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Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Acidosis(m): 1:56pm On Apr 03, 2025
#1m can start a business. We are just myopic by always limiting ourselves to physical/shop/container-based businesses. Of course, you will be setting yourself up for failure if, from that same 1m, you intend to rent a shop and stock up.


Limited capital ====> Skill-based (service-based) businesses.
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by fxexperts: 1:56pm On Apr 03, 2025
OKOATA:
But Natasha a woman like you was empowering others, how many have you empowered. Ordinary small empowerment can change a person's life totally. So 1M can't rent a shop or do anything at all? So even person wey won sell okrika, frozen food business, even POS can't start with 1M? Then you yourself is a waster in real life.
Oga go for your type of woman, go for the one who you can ask to hawk crayfish along the street, or she can sell gala along Lagos expressway, stop coming here to useless someone's daughter's life. period.

brandon2009:
She is telling you the truth and you are complaining abi you want her to start hawking ?
Dont mind the useless OP .
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Nobody: 1:59pm On Apr 03, 2025
ediko5:
I see many people commenting how N1m can't start any business due to the economy hardship. Yes, you may be right but maybe the OP didn't make himself clearly or you guys didn't understand him.

The fact is a low-life lady who hasn't seen N1m in her life complaining that N1m is small is definitely a red flag, I mean there are ways you can improvise. I've seen many ladies sell from their home like bags, cloths etc. you can even rent a shed (must you start with a shop?)

Anyway low-life ladies are the most pompous and unappreciative set of people on earth
Bro na lazy idiots dey wait make everything set before making moves. Some ladies go turn 500k to 2M under 6 months and then take it further from there. It's growth and a learning process that makes one really grounded in their craft
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Nobody: 2:00pm On Apr 03, 2025
Acidosis:
#1m can start a business. We are just myopic by always limiting ourselves to physical/shop/container-based businesses. Of course, you will be setting yourself up for failure if, from that same 1m, you intend to rent a shop and stock up.


Limited capital ====> Skill-based (service-based) businesses.
I swear bro.. so many people on this thread re daft. They can't task their brains to survive, grow and flourish. It's pathetic
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Nonywendy(m): 2:01pm On Apr 03, 2025
Sirchiboy:
I asked a lady I want to marry that if i give her 1m to start a business.
Hmmm she told me 1m cant start any business with a shop.
Someone that have not seen 1m in her life saying this.
Please guys if you have such lady in your life never make a mistake to wife her or she will put you in a chronic debt.
You will never achieve anything in life if you marry such girl
I agree with u. Dey always see things small yet dey cant still achieve the small thing
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Zidac: 2:01pm On Apr 03, 2025
OKOATA:
But Natasha a woman like you was empowering others, how many have you empowered. Ordinary small empowerment can change a person's life totally. So 1M can't rent a shop or do anything at all? So even person wey won sell okrika, frozen food business, even POS can't start with 1M? Then you yourself is a waster in real life.
It depends on the outcome you expect in a business. If you just want to start for the sake of it you may go ahead if not one million is too small to start the business you listed above. Would have been okay 3 years ago but not now.
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Zidac: 2:08pm On Apr 03, 2025
wellmax:
My experience is a bit different.

She has money in millions but will never touch it. Will not invest, will not spend, just like to have it accumulating monthly interest. No wahala with that.

But help with home keeping na lie. She will never touch her money to help with anything in the house.

This is putting me in serious debt. If we needed money urgently she can withdraw and LOAN to me. Even if I say it’s her contribution, then all hell will be let loose. She will nag until I repay the LOAN. I’m really tired.


I’m Working two jobs yet no savings.
I can't live with such a woman. I will make sure I frustrate her so much.
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by ferhyntorlah(f): 2:08pm On Apr 03, 2025
Gerrard59:
Judging from your topics and posts, you don't have one million naira.

Rest in the name of Jesus!
You never disappoint

Phahahahahahahahaha!
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Prince1759(m): 2:14pm On Apr 03, 2025
brandon2009:
She is telling you the truth and you are complaining abi you want her to start hawking ?
What truth? Someone voluntarily want to give you 1m out of his hard earned money. Also, marry the lady with the same hard earned money..All she could have said is THANK YOU.
Penniless girls going about with pride and empty brain. Nonsense!
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by fitinwell: 2:27pm On Apr 03, 2025
Sirchiboy:
I asked a lady I want to marry that if i give her 1m to start a business.
Hmmm she told me 1m cant start any business with a shop.
Someone that have not seen 1m in her life saying this.
Please guys if you have such lady in your life never make a mistake to wife her or she will put you in a chronic debt.
You will never achieve anything in life if you marry such girl
Marriage counsellor.., that is not enough reasons to disengage her oooo...

I pity who have been schooling you people for wrong reasons...

Marry for the right reasons not flimsy reasons,...

Your wife is there with you to support or back you up ... She isn't the sole provider....

You guys .. should stop talking about marriage if you do not understand the concept of marriage...

Thanks...
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Tommydare(m): 2:50pm On Apr 03, 2025
That sense wey no dey her head go soon dey. Dem give you 1m to do yourself some world of good, you dey talk say e no dey enough. Give some else that money and see wetin dem go use the money do. Wetin do those big umbrella or find some other alternatives. I'm very sure that if you give am 5m she won't be able to run a successful business as she is not creative to improvice a shop.
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by virginprincess(f): 2:51pm On Apr 03, 2025
Zonefree:
Long time? How's you?
I'm Okay, thanks for asking 😊
Hope you have a girlfriend now😎
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by damoobaba: 2:53pm On Apr 03, 2025
dkidd:
I hope say U done pursue her from Ur life before U come here sha?
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by YoungBTCxchange: 2:56pm On Apr 03, 2025
Michaelkelvin1:
You are an illiterate a nicompu!

So as learned u are ? 1milion would not be able to give ur a wife a decent job ! And besides marrying her is not a favor with ur poverty thinking mentality?? Abi u want make she day sell zobo ni? Or na akara? Even provisions would need a store.. abi na pop corn?? ..

Here u are destroying peoples home
oga stop saying nonsense people are still starting business with 500k until now, I helped someone with 400k to start a provision business middle of last year, and she is doing well now, you start small and grow big that's how business is, broda there is no business 1m can't start as an igbo man with an experience.
Store rent in street 8k annually= 96k
Agent fee: 50k
Table and blank works for keeping goods
50k.
Total = 196k then the remaining you use it and hit the market, the first 4 or 5 month you will not touch any money from that business, it will be just buying and restocking, your boyfriend or brother will be the one supporting you until you stand a little bit.
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by RolexOfGeneva(m): 3:00pm On Apr 03, 2025
brandon2009:
She is telling you the truth and you are complaining abi you want her to start hawking ?
It's not true oga, be realistic please. One million Naira can open a small-scale shop.
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by fyneboi79(m): 3:00pm On Apr 03, 2025
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
She's right...

1m presently in Nigeria can't do no shiit angry.

Here in Ughelli where I'm,only store rent+ wicked agents fees go collect half of that 1m.......So she's definitely right bro..
your brain is dense! Must she rent a shop to start a business?
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by correctguy101(m): 3:16pm On Apr 03, 2025
brandon2009:
She is telling you the truth and you are complaining abi you want her to start hawking ?
Truth bitter na... How you expect the baba to stomach the truth...

1m can start
something small and it's more than manageable... Depends

I no even use 1m start back then. T'was less than 300k even... Then shop rent was low... Not now wey just 1drum of ethanol don reach 300k plus... That was more than 5drums back in the days ..

Country don spoil abeg... Smh
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by 2elliot: 3:27pm On Apr 03, 2025
dominique:
She's right, the money is enough to start a business without renting a shop. I don't know about other states but in Lagos, neighbourhood shops now go between 8-10k per month. Shops in busy areas, bus-stops and market places go for much higher and most landlords ask for 2 years rent upfront. The spending won't be on rent alone, she'll need to furnish the shop with chair, table, counters, shelves etc and make it look attractive to customers. She's only telling you the reality of things but you're here poverty shaming her. You strike me as the toxic abusive husband who will treat your wife like you're doing her a favour by marrying her. How I wish she can open her eyes and see how better she'll be far away from you.
Some of you women delude yourselves.
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by OKOATA(m): 3:34pm On Apr 03, 2025
fxexperts:
Oga go for your type of woman, go for the one who you can ask to hawk crayfish along the street, or she can sell gala along Lagos expressway, stop coming here to useless someone's daughter's life. period.

Dont mind the useless OP .
grin I no get wife sorry and I no go marry. So hope you are happy now. cool
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Julius1995(m): 3:35pm On Apr 03, 2025
The emotion is not necessary. I believe you are just playing to the gallery and know public sentiment of fellow men will favour you. Why dont you use that 1m to set up the business for her, and see what 1 million will get you. Because a shop in a decent location will even take 40% of that money; the set up will take 15%, so you are left with just 450k.
Sirchiboy:
I asked a lady I want to marry that if i give her 1m to start a business.
Hmmm she told me 1m cant start any business with a shop.
Someone that have not seen 1m in her life saying this.
Please guys if you have such lady in your life never make a mistake to wife her or she will put you in a chronic debt.
You will never achieve anything in life if you marry such girl
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by kelmicheal: 3:52pm On Apr 03, 2025
That’s ingrate, fear this kind of people they will never appreciate anything you done for them.

Please give that same 1m naira to a person that needs it and see how thankful and joyful they will be.
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Karlosorji(m): 3:59pm On Apr 03, 2025
Letmecum:
Oga how 1millon wan take rent shop and stacked it up with goods. My friend give his newly wedded wife 5m to start a business renting of shop is not included. Oga u go start business with 1m abi na garri and yam u wan buy for the shop. Rawbish
if you start garri and yam, na bad thing? Abeg
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by vislabraye(m): 4:05pm On Apr 03, 2025
Sirchiboy:
I asked a lady I want to marry that if i give her 1m to start a business.
Hmmm she told me 1m cant start any business with a shop.
Someone that have not seen 1m in her life saying this.
Please guys if you have such lady in your life never make a mistake to wife her or she will put you in a chronic debt.
You will never achieve anything in life if you marry such girl
DOes she do business or you want her to start one ?
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by YoungBTCxchange: 4:15pm On Apr 03, 2025
appleous:
"Someone that *have* not seen 1m in her life saying this"

Dude, you don't know the difference between have(plural) and has(singular).

So keep your smelly advice to yourself.
so nah English you won chop, continue
BTC no get single English leta but e dey receive billions, you think knowledge is all about English, third speaking language in the world, not even first. Dey Play ⏯️
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Mathewrichard99: 4:18pm On Apr 03, 2025
The key word" Businesses aren't always how much or how big the money you are starting with but how strategic you position yourself and your business for value, in other words regular flow of profit." I got that from your write up....so much business sense you have there my brother. Many people or rather business startups always struggle to get large capital before venturing into Business....... It's a very wrong move.....very wrong especially if you ain't getting the capital to acquire assets for production. I really got a lot from you brother, thanks....



dkidd:
It's not hard to spot a lady who will ruin U even if U give her 20M to start business she will still come up with excuses because the brain can't function. They're already on this thread if U look up there and some stupid guys are saying she's right. If U should do a background check on those goats non of them have made a million naira at once and they are here yapping shut. Business is not always about how much U start it with but rather how strategic are U in giving value. They want a furnished shop in an expensive complex in the heart of the city but guess what? Such people will still run it down because they can't appreciate the value of a Naira. Na why life hard some people till they learn the simple things and appreciate the value and power of startup before bossing up. They want to be bosses on credit. I see some comments from some supposed mature people on this thread I just laugh and smh 😂😂😂
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by ROK123(f): 4:34pm On Apr 03, 2025
I can only see an ambitious wife material that will help you build your life and biz wink she might not have 1m today, but aims big, do you borther to ask her what kind of business shes nursing in her mind? What is 1m in today's Nigeria sef
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Zonefree(m): 4:42pm On Apr 03, 2025
virginprincess:
I'm Okay, thanks for asking 😊
Hope you have a girlfriend now😎
It depends on who's asking.
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Moveittothem: 4:51pm On Apr 03, 2025
idahme:
An adult that can't brainstorm for business of such amount should never be given soft landing, can a broke man be given that amount and he responds in like manner ? Broke ladies with pride grin, such ladies that can't brainstorm on an SME from that amount if yiu give them 20 m they will blow up the money
It's not all about being an adult, life is about experience.
Nobody is above guidance, that's why people have mentors.
Where op should start his rant is when he tells her the business 1m can start, and she talks down on it.
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by ShaqFu: 4:56pm On Apr 03, 2025
dominique:
She's right, the money is enough to start a business without renting a shop. I don't know about other states but in Lagos, neighbourhood shops now go between 8-10k per month. Shops in busy areas, bus-stops and market places go for much higher and most landlords ask for 2 years rent upfront. The spending won't be on rent alone, she'll need to furnish the shop with chair, table, counters, shelves etc and make it look attractive to customers. She's only telling you the reality of things but you're here poverty shaming her. You strike me as the toxic abusive husband who will treat your wife like you're doing her a favour by marrying her. How I wish she can open her eyes and see how better she'll be far away from you.
Dominique, Dominique.

With that amount, she can start a business. Atleast open a POS station. Remember, not every small business needs a store or shop. There's nothing wrong in her, buying table and chair, and sit outside her house, for start.

Remember, there's beauty an grace in starting small. 😁
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by appleous: 5:02pm On Apr 03, 2025
YoungBTCxchange:
so nah English you won chop, continue
BTC no get single English leta but e dey receive billions, you think knowledge is all about English, third speaking language in the world, not even first. Dey Play ⏯️
who is this "aneema"?
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Bruno3000(m): 6:42pm On Apr 03, 2025
brandon2009:
She is telling you the truth and you are complaining abi you want her to start hawking ?
You and her no difference. The billionaire business men and women you see today, started small.
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by extremelygolden: 6:43pm On Apr 03, 2025
Sirchiboy:
I asked a lady I want to marry that if i give her 1m to start a business.
Hmmm she told me 1m cant start any business with a shop.
Someone that have not seen 1m in her life saying this.
Please guys if you have such lady in your life never make a mistake to wife her or she will put you in a chronic debt.
You will never achieve anything in life if you marry such girl
It depends on where you live, because if you live anywhere where I live in Lagos State, dear brother in the Lord, shops here go as high as N3.5M per annum! Not even a whole 12 by 12 kinda shops ooo. You haven't even talked about other miscellaneous expenses you'll still incur, such as Fittings, Lightenings, Counter to display wares, Local Govt permit, State Govt permit, etc.

My friends abandoned their shops when it was due for renewal and started operating from home.
Shops that you're not even sure you'll be making enough sells.

Those heartless, wicked agents and developers keep increasing rents out of the reach of a common man!
Judgement awaits them!
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