₦airaland Forum

TechBaron:
Rule Number 1 - Never think it can't happen to you.

ogascomax:
✓ Some of una are still babies in thought. Pray that you don't enter some emergency that is when you will understand life.

Kobojunkie:
This message is for both women and for men as well. Again, why should a woman not know to use protection until she has fully resolved the issue of poverty that will keep her from adequately raising her kids when she finally has them?

You religious people are some of the most wicked arseholes on the planet.

I tell ya. So because of that passage, you take it to mean it is OK to have kids when you absolutely don't have anything that rais them with? 😩😩😩😩

autoez:
✓ Not all kids are destined to live in mansions

ClassicEvilSpir:
Why should a poor man even nurse dubious ideas of bringing children into the world? The idiot couldn't even plan ahead, even the woman did not apply common sense. Private Hospitals are profit first. If you don't work in the hospital, you won't understand how people take, or took advantage of the Health Facility generosity; you know Nigerians are evil people naw. They utilized the hospital's services, then refused to pay. Some will even run away.

After poor man and woman don breed, multiply like rabbits, Dem go begin dey curse der children, dey blame them, blame leaders, blame hardship for their dumb decisions. Fk poor fertile people for stunting the growth of innocent souls. Fk em, fk em, fk em....

Sleekfingers:
He didn't mentioned other expenses. You think 170k is the only amount he would spent at the morgue?

Kobojunkie:
Your rule number 1 does not apply in my world because I am not as irresponsible as you are; I live life intentionally.

TechBaron:
➜Mr. Kobojunkie or whatever sh*t you call yourself... Shut up!... Fucking shut up man. What fucking intentional... Look at what this fool is typing. Wife to a friend of mine who used to work in commercial bank delivered conjoined twins two years ago... Do I need to speak further? Look at this idiot.. Calling me irresponsible! Life never hit you. You're just spewing rubbish. Intentional kee you there!

Kobojunkie:
Yet another emotional rant! Your friend's wife delivered conjoined twins, and so? Because of that, your friend and his wife should not have been expected to pay the bill. Or have enough resources to adequately cater to the kids even if aside from any unforeseen costs of raising conjoined twins — assuming they had other medical complications? Nonsense and egridient!!

God1000:
https://www.legit.ng/people/1648690-spent-n500000-mortuary-man-wife-died-labour-shares-details/?

TechBaron:
➜Go and take several seats man. You know nothing. You think you fucking have your life figured out and you got everything under control. Bleep you man! I repeat, Bleep you bro!

Kobojunkie:
You are obviously off your hinges since you seem to insist here that planning out your future is the same as having everything under your control. Nonsense! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

The same you now go know say you suppose save money up if you plan to buy that car you like or carry that babe you don dey admire for sometime now? Some of you are just termite brains. 🙄🙄🙄

TechBaron:
➜You're truly a junkie. Kindly f*ck off.

ennon92:
➜The experience is unpalatable...That's how i lost my twins last year September, my wife gave birth prematurely at home, I wasnt even around cos I travelled so had to tell her to go to her mom's place with my son...She didn't even know it was labor prior to that day tho she was feeling uneasy, it was around 2am she delivered them, thank God she was stayed with her mom, if not how she would have done it by herself and my 3 years old boy...After the delivery, they had to rush her down to MCC but they rejected her outrightly despite how she was bleeding profusely...they were told to go to General Hospital at Akodo or Island Maternity on the island, despite outrageous charges Mother and Child at Abraham Adesanya collected for antenatal yet they couldn't attend to my wife, they had to sent them away..
➜ On getting to Island Maternity they discovered one of the twins already died while the second one was refered to Masssey Children's hospital, we stayed there for 25 days, we spent a lot, over 500k, buy these buy that, we paid for oxygen 3k a day, incubator 1,500 a day, and some other mumu expenses, different drugs, injections, blood transfusion nko...omo it was a terrible experience...still lost the other twin, but thank God my wife is hale and hearty now...Person wey hin wife born without stress or difficulty no knw wetin God do am...This country is terrible, nothing is working, just pray you don't have challenges beyond your power, if not eh, u go wail tire,

ClassicEvilSpir:
➜There is no virtue in making life harder for oneself and unwilling participants. The Koreans, the northern Europeans; most western countries in general, despite their better standard of living, are facing a decline in population thanks to reduced breeding. Many are smart to realize if they do not have certain resources to birth and raise a child or children, then they are better without.

autoez:
Not all kids are destined to live in mansions

chinchum:
....As poor couples, you can have sex all day long in the midst of excruciating poverty , but use protection, or if you prefer it raw , get the female on iud or male to tie up and enjoy your raw sex while languishing and relishing poverty with hope of better life. Sex is good, but don't bring too many kids than necessary in to poverty. 1 or 2 kids should be okay till things improve.

ennon92:
➜Bro, my wife attended antenatal whenever they gave her appointment...A week before she gave birth prematurely, she still went there, she complained of how she was feeling, they said it's normal cos she's carrying twins...
Not until you experience these things, you wouldn't know how fvcked up this country is

Kobojunkie:
Any poor man who does not have at least $1000 in the bank and a combined monthly salary of at least Naira 170,000 should not be considering having 1 or 2 kids in this economy.

azpekuliar:
➜Nigerians can be heartless. My dad is a retired medical doctor. He worked for many years in a faith-based hospital. In the 2000s they will admit patients without a deposit. Patients will arrive at the emergency and their families will wail, beg, plead that the patient should be admitted and treated while they run round to raise the deposit. Immediately the patient gets well u no go see im family members again. Before u know am patient don abscond from ward.

Dogalmighty17:
The question I want to ask is this. Where did his wife do her antenatal? Because one of the things you get to know beforehand during antenatal is if surgery will be scheduled or not. You are even given a date where you come in and this date comes a few days before your EDD.

I know emergency surgery does happen sometimes. But it is very rare.

Let's not sugar coat anything. This man was negligent in every way assuming of course his story should be believed.

chris51:
God bless you for the questions you raised. For those who go for proper ante natal, they will have an idea if they will have CS and they prepare for it.
It's unfortunate that the poor lady and baby died.

chinchum:
➜The reality is that it is almost impossible in Nigeria for many to have 1.6 million naira. However, most government hospitals with a budget of 300,000 will cater for most emergencies including operation. Your benchmark will exclude 95% of Nigerian couples from giving birth.
➜The worst carelessness is the one done where a couple with about 8 months of time to plan fail to save or borrow for emergency that child birth complications can bring. Saving 40k every month for 8 months, means they have 300k at birth period. That budget in most government hospital is a safe zone, some wont even spend up to 100k. Registering for antenatal and going regularly also reduces risk of childbirth complications. These painful story does not suggest there was any antenatal done.

Kobojunkie:
1. Nigeria will continue to go on if that 95% would prioritize saving up that amount over the next 10 years over having children that will end up a burden and a problem to the system. With a population reaching about 230 million and over 170 million of them living in poverty— over 24 million Nigerians are homeless with over 10 million orphaned and with no where to go —, they do not do anyone any good having kids, not even the kids benefit from being born since there is nothing for them as yet, where Nigeria is today.

2. It is quite disturbing the behavior of people who are thought to be developed enough to be contributing citizens in any country.

ibechris:
My advice to everyone is especially ladies.

Don't marry a man whose plan has no financial backings.

Don't be surprised that the same man is part of those who supports evil such as bigotry in Nigeria.

He practically killed his wife. He had nine months to prepare for the worst but he had none and not even friends to help out,no family members to help.

Shameless man for that matter. Just wasted someone's daughter.

See him all over the news shamelessly talking and talking when he should hide his face for not amounting to anything.

Now,I understand when my dad used to say,avoid men or woman who has no shame.

chinchum:
➜ i reckon that the average Nigerians is not pragmatic even with the benefit of western education, and tend to be self centered while covering up with spirituality.
➜Parents who truly care will be laser focused on providing the best for their kid(s) with the minimal Resources available to them. Majority of these parents are thinking of having many kids , so those many kids can take care of them at old age. It is a shame that people breed poverty in folds for silly reasons. Only a mad fellow will carry a heavy load on the head and almost falling down and then decide to add more.

God1000:
https://www.legit.ng/people/1648690-spent-n500000-mortuary-man-wife-died-labour-shares-details/?

TONYE001:
These are the issues.

"The hospital rejected him" is the narrative that usually flies around. Wetin them want the facility to do? Admit and manage case way fit need higher-level care?

People should be asking these questions...let's stop hating and unfairly judging Nigerian health workers. Let's stop being emotional too.

jmoore:
I have been to the mortuary. That 500k is fishy.