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When you ask her if she's a virgin, she has just two options:

Yes

Or
No.


And ladies would likely say yes when asked.


She might realize her mistake of lying to you but wouldn't want to change it.



Use this as an example:

You ask your next door neighbor if they have hammer, they can say yes, or answer no, even if they have.

The better thing is to ask them to borrow you their hammer.

With this you make it look as if they have one.

If they have, they'll think you already know they have and would give it to you.

If they don't, you'll have to know they're saying 80% truth and mostly it's true they don't. It's all about approach.


Back to the topic, a girl you want to get serious with, it's good you know about her sexual history.

By default, ladies want to be seen as a saint in the eyes of the public, not to talk of a man that wants something serious with her.

So, when you ask her a question that needs yes or no answer, she'll naturally answer with the one that makes her appear decent.



So instead of asking her: are you a virgin?

Ask her: when last did you have sex?


You see, you position yourself like you are already aware, and at that moment she doesn't have two options, just one which isn't just yes, but when.


Even as at this, she'll likely backdate it, saying all sorts of pity story how she was riding a bicycle and broke her virginity or how one uncle back then took advantage of her.

So I should just tell her to borrow me her virginity...?

Una too dey stress unaselves jare...

iamnotillicit:
So I should just tell her to borrow me her virginity...?

Una too dey stress unaselves jare...

Still updating the post

iamnotillicit:
So I should just tell her to borrow me her virginity...?

Una too dey stress unaselves jare...

Calm down now

lovediehatelive:
When you ask her if she's a virgin, she has just two options:

Yes

Or
No.


And ladies would likely say yes when asked.


She might realize her mistake of lying to you but wouldn't want to change it.



Use this as an example:

You ask your next door neighbor if they have hammer, they can say yes, or answer no, even if they have.

The better thing is to ask them to borrow you their hammer.

With this you make it look as if they have one.

If they have, they'll think you already know they have and would give it to you.

If they don't, you'll have to know they're saying 80% truth and mostly it's true they don't. It's all about approach.


Back to the topic, a girl you want to get serious with, it's good you know about her sexual history.

By default, ladies want to be seen as a saint in the eyes of the public, not to talk of a man that wants something serious with her.

So, when you ask her a question that needs yes or no answer, she'll naturally answer with the one that makes her appear decent.



So instead of asking her: are you a virgin?

Ask her: when last did you have sex?


You see, you position yourself like you are already aware, and at that moment she doesn't have two options, just one which isn't just yes, but when.


Even as at this, she'll likely backdate it, saying all sorts of pity story how she was riding a bicycle and broke her virginity or how one uncle back then took advantage of her.

makes sense

shiffynaani:
makes sense

Sure.

Another thing is to ask her at her vulnerable moment.


I'm talking about girl you want to wife o.

Not all these chop clean mouth.


Maybe after interrogating her on something else, she would likely defend herself then you show her you already know.

Then you chip in this one. Trust me, her defense would be low now and she'll mostly say the truth now.

Or you can ask her after passionate kissing.


She can't tell lies and would open up.

That moment of truth,

lovediehatelive:
Sure.

Another thing is to ask her at her vulnerable moment.


I'm talking about girl you want to wife o.

Not all these chop clean mouth.


Maybe after interrogating her on something else, she would likely defend herself then you show her you already know.

Then you chip in this one. Trust me, her defense would be low now and she'll mostly say the truth now.

Those things are very hard to live with if you don't understand their gimmicks

shiffynaani:
Those things are very hard to live with if you don't understand their gimmicks

Explain better.

Which method do you suggest

lovediehatelive:
When you ask her if she's a virgin, she has just two options:

Yes

Or
No.


And ladies would likely say yes when asked.


She might realize her mistake of lying to you but wouldn't want to change it.



Use this as an example:

You ask your next door neighbor if they have hammer, they can say yes, or answer no, even if they have.

The better thing is to ask them to borrow you their hammer.

With this you make it look as if they have one.

If they have, they'll think you already know they have and would give it to you.

If they don't, you'll have to know they're saying 80% truth and mostly it's true they don't. It's all about approach.


Back to the topic, a girl you want to get serious with, it's good you know about her sexual history.

By default, ladies want to be seen as a saint in the eyes of the public, not to talk of a man that wants something serious with her.

So, when you ask her a question that needs yes or no answer, she'll naturally answer with the one that makes her appear decent.



So instead of asking her: are you a virgin?

Ask her: when last did you have sex?


You see, you position yourself like you are already aware, and at that moment she doesn't have two options, just one which isn't just yes, but when.


Even as at this, she'll likely backdate it, saying all sorts of pity story how she was riding a bicycle and broke her virginity or how one uncle back then took advantage of her.

some will still lie and tell you a month ago just to act baddie when she’s still a Virgin. The best way to know is to go down THERE

lovediehatelive:
Explain better.

Which method do you suggest

your suggestion is ok bro

I'm just chip in that one ni

Small pikin talk

You are right

lovediehatelive:
When you ask her if she's a virgin, she has just two options:

So instead of asking her: are you a virgin?

Ask her: when last did you have sex?

You just go around asking girls the condition of their vagina. What a creep.
Maybe you should just print out questionnaire for them to fill. 😁🤣😂

Smart and conscise way.

All that one no concern me sha, me just wann fucck.
No emotional attachments

There are still many non-virgins out there. No point getting schooled over nothing

There are still many good non-virgins out there. No point getting schooled over nothing. No big deal about virginity. It doesn’t add to a man’s economic status. And anything that doesn’t is useless to a man

Who virginity epp!

She go still play u

Nelsondiego69:
some will still lie and tell you a month ago just to act baddie when she’s still a Virgin. The best way to know is to go down THERE

You have a point though.

But someone you want to settle down with would do everything to be seen decent.



Ladies want to be seen as saints, you know

shiffynaani:
your suggestion is ok bro

I'm just chip in that one ni

Cool.


I'm open to learning new stuff

missjekyll:
Small pikin talk

Brand new better pass second hand anytime

Baronthecelebri:
You are right

Sure

AllBlack:
You just go around asking girls the condition of their vagina. What a creep.
Maybe you should just print out questionnaire for them to fill. 😁🤣😂

Be there forming woke.


A girl's sexual history is very important if you want to settle down with her.


Don't tell me you prefer a fairly used phone over a brand new one.

BItt:
Smart and conscise way.

All that one no concern me sha, me just wann fucck.
No emotional attachments

Lol...

When time to settle down reach you get do the background checks o

Afolue:
There are still many good non-virgins out there. No point getting schooled over nothing. No big deal about virginity. It doesn’t add to a man’s economic status. And anything that doesn’t is useless to a man

Who virginity epp!

Bro, there's a big deal.


For a lady to keep herself with the numerous advances and pressure is something worthy.



There are still many good virgins out there, but you'll never find a non virgin that's sexually pure.


It means a lot bro. What makes a lady lose her virginity?


Ask yourself, then you'll know that being a virgin is not easy.



If I lie ask Lalami3232

Exceed15:
She go still play u

True...


But the chances reduces with this approach

lovediehatelive:
Be there forming woke .

so because I don't agree to be a toto detective like you means I am doing what? FORMING woke? what is woke and how do you FORM it?

lovediehatelive:
Bro, there's a big deal.


For a lady to keep herself with the numerous advances and pressure is something worthy.



There are still many good virgins out there, but you'll never find a non virgin that's sexually pure.


It means a lot bro. What makes a lady lose her virginity?


Ask yourself, then you'll know that being a virgin is not easy.



If I lie ask Lalami3232

😂😂😂🤣🤣 Lalami3232😂

That guy is indeed hilarious 😅

I agree with you. But with the present day society getting one is like looking for what one can barely find. Except of the very young girls of 19 years below. And many of those kind will tell I am not ready to settle down or still they will be capital responsibilities on the man

AllBlack:
so because I don't agree to be a toto detective like you means I am doing what? FORMING woke? what is woke and how do you FORM it?

A girl's sexual history matters to you as a man, especially if you want to want to settle down with her.


That's my point of this thread, but to you it doesn't matter.


Woke? I take woke to be ideologies drifting away from conservative point of view. Like new generation ideologies.


From time immemorial virginity of a lady has been taken very serious, but this modern generation wants to wash things down.


So tell me, you won't make background checks on the sexual history of the lady you want to marry?

Afolue:
😂😂😂🤣🤣 Lalami3232😂

That guy is indeed hilarious 😅

I agree with you. But with the present day society getting one is like looking for what one can barely find. Except of the very young girls of 19 years below. And many of those kind will tell I am not ready to settle down or still they will be capital responsibilities on the man

Nothing should happen to that guy o

He should continue preaching the goodnews worldwide


In life, there's expectations and there's reality. You just said it all. After 19 you'll hardly see a virgin girl. That's the reality.


And at that age that's when most enter their hoeingg phase.

Keep lowering your standards, see billionaire no wan gree, Virgin or nothing




Even Billionaire Ned No wan gree, say virgin or nothing, As curled from this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/8382040/baby-number-3-way-ned


A divorcee? A non-virgin? Not mine to marry
My standards stand, untouched, unfazed.
Some may cry, some may curse,
But my love, my life, my rules come first.

lovediehatelive:
Nothing should happen to that guy o

He should continue preaching the goodnews worldwide


In life, there's expectations and there's reality. You just said it all. After 19 you'll hardly see a virgin girl. That's the reality.


And at that age that's when most enter their hoeingg phase.

aswear🤣
Lalami

Exactly, you got it. Immediately after secondary education