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Jamal77:
Hello guys, good afternoon and happy Eid-ul-fitri to the Muslims faithful, I need an advice from this great family.
I have changed the names of the people involved for some reasons, I(Tunde) served in Lagos with my now ex-girlfriend(kemi), kemi was a primary school teacher close to her house, I kept motivating her to be better by sending jobs links to her, planning on interview questions and otherwise.
Grace smiled on kemi she got a job at the airport, buh another hurdle, she needed guarantors that were not her family, because of love then and someone I wanted to settle down with I became her guarantor and a friend of mine.
I fell very ill and reached out to kemi to help me with some funds that I was at the pharmacy and my bank app wasn't responding, she told me to reach out to my family that she didn't have enough on her.
I felt very bad for my girlfriend to say such, I didn't tell her that I had bought the drugs and she never did ask, we quarreled and broke up, after the split sometimes I would reach out to her to check up on her buh she would be very harsh to me over the phone. She said I should stop communicating with her.
Fast forward she reached out to me asking over my whereabouts, I was shocked buh calm, then after a while she told me that her office asked her to bring the id cards of her two guarantors ( me& my friend) .
For someone who ghosted me for weeks to just show up and ask for a favour with any remorse, it baffles me.

Jamal77:
Hello guys, good afternoon and happy Eid-ul-fitri to the Muslims faithful, I need an advice from this great family.
I have changed the names of the people involved for some reasons, I(Tunde) served in Lagos with my now ex-girlfriend(kemi), kemi was a primary school teacher close to her house, I kept motivating her to be better by sending jobs links to her, planning on interview questions and otherwise.
Grace smiled on kemi she got a job at the airport, buh another hurdle, she needed guarantors that were not her family, because of love then and someone I wanted to settle down with I became her guarantor and a friend of mine.
I fell very ill and reached out to kemi to help me with some funds that I was at the pharmacy and my bank app wasn't responding, she told me to reach out to my family that she didn't have enough on her.
I felt very bad for my girlfriend to say such, I didn't tell her that I had bought the drugs and she never did ask, we quarreled and broke up, after the split sometimes I would reach out to her to check up on her buh she would be very harsh to me over the phone. She said I should stop communicating with her.
Fast forward she reached out to me asking over my whereabouts, I was shocked buh calm, then after a while she told me that her office asked her to bring the id cards of her two guarantors ( me& my friend) .
For someone who ghosted me for weeks to just show up and ask for a favour with any remorse, it baffles me.

Bennyvibez:
Reminds me of the thread of the guy that got job for a girl in Lagos only for the girl to use and blocked him. Despite all the warning and advice here the guy still went ahead and gave the girl the job address thinking he could still smash

I won't be surprised if OP has already scanned his ID card and sent to the girl sef... Mr. Nice guy

Namaster:
DON'T be baffled.
What you have seen is merely a NORMAL level of female ENTITLEMENT.

They think they don't need to EARN anything.
Because they already DESERVE everything.

That's how they are wired.
That's why you'll see a 37-year old hairdresser who calls herself a QUEEN. And genuinely believes in her heart that she's a queen.

It's the ENTITLEMENT.
And the ENDORSEMENT of that entitlement by men with ZERO self-respect.

For instance, why in the world would you STILL speak to a woman who practically told you to DIE rather than lend you money.

Only a debilitating LACK of self-respect will allow you to talk to a woman who RUDELY told you to STOP communicating with her.

The moment she UTTERED that madness, she should have been DEAD to you.

To this lady, you are NOT different from a SCREWDRIVER—only comes to mind when something needs to be fixed.

You FIXED her shitty life and took her from a DEAD-END job in a Primary School to a GREAT job in an airport.

Your reward?
You got DUMPED and DISCARDED!

Now that she's either in trouble or in line for a promotion at work, she reached out to YOU for help.

And your heart is TROUBLED.

Your ONLY recourse:

SILENCE!

DON'T reply with anything. Don't mock her. Don't act hurt about her betrayal.

She GHOSTED you. Treat her like a GHOST.

BLOCK her!

Block HER FRIENDS when she inevitably tries to use them to get to you.

Block YOUR FRIENDS if they try to intercede for her.

Block ANYBODY that tries to advocate for her.

And if anybody tries to tell you to "be the bigger person", CURSE their entire lineage.

Finally, she's NOT "an ungrateful female FRIEND".
She's your malicious, DEVIL-DOPPELGANGER EX-girlfriend.

Use the RIGHT words.

Jamal77:
Hello guys, good afternoon and happy Eid-ul-fitri to the Muslims faithful, I need an advice from this great family.
I have changed the names of the people involved for some reasons, I(Tunde) served in Lagos with my now ex-girlfriend(kemi), kemi was a primary school teacher close to her house, I kept motivating her to be better by sending jobs links to her, planning on interview questions and otherwise.
Grace smiled on kemi she got a job at the airport, buh another hurdle, she needed guarantors that were not her family, because of love then and someone I wanted to settle down with I became her guarantor and a friend of mine.
I fell very ill and reached out to kemi to help me with some funds that I was at the pharmacy and my bank app wasn't responding, she told me to reach out to my family that she didn't have enough on her.
I felt very bad for my girlfriend to say such, I didn't tell her that I had bought the drugs and she never did ask, we quarreled and broke up, after the split sometimes I would reach out to her to check up on her buh she would be very harsh to me over the phone. She said I should stop communicating with her.
Fast forward she reached out to me asking over my whereabouts, I was shocked buh calm, then after a while she told me that her office asked her to bring the id cards of her two guarantors ( me& my friend) .
For someone who ghosted me for weeks to just show up and ask for a favour with any remorse, it baffles me.

Astonmartin:
She'll just use and dump you to the bin ...karma has a way of fighting for the innocent and now this your chance to give her a strong payback. Block the ungrateful biitcch and stop talking to her because she's already looking for a way to manipulate you again and again

Judd007:
Be a gentleman, give her and move on.

Namaster:
DON'T be baffled.
What you have seen is merely a NORMAL level of female ENTITLEMENT.

They think they don't need to EARN anything.
Because they already DESERVE everything.

That's how they are wired.
That's why you'll see a 37-year old hairdresser who calls herself a QUEEN. And genuinely believes in her heart that she's a queen.

Double0h7:
1km is far for you? I walk 16km just for exercise daily! But then again I don't live in the desert so I guess it's the heat that hurts more than the milage.

Namaster:
DON'T be baffled.
What you have seen is merely a NORMAL level of female ENTITLEMENT.

They think they don't need to EARN anything.
Because they already DESERVE everything.

That's how they are wired.
That's why you'll see a 37-year old hairdresser who calls herself a QUEEN. And genuinely believes in her heart that she's a queen.

It's the ENTITLEMENT.
And the ENDORSEMENT of that entitlement by men with ZERO self-respect.

For instance, why in the world would you STILL speak to a woman who practically told you to DIE rather than lend you money.

Only a debilitating LACK of self-respect will allow you to talk to a woman who RUDELY told you to STOP communicating with her.

The moment she UTTERED that madness, she should have been DEAD to you.[quote]

Ex0rrcist:
How many hours you spend walking everyday? How do you measure the distance?

Double0h7:
My phone does the measurements. I probably walk for about 2 hours. I do about 25,000 steps. The phone tells me all that.

Ex0rrcist:
If it's about 2 hours that's a lot, but not close to 16km. I walk at a brisk pace of 6.5kmh and can only cover 6.7km in 1 hour. Give or take should be about 12km. But that's still a lot, damn. You're really trying. How do you do it for that long though, any special technique? My legs are almost dead after about 50 minutes.

Judd007:
Be a gentleman, give her and move on.

AllBlack:
We already know that you will give her the ID card so just do it and stop disturbing us with all this love story. You wey go even follow her go her office to fill form and put fingerprint.

cabosnoopy:
Tell her to send you some funds to run around and get your friends ID, immediately you get the alert, block her stupid ass.