud you tomorrow, will you equally disregard his crime against you then? Will you bear the cross then with a full chest?

advanceDNA:
Lol...werey don marry oyinbo for papers..
.he's under tight surveillance and walking on eggshells

..after two years plus e go pick your call after he don form fight with oyinbo, divorce collect paper....

Pele....u go dey alright....

Alaga2222:
➜I can’t come across such a man that will defraud me never

Kobojunkie:
I am not to blame for the irritating level of foolishness carefully packaged in your post, abeg! I literally cringe with every statement I read; it is that painful. 😫😫😫😫

santaclaws:
➜You have a problem... You can keep ranting alone. All you've said and will say is for your head alone. Bye.

Chilipepper:
Wahala! 😳💔 Lady cries out as husband runs away with their life savings, travels abroad, and stops picking her calls.

cr7lomo:
Nothing will happen...stop posting thru emotions....even those that have committed crimes over there , dem never deport them finish....na on woman wey no get blue for them...u think they will waste their tac payers money because one Nigeria woman Complained .... naso Natasha go de deceive herself for UN

Chilipepper:
Wahala! 😳💔 Lady cries out as husband runs away with their life savings, travels abroad, and stops picking her calls.

CodeTemplarr:
Took all the loans in your name alone?