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| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by saleh542: 12:31pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
Bobodee09:God bless U.......... |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Nobody: 12:32pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
cr7lomo:Ah! Ah! Why you dy take this thing personally, comrade?😆 |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by daytona008: 12:32pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
Your own even better. I met this girl and all she can think of is shopping and vacation. Honestly, nothing wrong in that if you are already made financially. I am an employee, currently trying to save up aggressively to start a business or relocate by the end of the year because job can end anytime. And all this lady has been talking about is us taking a trip to Dubai and how she will shop a lot. She even told an agency when they asked what type of hotel, that they should book a 5 star hotel. LMAO! To crown it all, she told me to my face that she cannot date a broke guy. LMAO! For someone that cannot afford to transport herself to work at the moment. Women are funny. Again, nothing wrong with a woman having class and those desires. But as a man, know where your leg reach and plan your life accordingly. In all of this, she is always comparing herself to her friends and sister dating politicians and fraudsters. I pack my kaya waka. Just use your head men. |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Leonardo4(m): 12:33pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
Letmecum:Lol selling garri and yam is also business provided it's bringing profit |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by YemyTemmy: 12:34pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
dominique:Not necessary the shop must look cute for a start, get the shop, get small market and Grow the biz....thatz the mindset of someone with growth mentality, only the unserious ones Will wait for everything to be prime and proper before kickstarting.... The complainant has a point joor |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Odianose13(m): 12:35pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
dominique:Is her boyfriend not also facing the reality of things to have been able to still dole out 1m. I still I’m not understanding the ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY you are vehemently supporting here. What happens to starting with 1m first and be resourceful with it? Then let her bf see what she has achieved if being honest and then he would even be interested to give more? FYI, many ladies who make this unguided statement as you stated above “….. better she'll be far away from you“ always remained helpless even after years. Success has to be achieved by you and your ability to be resourceful. Not by threatening your helper that you would be in a better place. There are no better places without its cost which often may be a mirage until you go in. You these woke ladies make me laugh sha. And this is what comes up on social media from most Nigerian female folks that makes young men treat relationships as transactional just to be safe. And then you complain knowing fully well that you are the cause of the problems. |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Caleycash(m): 12:37pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
Bobodee09:EXACTLY 💯, OR THEY'RE STEALING GOVERNMENT MONEY/ANY ORGANISATION WHERE THEY WORK, even 500k hard die to get easily nowadays, how much is even level 14 salary in government?, bunch of entitled lazy ladies everywhere! |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by zuby4real10(m): 12:39pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
cr7lomo:And what is paining me for this matter is that if reverse is the case can she do such favour to him. Wch woman in Nigeria can carry N5m nd give man she newly married to start a business? Some men are just Poolish. Now the she is going to waste that 5m cos she didn't work for it she doesn't know it's value, nd she get hope that he will give her another one again. |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by 12345baba(m): 12:43pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
Op na u no wise |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by chidiokay: 12:44pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
idahme:it as to be different i am a Man, some ladies might even take offence but i am a realist men pov and women pov no be same, If your woman behave like a woman, you as a Man "act" the man naw, she brings emotion you bring a superior logic naw babe i dont think we can afford a boutique business for now, how about food stuff business, home edible sales n delivery or something ... gradually you are putting sense into her coconut head its not always about name calling, typing insults ... when you are driving sumtimes there are things you dont see wey be say naa pesin beside you go point out to you Women are not like Men, dont have high expectations you can nurse her to reason like a man, even if she refuses to learn she wil understand the kind of man she marry |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by justmondris: 12:52pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
Sirchiboy:Things are very expensive now and 1million might not be enough to start the business she likes. The best thing you should have done before jumping into conclusion was to tell her to give you a breakdown of the business she wants to start and see if the figures make since. |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by haybhi1(m): 12:54pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
id4sho:Can you please show me the ropes to this business? I promise to be rewardful and submissive. |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by razzydoo(m): 12:57pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
Hmm. Obxaving. 1M is too small. Kuku kee me na. Take my epon do ritual so you fit open cement factory. ![]() |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by debbydams(f): 1:05pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
Sirchiboy:hummm |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by kingthreat(m): 1:10pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
Mathewrichard99:Thanks for sharing such an inspiring story |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Mcslize: 1:12pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
Sonnobax15:If you're waiting for billions to start something, then you are not ready. Stop encouraging wastage in women. He who can't manage little, even if given millions, can't manage it. When you bear children, at a very tender age, teach them the value of money, how to manage money during critical times, how to show gratitude to those that render help to them, how to appreciate others. No man on earth will tell you these simple things I just shared with you. Wisdom they say is profitable, but many lack it. |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by dangermouse(m): 1:14pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
Bobodee09:You dey mind them? Give that lady 10 million naira and that shop will still crumble within a year. |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Dollarmind001(m): 1:15pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
yinkeys:This days...the married ones even sleeps around more than the unmarried. |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Mcslize: 1:16pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
Letmecum:This is wreaked of lack of wisdom. So many persons in adult form lack the one thing king Solomon asked God for. That is, wisdom. |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Cheeryfeet: 1:20pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
Bobodee09:You still dey talk. Abeg share update make w join her too |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by KINGsXchange(m): 1:21pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
Sonnobax15:Oh really |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Allthelight(m): 1:23pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
dominique:some women are just evil... 😂 |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by aywagze(m): 1:23pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
Why would you ask to give her 1M in the fisrt place?! ..an alpha male will ask to start the biz as his and ask to employ her there and pay her so that she can be accountable to you ..🤔 |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Marc3500: 1:28pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
Sirchiboy:so for ur mind 1 million go fit start better business ![]() |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Marc3500: 1:29pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
aywagze:this alpha male BS is getting cringe these days stop it |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by VicM6: 1:31pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
Jesuspistol:understood.....I no dey talk again. |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Johnn74: 1:34pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
dominique: ![]() |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by bixton(m): 1:37pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
brandon2009:Given that's the truth.... How much does she have to add to that 1 million to be able to start the business? |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by aywagze(m): 1:40pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
Marc3500:Anyways, this is how i will run things to ensure i dont get fleeced in the name of relationship and this age wokeness. Anyone that is not cool with it can kick rocks ..🤔 |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Nobody: 1:50pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
Mathewrichard99:It's not hard to spot a lady who will ruin U even if U give her 20M to start business she will still come up with excuses because the brain can't function. They're already on this thread if U look up there and some stupid guys are saying she's right. If U should do a background check on those goats non of them have made a million naira at once and they are here yapping shut. Business is not always about how much U start it with but rather how strategic are U in giving value. They want a furnished shop in an expensive complex in the heart of the city but guess what? Such people will still run it down because they can't appreciate the value of a Naira. Na why life hard some people till they learn the simple things and appreciate the value and power of startup before bossing up. They want to be bosses on credit. I see some comments from some supposed mature people on this thread I just laugh and smh 😂😂😂 |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Nobody: 1:51pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
I see many people commenting how N1m can't start any business due to the economy hardship. Yes, you may be right but maybe the OP didn't make himself clearly or you guys didn't understand him. The fact is a low-life lady who hasn't seen N1m in her life complaining that N1m is small is definitely a red flag, I mean there are ways you can improvise. I've seen many ladies sell from their home like bags, cloths etc. you can even rent a shed (must you start with a shop?) Anyway low-life ladies are the most pompous and unappreciative set of people on earth |
| Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Nobody: 1:56pm On Apr 03, 2025 |
Sonnobax15:Use Ur stiff brains. People do businesses without shops. It's the fvcking digital age man why are U guys so backwards and slow? No innovation. People like U wait for the stars to align before making moves. Moves make ways and the progress is sweeter because U learn as U go and then U master Ur fvcking craft. U guys will always be mediocre with this entitlement mindset. Be fvcking creative with what U have or wait forever for Jupiter to meet Mars |
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you can nurse her to reason like a man, even if she refuses to learn she wil understand the kind of man she marry
Kuku kee me na. Take my epon do ritual so you fit open cement factory. 
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