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Let me give you a free advice as a married man of over 16years now.
1. Don't marry out of pity
2. Don't marry because of sex. I tell you sex go tire you.
3. Marry a lady that respects and support your dream.
4. You will be fine

AGManuel:
Hello House, please help I need advice.

I have a girlfriend who's been with me for 2 years, she's a very good girl, respects me to the core, she is beautiful and has no faults, she loves me so much and has also suffered with me even when there was no money and we've been through it all, she's every man's dream and a complete wife material in terms of character and also a great chef.

Problem is I am not sexually attracted to her, I can be in same room with her for a week and not touch her, even when she's totally naked running around the house.

I'm only attracted to light skin girls with big ass but she's chocolate and average ass, I don't want a sexually boring marriage.

She's good in bed and knows how to make love, but I just don't feel sexually attracted to her, is it because we've been having sex for 2 years? am I tired of her? I don't even know, she has never insulted me, she supports me and we hardly have disputes.

Married men in the house should I go ahead and marry her? Can lack of sexual attraction to your spouse be a big problem?

I don't want to break up with a good woman just because of sex.

She loves me so much and I know breaking up with her will hurt her so much, I know how much she cries anytime we have issues, most times over minor issues. I love her too. But this sexual attraction thing is a problem.

She no de hungry me to fvck at all. How person wan take marry woman wey no de hungry am to fvck.

Is it see finish? Will I get sexually attracted to her if we give each other space? Or is it because she's not my spec physically? But I love her so much and I'm just confused.

I don't even know if it's love, because she has no one, I'm her everything, her family is poor and I always feel pity for her whenever I want to break up.

Of recent we had issues and she went to discuss it with her ex and that made me so angry. I don't tolerate women that still keep in touch with their ex and I considered breaking up but she cried so much and was apologising, she even fell sick and was begging.

I have a soft spot for her because I know she doesn't have anything or anyone, I'm the person that supports her financially and everything, so whenever I want to break up, I think about those things and I feel so much pity for her like if I chase her away where will she go? and this is a girl that has been there for me few times when I was low.

I'm just confused.

dkidd:
Lol... Where did he tell U he's gotten over that?

Did he seek our advice on that issue? No. His issue with the girl is that he's not sexually attracted to her. Let's know how to deal with issues presented before us.

A woman holding on to her ex is the biggest error to any relationship. Make Una dey mumu there

This is how some of you always make errors when judging. I would stop any relationship where my gf or fiancee was in contact with her ex. But in this case, Op wasn't asking for advice on that

hmmmmmmm chat me on whatsapp let me counsel you 08138188962

Parizz:
you no like big ass?

No. Not right now. Not anymore

Bro, I'll advise u stick to that lady no matter what. D truth is it's difficult to get a lady with d attributes of a good girl u listed. I wasn't sexually attracted to my wife that much when we 1st got married, it's no longer the same as I speak to you. What should matter most to you is her golden character. Sex is something you'll get tired of eventually.

AGManuel:
Hello House, please help I need advice.

I have a girlfriend who's been with me for 2 years, she's a very good girl, respects me to the core, she is beautiful and has no faults, she loves me so much and has also suffered with me even when there was no money and we've been through it all, she's every man's dream and a complete wife material in terms of character and also a great chef.

Problem is I am not sexually attracted to her, I can be in same room with her for a week and not touch her, even when she's totally naked running around the house.

I'm only attracted to light skin girls with big ass but she's chocolate and average ass, I don't want a sexually boring marriage.

She's good in bed and knows how to make love, but I just don't feel sexually attracted to her, is it because we've been having sex for 2 years? am I tired of her? I don't even know, she has never insulted me, she supports me and we hardly have disputes.

Married men in the house should I go ahead and marry her? Can lack of sexual attraction to your spouse be a big problem?

I don't want to break up with a good woman just because of sex.

She loves me so much and I know breaking up with her will hurt her so much, I know how much she cries anytime we have issues, most times over minor issues. I love her too. But this sexual attraction thing is a problem.

She no de hungry me to fvck at all. How person wan take marry woman wey no de hungry am to fvck.

Is it see finish? Will I get sexually attracted to her if we give each other space? Or is it because she's not my spec physically? But I love her so much and I'm just confused.

I don't even know if it's love, because she has no one, I'm her everything, her family is poor and I always feel pity for her whenever I want to break up.

Of recent we had issues and she went to discuss it with her ex and that made me so angry. I don't tolerate women that still keep in touch with their ex and I considered breaking up but she cried so much and was apologising, she even fell sick and was begging.

I have a soft spot for her because I know she doesn't have anything or anyone, I'm the person that supports her financially and everything, so whenever I want to break up, I think about those things and I feel so much pity for her like if I chase her away where will she go? and this is a girl that has been there for me few times when I was low.

I'm just confused.

1, Loyalty is important but truth is also important so probably u should let her know the truth whether u break up or not.

2, when u were broke she was attractive enough for u to sleep with or did she force or beg u to sleep with her??

3, U might go for a fair girl with big ass and she becomes ur downfall or nightmare or with a terrible character so be careful. I personally rate character b4 looks for marriage or anything serious but looks b4 character for anything play or for fun.

So I advise u think well and weigh ur options well. Also if she has an ex what makes u think she can't get another person after u? I don't believe in marriage for pity or indebtedness. u must see some value in that person.

AGManuel:
Hello House, please help I need advice.

I have a girlfriend who's been with me for 2 years, she's a very good girl, respects me to the core, she is beautiful and has no faults, she loves me so much and has also suffered with me even when there was no money and we've been through it all, she's every man's dream and a complete wife material in terms of character and also a great chef.

Problem is I am not sexually attracted to her, I can be in same room with her for a week and not touch her, even when she's totally naked running around the house.

I'm only attracted to light skin girls with big ass but she's chocolate and average ass, I don't want a sexually boring marriage.

She's good in bed and knows how to make love, but I just don't feel sexually attracted to her, is it because we've been having sex for 2 years? am I tired of her? I don't even know, she has never insulted me, she supports me and we hardly have disputes.

Married men in the house should I go ahead and marry her? Can lack of sexual attraction to your spouse be a big problem?

I don't want to break up with a good woman just because of sex.

She loves me so much and I know breaking up with her will hurt her so much, I know how much she cries anytime we have issues, most times over minor issues. I love her too. But this sexual attraction thing is a problem.

She no de hungry me to fvck at all. How person wan take marry woman wey no de hungry am to fvck.

Is it see finish? Will I get sexually attracted to her if we give each other space? Or is it because she's not my spec physically? But I love her so much and I'm just confused.

I don't even know if it's love, because she has no one, I'm her everything, her family is poor and I always feel pity for her whenever I want to break up.

Of recent we had issues and she went to discuss it with her ex and that made me so angry. I don't tolerate women that still keep in touch with their ex and I considered breaking up but she cried so much and was apologising, she even fell sick and was begging.

I have a soft spot for her because I know she doesn't have anything or anyone, I'm the person that supports her financially and everything, so whenever I want to break up, I think about those things and I feel so much pity for her like if I chase her away where will she go? and this is a girl that has been there for me few times when I was low.

I'm just confused.

I pray you read this comment.

I once had the same issue you have right now, bro marry that girl asap, in marriage as a man you marry who loves you and not the other way round or else you would spend the rest of your life trying to please that woman who would see your efforts as nothing, devote yourself into loving her and make sure you always force yourself to think about her, in a month or less you will find yourself not being able to spend a day without her.

In all you do bro, never let that woman go else you will regret it one day and would remember this comment.

A word is enough for the wise.

Anyone who tells you to follow your heart is lying to you seriously,, even if you go for the light skin big ass, you will still get tired, it's a normal thing to lose sexual interest in your partner, just take your mind off sex and focus on other things you can achieve with your partner.sex no be food

AGManuel:
Problem is I am not sexually attracted to her, I can be in same room with her for a week and not touch her, even when she's totally naked running around the house.

I'm only attracted to light skin girls with big ass but she's chocolate and average ass, I don't want a sexually boring marriage.

I found you a wife (just kidding):

https://i.pinimg.com/736x/33/6c/c5/336cc53dff2f7e07d62a4c41740580d7.jpg

Break up with this girl. Free her so she can meet someone with sense who appreciates her.

AGManuel:
Hello House, please help I need advice.

I have a girlfriend who's been with me for 2 years, she's a very good girl, respects me to the core, she is beautiful and has no faults, she loves me so much and has also suffered with me even when there was no money and we've been through it all, she's every man's dream and a complete wife material in terms of character and also a great chef.

Problem is I am not sexually attracted to her, I can be in same room with her for a week and not touch her, even when she's totally naked running around the house.

I'm only attracted to light skin girls with big ass but she's chocolate and average ass, I don't want a sexually boring marriage.

She's good in bed and knows how to make love, but I just don't feel sexually attracted to her, is it because we've been having sex for 2 years? am I tired of her? I don't even know, she has never insulted me, she supports me and we hardly have disputes.

Married men in the house should I go ahead and marry her? Can lack of sexual attraction to your spouse be a big problem?

I don't want to break up with a good woman just because of sex.

She loves me so much and I know breaking up with her will hurt her so much, I know how much she cries anytime we have issues, most times over minor issues. I love her too. But this sexual attraction thing is a problem.

She no de hungry me to fvck at all. How person wan take marry woman wey no de hungry am to fvck.

Is it see finish? Will I get sexually attracted to her if we give each other space? Or is it because she's not my spec physically? But I love her so much and I'm just confused.

I don't even know if it's love, because she has no one, I'm her everything, her family is poor and I always feel pity for her whenever I want to break up.

Of recent we had issues and she went to discuss it with her ex and that made me so angry. I don't tolerate women that still keep in touch with their ex and I considered breaking up but she cried so much and was apologising, she even fell sick and was begging.

I have a soft spot for her because I know she doesn't have anything or anyone, I'm the person that supports her financially and everything, so whenever I want to break up, I think about those things and I feel so much pity for her like if I chase her away where will she go? and this is a girl that has been there for me few times when I was low.

I'm just confused.

So you want to marry/ choose a partner because of sex? It seems you are not ready for marriage. What about all the responsibilities that follow marriage? Do not marry someone you are sexually attracted to. Marry someone who you can live with and give you peace of mind. I don't want you coming here later in the years telling us about how your 'sexually attractive' wife is causing drama in your home and you want to divorce her. Now you don see better woman you ain't contented.

seuncyrus:
Might be something else . How often do you watch pornography

bruh i don't watch porn, that stuff is so irritating, I don't masturbate either, the only thing I use to experience for now is wet dream's, just like yesterday.
I have a girlfriend but I have stop sleeping with her for like 3 months now I have not touched her,
She call last week saying she wants to break up because she's tired of complaining

castro316:
So you want to marry/ choose a partner because of sex? It seems you are not ready for marriage. What about all the responsibilities that follow marriage? Do not marry someone you are sexually attracted to. Marry someone who you can live with and give you peace of mind. I don't want you coming here later in the years telling us about how your 'sexually attractive' wife is causing drama in your home and you want to divorce her. Now you don see better woman you ain't contented.

bruh sorry to say, but I feel like if you marry someone you are not sexually attracted to, the girl is going to suffer because some how you are not going to value the girl, like you are not going to be giving too much Bleep about the girl well being and is going to be frustrating to her.
Sex plays a lot's of roles in a relationship

AGManuel:
Hello House, please help I need advice.

I have a girlfriend who's been with me for 2 years, she's a very good girl, respects me to the core, she is beautiful and has no faults, she loves me so much and has also suffered with me even when there was no money and we've been through it all, she's every man's dream and a complete wife material in terms of character and also a great chef.

Problem is I am not sexually attracted to her, I can be in same room with her for a week and not touch her, even when she's totally naked running around the house.

I'm only attracted to light skin girls with big ass but she's chocolate and average ass, I don't want a sexually boring marriage.

She's good in bed and knows how to make love, but I just don't feel sexually attracted to her, is it because we've been having sex for 2 years? am I tired of her? I don't even know, she has never insulted me, she supports me and we hardly have disputes.

Married men in the house should I go ahead and marry her? Can lack of sexual attraction to your spouse be a big problem?

I don't want to break up with a good woman just because of sex.

She loves me so much and I know breaking up with her will hurt her so much, I know how much she cries anytime we have issues, most times over minor issues. I love her too. But this sexual attraction thing is a problem.

She no de hungry me to fvck at all. How person wan take marry woman wey no de hungry am to fvck.

Is it see finish? Will I get sexually attracted to her if we give each other space? Or is it because she's not my spec physically? But I love her so much and I'm just confused.

I don't even know if it's love, because she has no one, I'm her everything, her family is poor and I always feel pity for her whenever I want to break up.

Of recent we had issues and she went to discuss it with her ex and that made me so angry. I don't tolerate women that still keep in touch with their ex and I considered breaking up but she cried so much and was apologising, she even fell sick and was begging.

I have a soft spot for her because I know she doesn't have anything or anyone, I'm the person that supports her financially and everything, so whenever I want to break up, I think about those things and I feel so much pity for her like if I chase her away where will she go? and this is a girl that has been there for me few times when I was low.

I'm just confused.

why not marry her

I've taken my time to go through all the comments and I really want to say I appreciate everyone who took time out of their busy schedules to talk to me like a brother.

The married men, those in relationships and the singles, your advises all meant a lot to me.

I learnt alot and I realised so many things I never knew.

Thank you all so much , I have been equipped with knowledge and the experiences you all shared and I really appreciate.

Thanks family.

Is like I go marry the girl, na better woman.
Is like na ashawo de my eyes true true

YoungBTCxchange:
bruh i don't watch porn, that stuff is so irritating, I don't masturbate either, the only thing I use to experience for now is wet dream's, just like yesterday.
I have a girlfriend but I have stop sleeping with her for like 3 months now I have not touched her,
She call last week saying she wants to break up because she's tired of complaining

Hmm I see, I'm no psychologist but this still has an underlying issue you need to check , maybe from previous experience or even childhood. You can prompt chatgpt , tell it to act as an experienced psychologist to help you get to the root .

AGManuel:
I've taken my time to go through all the comments and I really want to say I appreciate everyone who took time out of their busy schedules to talk to me like a brother.

The married men, those in relationships and the singles, your advises all meant a lot to me.

I learnt alot and I realised so many things I never knew.

Thank you all so much , I have been equipped with knowledge and the experiences you all shared and I really appreciate.

Thanks family.

Is like I go marry the girl, na better woman.
Is like na ashawo de my eyes true true

Please marry your spec and let her go. I don’t want that girl to suffer.

purples25:
Please marry your spec and let her go. I don’t want that girl to suffer.

You're getting too invested in the matter bruv

YoungBTCxchange:
bruh sorry to say, but I feel like if you marry someone you are not sexually attracted to, the girl is going to suffer because some how you are not going to value the girl, like you are not going to be giving too much Bleep about the girl well being and is going to be frustrating to her.
Sex plays a lot's of roles in a relationship

is sex the only reason to marry? Try other things. Do you both communicate effectively? Do you plan for the future. Do you believe she will take care of your children properly. A lot of men foolishly marry beautiful women until she shows her 'true colour ' then you will come here crying to us. Word of note - beautiful sexy women come with a lot of baggage. Choose your poison. Unless you want to keep searching but then can you find a loyal woman as your current girlfriend?